midasbliss:

ouch... so sorry
you just weren't lucky and she, self centered

Na God go corner una for all dis lie lie tori wen una just dey form to hear pple mouth.

adedayourt:
HE FELL ASLEEP WHEN HE HEARD ABOUT THE WEDDING

lol..U eeeeeh!

macroscopic:
Pls Nairalanders help!!

I met this beautiful damsel while serving(NYSC) in Imo State in 2013. She accepted to date me on one condition (NO SEX before marriage). I gladly accepted. Our love was a major gist in town because she is a beauty queen. I so much loved her with all my heart..She was a virgin and I so much respected her for that...I spent 75% of my allowee on her in addition with my personal savings...

On several ocassions, she lost control of herself during romance but as a gentleman, I kept my promise by not harvesting the forbidden fruit.. Her love for me grew stronger because of my self control. After NYSC, I relocated to Lagos in search of greener pasture. Things got tougher because jobs were extremely scarce. Still,I struggled to send her some money through her father's first bank account (she was 18yrs then).

Once in a month, I travelled from Lagos to Owerri just to see her....Our love was so strong..But since inception of this year, things got pretty bad that I could not meet up with my routine travels to see her. After 3yrs, I got a job few days ago in an oil company and I was so enthusiastic to relay the good news to her....But to my greatest shock ever...She sent me an apology sms that she will be getting married next week...I was preparing for sunday service but the news automatically made me fell asleep. I just woke up and feeling abnormal...She is calling but I can't imagine myself taking the calls...Pls I need your pool of unalloyed advice...

Pls save a soul today and God will bless you..Thanks

Find out why Shes leaving you for another man 1st then decide if you want to Win her back. If the love who she's getting married to don't bother

In this modern day and age where all man don open eye finish, wan girl go come tell you to wait till marriage before ploughing her and you too come do mumu agree lol make I tell you, all that time wey you dey do self control, wan correct guy for school was digging ya so called gf na ya money dem take dey buy birth control, lubricant and pure water. Next time take your chance or walk shikena

She's joking she can't do that!!! Pick the call and hear her out.

bonechamberlain:

when I saw imo, I know say na one chance.
when I saw got a job in an oil company, then I no say ur story na lamba.

Imo girls ain't it... I had one I dated online for about 3yrs. When she came to Lagos to do her service and I wasn't in the state then, the day this girl came to Lagos I called her, could you believe she didn't pick her call and she never care to call back after 3 months.

During my birthday she had to send me a birthday wish without calling... Now I am back to Lagos then I keep calling her and telling her how we will meet she was just busy prevaricating telling me she will call me back, the worst of it she won't caree to call back, later I did told her on Whatsapp why is she acting like that, but all what she could do is to form anger.

And I did let her know that I know she will later turn me down because it doesn't come to me like a surprise.

And I let her know theat Naija girls shouldn't be taken serious.

avasweet:


Yes nah...imagine I get a man who agrees to no marriage no sex objectives and he spend dis much on me, my dear WTF do I want again....plus the fact he helps to control our degree during rromance, mehhnnn....some lady sha...smh

Ready to do that n more on / for you so what do you say ?

munchfani:
NO NO DATS NOT ME...U DON LEARN UR LESSON, MAKE SURE U NACK YOUR NEXT TARGET AFTER SECOND DATE.

It's not negotiable.

macroscopic:
Pls Nairalanders help!!

I met this beautiful damsel while serving(NYSC) in Imo State in 2013. She accepted to date me on one condition (NO SEX before marriage). I gladly accepted. Our love was a major gist in town because she is a beauty queen. I so much loved her with all my heart..She was a virgin and I so much respected her for that...I spent 75% of my allowee on her in addition with my personal savings...

On several ocassions, she lost control of herself during romance but as a gentleman, I kept my promise by not harvesting the forbidden fruit.. Her love for me grew stronger because of my self control. After NYSC, I relocated to Lagos in search of greener pasture. Things got tougher because jobs were extremely scarce. Still,I struggled to send her some money through her father's first bank account (she was 18yrs then).

Once in a month, I travelled from Lagos to Owerri just to see her....Our love was so strong..But since inception of this year, things got pretty bad that I could not meet up with my routine travels to see her. After 3yrs, I got a job few days ago in an oil company and I was so enthusiastic to relay the good news to her....But to my greatest shock ever...She sent me an apology sms that she will be getting married next week...I was preparing for sunday service but the news automatically made me fell asleep. I just woke up and feeling abnormal...She is calling but I can't imagine myself taking the calls...Pls I need your pool of unalloyed advice...

