daveP:


Permit the modification

Lol. Dude you really cracked me up, for real. Very funny.

cheerycoco:
I have been dating this guy for years now and i have put up with his serial cheating. He cheats on me and i have come to feel that a man cheating on you is normal. I have talked about it with him, cried about it, the truth is that i have gotten used to him and i can't stay without him and he knows it. Seriously i'm fade up because his side chicks insult me any time i try to confront them on phone and its so painful. i have phobia of being alone. Pls i need ur advice. I love him

are u talking of same guy here or a different one? https://www.nairaland.com/2864866/nairaland-dating-delima

Jewelnutch:
Go to your pastor or babalawo to cut the spider webs covering your face off. The Charm he used on you is pretty strong.

You are right. In fact, op's brain needs to be formatted. No normal person would act they way she acts.

Op,you knew that your guy cheats on you and you cannot do without him? Something is wrong with you. Maybe he must have hypnotized you or you are the most ugliest lady on the face of this earth.

Cannot understand your person in this modern age.

Decker:
Listen and listen good. It's not normal for your boyfriend to cheat on you and it's not right for him to keep side chicks while still dating you. That's not how a relationship is supposed to be.

What is your problem if I may ask? How can you be with someone who doesn't value you or treat you with respect, and worst of all, keeps side chicks that you have knowledge of and who ridicule you, and you still claim you love him and can't do with him? Are you listening to yourself?
It's your type that marry men who will physically abuse them and they will still be in the relationship.

Snap out of all this nonsense you think you are feeling. Get the hell out of that thing you call a relationship, because you are only being used. Your so called boyfriend doesn't care about you, he doesn't love you and he doesn't respect you.

There are other men out there. He isn't the only cure to your loneliness. Leave that asshole and find someone who would love you and treat you like you mean something to him.

Thank you, you have said it all.
Thank you once again.

RoseDearestLove:

Thank you, you have said it all.
Thank you once again.

You are welcome.

Guys money only impresses some lazy and cheap girls!


If she's d hard working type, and more focus in achieving a lot by herself, I don't think she needs an ass hole of a guy to keep her happy!

The right guy will come at his own pace.

ourchoice:
I think it's difficult if the boyfriend in question has money and probably spends on u....money is a strong charm that works on virtually all women, irrespective of race, skin color or background, lol

boyfriend, not even husband. You are not serious. It's not every petty thing you create a thread for.

all these ninjas typing epistles of advises, how do guys have the time?
Everybody on the internet is now a specialist in advising other people..smh ...

cheerycoco:
I have been dating this guy for years now and i have put up with his serial cheating. He cheats on me and i have come to feel that a man cheating on you is normal. I have talked about it with him, cried about it, the truth is that i have gotten used to him and i can't stay without him and he knows it. Seriously i'm fade up because his side chicks insult me any time i try to confront them on phone and its so painful. i have phobia of being alone. Pls i need ur advice. I love him

OP, you don't love him.
You are insecure.
You said it all. You have a phobia for being alone and that is caused by depression.
You are using him as your antidepressant which many immature and insecure people in relationship do.
See a psychotherapist online or offline asap.
May God help you.

I ain't gat a girlfrnd so why are u disturbing yourself.... Contact me jae

I thk dia ar matured mind on ur thread OP, i'v also learnt, though there ar also senseless comment here, lucky u OP, u should kno some resonable advice dt can add benefit to ur being esp on d first page.

But i need to ask y most guys ar lik ds nd they ar d 1s dt malign d image of women most, of which each of them has tot SOME girls d lesson of dia life, very few ar gud. May God help. Women in d hand of men, esp us-d single ladies.

Women too, most of us need a psychologist or wat i would call life cousellor.
Some of us mess around thinkin we ar treatin sum1's f**ck up or we want to leave a life dt pleases their flesh.

Indeed, may God help humanity and give us wisdom.

OP, pls pray 4 wisdom, God should open ur eyes to c nd nt to sleep alone.

Maybe i should advice u ds:
Step aside( like out of d relatnshp
Be busy wt ur faith
Spend d rest of ur time wt famiily nd frds lik u'v 4goten him.
By doing so, God can give u anoda guy nd if he's ur Mr right, then God can change him for u bt dt will require a great work frm u.

