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Re: 8 Ways To Know That A Guy Is Not Ready For Marriage by Cutehector(m): 10:46pm On Dec 17, 2015
Life aint easy... Lets just pray for better days to come

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Re: 8 Ways To Know That A Guy Is Not Ready For Marriage by wristbangle: 4:01pm On Dec 18, 2015
Lalasticlala, don't you think this article deserves wider view? cool
Re: 8 Ways To Know That A Guy Is Not Ready For Marriage by Nobody: 4:26pm On Dec 18, 2015
End time marriage
Re: 8 Ways To Know That A Guy Is Not Ready For Marriage by Nobody: 4:33pm On Dec 18, 2015
tosyne2much:
9. Becoming a regular Visitor of the Brothel

I used to be a regular patronizer of the brothel. Wait ooooo !!! Before you tongue-lash me, I never opined that I used to bleep prostitutes oooo, I only said I used to be a regular patronizer of ashowo joint. But now that I'm thinking of settling down it wouldn't be nice bleeping prostitutes when I have a girlfriend.

10. Going for singles" programme just to meet with New Babes

I think I should be awarded a golden medal for this. When I was still very much young, my friends and I used to put on our best attires at the mention of "single programmes" held in churches in our locality even though we were never invited. I could remember vividly when I joined my fellowship workforce and became a choir member just to have the attention of a lady in the choir unit whom I had been fantasizing. But now guys don grow, we don't do that bullshit again tongue


11. Playing Nairabet, 1960Bet, Bet9ja, Baba Ijebu and the likes


Truth be told, guys who are regular patronizers of the aforementioned betting companies are not even ready to marry. nobody should quote me oooo tongue

*Quote me to say rubb-ish and I will show you why elephant is the only mammal that cannot jump*
tongue
ode

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Re: 8 Ways To Know That A Guy Is Not Ready For Marriage by ratchy: 4:34pm On Dec 18, 2015
to compile list no dey tire una?

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Re: 8 Ways To Know That A Guy Is Not Ready For Marriage by DaPhilosopher(m): 4:34pm On Dec 18, 2015
8 YINMU Wetin concern religion?

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Re: 8 Ways To Know That A Guy Is Not Ready For Marriage by tonquendo4u(m): 4:35pm On Dec 18, 2015
Its very annoying when I see posts like this.Babes want ir already made and after they complain men marginalise dem.If U think he's not ready,y not calm down n get him ready?He'll adore U for d rest of his life
Re: 8 Ways To Know That A Guy Is Not Ready For Marriage by Damfostopper(m): 4:36pm On Dec 18, 2015
wristbangle n tosyne2much confusing us since 16AD

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Re: 8 Ways To Know That A Guy Is Not Ready For Marriage by Dannyset(m): 4:37pm On Dec 18, 2015
Na money no make most guys serious ooo!

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Re: 8 Ways To Know That A Guy Is Not Ready For Marriage by free2ryhme: 4:38pm On Dec 18, 2015
tosyne2much:
9. Becoming a regular Visitor of the Brothel

I used to be a regular patronizer of the brothel. Wait ooooo !!! Before you tongue-lash me, I never opined that I used to bleep prostitutes oooo, I only said I used to be a regular patronizer of ashowo joint. But now that I'm thinking of settling down it wouldn't be nice bleeping prostitutes when I have a girlfriend.

10. Going for singles" programme just to meet with New Babes

I think I should be awarded a golden medal for this. When I was still very much young, my friends and I used to put on our best attires at the mention of "single programmes" held in churches in our locality even though we were never invited. I could remember vividly when I joined my fellowship workforce and became a choir member just to have the attention of a lady in the choir unit whom I had been fantasizing. But now guys don grow, we don't do that bullshit again tongue


11. Playing Nairabet, 1960Bet, Bet9ja, Baba Ijebu and the likes


Truth be told, guys who are regular patronizers of the aforementioned betting companies are not even ready to marry. nobody should quote me oooo tongue

*Quote me to say rubb-ish and I will show you why elephant is the only mammal that cannot jump*
tongue

Just like your moniker you are a woman's wrist bangle

I don't know how rubbish like this gets frontpage attention. All your listed attributes are also common amongst boys who are not up to marriageable age

So you feel you have done seun a favour by coming up with trash abi?

Think again

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Re: 8 Ways To Know That A Guy Is Not Ready For Marriage by prideofscience: 4:38pm On Dec 18, 2015
How many times this won make fp aint Good news again
cc:Omotayor
Re: 8 Ways To Know That A Guy Is Not Ready For Marriage by Davijunson: 4:39pm On Dec 18, 2015
Nairaland is Getting Boring... Topics are being recycled daily... this particular topic has been to front page A million times... Gosh... Seun do something abeg.

