Truckpusher:
Crap.

Op , simply tell her that marriage is called licensed Fuccking and if she isn't willing to play her role then you'll have no choice than to go for an alternative means.
Between, didn't you guys have any relationship before marriage ?

you are deluded. You need to check your brain

neo25:
Dear Nairalanders, I think I am going crazy and I really need your help. I'm 32 married to a 31year old for 6 years now with two kids (4 & 2).

Recently I figured out I'm having more sex with my wife every night and she's complaining a lot, though she isn't the sex or romantic type of woman but i thought i could teach her like everyone adviced me, it's embarrassing me. Everynight i have a strong erection but no luck from my wife. I want someone who has overcome such experience to please tell me what to do. Be it drugs or social attitude. Please be polite.

-She might be under so much stress ( Are you in Lagos ?)
-You might not be helping out to do house chores, maybe she cooks, bath the children, wash the dishes , sweeps the floor
-You might not be romantic, you don't compliments her, touch her , kiss her on the neck, say sweet things to her.
-Maybe you are not into pre-intimacy, you just want to get in , cum and sleep off
- Just look at what you are NOT doing right first as step 1

It gets boring if u hv 2 do it evryday. She's probably bored.

If she has u,I mean your love in her mind all day believe me she won't b able to get laid by u at the end of the day.
Obviously u r the last person on her mind and sex from u is the last thing she wants but from u.

Take it easy on yourself bro, some women are like dat

neo25:
Dear Nairalanders, I think I am going crazy and I really need your help. I'm 32 married to a 31year old for 6 years now with two kids (4 & 2).

Recently I figured out I'm having more sex with my wife every night and she's complaining a lot, though she isn't the sex or romantic type of woman but i thought i could teach her like everyone adviced me, it's embarrassing me. Everynight i have a strong erection but no luck from my wife. I want someone who has overcome such experience to please tell me what to do. Be it drugs or social attitude. Please be polite.

It might not be the reason bro, even if u do everything for her, it doesn't such their situations, I think he need to ask her if there is anything bothering her when he wants to sex with her, she might be feeling bad inside abt something, let him find that out

deor03:


-She might be under so much stress ( Are you in Lagos ?)
-You might not be helping out to do house chores, maybe she cooks, bath the children, wash the dishes , sweeps the floor
-You might not be romantic, you don't compliments her, touch her , kiss her on the neck, say sweet things to her.
-Maybe you are not into pre-intimacy, you just want to get in , cum and sleep off
- Just look at what you are NOT doing right first as step 1

It shall be well

btw

peeparty:


chai you know the code..abeg we're you learn this teaching?

Try giving her a head

Aareonakakanfo:




Huh! awon experieinced mama ni yen

LMAO

harrysterol:
i know you will always be found in this kind of thread even u go missing but certainly not this kind of threads

We are both guilty of this joor

Truckpusher:
Crap.

Op , simply tell her that marriage is called licensed Fuccking and if she isn't willing to play her role then you'll have no choice than to go for an alternative means.
Between, didn't you guys have any relationship before marriage ?

End of discussion!

Truckpusher:
Crap.

Op , simply tell her that marriage is called licensed Fuccking and if she isn't willing to play her role then you'll have no choice than to go for an alternative means.
Between, didn't you guys have any relationship before marriage ?

There is definitely a lot of immature people here. No wonder so many likes. Let me give you a piece of my mind. Marriage is a union which if not governed well is likely to fall apart. Once a partner refuses intimacy, there is a problem somewhere. So you call it "licensed fuccking"? Who is your mother?

stinggy:

We are both guilty of this joor

...was about telling you what Harry said only to check my following first and.....

MARKone:
OP sex every night? Me sef go complain, you wan finish the woman. You didn't indicate if she was like this while you were dating, you also need to realise that a lot of women do experience low libido, once the begin making babies, hormonal Fuckup they said. Stress associated with taking care of children and work related stress i.e if she is working. If you really want to be banging every night, probably you need to help out more in house hold chores, relieving of her duties, it helps. You guys might equally need to design a 'time table' for sex, twice a week or once sef, with self control, and lots of soy products, which will reduce your own libido, it is possible and you'll see her respect for you will increase.

he has a right to have sex every night he is only thirty something and married. would you rather he does it outside? maybe she does not ENJOY the sex. There is nothing as frustrating shitty sex. i will suggest you dwell more on pre-intimacy.

francafrank:


he has a right to have sex every night he is only thirty something and married. would you rather he does it outside? maybe she does not ENJOY the sex. There is nothing as frustrating shitty sex. i will suggest you dwell more on pre-intimacy.

I guess you are not yet married....and not few ladies will find your comment at bolded palatable

I've had similar experience, my marriage is over twelve years now. Everyday sex not practicable friend. Marriage is not for night sex only but companionship, friendship and understanding, all these come to fore in this matter, understand your wife and move on with life. Find time to display your sexual prowess other than the night time. Also be ready to sacrifice for the sanctity of your marriage. Friendship is sacrificial, it must cost you something; time, money, resources, man ego etc. You must be ready to carry her along with your sex drive, inform and wet her appetite for sex on time, hours before the real match. Best regards.

She my b stressed or emotionally down. Some ppl hav nothing to offer wen dey re down. B4 u conclude try to observe her noting her mood. Den talk it over wit her, sex talk is very healthy in marriage, that will mak u no if she's having low libido. Den u will no what option to tak to solve ur sex life.again check ursef, mayb ur approach is nt helping issues. There re ways a man goes abt sex that irritates his spouse, tak it easy.
God help u.

