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Re: Email Exchange Between Sugabelly And Mustapha Audu by OdenigboAroli(m): 2:37pm On Nov 28, 2015 |
tonychristopher: For a moronic slowpoke like that bbitch you quoted Yoruba guys sleeping with a 17yrs old Igbo LovePeddler is glorious.... 1 Like |
Re: Email Exchange Between Sugabelly And Mustapha Audu by Nobody: 2:43pm On Nov 28, 2015 |
She wasn't a virgin @ 17 obowunmi: |
Re: Email Exchange Between Sugabelly And Mustapha Audu by obowunmi(m): 2:44pm On Nov 28, 2015 |
exthar87: How do you know? Were you in her vagina? Were you there when she was disvirgined? |
Re: Email Exchange Between Sugabelly And Mustapha Audu by logica(m): 2:47pm On Nov 28, 2015 |
obowunmi:They first had sex in his car; she made no reference to losing her virginity; rather she enjoyed it. How many women enjoy sex at the first go? 3 Likes |
Re: Email Exchange Between Sugabelly And Mustapha Audu by ivili(m): 2:52pm On Nov 28, 2015 |
Nihilist:This is the part that I can't rap my head around.When she went to America,was she still going to his house in Nigeria?because it seems the guy has started avoiding her and she still kept begging him. 1 Like |
Re: Email Exchange Between Sugabelly And Mustapha Audu by logica(m): 2:53pm On Nov 28, 2015 |
Amya:Aha, you have discovered the heart of the matter. She was drawn to the guy because of his status as the son of a governor. Now that she hates him, she's trying to ensure that he no longer can have that status (either as son or governor himself). That is the classic behavior of a person suffering from Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD). |
Re: Email Exchange Between Sugabelly And Mustapha Audu by SomBaby(f): 2:58pm On Nov 28, 2015 |
Have reread the exchange countless times...can't help but cry. Yes I have been weeping. For sugabelly, for people in her shoes. The whole incident screams of RAPE!. It must not be forced before it becomes so. She was raped emotionally, psychologically and otherwise. And yet...she couldn't help but LOVE him(this one makes me cry all the more). Such is life....sometimes, we don't have a control over our emotions...let alone a 17 year old. Now she is mature...the whole affair still traumatizes her...would have been much better if this Audu guy was a nobody. Now his brother is about or almost about to become a governor (God I still weep!) Sugabelly owes no one any explanation on why she speaks out now...a revival has taken place in her life.she needs to let them loose and be free...else she will continue to wallow in self pity. Congratulations sugabelly! Our prayers are with you....only that this is not the right time...but then, which time is ever right? #IStandWithYouOnYourFightToFreedom |
Re: Email Exchange Between Sugabelly And Mustapha Audu by Darkchocolate(f): 2:59pm On Nov 28, 2015 |
BuddhaPalm: I totally understand but did she know she was just a Bedwarmer (or carwarmer) ...there s no denying they were in some form of relationship. There s no denying he had absolute control. There s no denying that 17 is or was still underage (college graduate or not)...anyways we ll wait and see the conclusion. |
Re: Email Exchange Between Sugabelly And Mustapha Audu by Nobody: 3:00pm On Nov 28, 2015 |
Her story not mine From her write up obowunmi: |
Re: Email Exchange Between Sugabelly And Mustapha Audu by ddippset(m): 3:12pm On Nov 28, 2015 |
SomBaby:o yes she was 17 then but matured now. I bet you if Mustapha the governor's son came back for her today with one or two sugar sweet lines, she'd jump in his arms all over again even in her 'maturity'. Sorry to say 90% of ladies would do that. Even to a local government chairman's son sef. |
Re: Email Exchange Between Sugabelly And Mustapha Audu by arireirede: 3:28pm On Nov 28, 2015 |
mustapha nd sugabelly should stop disturbing people on social media about their rubbish they did behind close door when they are enjoying themselves sexually. nonsense...... 2 Likes |
Re: Email Exchange Between Sugabelly And Mustapha Audu by hush15: 3:49pm On Nov 28, 2015 |
