Your friend cannot just marry like that without courtship.

The little holidays she spends in Nigeria is not enough to know her very well and even fix a marriage date.

I think your friend should postpone that wedding until he gets to know her better. For the fact that she was studying abroad is not a yastick for marrying her in a hurry.

Well if he really loves the gal as he claims, dey shud look for solution to the problem. Its well.

If your friend could use the internet to know what the drug is used for... Then he should also use the internet to know how to subdue the disorder!!!

And seeking the medical attention will do....

Bi polar, is not that death trait sickness, your should get 30% involve in his womans predicaments, he may be able to manage her till lifetime comfortably..
I goes with richy4, let him postpone the marriage, till he got to know the girl better..

This will certainly put his love for the girl to a test.

I think if he really loves her as you said, he shuld remain firm cause i believe her condition is just temporary. With the necessary medical attention, she will be okay.

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Let him learn to deal with it since he said no going back.

He should interview her people and find out if she was born with it or some demons responsible at some point in her life.

hmm..

It's difficult but obviously she has been living with it for some time and nothing has really happened.
The question really is; "DO YOU REALLY KNOW THIS LADY?
Is she someone you can spend the rest of your life with?
Have you gone to God and told him about the relationship?
And Most Importantly; Can you handle a recurring situation of having to restrain your supposed wife?"
if your answer is yes to all these, and you believe in the Healing power of Jesus Christ, then take her for prayers in a BIBLE BELIEVING CHURCH, or join hand together with her, declare fasting between both of you and see the problem go away. (That is if she can be honest with you) and then go ahead.
If not, The ball is in your court.

NB: How come nobody told you about the condition up till now. If you had not stumbled on the truth, you would never have found out...

make person no because of love go enter problem for the rest of him life...if u wont cope abeg ben johnson.meanwhile.

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It's bipolar guys, not schizo. Christ! I've been diagnosed with bipolar myself and I'm yet to die.

So what happened to "the only thing i want in life is to spend the rest of my life with you"?

It's pathetic how assumed elementary graduates school leavers Would not know the difference between THERE and THEIR. What is even mind-boggling is when perceived graduates goof because of these two distinct words. SMH for peeps of nowadays

I find the article difficult to understand.

Ademolapaul:
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B for Book

dominique:
Before getting to the bottom part of the post, I was already suspecting that she could be bi-polar. It is a mental condition that can be managed. If this is something your 'friend'cannot handle, its better to back out before tying the knot.

back out and face u abi ? Haha... nawaaa oooo

the same bi polar disorder that made 'andre' always go gaga in empire?? This is bad ooo.. Just make sure she takes her drugs regularly...u can still marry her na...abi is it heritable?

This a medical problem. I have solution for that .For more details call the number in my signature

omonla555:
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A for Apple

I WILL ADVISE HIM TO PRAY ABOUT IT. IF THE MATTER DOES NOT CHANGE IT IS BETTER TO QUIT SO AS NOT TO REGRET THE DECISION IN FUTURE!

Waoo!!...she needs prayers o

ruffhandu:
could it be spiritual?

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Naija mentality..

In Oyibo land, they differentiate it by calling it Bipolar disorder but in Africa Madness na Madness. If you are not ready to deal with kolo mental better free now that you never get far.

If the dude really love the girl. He should discuss the problem with her and be ready to stand by her and offer her all the emotionally support. Love is the greatest force on earth, if he can't go ahead because of her mental disorder, then, he wasn't inn love.

brother.... na love kill romeo.... thats all i have to say...okbye

So, kini big deal?




Mentally sick people benefit a lot from emotional support.

emmabest2000:
back out and face u abi ? Haha... nawaaa oooo

Nope, I'm taken already
But if the guy is not psychologically or mentally capable of coping with a mentally challenged spouse, it's better if he doesn't enter such marriage so we don't have a case of murder/suicide splashed all over the blogosphere in the nearest future.

Ur friend maybe able to cope with her but is he ready to cope with Bi child(ren)? That is d real question, if he can manage her and her kids, if they eventually have it, then he should go on.

DICKtator:
So what is the biggy if she is bi-polar?

At least she knows that she has a "challenge" and is seeking solution to it

70% of Nigerians are sick and suffer from various disorders they don't even know about.
From Multiple personality disorder, Obsessive Compulsive Disorder to Post Traumatic Stress Disorder so what are you saying?

A lot of mad people are roaming the streets,if you don't believe me,drive round Lagos and observe the cocaine sniffing bus drivers and you wouldn't be a doubting Thomas anymore!.

Visit clubs and see for yourself what is going down

A country where someone allegedly steals billions and seemingly gets away with it? Even gets chieftaincy title?

No. I ain't sanctimonious but lets call a spade a spade!!!

you jst had to drag politics...

This to me is a no issue. Let me ask you, supposing it is your supposed friend who is depressed, will he appreciate the girl dumping him for that?

I suffered depression, attempted suicide two times, I overcame it, the girl can and will overcome it. Depression is bad, very bad but not the end of the world. This is time to show true love.

What if they were married and she hit depression? Divorce?

DICKtator:
So what is the biggy if she is bi-polar?

At least she knows that she has a "challenge" and is seeking solution to it

70% of Nigerians are sick and suffer from various disorders they don't even know about.

You might want to increase that percentage to 90%. Cos that's the truth, OCD is very common.

no wonder her parents are willing to give her out free of charge......itz eida u backout or “Welkom to hell“...


every man nids a woman to tame hiz animal instincts & not d orda way round