Toks2008:


lol..this front page thing seems like a gold medal for many but to me i see it as an opporrtunity to share my insight with a bigger audience.

I just realized that no matter how excellent your writeup may be,it is very important to point the mods to it if you want it considered for front page and unfortunately i dont do that when i write until now and that is why you see the threads i created months ago now getting shared on front page.

So the trruth is that there is no favouritism on the side of the mods and as long as you point them to your threads,they will check it and take it to the main page if they dim it fit.

misspicy:
serious investigation needs to be done in the case of marriage o,that front page thread got me on my toes.......jeeezzz

Toks2008:


Lol..it was as if i was reading a horror novel and that thread made me resulcitate this piece i wrote months back.

misspicy:

oh this thread is not new? didn't know




I think we should imbibe that old method of marriage before getting married,it really helps in a way,even though people can change or be an exemption from the rest family members,traces of certain traits and characters can still be seen in them....I encourage your right up really,I will prefer to know the past of the person am getting involved with,vice versa

EggovinMma:


Nice one. Merry Christmas

Jolllyjoy:
what a mentality!!

U for kukuma abuse me make i know sey u no get elder for house.

Toks2008:


There is this young sweet looking lady who happens to be a daughter of a family friend.

Honestly i was getting to like her but decides to calm down and not rush things.

This lady is a smooth talker and she has wowed me with her smooth talks of how decent and responsible she is but something happened last week and i would not have known if her dad did not open up to me.

She took permission from her dad that she wants to visit a friend that stays close by and will spend 5days with the friend..

They asked for the house address and phone number of her friwend she refused to give then then left home for 5days without calling the family to tell them where she is and her phobe was also switced off.

After 5days her phone goes tru just for her to tell me she is in Abanbra and i was like O.M.G

I cald the dad to allay his fears that her number finally went tru and that she is fine and well in Anambra and that was when i knew she told her parents she was going to Egbeda...lol

In Anger,her dad gave me the story of this smooth talking lady and my jaw dropped..infact she is an isis in the family of jews to summarize the story.

So honestly most of us get carried away and we just assume that person is just ideal for us not knowing we are on a long thing.

tellwisdom:


U for kukuma abuse me make i know sey u no get elder for house.

Toks2008:


There is this young sweet looking lady who happens to be a daughter of a family friend.

Honestly i was getting to like her but decides to calm down and not rush things.

This lady is a smooth talker and she has wowed me with her smooth talks of how decent and responsible she is but something happened last week and i would not have known if her dad did not open up to me.

She took permission from her dad that she wants to visit a friend that stays close by and will spend 5days with the friend..

They asked for the house address and phone number of her friwend she refused to give then then left home for 5days without calling the family to tell them where she is and her phobe was also switced off.

After 5days her phone goes tru just for her to tell me she is in Anambra and i was like O.M.G

I cald the dad to allay his fears that her number finally went tru and that she is fine and well in Anambra and that was when i knew she told her parents she was going to Egbeda...lol

In Anger,her dad gave me the story of this smooth talking lady and my jaw dropped..infact she is an isis in the family of jews to summarize the story.

So honestly most of us get carried away and we just assume that person is just ideal for us not knowing we are on a long thing.

misspicy:

lmao fear women


anyway, I think if a person is truly remorseful about their past and is carrying out efforts to change,they should be given a chance

but God knows I can never marry a murderer

misspicy:

lmao fear women


anyway, I think if a person is truly remorseful about their past and is carrying out efforts to change,they should be given a chance

but God knows I can never marry a murderer

elantraceey:



Lol, Its not just with women but also with men, so many pretenders this days that you can't even tell who's real.

Toks2008:


Sure why not?

The idea of knowing the past of your prospective bae is not to necessarily dump him or her but its about readiness to cope and to avoid unpleasant surprises.

If you find out the lady you are crushing on was an olosho,that does not stop you from forging ahead to be with her but at least you already know hence the readiness to cope with any unpleasantries that come with it.

misspicy:

you are very correct


knew of a couple back then that were barren for years,after series of prayers and everything they discovered the man has commited abortion for 5 different girls that got pregnant for him,1 even died in the process,and he refuse to marry any of them,but went for one virgin lady....

elantraceey:


Wow, nemesis caught up with him and a poor woman had to suffer it.

Vikky014:
Really clap for urslf



Anybody dt will walk me down the isle must tell me his past oooo no dulling bc most threads frm married folks here is scary sometimes. how i wish i ws born a catholic na to bcme a Rev sister sure pass ooo

bknight:


For a moment, forget about walking down the aisle. Focus on love, not marriage.

misspicy:

the poor woman

that's the he catch,you got it right there

if she had done some background checks am sure it wouldn't take them that long to discover the foundation of their childlessness


I just look at boys who keep screaming,they want to marry virgin,they want something pure,yet they are devils in human skin,or ladies keeping their virginity for one special men,but ends ups falling in the hands of someone that will not value it,or someone that has an hideous past that will surely come for his generation in a he form of karma

elantraceey:



Yea, That's why i always encourage ladies who want to keep their virginity till marriage to not do so because of the man because there's barely any man who's worth the wait but rather they should do so for God and themselves.

And talking about background checks, some men have PhD in hiding their dirty secrets.

elantraceey:



Yea, That's why i always encourage ladies who want to keep their virginity till marriage to not do so because of the man because there's barely any man who's worth the wait but rather they should do so for God and themselves.

And talking about background checks, some men have PhD in hiding their dirty secrets.

misspicy:

I think background checks should include prayer,there is nothing the holy spirit cannot reveal no matter how good it is hidden

bknight:
Can anyone give the link to the 'scary' thread about a marriage that hit FP? Toks2008?, misspicy?

Btw, misspicy do u think Karma is absolute? From your story, an innocent woman just got a share of what she knew nothing about. We can only try to rationalize concepts like Karma, we do not understand its workings.

Anyways, its another merry day to be having too serious discussions. Anyone sharing drinks here?

bknight:
Can anyone give the link to the 'scary' thread about a marriage that hit FP? Toks2008?, misspicy?

Btw, misspicy do u think Karma is absolute? From your story, an innocent woman just got a share of what she knew nothing about. We can only try to rationalize concepts like Karma, we do not understand its workings.

Anyways, its another merry day to be having too serious discussions. Anyone sharing drinks here?

Odunharry:
Mummy G.O

misspicy:

I think background checks should include prayer,there is nothing the holy spirit cannot reveal no matter how good it is hidden

misspicy:
lol,not at all

Vikky014:
i dnt understand u biko. for me to accept sme1 for marriage means i love him simple!

elantraceey:

And talking about background checks, some men have PhD in hiding their dirty secrets.