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Re: 8 Ways To Know That A Guy Is Not Ready For Marriage by free2ryhme: 4:40pm On Dec 18, 2015
wristbangle:
It beats my imagination when I see grown up dudes cultivating adolescence habits even though they are old enough to have set of kids they are fathering. As a result of this, ladies consider them as being unserious for marital settling down

The below points indicate a guy who is not ready for marriage;

1. He keeps several girlfriends

The flirtatious nature of some dudes can be likened to that of a cock that chases several hens desperately and shamelessly. They however service several kitty-cats and hold boastful thrust of discussion amongst their friends, without knowing that chasing every lady on the street is not an achievement and will never be an achievement anytime any day. This is a sign of immaturity which shows that a dude's mind is not preoccupied with marriage but bull.shit.

2. Being too dependent on parents

It is a degrading and shameful habit for a grown up man to make cooked up stories just to scam his parents for money. However, they are just so dependent on their parents for ridiculous things such as recharge card, hair cut, etc. Depending on your parents for this ridiculous things does not dignify a man.

3. Uncontrolled spending

I pity the life of some guys who spend as if there is no tomorrow. Once they make money, they won't even think about future hardship but will spend this money on rendezvous with these hungry ladies we see around.

4. Laziness and idleness

I can't but shake my head when I see guys clustered at jedi jedi/otapiapia seller shops. These guys having nothing bothering them and can be used for political agitation and thuggery. They are always waiting for the day God will throw them money from heaven, without working for it.

5. Eating and sleeping at friend's house

Some dudes don't even have caution of what they eat. They can sell their birthright just like the case of Esau. Which lady will even go on a date with this kind of a man?

6. Poor perception about Love

Some guys lack purpose, mission and vision in life that planning seems to be like a mission impossible for them. Their mentality has been wired awkwardly that the perception they have about relationship is just to sex, and when a lady denies them of it, they will say she doesn't love them.

7. Being too proud to apologize

Guys who blame people for their misfortune and wrongdoings are nothing but dumb skill. They feel like they are doing a lady a favour by dating her. Even when they offend their supposed girlfriend, they will always expect her to apologize to them. These kind of guys have no business being in relationship at all.

8. Poor religious life

Some dudes can spend the night at club house but make dem spend ordinary one hour for church or mosque, na punishment.. That you are thinking of settling down should be a more reason why you should get closer to God and have a personal relationship with him rather than wasting your precious time at bar and clubs.


Just like your moniker you are a woman's wrist bangle

I don't know how rubbish like this gets frontpage attention. All your listed attributes are also common amongst boys who are not up to marriageable age

So you feel you have done seun a favour by coming up with trash abi?

Think again

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Re: 8 Ways To Know That A Guy Is Not Ready For Marriage by Jayne07(f): 4:41pm On Dec 18, 2015
Let me comment my reserve
Re: 8 Ways To Know That A Guy Is Not Ready For Marriage by AustinBlinks(m): 4:45pm On Dec 18, 2015
www.nairaland.com/2727109/love-leave-story-series Check out my story at the literature section.... i bet you'd love it
Re: 8 Ways To Know That A Guy Is Not Ready For Marriage by AustinBlinks(m): 4:46pm On Dec 18, 2015
Jayne07:
Let me comment my reserve
www.nairaland.com/2727109/love-leave-story-series ....... Specially invited to read the story
Re: 8 Ways To Know That A Guy Is Not Ready For Marriage by just2endowed: 4:46pm On Dec 18, 2015
thats hmmm
Re: 8 Ways To Know That A Guy Is Not Ready For Marriage by JeffreyJamez(m): 4:46pm On Dec 18, 2015
tosyne2much:
9. Becoming a regular Visitor of the Brothel

I used to be a regular patronizer of the brothel. Wait ooooo !!! Before you tongue-lash me, I never opined that I used to bleep prostitutes oooo, I only said I used to be a regular patronizer of ashowo joint. But now that I'm thinking of settling down it wouldn't be nice bleeping prostitutes when I have a girlfriend.

10. Going for singles" programme just to meet with New Babes

I think I should be awarded a golden medal for this. When I was still very much young, my friends and I used to put on our best attires at the mention of "single programmes" held in churches in our locality even though we were never invited. I could remember vividly when I joined my fellowship workforce and became a choir member just to have the attention of a lady in the choir unit whom I had been fantasizing. But now guys don grow, we don't do that bullshit again tongue


11. Playing Nairabet, 1960Bet, Bet9ja, Baba Ijebu and the likes


Truth be told, guys who are regular patronizers of the aforementioned betting companies are not even ready to marry. nobody should quote me oooo tongue

*Quote me to say rubb-ish and I will show you why elephant is the only mammal that cannot jump*
tongue

Commot that number 11 before thunder do something to your balls you won't understand undecided.....I don't know who you think you are to judge..

