PunkyVeer:


But they're more prone to violence than the average person. Most prolific serial killers suffered from these disorders because one concurrent symptom in the majority of them is the inability to feel remorse for their actions, no matter how dangerous. They always justify everything they do. Btw, for this guy's friend's sake, I hope it's not borderline personality because they're known for turning violent in a flash. Unlike with Bipolar, Borderlines are ALWAYS pissed off & can rage over the slightest "provocation"eg. You're breathing too loud & are irritating them etc.

A good case study on Borderline is Jodi Arias. The woman who butchered & shot her boyfriend in cold blood. She was later diagnosed with Borderline in prison.

What's your source of information that most prolific serial killers have mental illness? You don't need to have a mental illness to be a serial killer.
And borderline personality patients so are not always pissed off.

MrBLING:


What's your source of information that most prolific serial killers have mental illness? You don't need to have a mental illness to be a serial killer.
And borderline personality patients so are not always pissed off.

You obviously don't know much about borderline personality disorder. Read stories @ BDPFamily.com & @ Shrink4men.com. Borderline is most prevalent in females & it is also known as a "female version of a psychopath". RAGE is a very common trait of Cluster B disorders. If you check the sites I mentioned, you'll see stories of men dating/married to borderline females & the physical/emotional abuse they face at the hands of these females. Unlike Bipolar, Borderline mood swings happen in minutes/hours, so yes, they're always pissed off because they experience these dramatic mood shifts within a short space of time, within a day.

I can't believe you're asking me about serial killers & mental disorders. Pick up a book or research it yourself. Ted Bundy, the posterboy of all serial killers, suffered from borderline personality disorder, coupled with Bipolar etc, says the psychological evaluation/pathology during his trial. Read up also on people like Richard Ramirez, Ed Gein & the rest of them killers. One common theme, they had disordered personalities (they were nuts)-either from bipolar, schizophrenia, borderline, etc.

Tough call bro buh wait ooo y did ur gf or her parents hide this kin thing from u?No mata hw I look at it..u reli have 2 be kiaful but luv conquers all

"He truly loves this girl but he's afraid of her behaviour and since they're planning to get married there's no going back." I don't understand what you mean by this statement. there is always a way out and you have a choice to opt out even after the marriage. Abeg, think well.

Every one sharing experience of the ones just starting therapy i av started therapy since academically am fit i even do better in class more dan d normal mentally stable peeps

I av frnds now i realate to people why cos i never allowed anyone to look down at me any bipolar reading dis shdnt begin to feel bipoloars are rejected by everyone just one or 2 on nl wudnt determine peeps close to u.
bipolar nd happy nuffin anyone says makes me feel bad i even work now so no biggie i love to loose touch wit reality Yes cos even stayin wit reality sumtimes makes u loose ur senses reading bou d bombimg around serial killins corruption politicians stealin and all
even d normal ones complaining sef are more aggressive dan bipolars i gurss dey schizophreniac
No one knos dey nt mentally fit dey go for d check up just like cancer most dont kno dey av cancer until dey are diagnosed same with bipolars so happy are those who are takin medication dan dose who are nt takin medication bt are stil carriers nd blasting bipolars cos wen u google bou bipolas character nd u relate it to d way most nl respond to people no difference nd dey are here condeming wat dey are suffering from

PunkyVeer:


You obviously don't know much about borderline personality disorder. Read stories @ BDPFamily.com & @ Shrink4men.com. Borderline is most prevalent in females & it is also known as a "female version of a psychopath". RAGE is a very common trait of Cluster B disorders. If you check the sites I mentioned, you'll see stories of men dating/married to borderline females & the physical/emotional abuse they face at the hands of these females. Unlike Bipolar, Borderline mood swings happen in minutes/hours, so yes, they're always pissed off because they experience these dramatic mood shifts within a short space of time, within a day.

I can't believe you're asking me about serial killers & mental disorders. Pick up a book or research it yourself. Ted Bundy, the posterboy of all serial killers, suffered from borderline personality disorder, coupled with Bipolar etc, says the psychological evaluation/pathology during his trial. Read up also on people like Richard Ramirez, Ed Gein & the rest of them killers. One common theme, they had disordered personalities (they were nuts)-either from bipolar, schizophrenia, borderline, etc.