Pls save a soul today and God will bless you..Thanks

Well I think it is important we hear from her , but if what you said is true , it means you are one a million and your lady is on her way . Life goes on.

chigo93:
Why must u send her money always even when things are rough 4 u, are u her father? Anyways I think u r lying

Me sef dey suspect the story. Nairalanders are good writers you know

Ballmer:


Ready to do that n more on / for you so what do you say ?

I don't do nairaland guys....dey are all the same....wen I meet the guy I will knw he is the one

Whobedatte:
LMAO . E be like the guy na muntula

The guy na mumuni!

avasweet:

I don't do nairaland guys....dey are all the same....wen I meet the guy I will knw he is the one

lol... I don't do Nairaland girls either. Too many lack indepth content!

coolhumble:
Your lost bro but life goes on, when she told you she does not want sex until.marriage did you try to have it with her, when talking about sex did you study her body language? Most times when girls says NO they actually means YES.

Gbam!

One carton of origin for you sir!

macroscopic:
Pls Nairalanders help!!

I met this beautiful damsel while serving(NYSC) in Imo State in 2013. She accepted to date me on one condition (NO SEX before marriage). I gladly accepted. Our love was a major gist in town because she is a beauty queen. I so much loved her with all my heart..She was a virgin and I so much respected her for that...I spent 75% of my allowee on her in addition with my personal savings...

On several ocassions, she lost control of herself during romance but as a gentleman, I kept my promise by not harvesting the forbidden fruit.. Her love for me grew stronger because of my self control. After NYSC, I relocated to Lagos in search of greener pasture. Things got tougher because jobs were extremely scarce. Still,I struggled to send her some money through her father's first bank account (she was 18yrs then).

Once in a month, I travelled from Lagos to Owerri just to see her....Our love was so strong..But since inception of this year, things got pretty bad that I could not meet up with my routine travels to see her. After 3yrs, I got a job few days ago in an oil company and I was so enthusiastic to relay the good news to her....But to my greatest shock ever...She sent me an apology sms that she will be getting married next week...I was preparing for sunday service but the news automatically made me fell asleep. I just woke up and feeling abnormal...She is calling but I can't imagine myself taking the calls...Pls I need your pool of unalloyed advice...

Pls save a soul today and God will bless you..Thanks

pick her call and hear what she has to say


that haven't been said


pele

The girl was 18 when de started dating... and everybody is blaming sanusi... Lol. .. But, guy shd move on, heart break are not new... life goes on

quiinnBee:
some girls are mean sha if it was a guy that did this to a girl now, we wont hear word.

women are the worst set of beings on earth.......some fools will still come and tell u dat R/L without sex is the best...Men to frank,sex binds 2 people wella....so,people shld stop dat rubish mentality

fxbot:
lol... I don't do Nairaland girls either. Too many lack indepth content!

Dat makes to two of us...

But one advice don't generalise....pple on nairaland are human beings which means individual which also means each of everyone individual peculiarity or personality (person's ability) so dat means pple are different...gorrit!!

Sorry about that mate...

It happen to olugbon,Olugbon took heart,It happen to Aresa,Aresa took it like a palm oil and used it to rub his body like a body cream...

You will take this one like cocoa butter and use it to run your body...

Again...sorry mate and always try to learn from our fore fathers like Olugbon,Aresa,Orunmila,Obatala,Sango and ko...They have all experienced such stuffs before and used their entire lives to warn us about such things but we never listen.

Seculent:

Imo girls ain't it... I had one I dated online for about 3yrs. When she came to Lagos to do her service and I wasn't in the state then, the day this girl came to Lagos I called her, could you believe she didn't pick her call and she never care to call back after 3 months.

During my birthday she had to send me a birthday wish without calling... Now I am back to Lagos then I keep calling her and telling her how we will meet she was just busy prevaricating telling me she will call me back, the worst of it she won't caree to call back, later I did told her on Whatsapp why is she acting like that, but all what she could do is to form anger.

And I did let her know that I know she will later turn me down because it doesn't come to me like a surprise.

And I let her know theat Naija girls shouldn't be taken serious.

when dating them just don't put ur heart in the relationship, though I have met very good ones but the bad ones are too many to trust the good.

op, you causes your own misfortune! How can u romance a lady to d point of "losing herself" like you said and you refuse to penetrate?

u left her hanging on several occassions and thats even worse than not romancing her at all!