MARKone:


I guess you are not yet married....and not few ladies will find your comment at bolded palatable

i am married o if the hussy wants sex every night why not give him?

chimkaire:
...was about telling you what Harry said only to check my following first and.....

Hehe
Harry handbag, i sight u

stinggy:

Hehe
Harry handbag, i sight u

...Lukatew
Negodu gi

neo25:
Dear Nairalanders, I think I am going crazy and I really need your help. I'm 32 married to a 31year old for 6 years now with two kids (4 & 2).

Recently I figured out I'm having more sex with my wife every night and she's complaining a lot, though she isn't the sex or romantic type of woman but i thought i could teach her like everyone adviced me, it's embarrassing me. Everynight i have a strong erection but no luck from my wife. I want someone who has overcome such experience to please tell me what to do. Be it drugs or social attitude. Please be polite.

truth b told u cant Bleep every night if she gives u twice per week then train urself to b ok with dt. u r nt a rat haba

lf u insist u wanna Bleep everynite then u need assistant wife

MARKone:
OP sex every night? Me sef go complain, you wan finish the woman. You didn't indicate if she was like this while you were dating, you also need to realise that a lot of women do experience low libido, once the begin making babies, hormonal Fuckup they said. Stress associated with taking care of children and work related stress i.e if she is working. If you really want to be banging every night, probably you need to help out more in house hold chores, relieving of her duties, it helps. You guys might equally need to design a 'time table' for sex, twice a week or once sef, with self control, and lots of soy products, which will reduce your own libido, it is possible and you'll see her respect for you will increase.

@bolded after the longsuffering before marriage? God forbid bad thing.

If so, it is either I leave that house for her or she leaves.

thelish:

U will hear different gospel songs in d morning from her with so much joy.lol

Thumbs up madam. U make sense jare

OLUJOSHINS:





Thumbs up madam. U make sense jare

Thank u bro.
Spoke from experience. The funny thing is dat u won't know u ve been singing. lol

Truckpusher:
Crap.

Op , simply tell her that marriage is called licensed Fuccking and if she isn't willing to play her role then you'll have no choice than to go for an alternative means.
Between, didn't you guys have any relationship before marriage ?

Who is dis one?

Truckpusher indeed!

neo25:
Dear Nairalanders, I think I am going crazy and I really need your help. I'm 32 married to a 31year old for 6 years now with two kids (4 & 2).

Recently I figured out I'm having more sex with my wife every night and she's complaining a lot, though she isn't the sex or romantic type of woman but i thought i could teach her like everyone adviced me, it's embarrassing me. Everynight i have a strong erection but no luck from my wife. I want someone who has overcome such experience to please tell me what to do. Be it drugs or social attitude. Please be polite.

Was she born on February or December ?

babythug:


Here are a few tips that might help you:

1. Try some romance during the day.Send her nice texts. Call her to check on her etc etc
2. Depending on what your work schedule and hers is like, try and ease up some of the chores/ activities she has to attend to in the evenings. Help the children with homework if possible. see how you can help to make dinner preparation easier, this includes plucking ewedu if necessary .
3. The s.ex doesn't have to be immediately you both get into the room. Give her an hour or more to sleep, then you can warm your way in... you can also try early hours of the morning. She may be better rested and more receptive.
4. Buy her nice gifts to show how valuable she is to you. Doesnt have to be expensive. Even recharge card will do
5.Good luck!

Wao..sweet heart i would love to marry someone like you or even you on a very seriouse note..what a masterpiece of advice or rather doctors prescription..OP if symptoms persist then your wife is possessed and needs deliverance because you can't get a better advice than this..baby women like you makes me believe there are still right thinking nigerian girls other than all these greedy lazy butt smart phone users..but wait a minute and checkout all this lists,almost everything women need are so childish. Am in love pls contact me

babythug:


Here are a few tips that might help you:

1. Try some romance during the day.Send her nice texts. Call her to check on her etc etc
2. Depending on what your work schedule and hers is like, try and ease up some of the chores/ activities she has to attend to in the evenings. Help the children with homework if possible. see how you can help to make dinner preparation easier, this includes plucking ewedu if necessary .
3. The s.ex doesn't have to be immediately you both get into the room. Give her an hour or more to sleep, then you can warm your way in... you can also try early hours of the morning. She may be better rested and more receptive.
4. Buy her nice gifts to show how valuable she is to you. Doesnt have to be expensive. Even recharge card will do
5.Good luck!

some of the chores/ activities she has to attend to in the evenings. Help the children with homework if possible. see how you can help to make dinner preparation easier, this includes plucking ewedu if necessary .
3. The s.ex doesn't have to be immediately you both get into the room. Give her an hour or more to sleep, then you can warm your way in... you can also try early hours of the morning. She may be better rested and more receptive.
4. Buy her nice gifts to show how valuable she is to you. Doesnt have to be expensive. Even recharge card will do
5.Good luck![/quote]
Wao..sweet heart i would love to marry someone like you or even you on a very seriouse note..what a masterpiece of advice or rather doctors prescription..OP if symptoms persist then your wife is possessed and needs deliverance because you can't get a better advice than this..baby women like you makes me believe there are still right thinking nigerian girls other than all these greedy lazy butt smart phone users..but wait a minute and checkout all this lists,almost everything women need are so childish. Am in love pls contact me

Lol, see question for the goddess
You guys make too much Thang about sex. A real good 80 hours per week work will cure/curb that you know.
Are you the guy using another moniker

allanphash7:
Are you the wife we are talking about here?





Just asking

you don't have to be broke to make more money.
Ummm, nothing like a good watermelon on a hot September evening, a late summer night dream.

PasNina:

Trash.




Who told you he is broke?