Unfortunately the writers of those books and the owners of those websites are not medical doctors, so I would take their conclusion viz the individuals diagnosis with a pinch of salt.
Well I do have an idea of these illnesses, at least being an assistant clinical professor in psychiatry should equip me with some information don't you think?

luchy34:
A close friend of mine discussed this issue over the weekend. He said he needs an urgent advice so I decided to bring it up here. This is his story.
Michael (not real name). 28 years has been in a relationship with this girl for four years. According to him they are actually planning to get married next year. The girl in question resides in the states (united states) and she's working and also schooling there. But every year she spends her holidays down here in Nigeria, it was during one of her holidays that Michael met her. To cut a love story short they both fell in love, so much in love that the decided to take there relationship to the next level. Michael is a banker and he wants to settle down with this girl. According to him he has done a formal introduction to the girls parents and the agreed to accept him as their in-law. They have even fixed there wedding sometime next year after his fiancee graduation. Now he has a serious problem, during her last visit to Nigeria last month Michael noticed something different in her. He said that she suffers from chronic mood swings and sometimes extremely depressed. At first he wasn't bothered because he said that when they started dating initially he saw those traits in her but waved it off as her normal behaviour And he also said that it only happens to her whenever she's angry or the have a little bit of quarrel. But this her last visit revealed otherwise. This time according to him she gets a bit violent and needs a powerful subduing before she calms down. Then to his greatest shocker he noticed some pills she takes, when he went online to search what those pills are for he discovered it was for patients with Bi polar disorder...
Now my friend is really confused he doesn't know what to do. He truly loves this girl but he's afraid of her behaviour and since they're planning to get married there's no going back. What suitable advice can we give him because this is serious.

Mods abeg front page...

Tell him to open a Nairaland account and post his problems himself.

MrBLING:


Unfortunately the writers of those books and the owners of those websites are not medical doctors, so I would take their conclusion viz the individuals diagnosis with a pinch of salt.
Well I do have an idea of these illnesses, at least being an assistant clinical professor in psychiatry should equip me with some information don't you think?

Shrink4men is ran by a psychiatrist/pyschologists & so is BDPFamily. And most of the stories featured there are from people whose significant others have been officially diagnosed. Check the sites out & you will be petrified by the horrors these people put their loved ones through.

The books are not fiction, they follow true events from the court proceedings. Every detail is verified & has sources to back them up.

Make green Passport no put am for grave ooh? Imagine a Bipolar Patient with a Gun? Guns are cheap in US. Advice? he dont need it because Abroad dey hungry am. I pity the girl sha.

