NEPABOY:
Are you implying you' ll reject a #10,000 monthly token from ur guy wen he tags it "Up keep money"?

hebenezher:
Me? Pay a girl montgly alawance? Taaaaah! I as a person, around my girlfriends. I always make them feel lucky to have hd me. Leaving me looks massively hard for them. They spend for me, no no i don't use charm, it's the way i play my game. I'm extremely smart to be magadized by lasses. Though i'm submissive to em, but that's once in a blue moon, mind you. I can never give the girl i haven't married money, no never. What if she goes ahead and give her other boyfriend? I loath such. Here's my way, i take them out on a date that's after when i must have bleep her or if i actually love her and if she deserves that treatment. That's it, i'm always appear important to lasses i date. It's all about scope and witticism. Lobatan!

Hannysmilez:
It's not really bad. Personally,i'm against babes asking guys for cash(never done that). My hubby gives me an allowance monthly,at first i felt insulted because I can damn well afford myself. I withdrew the money,took it to him and began ranting. Long story short,that was his own way of showing affection;Providing. He just feels better about himself knowing he caters for me. I respect that,so I take it.
Babes should'nt depend on guys for cash. They should go ahead and earn theirs.

tosyne2much:
Very insightful argument

Hannysmilez:
You said women measure men's love by resources. I hope you know resources could also mean time. No mature and sensible woman will measure love using money.
I did not decide what normal is,he did the moment he stated that he shows care by giving money. If my husband stops sending the cash but every aspect of our union cont., I would'nt be bothered. If he stops the cashflow,starts keeping late nights,ignores me,then,i know something is wrong. I dnt know the type of girls you've met but i know that being curious means i'll politely ask him if something is wrong. If I ask him and he says he wants to stop,that's okay.
As a matter of fact,it has happened once. I jokingly if he was having financial issues,he asked why i thought so and i told him why and he said he just didn't feel like it. Long story short,he actually sent it to the wrong acct. nd didn't want to tell me.

misspicy:
Explain insightful

tosyne2much:
U wan dey fall my hand shey?

angieberry:
You must be a prince charming...
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**comes back and peeks again**
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angieberry:
You must be a prince charming...
***checks profile picture***
**burst out laughing**
**runs outta thread**
**comes back and peeks again**
**laughs some more**
**catwalk out of thread**

anigbajumo:
Ah jst dnt knw what to say,that is totally 1st class degree stupidity......Anyway, ah no gat GF.....

misspicy:
I wan look for ya trouble Good morning

NEPABOY:
why if I may ask?? u don't have money? or dating is just not ur spec?

angieberry:
Well I'm not broke, I'm not lazy and I'm not ratchet so I'll never accept it from him, in fact, I'll see it as an insult!

IamAtribalist:


First bolded: When a man is not making money women are not interested in their time. Quote me ANYWHERE. The idea that a woman will marry a guy, not for his money, but to spend quality time with him is an absolute lie and you know it. The moment the guy loses his job she will start nagging him to get out of the house and look for job even when she has a good job herself. This is the reality.

Second bolded: U na see how men dey enter one chance with women? Society tells the man constantly to give his women money she did not work for and when he does it the woman says I didn't tell him to but now he has decided the WHAT is normal.

Third bolded: where are all these NICE women that politely ask their husband if they suspect he is seeing another woman? I suspect by politely she means that passive-aggressive bullcrap that women an expert in doing. In fact the normal mode is to nag the man until he develops high blood pressure.

Women want too things from men. 1. Resources (aka money) and 2. Children.

As a matter of fact, its very common for a woman to start starving the man of sex when she feels she has had all the children she needs. At this point, the man has entered 'one chance' as divorce could be closely and could also mean losing his kids. Hence, why so many men prefer to cheat behind their wives backs. QUOTE ME ANYWHERE.

misspicy:

Never knew you were married..lol,abeg your hubby get brother...am looking for his kind of man

Hannysmilez:
Lwkmd. I'm not sure you'll want to marry a muslim.

IamAtribalist:



Men have been conditioned by society to give women money even when they haven't earned it. My question for you is would you do same (give him a monthly allowance) if the tables where turned? I am assuming he earns more than you do. Over to you.

IamAtribalist:


For those who don't understand woman speak this is what sommyangel means by her above post: "I see you know the truth about women and I don't have any argument to counter you, so I will just call your TRUTH myopic so that some stupid people can still believe the truth is a lie."