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Re: 8 Ways To Know That A Guy Is Not Ready For Marriage by LaudGuy: 4:48pm On Dec 18, 2015
What a load of rotten beans. No disrespect but your supposed analysis are wrong. Married men are even more promiscuous than single guys with several side chicks. If your very first point is flawed then the remaining write up is pretty much DOA.

I'll give u an "E" for effort.

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Re: 8 Ways To Know That A Guy Is Not Ready For Marriage by wristbangle: 4:49pm On Dec 18, 2015
free2ryhme:


Just like your moniker you are a woman's wrist bangle

I don't know how rubbish like this gets frontpage attention. All your listed attributes are also common amongst boys who are not up to marriageable age

So you feel you have done seun a favour by coming up with trash abi?

Think again

Thanks boss. The truth is always bitter
Re: 8 Ways To Know That A Guy Is Not Ready For Marriage by LaudGuy: 4:49pm On Dec 18, 2015
What a load of rotten beans. No disrespect but your supposed analysis are wrong. Married men are even more promiscuous than single guys with several side chicks. If your very first point is flawed then the remaining write up is pretty much DOA.

If am to grade you, I'll give u an "E" for effort.

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Re: 8 Ways To Know That A Guy Is Not Ready For Marriage by BrainnewsNg(f): 4:50pm On Dec 18, 2015
#Noted
Re: 8 Ways To Know That A Guy Is Not Ready For Marriage by Speakdatruth: 4:51pm On Dec 18, 2015
joblessness

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Re: 8 Ways To Know That A Guy Is Not Ready For Marriage by Nobody: 4:51pm On Dec 18, 2015
Hmmm. Nice to know.
#Noted
Re: 8 Ways To Know That A Guy Is Not Ready For Marriage by IBBG(m): 4:53pm On Dec 18, 2015
this naira land forum is like a community made up of face me I face you.
I dey enjoy una yarns die.
and by the way gud list by wristbangle, I know say plenty guys no go gree with u. but the truth must be told even though the truth bitter pass alomo.
Re: 8 Ways To Know That A Guy Is Not Ready For Marriage by VocalWalls: 4:57pm On Dec 18, 2015
Religious life has nothing to do with it, that's one bluff.

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Re: 8 Ways To Know That A Guy Is Not Ready For Marriage by Guyman02: 4:58pm On Dec 18, 2015
Thank God its Friday!

Dancing Shoki!
Re: 8 Ways To Know That A Guy Is Not Ready For Marriage by wristbangle: 4:59pm On Dec 18, 2015
IBBG:
this naira land forum is like a community made up of face me I face you.
I dey enjoy una yarns die.
and by the way gud list by wristbangle, I know say plenty guys no go gree with u. but the truth must be told even though the truth bitter pass alumo.

I am so overwhelm when I saw your comment. God bless u bro. Most guys on this forum hate hearing the truth but when I drop article about ladies bashing threads, they will be happy.
Re: 8 Ways To Know That A Guy Is Not Ready For Marriage by ProfEinstein: 5:00pm On Dec 18, 2015
tosyne2much:
9. Becoming a regular Visitor of the Brothel

I used to be a regular patronizer of the brothel. Wait ooooo !!! Before you tongue-lash me, I never opined that I used to bleep prostitutes oooo, I only said I used to be a regular patronizer of ashowo joint. But now that I'm thinking of settling down it wouldn't be nice bleeping prostitutes when I have a girlfriend.

10. Going for singles" programme just to meet with New Babes

I think I should be awarded a golden medal for this. When I was still very much young, my friends and I used to put on our best attires at the mention of "single programmes" held in churches in our locality even though we were never invited. I could remember vividly when I joined my fellowship workforce and became a choir member just to have the attention of a lady in the choir unit whom I had been fantasizing. But now guys don grow, we don't do that bullshit again tongue


11. Playing Nairabet, 1960Bet, Bet9ja, Baba Ijebu and the likes


Truth be told, guys who are regular patronizers of the aforementioned betting companies are not even ready to marry. nobody should quote me oooo tongue

*Quote me to say rubb-ish and I will show you why elephant is the only mammal that cannot jump*
tongue
Your opinion doesn't count, MUMU

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Re: 8 Ways To Know That A Guy Is Not Ready For Marriage by Seth89(m): 5:00pm On Dec 18, 2015
THIS IS SERIOUS.

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