Nihilist: Yes, Nigerians are gullible. Things they should stand firm against are the ish Nigerians are either sentimental or condone. The point is not she tried patching things up after. The problem, thus the question is did do things she said? One. Did he forcefully indulge his friends to have a carnal knowledge of her against her will while he held her and Watch? Two, Did the same happen with the Siblings? Three. In spite of whatever, was the father aware of the issues and what was his reaction ? The emails I saw are just hers, what about Mustapha responses. Don't forget, she was just 17 as at that time, a minor and possibly not in total control of her emotions due to pressures. It is all obvious that the girl loved the guy and as some said, obsessed, well, does that give Mustapha the right to abuse the girl. Why won't she be obsessed anyway, the guy rams her like every other day nd as at that time, she was the only guy she knew. He oppressed and suppressed her with sex that a point came when she felt so emotionally attached to the guy and thus felt even if she has to live with, it has to be with the guy that abused her sexuall. We all know how this sex thing works, atleast, fifty shades of grey enlightens us in that aspect BUT ALL THESE DIDNT TAKE AWAY THE ABULE THAT SHE HAD TO ENDURE... 2 Likes |
Re: Email Exchange Between Sugabelly And Mustapha Audu by suzziematini(f): 3:50pm On Nov 28, 2015 |
Ok...this is from 2008. I can basically relate to her story, but I don't see any reason why 8yrs down and this. And boy! She was obsessed. And talks waaay too much. 2 Likes |
Re: Email Exchange Between Sugabelly And Mustapha Audu by LMay(f): 3:54pm On Nov 28, 2015 |
shiinihost: Get your facts right! It was this week, after the whole saga that Oby realised Sugabelly's mum was her classmate back in UNN days. Madam Oby openly said this on Twitter. She knew when she visited Sugabelly's mum. |
Re: Email Exchange Between Sugabelly And Mustapha Audu by suzziematini(f): 3:58pm On Nov 28, 2015 |
] logica: She ddnt have sex the first time. She was touched in his car at first and enjoyed it. The txt further said she hasn't seen a manhood before his. They had sex as time went on and she also said that she was sore after the first sex and couldn't even touch herself. That's what being disvirgined feels like. |
Re: Email Exchange Between Sugabelly And Mustapha Audu by shiinihost: 4:06pm On Nov 28, 2015 |
LMay: Okay. But why didn't she report to her parents? or Mustapha's parents? For parents rich enough to have sent their kids to loyola as of 2002, they must know powerful people. Believe me. |
Re: Email Exchange Between Sugabelly And Mustapha Audu by babysophie(f): 4:11pm On Nov 28, 2015 |
Ishilove:If Mustafa had married her,would she come hre n call him beast? After all,Annie is happy wif her husband as deir affair started wen she was 14,yet everyone is happy. 1 Like |
Re: Email Exchange Between Sugabelly And Mustapha Audu by Nihilist: 4:14pm On Nov 28, 2015 |
hush15: Where is the abuse? Does Abuse exist because she claimed it did? Why is there no reference to the so called abuse in her communications to the dude AFTER they were supposed to have happened? Why does she sayin her emails that she flirted with his friends but no sex happened? Why is she so keen to contact him and keep talking about sex even after he does not return her affections. The emails that are sent after the girl was supposedly so traumatised that she cant bear to play music in a moving car, and she can't listen to Maroon 5, contain lines affirming her love for her 'abuser' Does that add up to you? The only thing that boy is guilty of is using and dumping her... I must remind you that using and dumping is not illegal.... 1 Like |
Re: Email Exchange Between Sugabelly And Mustapha Audu by Nobody: 4:23pm On Nov 28, 2015 |
elmisti:all good |
Re: Email Exchange Between Sugabelly And Mustapha Audu by Nobody: 4:24pm On Nov 28, 2015 |
Threedots:Cos u sound like a femAle. |
Re: Email Exchange Between Sugabelly And Mustapha Audu by hush15: 4:45pm On Nov 28, 2015 |
Nihilist: Lemme start with flirting... Yes , she mentioned so but tell when flirting translate to freedom to rape . Even let's say she flirted, doe that mean she consented to rape... flirting is a relative action and I don't see it as an invite to Bleep her. Not by friends or by siblings. When she flirted with friends, did she also flirt with the Siblings of Mustapha? Also, there was an abuse. The fact that it was against her wish at a certain point but was forced is an abuse. Everybody has the right to say yes or no. And when the person says no, even if the person will say yes later, still respect the no of that moment. Not force her. Forcing her is already an abuse. Not to now mention forcing friends and siblings. Whether love him or not, he didn't have the right to force himself or friends or siblings on her which are the bases for her accusations and allegations. Even if she tried mending what was between them from the email, it still won't doesn't mean those actions were from her. She is not pressing charges, her message is clear as crystal. The family that people are celebrating and claiming are brave, god fearing, or whatever accolades out of mere sentiments and Political blindness as just as terrible or better still, wolves in sheep clothing's. That much is clear.... |
