tosyne2much:
Donno why my heart beats three times faster each time i see ur moniker

redgem:



Hmmmm...... What should I say? beats faster cos of?

quiinnBee:
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hope we're cool and hope we can be still be friends on here

Truckpusher:
C'mon! go ahead and complete it.

There is no name we can't carry.

naijaboiy:

and I never said "all"

titi4fola:
you said " why do women lie..."(reffering to all ladies/women?)

Did you read my write up at all? Or you are just desperately looking for a basis to place your argument?

Youngpo413:
all these wouldn't have happened if they had chose to close their legs till their wedding night.

You think And those that chosed to close their legs but were forced apart by some pervs nko?


Back to op, I'm sure by now you've gotten answers to your question (although I doubt you didn't know already).
Maybe its the society. Scratch that. The society is us.
But the craze for virgins no be here. And a girl has got to belong. I don't do virginity lies but I'm sure it makes the lady feel better; it gives a sense of belonging, you know, albeit a false one. Helps the self-esteem of the liar. With the way men go about singing the praises of virgins, they somehow make out non-virgins to be demons. Forget all the NL gragra, after everything, we're still ourselves in real life and the things we see and read here has effects. Some of them feel bad.
And when the next guy comes along, she doesn't know if he's on the virgin-praise-singers wagon and does what she feels will keep him: Lies.

I'm soliciting for em liars?? No way.

Why would anyone lie about such?
I mean, you could lie about other things and get away with it. But virginity? That's silly. Sooner or later he's bound to find out. Its not like you'll grow a new hymen.
A man that'll love you will whether you're a virgin or not. He may even respect you more for being honest. (You may get dumped too )

Neways, I'd rather a broken relationship than a broken marriage (like the one op cited)

naijaboiy:

Did you read my write up at all? Or you are just desperately looking for a basis to place your argument?

BreezyRita:


You think And those that chosed to close their legs but were forced apart by some pervs nko?


Back to op, I'm sure by now you've gotten answers to your question (although I doubt you didn't know already).
Maybe its the society. Scratch that. The society is us.
But the craze for virgins no be here. And a girl has got to belong. I don't do virginity lies but I'm sure it makes the lady feel better; it gives a sense of belonging, you know, albeit a false one. Helps the self-esteem of the liar. With the way men go about singing the praises of virgins, they somehow make out non-virgins to be demons. Forget all the NL gragra, after everything, we're still ourselves in real life and the things we see and read here has effects. Some of them feel bad.
And when the next guy comes along, she doesn't know if he's on the virgin-praise-singers wagon and does what she feels will keep him: Lies.

I'm soliciting for em liars?? No way.

Why would anyone lie about such?
I mean, you could lie about other things and get away with it. But virginity? That's silly. Sooner or later he's bound to find out. Its not like you'll grow a new hymen.
A man that'll love you will whether you're a virgin or not. He may even respect you more for being honest. (You may get dumped too )

Neways, I'd rather a broken relationship than a broken marriage (like the one op cited)

#Rather a Broken Relationship Than a Broken Marriage#

Well spoken like an intelligent woman.