If you understand woman speak women know and they look for ways to discredit you.

Nigerian guys need to wake up sharp sharp. U na dey sleep for bicycle.

IamAtribalist:


First bolded: When a man is not making money women are not interested in their time. Quote me ANYWHERE. The idea that a woman will marry a guy, not for his money, but to spend quality time with him is an absolute lie and you know it. The moment the guy loses his job she will start nagging him to get out of the house and look for job even when she has a good job herself. This is the reality.

Second bolded: U na see how men dey enter one chance with women? Society tells the man constantly to give his women money she did not work for and when he does it the woman says I didn't tell him to but now he has decided the WHAT is normal.

Third bolded: where are all these NICE women that politely ask their husband if they suspect he is seeing another woman? I suspect by politely she means that passive-aggressive bullcrap that women an expert in doing. In fact the normal mode is to nag the man until he develops high blood pressure.

Women want too things from men. 1. Resources (aka money) and 2. Children.

As a matter of fact, its very common for a woman to start starving the man of sex when she feels she has had all the children she needs. At this point, the man has entered 'one chance' as divorce could be closely and could also mean losing his kids. Hence, why so many men prefer to cheat behind their wives backs. QUOTE ME ANYWHERE.

misspicy:



Not interested...will like a chat with ya outside NL,please can you be my friend?

Excellent7:


Sir, what you have said is nothing but the truth.
It takes courage to say things the way you see it.
I hope that guys read you correctly.
Women are after resources and resource control from my own observation of people and incidents/events.
Little wonder Solomon had a 1000 women to himself, and at this time there must have been matured guys without any.
Most of the time the trouble starts when the man's resources is lost or threatened.
I wonder how many ladies will opt to settle with a "poor but good man" and desires he gives her "his time"

Excellent7:



Bros I salute.
That's a mature and experienced guy talking. Listen to him!
I can see you are well versed in feminine "hieroglyphics".

IamAtribalist:


Good observation on the Solomon angle. The Good book was probably trying to warn men about how women flock towards resources like flies to fresh feces. A "poor but good man" has ZERO chance with today's women. In fact when a woman says he is a 'good man' she invariably means that he has resources (or potential for it) to take care of her for the rest of her life. Notice how when a Nigerian girl tells her girlfriends that she just met a man the first question they ask her is "he get pay?." This tells you everything you need to know about this useless generation of women.

NEPABOY:
This is getting very rampant in the Nigerian society of today..hence i feel we must talk about it.

I personally think there's absolutely nothing wrong in giving your girlfriend money.But when this is done on a fixed date,and a fixed amount every month,I don't think she's any different from a staff

what do you think abt this?

Adaeze003:


I have always known guys to be crybabies but the rate at which NL guys are going about it is just alarming.

And in that "mind" of yours, only the "men" have been conditioned by society to perform certain roles? Women don't do nothing at all, all they do is open the vag and get paid for it abi?

You even had the guts to refer to all women as prostitutes and got likes and hailed by your fellows [b]forgetting that [b]a woman birthed you. If you don't have regard for her, it gives you no right to insult women in general.

Just keep your opinions to yourself if you're incapable of thinking from both sides like a normal human being.

Mtcheew...

Excellent7:


Actually, it is not a Nigerian thing, It's sort of a global thing.
In some climes prevailing circumstances have made it more obvious.
I was in a country and a friend pointed to some frail old men in wheel-chairs, and told me a good number of these folks were top guys, and their issues started when their marriage collapsed and their women grabbed their resources. Some of them could not get over it!
Check out divorce in a lot of the west, it leaves the man stripped of his resources.
It was in the news sometime when a guy had to continue paying upkeep after divorce for a child that was not his own the lady passed on as his. The courts said no, the guy has to continue paying. (Please see the links at the end of my post)
In the light of this scenario, some rich guys opt for pre-nuptial agreements to limit his potential losses, but you guess what, some babes will whine that it is not "love"!
Sometimes a guy just pays and is even denied the chance to see his child.
This is happening in "civilized" climes!
So I agree with you that resources is the major thing.
If we have those kinds of laws in Naija, knowing the way our people tend to overdo things, plenty wahala go dey for guys!

