ronald4lif:

Hehehe

oloyolo:
baba come and crate a thread we can ague about joor.
This thread is too peaceful

Hahaha...me, peaceful

Tosyne2much, I can't wait for that

Grt piece ... The Collabo does mk sense as well.

Nickymezor:
Grt piece ... The Collabo does mk sense as well.

Thanks dearie

emusmith:
Hahaha...me, peaceful

I didn't say you were peaceful I dey craz?

oloyolo:


I didn't say you were peaceful I dey craz?

Lmao

So, what do you say?

From guy angle no 8
...If you're not giving her, you're giving someone else.
(d someone else could be family or other things you are taking care of)
***Do not plant an idea as such for the female audience for most wld interpret it as another female***
Its a nice piece though...

acenobis:
From guy angle no 8
...If you're not giving her, you're giving someone else.
(d someone else could be family or other things you are taking care of)
***Do not plant an idea as such for the female audience for most wld interpret it as another female***
Its a nice piece though...

Thank you for correcting that. I've faced something like that... She doesn't understand that sometimes family needs can be overwhelming

tosyne2much:
I know the thread would generate massive traffic

Oliviaarims:



I concur. Personally, I wouldn't like my man to be docile and excessively meek. I'd prefer sb who can challenge me without batting an eyelid and call me to order when I seem to be venturing too far.

I like a man who knows he's a man and acts as such.. Firm and authoritative.. But at the same time loving, understanding and respects his woman.

But there's a way these things are done, such that even in his calmness and refusal to trade words with her, he still reeks of strength and manliness.

I never advocated arguments as my formula, in all I have written.

Gloryblossom:
I pray I find good love this year.

%-) Amen

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Oh, my gosh! Aww.. I totally love this. I couldn't agree more with you.


People suffer heartbreaks for so many reasons... And I believe top amongst the reasons is going into relationships they should never have gotten into in the first place. A girl sees a guy.. She knows he isn't in her league, perhaps. Their personalities are at par... He probably has a history with women, she isn't certain he genuinely loves her.. Etc and she still decides to date him.
And then for a guy, he sees a girl... She's got attitude problems, highly materialistic, too many male friends here and there, he barely knows jack about her.. their personalities don't seem to tally.. She likes partying and clubbing for Africa.... Then for God knows why, he still decides that's the person he wants to date. The odds of such relationships succeeding are really high.


The Socratic dictum "Man know thyself...." is very very relevant in all of human endeavours. It's only when u know urself that u can know what u want... Know the sort of ppl that complement you and with whom you can be with for the long haul. Only there and then can we begin to envisage a successful relationship. [/quote ]

Hear ye! Hear ye!!

It's my earnest prayer that we learn from the lessons of others as we may not survive the experience that informs our learning from ours. Like I keep reiterating, the war of the sexes can never be settled this side of heaven (or hell). We just gotta make the best of a messed up situation at best.

Despite this seemingly gloomy and despondent picture I painted, there still exist an oasis teeming with life abundant in this our self made emotional desert. Getting the right bearing on your navigational compass is now the bane of the journey. Quite a number of folks have pitched their tents there and curiously enough the location is not far-fetched. It just takes brutal honesty and forthright introspection with respect to one's love interest to decipher the location on the complex map of our hearts.