Ray360:
dear Op, Firstly, At 18, You are way too young to start having sex. Also, from your Story above, you seem traumatized and more determined to break-free from the manacles of this addition which has eaten deep into the core of your soul. your Friend, Kazeem seem not to be ready to change like you from what I can deduce, Talk to Kazeem and let him know the dangers of this philandering lifestyles, educate him on the likely consequences like STD, HIV/AIDS and other pandemics and maladies. If he refuses to turn a new leaf, unfriend him and work on yourself, that's the first step to take, you can never break-free from this from this addiction if you are still friends with kazeem who has refused to stop this dirty way of life. Also, Be more engaged in destiny-defining ventures! you are 18, your studies should be of paramount importance to you! start moving with people you can learn from! read your books, study! never stay idle and above all, Pray!

cheers!

commitcrime:
Kontinu.
U ll outgrow it

texanomaly:


If he doesn't die of AIDS first.

It never ceases to amaze me how any man will want to put his D where 100s of men just had theirs. You may as well have had sex with all those guys too. Has that never occurred to you? Smh

I honestly hope you get some control before you kill yourself and take your gf with you. Your friend is right about one thing...If you you are doing prostitutes you don't need a gf. By that I mean, don't put her in danger too. She has a right to know you are putting her life in danger.

1miccza:


Bros how you take know their age from there abeg?

WongFeiHung:
Ok, i created this account to post this topic, i dont want to use my other moniker so as to avoid embarrassment

It all started earlier this year, around febuary.My friend and i were bored and high, so we decided to visit a brothel. Both of us have had sex before, but we have never slept with olosho(prostitute) before, The first time experience was awesome, i mean with the prostitutes.I did not see it as a big deal, afterall, its better than mastur.bating

But as this year went by, we became regular customers at the place(i mean the brothel). At first , we would go there twice a week, then we graduated to going three times, four times a week.

Then my friend graduated into going there everyday, sometimes he will have sex with close to three prostitutes the same day, me too , i go there every two days or sometimes, everyday too

Now my friend(kazeem) is now addicted to it ! Eventhough we both have girlfriends,

He now goes there everyday, i mean every single day, even on sundays too..

He has even done it to the extent that he now has sex with some of them for free, that is to show the extent of his patronage there, all he does is buy some stuff for the girl(olosho). Now, im not comfortable with this idea at all.!

He was even telling me that he does not need a girlfriend again, that why ask his girl for sex, when he can enter 'area' (thats what we call the brothel) and have sex for a token

I am getting worried, i now have sex with prostitutes every two days, Kazeem's case is worst, he goes there everyday, most times,he has sex with 2 or 3 prostitutes

in short , we are both getting addicted, Kazeem is even addicted already

I feel like we are both too young to get into this

Nairalanders, i need your advice,

how do i get out of this mess, i mean cure this addiction, how do i help my friend too?

P.s, we are both 18 years old

urgent answers please!

Cc Lalasticlala, help me boost this please!

texanomaly:

Best advice here.

pinceprinz:


! A HUNDRED DOLLARS/ day for sex @ 14?

Pls, tell me that was a typo .


Better still, are u talking abt the Zimbabwean Dollars or the USD?

Strahovski:


U.S Dollars Bro

Yup..at 14

pinceprinz:



. I'm stuck for words tbh ... Clear my doubts, you were into petty thievery then?

Strahovski:


I've never stolen money or done anything illegal.

pinceprinz:


That's not what I mean brother, like taking extra cash from dad's jacket to compliment the weekly bonuses? You dig?

Strahovski:


Nope. Never done that.

I had a monthly allowance of $5000 assigned to me by my parents then.

So I had my own separate funds for the whole month. I would finish it within 2 weeks then

One day I finished it all at once on on a prostitute. The prostitute was a $5000/night prostitute. (VERY CLASSY, BEAUTIFUL AND HOT).

And I spent it all on her. My parents punished me though. I was banned from watching TV or my phone for a month. I learnt my lesson

pinceprinz:


... I think I'll just tag this 'The Recycled tale af the prodigal son'


Feed my curiosity a little further pls, You're white not Afro-American?

WongFeiHung:
Ok, i created this account to post this topic, i dont want to use my other moniker so as to avoid embarrassment

It all started earlier this year, around febuary.My friend and i were bored and high, so we decided to visit a brothel. Both of us have had sex before, but we have never slept with olosho(prostitute) before, The first time experience was awesome, i mean with the prostitutes.I did not see it as a big deal, afterall, its better than mastur.bating

But as this year went by, we became regular customers at the place(i mean the brothel). At first , we would go there twice a week, then we graduated to going three times, four times a week.

Then my friend graduated into going there everyday, sometimes he will have sex with close to three prostitutes the same day, me too , i go there every two days or sometimes, everyday too

Now my friend(kazeem) is now addicted to it ! Eventhough we both have girlfriends,

He now goes there everyday, i mean every single day, even on sundays too..

He has even done it to the extent that he now has sex with some of them for free, that is to show the extent of his patronage there, all he does is buy some stuff for the girl(olosho). Now, im not comfortable with this idea at all.!

He was even telling me that he does not need a girlfriend again, that why ask his girl for sex, when he can enter 'area' (thats what we call the brothel) and have sex for a token

I am getting worried, i now have sex with prostitutes every two days, Kazeem's case is worst, he goes there everyday, most times,he has sex with 2 or 3 prostitutes

in short , we are both getting addicted, Kazeem is even addicted already

I feel like we are both too young to get into this

Nairalanders, i need your advice,

how do i get out of this mess, i mean cure this addiction, how do i help my friend too?

P.s, we are both 18 years old

urgent answers please!

Cc Lalasticlala, help me boost this please!

Strahovski:


Yup I'm white. But I have close African relations especially Ghana and Nigeria. besides I'm not American. I'm Australian.

pinceprinz:



Now, I see the light. Only Strong evidences would have been able to clear my doubt if you told me you're black cos am pretty sure the average black parent would cut the monthly bonus by say 50percent of the total if one nears that border of frugality... Maybe I'm wrong but that's reality in my eyes.

ENGRJCJ:
Jezzz.. Its when u or ur friend catches HIV that u will knw what to do.. @ ur age u should be thinking of something else apart from sex.. Start by making up ur mind that u won't go there for a week for instance swear with ur life that d day u will ever go there dat week, let u have an accident or die.. I believe u love ur life pass sex. Tell ur friend the same thing but if he refuses, try dissociate from him. Then start going for computer training if u ve written jamb.. Try do something... Kids nowadays sha

texanomaly:


Best advice here.

Like seriously? You and Ray360 are both comedians, no offence.. .. .. Please, did you read the op's post at all before typing this? He said he and his friend are both addicted philanderers and you are here suggesting that he should educate his fellow philanderer on the consequences of the act, how is that possible? Or am i the only one getting both of you wrong

texanomaly:


If he doesn't die of AIDS first.

It never ceases to amaze me how any man will want to put his D where 100s of men just had theirs. You may as well have had sex with all those guys too. Has that never occurred to you? Smh

I honestly hope you get some control before you kill yourself and take your gf with you. Your friend is right about one thing...If you you are doing prostitutes you don't need a gf. By that I mean, don't put her in danger too. She has a right to know you are putting her life in danger.

misspicy:
lol...all those stories older men like obontami are dropping on sexuality caused this i think...

OP go for prayers