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As a guy,what is your greatest Turn Off In A Lady. by Toks2008(m): 5:37pm On Sep 18, 2015
There are many sweet looking chics every where and these sexy damsels will not waste time showing off how sexy they look flaunting sexy curves with reckless abandon and i honestly believe it is their life.

But the ironic twist to this is that many ladies seem to have nothing else to offer except curves and unclothedness and little wonder why 8 out of 10 headlines about ladies will be about cleavage flaunting,curves parade and sexual recklessness.

Enough of the madness in the name of body flaunting..

This write up is not about throwing shades or bashing the female gender cos i have met very few intelligent ladies who have blown my mind and i say kudos to this set of ladies,but a clarion call to ladies to please showcase more of intelligence and intellectual achievements


You need to relate with some ladies to catch my drift expecially the sexy ones and it seems they actually exchanged their brains with their outward beauty.Many lack intellectual cohesion and rather than discuss matters with you intelligently,they would prefer to go into baseless attacks on your person and will waste no time in cursing you not for any other reason but because that is the best they can offer.


No matter how hot,sexy and irresistible a lady may be,i will never build any desire for her until i have an intelligent conversation with her to ascertain her level of mental cohesion

This is not about grammatical prowess or accent..neither does it have anything to do with a degree as i have seen many degree holders with no sound minds but its about her intellectual capacity.

I can give up a brainless hottie graduate for an intellectually sound pepper seller with just a primary education and no matter how hot you may be,if you are not mentally sound then you are a colossal waste.

[size=13pt]For me,Intellectual stuntedness is my greatest turn off in a lady and GOD knows i will never wish for even my enemy to end up with such a lady....[/size]

So guys bring it on and let us know your greatest turn off in a lady.

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Re: As a guy,what is your greatest Turn Off In A Lady. by 2dice(m): 5:41pm On Sep 18, 2015
*SOUND IT

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Re: As a guy,what is your greatest Turn Off In A Lady. by marshalcarter: 5:48pm On Sep 18, 2015
#listenin to burning spear-legal hustlers# cool

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Re: As a guy,what is your greatest Turn Off In A Lady. by firstEVA(f): 5:53pm On Sep 18, 2015
I guess every guy has his taste and preference. Some others will chose beauty over intelligence, they need a wife they can show off to friends and family.

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Re: As a guy,what is your greatest Turn Off In A Lady. by Nobody: 5:57pm On Sep 18, 2015
OK
Re: As a guy,what is your greatest Turn Off In A Lady. by Swissheart(f): 6:04pm On Sep 18, 2015
Different stroke for different folks.....but then na BB sure pass

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Re: As a guy,what is your greatest Turn Off In A Lady. by Trishpat(f): 6:10pm On Sep 18, 2015
dah ur first paragraph get as e be. how dyu know that the sexy girls flaunting their curves are brainless. abi it's wen yu don't have curves that ur brainy?

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Re: As a guy,what is your greatest Turn Off In A Lady. by ebamma(m): 6:12pm On Sep 18, 2015
Swissheart:
Different stroke for different folks.....but then na BB sure pass
aunty which kind BB?


For this android and IPhone era?,


Aunty, e be like say you be Jjc for this game oh

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Re: As a guy,what is your greatest Turn Off In A Lady. by Swissheart(f): 6:13pm On Sep 18, 2015
ebamma:
aunty which kind BB?


For this android and IPhone era?,


Aunty, e be like say you be Jjc for this game oh
....toh...BB here means Beauty and Brain

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Re: As a guy,what is your greatest Turn Off In A Lady. by sisisioge: 6:18pm On Sep 18, 2015
Na today! Everyone wants a good gene...the best the pack has to offer. Yes, intelligence rock but you need something to attract you to find out if that lady has it...attraction. Do not forget that intelligence is intangible, men are attracted by what they see first then the others can follow.


Of course, intelligent men light my bulb like killed! I totally get you.

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Re: As a guy,what is your greatest Turn Off In A Lady. by Toks2008(m): 6:42pm On Sep 18, 2015
Trishpat:
dah ur first paragraph get as e be. how dyu know that the sexy girls flaunting their curves are brainless. abi it's wen yu don't have curves that ur brainy?