Above all giv ur life to CHRIST

cheerycoco:
I have been dating this guy for years now and i have put up with his serial cheating. He cheats on me and i have come to feel that a man cheating on you is normal. I have talked about it with him, cried about it, the truth is that i have gotten used to him and i can't stay without him and he knows it. Seriously i'm fade up because his side chicks insult me any time i try to confront them on phone and its so painful. i have phobia of being alone. Pls i need ur advice. I love him

Babe you dey fall hands oo, I love the fact that you are in love and loyal unlike these fake bitches, but that guy no deserve you, free am and move on to better person jawe, by the time he eye go clear God go don comot you from shit

You dey Akwa Ibom come go dey do denge-pose for Jades Hotels Abuja? How him go take you serious mbok? Na hotel now be ya house?

Most girls are ignorant of what they give off when they do some of these their yanga and denge-pose snap shots in places that everyone can figure is a hotel room or environ.

@ OP

Are u serious? What about this other thread you started today?

https://www.nairaland.com/2864866/nairaland-dating-delima

Please Nairaland should not be used as a mean to distract people. There are other threads with people who have genuine concerns. Attention seeking with such thread gives people less time and desire to help others who may be in genuine need.

if the guy have had sex with u b4... it means he had charm u.. or u like him cos of the sexual experiences... u will meet better guyy

Na money cause am. U nor nid tell me

Haha! See nairaland rant from another side chick.

mitchwww! ...fall my hand.:-/ NEXT!

nonsense!!! you forgot to tell us the guy's money is long, like tissue paper.

cheerycoco:
I have been dating this guy for years now and i have put up with his serial cheating. He cheats on me and i have come to feel that a man cheating on you is normal. I have talked about it with him, cried about it, the truth is that i have gotten used to him and i can't stay without him and he knows it. Seriously i'm fade up because his side chicks insult me any time i try to confront them on phone and its so painful. i have phobia of being alone. Pls i need ur advice. I love him

How are you sure that you are the side chick?

Yeye dey smell

LoJ:
@ OP

Are u serious? What about this other thread you started today?

https://www.nairaland.com/2864866/nairaland-dating-delima

Please Nairaland should not be used as a mean to distract people. There other thread with people who have genuine concerns. Attention seeking with such thread gives people less time and desire to help others who may be in genuine need.

Don't mind her, she learning to write Nigerian faction of Mills & Boons series. Mtchewwww. yeye dey smell

cheerycoco:
Its not about a pastor,or babalawo,he is not using any charm on me,i am just stocked

U are just stocked? Like Seriously? Sister u need Jesus!





Dis statement make me feel really sorry 4 u. Common snap outta it and stop wallowing in self pitty. U deserve better.

Its not love, you have a low esteem as in you are very cheap. you have been manipulated to believe you cant get anything better than him. You need to repackage yourself. even if he marries you, your life may be painful with him. Love is reciprocal. Love commands affection, respect and attention. Love is commitment.

cheerycoco:
I have been dating this guy for years now and i have put up with his serial cheating. He cheats on me and i have come to feel that a man cheating on you is normal. I have talked about it with him, cried about it, the truth is that i have gotten used to him and i can't stay without him and he knows it. Seriously i'm fade up because his side chicks insult me any time i try to confront them on phone and its so painful. i have phobia of being alone. Pls i need ur advice. I love him

BluStreak:
You dey Akwa Ibom come go dey do denge-pose for Jades Hotels Abuja? How him go take you serious mbok? Na hotel now be ya house?

Most girls are ignorant of what they give off when they do some of these their yanga and denge-pose snap shots in places that everyone can figure is a hotel room or environ.

Sorry to disapoint u i'm not one of those gals,i work and i went 4 a conference in Abuja and he was aware,i ave my integrity intact.

Is he your life-support that you can't live without him? You need deliverance o o o...

cheerycoco:
I have been dating this guy for years now and i have put up with his serial cheating. He cheats on me and i have come to feel that a man cheating on you is normal. I have talked about it with him, cried about it, the truth is that i have gotten used to him and i can't stay without him and he knows it. Seriously i'm fade up because his side chicks insult me any time i try to confront them on phone and its so painful. i have phobia of being alone. Pls i need ur advice. I love him

my dear,don't be decieved.they will tell u dat its natural for men to cheat.see, a man dat truly loves u will neva cheat on u,even if he does,he will com bk ryt to his senses.be careful! He doesn't love u dats d simple fact.der re oda genuine guys out there searching for ur love,so my dear,jux get outta dat relshp.its not worth keeping.

Decker:


Lol. Dude you really cracked me up, for real. Very funny.

lol. No close eyes dey laff o.

just as usual anyday

Take him to court