Re: Email Exchange Between Sugabelly And Mustapha Audu by Nihilist: 4:50pm On Nov 28, 2015 |
hush15: I think you have some comprehension issues Read this again. Where is the abuse? Does Abuse exist because she claimed it did? This girl claimed to have been so traumatised that she cannot bear to have music playing in her car. Now look at the emails she sent AFTER this so called abuse is supposed to have happened...Does the tone of the email match up to what the girl is saying? Allegation of Abuse is not a fact. Only an allegation. The only clear fact here is that she was used and dumped. And using and dumping is not a criminal offence. 1 Like |
Re: Email Exchange Between Sugabelly And Mustapha Audu by hush15: 4:54pm On Nov 28, 2015 |
Nihilist: Who has the comprehension issues.... me or you. When you fully comprehend my feedback, you wont be asking already answered questions. |
Re: Email Exchange Between Sugabelly And Mustapha Audu by Sunny4Gold: 4:59pm On Nov 28, 2015 |
With this evidence, I believe the lady is a liar. I think she is angry because the guy married someone else. 2 Likes |
Re: Email Exchange Between Sugabelly And Mustapha Audu by Nihilist: 5:05pm On Nov 28, 2015 |
hush15: you have severe comprehension issues she said she was abused You have taken that and run with it like it is a fact. Were you there? How do you know she isn't lying? The only evidence we have to go on is their mutual communications. Now I know this is hard for you, but does that look like the kind of email a victim would send her rapist, AFTER the rape(s) had happened? 1 Like |
Re: Email Exchange Between Sugabelly And Mustapha Audu by hush15: 5:22pm On Nov 28, 2015 |
Nihilist: And you finished school... how can she send an email of an interaction where only she Featured! So Mustapha never responded at all except the few lines put up there..... Abeg... read her mails again. Mustapha replied but i can't seem to find those replies. Obviously, who ever released the mail only wanted us to view a side to it and not the interaction as a whole... |
Re: Email Exchange Between Sugabelly And Mustapha Audu by obowunmi(m): 5:23pm On Nov 28, 2015 |
logica: You're making a conjecture. You don't know. The fact that it wasn't stated doesn't mean that it didn't happen. |
Re: Email Exchange Between Sugabelly And Mustapha Audu by Threedots(m): 5:29pm On Nov 28, 2015 |
enieme:lol. cos i'm speaking my mind? |
Re: Email Exchange Between Sugabelly And Mustapha Audu by Nobody: 6:48pm On Nov 28, 2015 |
I feel for her and I feel for her course all this while. But to be very sincere after thoroughly going through these mails exchanged between both parties involved I can reasonably say she wasn't raped. In fact, she wasn't sexually abused. What happened was in the name of love. She made mistake flirting with the Mustapha's friends, such makes real guys very jealous. She should have told her good friend/mom all these before hitting the Internet. It has rather become embarrassing for her and her family now. As she rightly said she was spanked and f***ed by Mr Audu but now she has screwed her self. Other ladies out there should learn from her case 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Email Exchange Between Sugabelly And Mustapha Audu by BoleynDynaSTY(f): 7:16pm On Nov 28, 2015 |
Re: Email Exchange Between Sugabelly And Mustapha Audu by Nobody: 8:08pm On Nov 28, 2015 |
IlekeHD: You will never change ah, for the past couple of years you have been on the same subject matter. I guess some Igbo boy had you and dumped you hence the frustration and pain in all ur posts. Kpele. |
Re: Email Exchange Between Sugabelly And Mustapha Audu by Nobody: 8:31pm On Nov 28, 2015 |
So she had been giving him sex inside car? Smh! |
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