goodafter nairaland,i jst finised my nysc some few years ago,coudnt get a high paying job as an oil well engineer,i became fustrated but settle for an average pay job in an i.t company as a software engineer.i then needed an accomodation,so me and my new divorce aunty decided to stay together so as to save cost.Meanwhile she had travelled to bury her 11yrs daughter that jst died of accident,so i was the one that search for agent and secure a room and parlour self contain in lagos.my agent introduce me to the landlord(60yrs plus of age),i told him t point blank that it is me and my aunty that is staying together,showed him my i.d card and agree on the amount as(180k for house rent,agreement and agent fee 60k plus 10k refundable damages).Notwithstanding,i have missed 2 good houses i wanted initially even for 150k so i had no choice than to accept the 180k house because the house doesnt worth it.i was also travelling to kano for a field job of which am suppose to stay two weeks,so i called the agent dat am coming,with my money and but am coming with some of my loads because i wud be travelling for field work the nextday,and i dont want to miss the house again and need to sec ure the house with some of my load but am not sleeping or staying there till i come back from 2 wks travelling.the agent said no wahala since my coming with my money.
when i got to the agent with some of my loads,he said why should i come with load,i was so angry dat i said but the agent himself said i can come wth some of my load,(thank god i had a witness when i called the agent if i can come with load and dat same witness too was very angry because he came also with me.)so we headed to meet the landlord,i brought out the money(220k out of 250k i was suppose to pay in total sum and said after when i come back from travelling in 2wks i will balance up and also emphasized i and my aunty is staying together,he agreed ,i paid with an eyewitness and two agent present.i then made a wriiten statement of which we all signed (but the landlord refused to sign)and the landlord kept it,but on the landlord getting to know i came with my load,he changed his mouth dat rent is still 180k,agreement is 70k instead of 60k we agreed earlier,10k for damages and 12k for water yearly which i must pay with my rent,i was so angry,12k for water then why was it flat.i HAD NO CHOICE BUT I agreed(now total sum of 272k).i put in some of my load and left immediately back to my former house.i travelled 3days later and came back after two weeks and balance up,then i ask for receipt but he said he wud give me later(i taught d 12k water fee was for fuel incase there is no light because he sells water,but NO, and HE DOES not even pump water to the flat if there is no light) .After 1wks,my aunty came back to lagos and i brought her in.To my greatest surprise the landlord rebuke me,spark,rage and said i have no right to bring my aunty to stay with me with her(3kids).i go to work and come back late everyday so he want me to always leave empty house and stay only on wknd. i got angry called the agent and told him if i never said i was staying with my aunty,the agent confirmed i said dat but the landlord then changed his mouth dat he thought she was single and i should come and collect my money,i begged him(for 5days) like a cool dude of which am not suppose to do.
He disagree, because i dont want to go to the stress of looking for a house again.i ,my aGENT and aunty WENT TO search for a new house in dat area(because of job location)and got a good one better and cheap (150k).we approached my landlord he should give us our 272k which he said he wud give us,he said he must follow us to the new house and pay by himself.he refused to give us the money and later plead with us to stay.i was so pissed off dat my mind was totally not interested to stay again,but my aunty plead wth me dat we shud stay and 4get wat happen.we stayed, everyday was more fustrating in the house by the man.he wud never let my 3 nieces (little kid )be and get angry unneccesarilly.
Meanwhile i ask for receipt always and he refuses to give us dat he wud give us later. after 4 months(refusing to give us receipt),he called me oneday, when my aunty has travelled leaving his 3 kid with me and said i should fill a form,i read the form and saw dat it was agreement form.
To my greatest surprise,i saw dat he gave a condition in the form that anytime the he needs his house dat am entithle to one mouth quick notice only( instead of 6 months because we pay 1 year rent).i became mad again,but dis time i demanded we needed our receipt first,he said no until i fill dat his form b4 we will collect our receipt.DIS MAN PLEAD with US TO STAY,HE REFUSE TO REFUND OUR MONEY AFTER 2WKS WE PACKED IN,AND UP TILL NOW (4 MONTHS)HE REFUSES TO GIVE ME MY RECEIPT THREATENING ME WITH PARTIAL QUICK NOTICE DAT AM ENTITHLE TO 1 MONTH.PLS FELLOW NAIRALANDER AND NIGERIANS,AS A FELLOW FUSTRATED YOUNG GUY MANAGING HIMSELF,AN OLD MAN WANT TO TAKE AWAY D LABOUR I SWEAT FOR OUT OF FUSTRATION(272K, HE USE MY MONEY FOR BUSSINESS FOR 4 MONTHS AND WANT TO DUMP ME) NOW DAT HE FELT HE HAS USE ME FOR MAKING MONEY.I NEED A HELP URGENTLY,ADVICE ,AN NGO ,LAGOS STATE HOUSING MANAGEMENT,AND A CIVIL DEFENCE LAWYER TO COME TO MY HELP BECAUSE AM LIKE A WOUNDED LION PUSHED TO THE WALL DAT CAN DO ANYTHING TO REVENGE THE LANDLORD,I MAY MAKE HEADLINE(4 BAD NEWS DAT HAPPEN TO A WHOLE COMPOUND) SOONEST IF AM NOT BEEN HELP BY NECESSARY AUTHORITY because I CRY WHILE WALKING AND THE LANDLORD IS MAKING HELL OUT OF ME AND MY PPLE.PLS NAIRALAND AND NIGERIANS PLS HELP ME.u can email me on gee.koko@yahoo.com.au for help ,i stay in lagos, HELP ME ABEG ,NA OJODU BERGER FOR OLOWORA NEAR OMOLE PHASE 2 LAGOS STATE(INFACT N0 8 ALFRED AKEN STREET OLOWORA OJODU BERGER LAGOS STATE,HIS NO IS 08034343551),I HEARD FROM STREET PEOPLE DAT ABOUT FIVE CO-TENENTS HAVE PACKED OUT IN DAT HOUSE B4 THEIR HOUSE RENT EXPIRE DUE TO THE MALTREATMENT OF THE LANDLORD.THANKS

Laburus:
Make green Passport no put am for grave ooh? Imagine a Bipolar Patient with a Gun? Guns are cheap in US. Advice? he dont need it because Abroad dey hungry am. I pity the girl sha.

well he said no going bk for him

RIP for him when ever he needs it.

luchy34:
well he said no going bk for him