Aunty Trishpat abeg read again.I did not generalize
Re: As a guy,what is your greatest Turn Off In A Lady. by Toks2008(m): 6:44pm On Sep 18, 2015
sisisioge:
Na today! Everyone wants a good gene...the best the pack has to offer. Yes, intelligence rock but you need something to attract you to find out if that lady has it...attraction. Do not forget that intelligence is intangible, men are attracted by what they see first then the others can follow.


Of course, intelligent men light my bulb like killed! I totally get you.

And what is good about a gene that forms a lady who has nothing in her head to offer?

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Re: As a guy,what is your greatest Turn Off In A Lady. by Toks2008(m): 6:56pm On Sep 18, 2015
firstEVA:
I guess every guy has his taste and preference. Some others will chose beauty over intelligence, they need a wife they can show off to friends and family.

Yeah i agree as long as she keeps her mouth shut when intelligent discussions are going on.

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Re: As a guy,what is your greatest Turn Off In A Lady. by firstEVA(f): 6:57pm On Sep 18, 2015
Toks2008:


Yeah i agree as long as she keeps her mouth shut when intelligent discussions are going on.
haha grin

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Re: As a guy,what is your greatest Turn Off In A Lady. by Toks2008(m): 7:01pm On Sep 18, 2015
Swissheart:
Different stroke for different folks.....but then na BB sure pass

Apparently you have the first B but the second one i no know.

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Re: As a guy,what is your greatest Turn Off In A Lady. by wristbangle: 7:08pm On Sep 18, 2015
The thing is there are cute ladies with garnish intelligence just that most, if not all are taken.

Going for a pepper seller with good intellect is fine but that illiterate behaviour will be there hence bringing her up to your taste will be quite challenging.

Just that it's a pity some "tushed ladies" focus only on building their physical appearance while neglecting information and other intellectual exercises that will make them intelligent.

I once ask a pretty lady the capital of England, she told me "UK"

I asked do u know ban-ki moon? She said.. Yes he is an actor. #SMH#

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Re: As a guy,what is your greatest Turn Off In A Lady. by funlord(m): 7:16pm On Sep 18, 2015
angry
I can tolerate almost any kind of shorty except a dirty biatch!

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Re: As a guy,what is your greatest Turn Off In A Lady. by Toks2008(m): 7:16pm On Sep 18, 2015
wristbangle:
The thing is there are cute ladies with high intelligence just that most if not all are taken.

Going for a pepper seller with good intellect is fine but that illiterate behaviour will be there as to bring her up to your taste will be quite challenging.

Just that it's a pity some Behind ladies are busy building their physical appearance while deeming away their intellect.

I once ask a pretty lady the capital of England, she told me "UK"

I asked do u know bangi moon? She said.. Yes he is an actor. #SMH#

The bold lettering sums it up.

Always talking about creams cloths,waist trainers,cosmetics and stuffs like that just to look outwardly beautiful but will seldom develop themselves mentally.

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Re: As a guy,what is your greatest Turn Off In A Lady. by wristbangle: 7:47pm On Sep 18, 2015
Toks2008:


The bold lettering sums it up.

Always talking about creams cloths,waist trainers,cosmetics and stuffs like that just to look outwardly beautiful but will seldom develop themselves mentally.

The picture displayed is 100 percent correct.
Re: As a guy,what is your greatest Turn Off In A Lady. by bqlekan(m): 8:03pm On Sep 18, 2015
Oga toks, nice write-up o... but atimes ehn those dumb arses appeal to us.. especially when you need to solve the konji issue.. Dirt turns me off the most.

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Re: As a guy,what is your greatest Turn Off In A Lady. by Nobody: 8:03pm On Sep 18, 2015
Trishpat:
dah ur first paragraph get as e be. how dyu know that the sexy girls flaunting their curves are brainless. abi it's wen yu don't have curves that ur brainy?
Help me ask am abeg grin
Re: As a guy,what is your greatest Turn Off In A Lady. by jonaifame22(m): 8:03pm On Sep 18, 2015
Truly many naija gals are fvcking up, they don't read good books they only read novel, I was dating a nursing chic one time in benin, she took a drug which was over acting in her she didn't even know wat to do to stop it cos she was in pains, I was the one who had to tell her wat to buy! Before it stopped, thank God I read abt dat some where, truly dem dey fvck up gan, they watch movies almost all their life, then sleep, most especially the university graduates among them, instead of them to learn a skill pendn when a big job comes, they'll be like ah me no oo how can I do dat kind of job hence allowing their certificate be a source of frustration to them, they don't invest in their self brainwise they only focus on their face, ass,breasts,jus outward parts, hence leaving the brain to perish for lack of use,then when a guy tells them one small lie they'll jus believe because of their fish brain, guys are not dunce they know an asset when they see one, if u're worth more than the sugar that goes in2 ur tea, guys will know infact I can go on and on

