Sincere4u:
Hiaaaann, omo you pass me oooo.
I liked how open you are and was even hoping to hookup with you but meeehn, I no dey your level at all at all. Wet in dey happen?, na waoo.
Anyway can you advice on where to go searching and how to hook up with really good girls with good morals and home training.

Good gurls, good morals, blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah
Just get married to someone who respects and understands you . Nothing comes in its full package in human beings.

1miccza:


OP never said on the first date he said before you dive into marrying the wrong person

Yeah but you cannot force them to tell you about their past. Be patient. I'm sure it'll come.

Sincere4u:
Love is better built when the past is first known.
That's the best way and when that happens, you can be sure of the love.

Ehm I agree... But whatever she tells you will change how you feel about the woman. And you two could have really worked but you'd judge her on her past and treat her that way..

sage2:


See time. You are not even in Church today. Na wao.

.No be by going to church o.
Didn't you read that front page story about a husband that is fed up with his cheating, quick tempered former capone ex gf wife who was quite the "church goer"?


Ni be the same wife go sleep with married man wey pour sperm inside her body so?
Abeg I love my life like this.

Hahaha no girl has a good past......many have been damaged by poles of many size

YourMain:


Lol well you're lucky

I wasn't lucky but my husband was the lucky one. Meeting a girl as a virgin in university is something he never expected and always speaking the truth in love regardless of how he felt

Oghenekohwo1402:
I wasn't lucky but my husband was the lucky one. Meeting a girl as a virgin in university is something he never expected and always speaking the truth in love regardless of how he felt

Lol. Well I'm in the same boat as you but there are still things I'd be reluctant to talk about in my past. Simply because I don't want him to see me as the person I was then but the person I am now...

EggovinMma:


.No be by going to church o.
Didn't you read that front page story about a husband that is fed up with his cheating, quick tempered former capone ex gf wife who was quite the "church goer"?


Ni be the same wife go sleep with married man wey pour sperm inside her body so?
Abeg I love my life like this.

I keep reading your comments with smile. You no dey ever disappoint. Kids will say... this babe spoil ooo blah blah but they will get to stage that will make dem understand.

I like your type as I can discuss ANYTHING with you.

EggovinMma:

I don fart for crowded place, lock up like say no be me.

so fine girls sef dey fart?

*squeeze face*

#idonbilivit

2sex:
I keep reading your comments with smile. You no dey ever disappoint. Kids will say... this babe spoil ooo blah blah but they will get to stage that will make dem understand.

I like your type as I can discuss ANYTHING with you.

Lol, merry Christmas 2sexy! Where have you been?

EggovinMma:


Lol, merry Christmas 2sexy! Where have you been?

can you send a pm now, with your details

I did not get the last one

For me, it's not bad to find out about your lovers past, but most times it better to let the past be, our past doesn't determine our present relationship, some might have a bad relationship in the past learnt their mistakes and ready to correct it. Some people may have done some bad things in the past and have really changed, you haunted with their past? Allow the present speak for the person.

daretodiffer:


can you send a pm now, with your details

I did not get the last one

Just did!

This is scary, so scary. I had kept myself, hoping to also find a virgin but ladies said I can't so eventually I dropped the search and tried settling for what I thought was OK but she almost deceived me to my grave.
Now i want to set about searching, with the experience I feel I now have but here I am once again, almost been told I'm on a long thing.
There must good homes ran by good mothers, why should getting a good looking girl from a good home turn out to be like a guilder ultimate search.
LADIES WHATEVER HAPPENED TO ALL OF YOU!!.

EggovinMma:


Good gurls, good morals, blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah
Just get married to someone who respects and understands you . Nothing comes in its full package in human beings.

EggovinMma:


Just did!

Seen!

YourMain:


Yeah but you cannot force them to tell you about their past. Be patient. I'm sure it'll come.

He also didn't ask anyone to force them to talk about their past. He was simply giving an advice which is more or less his opinion.