Now, thats a lesson for u guys: if u arouse a lady, be sure to phuck her brains out! or dont even try to give her a peck if u're not gonna have se.x!

hypocrisy of the highest order! If u keep doing this, most ladies will keep dumping u!

"romance ye not if you're not ready to phuck her!

bro.. it has happen to me OK.... jus pick her call n hear from. .. meawhile... life goes on..... is for ur good..

seangy4konji:
Sorry about that mate...

It happen to olugbon,Olugbon took heart,It happen to Aresa,Aresa took it like a palm oil and used it to rub his body like a body cream...

You will take this one like cocoa butter and use it to run your body...

Again...sorry mate and always try to learn from our fore fathers like Olugbon,Aresa,Orunmila,Obatala,Sango and ko...They have all experienced such stuffs before and used their entire lives to warn us about such things but we never listen.

Na you talk better brother... Come take turbo king make we shayo for dis MUMU wey carry woman matter for head like Wyclef Jean.

Pele....nle.... If you were my brother, I would have do you strong thing. This's 21 Century and a man will still foolishly dated a girl for 3years without sex... Platonic Relationship :oPele....nle.... If you were my brother, I would have do you strong thing. This's 21 Century and a man will still foolishly dated a girl for 3years without sex... Platonic Relationship It happened to me before, yours was 3years, mine was 11years, though no sex and we do all such of rubbish stuffs I wouldn't want to say online, but trust me, warri no dey carry last, we do am draw draw... Woo, you've learnt your lesson the hard way so next time you should follow my policy which is "if dating a girl for the first 7days of she accepting me without sex, the relationship na bastard be that"...

ModiKen:


Gbam!

One carton of origin for you sir!

Thank you.my brother

passionate88:
This thinking do leaf to rape.

My advice was not to.molest his girlfriend, they are in love right, taking a step to check a situation or to know what other person feels about this thing does not.mean i molest or want to.molest her.

ayoolanr:


Please do not listen to this male chauvinist! NO means NO!!!! WTF? Nigerian men are so full of 5hit, a lot of rape happens due to men having this sort of mind set! I mean, this is just so annoying and i am trying so hard to restrain myself from insulting this dude!!!!

You will agree with.me that most of the times when a female says no she might want to see how you react to that, i have never raped a lady but when i tried to share my true experience with people dont try to name me a rapist. We should be real no.matter what we are discussing. Now tell me what led her to another guy at the end of the day, was it.not sex the first guy refused to have with her even when she says no and she really wanted it?

U have spoken well, everything happens for a reason. So he should move on with his life.

sweetorgasms:
brother what can i say? well there is nothing u can do abt it, how do u know she was a virgin when uve not slept with her? d truth is that she was never a virgin, now this is one of d reason why a guy should not date a girl 4rm a poverty stricken family, bcaus when a richer guy comes the parents will give her hand in marriage to d richer guy and that is what has just happened to you, bcaus her dad must have been aware about her new marriage bcaus u use to send money through his bank account to her, so bro there is nothing u can do, just take heart and stand up like the man that u are and move on, showing weakness will be giving ur enemy a chance over u, learn ur lesson and move on with ur life, thank GOD that u even get to c her other side, what if after marriage and child birth, she then left u 4 anoda man? so take it as a blessing and move on, GOD will give you a better, more beautiful and GOD fearing lady. 'just forgive her and leave the rest for GOD.

Sorry my bro, from your post you contributed so much to the relationship and she did less meaning you got out smarted, the truth is that she used you as a backup for cash, attention and appearance....

Bro just attend the wedding with an entourage of beautiful ladies... And moved on with your life

I'm sure some nl ladies would have bombing your pm

Whatever anybody says, it is better for you to loose her now that it was still at acquaintance level, rather than her taking a walk after starting the marital process. Once your wife comes along, things will fall into place without prompting. But my candid advice is stop investing in relationships before they take off.

chaiiiiii my brother you are a God sent to the girl, in fact you are a God sent to all girls because they (girls) loves fools like that,sorry I mean Angels like you. Is part of tithe, probably you don't pay your tithe during your service year. and you paid it to the right place an imo girl chaiiiiii my guy are u really a Nigerian or you came to charge phone here? thank God you have gotten an oil company job now you will do more of that to girls because is like it's your calling, I will even send my sisters pin for you to add her and date her with ur angelic self control .566ACF04. mr perfect .