Wallade:
What is the reason she wants to keep her father's name in marriage? If the reason is understandable or justifiable to the husband, then the husband should reconsider his position but if her reasons can't be explained, understood, justified and validated by her husband, she can't have her way on that.

Ordinarily, that should be final; period but today's ladies.....

We should read and digest the principles, origin and design of marriage as invented by God in the Bible or Quran. This can help our understanding of marriage, especially recommended for today's women, opinionated wives and unsubmissive wives.

" Guy, she can call herself any name she likes. At the end of the day, only 6 things matter:

1). There is a valid and subsisting marital union between us, as proven by the evidence of the marriage certificate;
2). She shares my bed, takes care of the home and is the mother of my kids;
3). We support each other's dreams, aspirations and endeavours because we are partners for life in this union;
4). She respects me privately and publicly, and does all she can to be the best help meet for me;
5). She sees my family as her own, and showers them with love, respect and care;
6). She protects my name and honour, by comporting herself in a respectable, dignified way etc;

Abeg, if she does all the above and more, she can call herself any name she chooses, as long as she does NOT deny that she is my wife! End of story.."

Well, a wise man shared this thought with me. And he has been married for 35 happy years!

Tequilah:


" Guy, she can call herself any name she likes. At the end of the day, only 6 things matter:

1). There is a valid and subsisting marital union between us, as proven by the evidence of the marriage certificate;
2). She shares my bed, takes care of the home and is the mother of my kids;
3). We support each other's dreams, aspirations and endeavours because we are partners for life in this union;
4). She respects me privately and publicly, and does all she can to be the best help meet for me;
5). She sees my family as her own, and showers them with love, respect and care;
6). She protects my name and honour, by comporting herself in a respectable, dignified way etc;

Abeg, if she does all the above and more, she can call herself any name she chooses, as long as she does NOT deny that she is my wife! End of story.."

Well, a wise man shared this thought with me. And he has been married for 35 happy years!

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