Sincere4u:
This is scary, so scary. I had kept myself, hoping to also find a virgin but ladies said I can't so eventually I dropped the search and tried settling for what I thought was OK but she almost deceived me to my grave.
Now i want to set about searching, with the experience I feel I now have but here I am once again, almost been told I'm on a long thing.
There must good homes ran by good mothers, why should getting a good looking girl from a good home turn out to bew like a guilder ultimate search.
LADIES WHATEVER HAPPENED TO ALL OF YOU!!.

What do you mean by keep yourself? Are you a male virgin?
True, there are many virgins around but, that doesn't mean they will make good wives.What do you want? A good wife or a virgin wife or a good virgin wife? Life isn't that easy if you choose the good virgin wife.Such attributes are really scarce these days. Remember, women change, men hardly, so you may just get married to a good woman who may turn bad later on in life.To save yourself a lot of stress, when searching let "understanding, maturity and caring" be what you should be looking out for.

No no no dear. True love overcomes all that and I'm talking from experience and as a man.
Adult find it difficult to change their ways so knowing everything about a loved one ensures that love lasts and doesn't end up in regret. The past often comes back to hurnt someone and having revealed such to ur partner gives you the strength to resist and your partner, the mind to bear.
You stand the risk of getting your partner distrust you when a past strikes in a way you never thought possible.
However I must commend you for one thing, you sound like someone who has had a clean breakaway from her past and determined to keep it that way.
The Lady that is fighting tooth and nail today to keep me continued living the life she lived before she met me but kept it from me for years. God just uncovered her just before I finally married her. She was a LovePeddler and still is.
I must commend her for great love and respect but is that reason a enough to marry a prostitute?.

YourMain:


Ehm I agree... But whatever she tells you will change how you feel about the woman. And you two could have really worked but you'd judge her on her past and treat her that way..

Understanding, maturity, and caring. Will keep those in mind. Thanks for the advice.
I must add that she needs to be physically appealing too and I hope that's ok.
Please where and where do you suggest I go searching.
Had been thinking of going from one church to another but what are other places. I brought this upon myself by not mingling and getting useful experiences earlier in life.
Will dating sites be of any good?.
Thanks once again for your advice. I appreciate.

EggovinMma:


What do you mean by keep yourself? Are you a male virgin?
True, there are many virgins around but, that doesn't mean they will make good wives.What do you want? A good wife or a virgin wife or a good virgin wife? Life isn't that easy if you choose the good virgin wife.Such attributes are really scarce these days. Remember, women change, men hardly, so you may just get married to a good woman who may turn bad later on in life.To save yourself a lot of stress, when searching let "understanding, maturity and caring" be what you should be looking out for.

Sincere4u:
No no no dear. True love overcomes all that and I'm talking from experience and as a man.
Adult find it difficult to change their ways so knowing everything about a loved one ensures that love lasts and doesn't end up in regret. The past often comes back to hurnt someone and having revealed such to ur partner gives you the strength to resist and your partner, the mind to bear.
You stand the risk of getting your partner distrust you when a past strikes in a way you never thought possible.
However I must commend you for one thing, you sound like someone who has had a clean breakaway from her past and determined to keep it that way.
The Lady that is fighting tooth and nail today to keep me continued living the life she lived before she met me but kept it from me for years. God just uncovered her just before I finally married her. She was a LovePeddler and still is.
I must commend her for great love and respect but is that reason a enough to marry a prostitute?.

It's really unfair... You're going to let go of an amazing woman because of her past. She wouldn't be a prostitute. She'd be an ex prostitute. I'm sure you wouldn't even want to hear of the circumstances that choose the choices the did.

Yes the past may come to haunt you but I'm sure she'd have told you by then. When she's positive of your love for her I'm sure she'd be able to show her all the unfavourable parts of her.

I understand where you're coming from but it's honestly really unfair to treat a person based on the kind of person they were in the past. The road to redemption is long and hard and it's awful to keep throwing it back in their face after they've accomplished that.

avicky:

Openness is key in starting a new relationship. Both parties need to open up about the past and present to avoid unpleasant surprises. And if you want the relationship, you continue or otherwise move on.

And don't be scared of marriage. No marriage is perfect, it's how the adults concerned manage their crisis that matters. But it should be enjoyed not endured.