http://fox2now.com/2015/02/18/judge-orders-man-to-pay-30k-in-child-support-for-kid-who-is-not-his/
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-3010327/I-went-without-electricity-days-didn-t-eat-Fury-man-forced-pay-child-support-13-years-girl-s-never-met-despite-DNA-test-proving-s-not-his.html
http://dailycaller.com/2015/02/19/judge-outraged-at-man-ordered-to-pay-30000-for-a-kid-thats-not-his/

IamAtribalist:


Lets interpret this women-speak from Adaeze:

First bolded: "I have always collected vaginamoney from men I date and I hate when they complain." Also notice she use the term cry-baby. This is very deliberate on her part and here is why. As little boys we were brought up to see tears (our own) as a sign of weakness. This is all part of the social engineering to make sure that even when we are suffering we should pretend all is well - this way women can continue to take advantage of us financially and emotionally. Adaeze realizes that I am exposing the programming so she tries to shame me and the men that see reality (instead of propaganda) as cry-babies (aka weak men). She hopes that by doing this she would shame us from posting on Nairaland. Now when this fails I assure you, she will try to get me banned - because by all means necessary women will make sure this GREATEST of scams is NOT exposed.

Second bolded: "I am worried that more and more men I gonna see the truth and this will mean women will have to start taking responsibility for their lives instead of feeding off men."

Third bolded: "What you are saying is endangering my 'market' so I am gonna label you as weird, so people don't listen to you."

Fourth bolded: "I know we women make men suffer for vagina but don't blame us blame the society." Notice how she admits passive-aggressively that men have been given a raw deal but she won't stop there she has to justify it of course because well she is woman. See 'Fifth bolded.'

Fifth bolded: "I can't think of something of value in society that women are known for so I will leave it as a rhetorical question." Adaeze is quite smart I must say. This was her attempt to justify the suffering meted out to men but she quickly realizes that cleaning the house and cooking is not comparable (by a long shot) to going out in this real mean and indifferent world and making something of yourself. Hence her rhetorical question. Women use this technique ALL the time to manipulate men - guys beware.

Sixth bolded: "Even though you never used the word ALL I will put it there to make my weak point anyway."

Seventh bolded: "I can't believe other men are seeing this, I have to do something to STOP it." See 'Eight bolded.'

Eight bolded: "Let me see if I can try to shame you (and the men that agree with you) by equating the truth you speak with you guys not having regard for your mothers. Maybe that will shame you to stop exposing the truth." Women use this trick quite often to discourage men from criticizing women. Women are evil creatures. When they argue, NOTHING (I mean nothing ) is off limits. Women never stop accusing men of being dogs, worthless and cheats. But one thing you will NEVER hear is a man saying 'Is your father not a man.' Certain lines men will never cross but not women, they are ONLY interested in protecting their GREAT scam by ALL means necessary.

Ninth bolded: Notice how she admitted (inadvertently) that my criticism is directed at women in general and not the ALL women accusation she tried to peg on me.

Tenth bolded: "Please! Please!! Please!!! stop exposing our scam I beg you. We love feeding off men but if you educate them we will have to go out in the real world and make something of ourselves."

Eleventh bolded: "Let me remind other men that your are not normal. Maybe if I can make them believe you are crazy, they will stop listening to you."

Adaeze, nice try but you failed.

KINGOFJAPAN:
Only mugu money spenders practice this, I'm not against giving ur gf or side chick's money but sometimes you gotta ask yourself if the to.to is really worth it...

Adaeze003:


"Clap clap clap" you are just too intelligent

I actually had allot to say but left it at that before I'll be accused of an e-fight

Now get this! You do not know me, what I do or where I am from. That said, I am not here to tell you that but you must know that not every woman is dependent(financially) on men(save for parents). Some women actually work and make money to take care of themselves, most of the chicks I roll with are independent and content so, Mr I do not need an interpretation of what I wrote in English(I am not your president... lol).

Why am I saying all this? [/b]I [b]do not care for any exposure of any "scam". My Mom is a hard worker, without my father's income, we all would have still gone to school. Rest assured, I'm going to tow that part as well.

Now to the "women in general" and not "all women" you claim, you started by saying "women are" without "some" or say "many" so what are you saying? The way some of you type/talk[b] carelessly about women on here, it's almost like you came out of a peniss.[/b]

How many housewives can you count in today's modern society? Cooking and cleaning alone? Who is not out there in an indifferent world trying to make something of themselves? You can talk about petty relationships but when it comes to marriage I suggest you keep quiet.

Owliver:
we pay these biitches yet they come online to say they are superior. damn thats back-stab