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Re: As a guy,what is your greatest Turn Off In A Lady. by udysweet(f): 8:29pm On Sep 18, 2015
Lol
Toks2008:


Yeah i agree as long as she keeps her mouth shut when intelligent discussions are going on.
Re: As a guy,what is your greatest Turn Off In A Lady. by Nobody: 8:44pm On Sep 18, 2015
Toks2008:


And what is good about a gene that forms a lady who has nothing in her head to offer?
...kai! These 2 bimbos grin grin angry angry
Re: As a guy,what is your greatest Turn Off In A Lady. by dayo4(m): 8:50pm On Sep 18, 2015
Toks2008:
There are many sweet looking chics every where and these sexy damsels will not waste time showing off how sexy they look flaunting sexy curves with empty brains and nothing else to offer except curves and unclothedness.

You need to relate with some ladies especially the hot ones to catch my drift and it seems they actually exchanged their intellect with their outward beauty.

They usually believe that their hot bodies will get them up the social ladder and career wise.

For me,no matter how hot,sexy and irresistible a lady may be,i will never build any desire for her until i have an intelligent conversation with her to ascertain her level of intellect.

This is not about grammatical prowess or accent but her intellectual capacity.

For me,i can give up a brainless hottie for an intellectually sound pepper seller and no matter how hot you may be,if you are not mentally sound then you are a colossal waste.

Correct!!!

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Re: As a guy,what is your greatest Turn Off In A Lady. by Nobody: 8:52pm On Sep 18, 2015
Swissheart:
....toh...BB here means Beauty and Brain

No, Bad Boys grin
Re: As a guy,what is your greatest Turn Off In A Lady. by Toks2008(m): 9:01pm On Sep 18, 2015
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CUM4WHAT you will not kill me on nairaland.

Do you know that i did not even check the ID before i knew it was you lol!

Dem send you come dey follow me abi?

Continue and prepare another comment for the next thread im creating but just let me finish my points first.

Were
Re: As a guy,what is your greatest Turn Off In A Lady. by Evathyst(f): 9:31pm On Sep 18, 2015
Is this another female bashing thread?


Instead of some guys to simply state their 'turng-off' in a lady, they resorted to needless bashing. Na wa o! We don really suffer for una hand no be small.


#Watching all of them guys from a palm tree#

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Re: As a guy,what is your greatest Turn Off In A Lady. by sisisioge: 9:43pm On Sep 18, 2015
Toks2008:


And what is good about a gene that forms a lady who has nothing in her head to offer?


Those damsels really killed it for me grin They couldn't just let go of figments of the memorized speech of saving the world in a pageant. Agbani Kaare!

Well, my point is that before you find out about the intelligence or otherwise of anybody, there has to be something that attracts you towards that person.
Re: As a guy,what is your greatest Turn Off In A Lady. by Toks2008(m): 9:46pm On Sep 18, 2015
sisisioge:



Those damsels really killed it for me grin They couldn't just let go of figments of the memorized speech of saving the world in a pageant. Agbani Kaare!

Well, my point is that before you find out about the intelligence or otherwise of anybody, there has to be something that attracts you towards that person.

Beforee nko?

Was that not why i wrote that i would suppress my desire until i discuss with them.


Some ladies are so dumb that if a man woos them,she becomes insulting kai! some ladies no be am.

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Re: As a guy,what is your greatest Turn Off In A Lady. by Toks2008(m): 9:48pm On Sep 18, 2015
Evathyst:
Is this another female bashing thread?


Instead of some guys to simply state their 'turng-off' in a lady, they resorted to needless bashing. Na wa o! We don really suffer for una hand no be small.


#Watching all of them guys from a palm tree#

Maka why nah? You are too pretty for this comment o.

No one is bashing anyone, just stating my turn off.

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