And exchanging password and laptops may happen since love still dey shack una, but is it really worth it

THANKS DEAR

You didn't get me quite right dear. I didn't state it was her past. She had been in it and still was all the while we've known but kept deceiving and lieing to me.

YourMain:


It's really unfair... You're going to let go of an amazing woman because of her past. She wouldn't be a prostitute. She'd be an ex prostitute. I'm sure you wouldn't even want to hear of the circumstances that choose the choices the did.

Yes the past may come to haunt you but I'm sure she'd have told you by then. When she's positive of your love for her I'm sure she'd be able to show her all the unfavourable parts of her.

I understand where you're coming from but it's honestly really unfair to treat a person based on the kind of person they were in the past. The road to redemption is long and hard and it's awful to keep throwing it back in their face after they've accomplished that.

Sincere4u:
You didn't get me quite right dear. I didn't state it was her past. She had been in it and still was all the while we've known but kept deceiving and lieing to me.

Oh right. This is personal. I see. Well honestly you shouldn't let a bad experience taint your experience. There are honestly amazing women around.

EggovinMma:


Lol, merry Christmas 2sexy! Where have you been?

I dey my sister... just had a little rough time for some months, but I thank God for his grace.

YourMain:


It's really unfair... You're going to let go of an amazing woman because of her past. She wouldn't be a prostitute. She'd be an ex prostitute. I'm sure you wouldn't even want to hear of the circumstances that choose the choices the did.

Yes the past may come to haunt you but I'm sure she'd have told you by then. When she's positive of your love for her I'm sure she'd be able to show her all the unfavourable parts of her.

I understand where you're coming from but it's honestly really unfair to treat a person based on the kind of person they were in the past. The road to redemption is long and hard and it's awful to keep throwing it back in their face after they've accomplished that.

As much i want to reason with you, as i stated earlier on this topic, live life the best way possible, some decision made should be reasoned properly, i really don't wanna know what circumstances led to that path, we live life for the future and make sure we guide our decision by morals( i can bet nothing on earth will make you do it), its just like telling a guy to go rob cause he can't meet end means. "all in reference to the ishh of prostitute"

YourMain:


Oh right. This is personal. I see. Well honestly you shouldn't let a bad experience taint your experience. There are honestly amazing women around.

I want to believe that too but problem is where and how to find them.

kingsilly:


As much i want to reason with you, as i stated earlier on this topic, live life the best way possible, some decision made should be reasoned properly, i really don't wanna know what circumstances led to that path, we live life for the future and make sure we guide our decision by morals( i can bet nothing on earth will make you do it), its just like telling a guy to go rob cause he can't meet end means. "all in reference to the ishh of prostitute"

I agree but everyone's morals are different. We all weren't raised the same way. Nor do we all have the same experiences. Circumstances that may lead you to consult with your morals may just break some people. And it doesn't make them good or bad people...

Sincere4u:


I want to believe that too but problem is where and how to find them.

No worries you will

YourMain:


I agree but everyone's morals are different. We all weren't raised the same way. Nor do we all have the same experiences. Circumstances that may lead you to consult with your morals may just break some people. And it doesn't make them good or bad people...

Lots of insight into your post.
But am I being too self righteous if I hold people to my standards even if it may be too high for them?
Btw, how old are you? If you don't mind me asking.

blublahd:

Lots of insight into your post.
But am I being too self righteous if I hold people to my standards even if it may be too high for them?
Btw, how old are you? If you don't mind me asking.

Lol well of course. I'm pretty sure I mentioned it in my diary. If you're a great person never settle for less!

Oooooh guess!

YourMain:


Lol well of course. I'm pretty sure I mentioned it in my diary. If you're a great person never settle for less!

Oooooh guess!

So you made me check your diary which I got a list of some very interesting but honest straight talk.
And less I shall not settle for, hence why I am into you like shark and blood..
17?

blublahd:

So you made me check your diary which I got a list of some very interesting but honest straight talk.
And less I shall not settle, hence why I am into you like shark and blood..
17?

Lol no I'm 18

Oh I apologise. You didn't have to..

Into me like shark and blood eh ?