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| Is It Ideal To Get Pregnant Before Marriage? by gen2genius(m): 9:44am On Jul 03, 2009 |
Why do some men INSIST on it?  Would you agree, as a lady?  |
| Re: Is It Ideal To Get Pregnant Before Marriage? by Nobody: 1:08pm On Jul 03, 2009 |
Because they are assholes. It's not even ideal to have sex before marriage!! |
| Re: Is It Ideal To Get Pregnant Before Marriage? by izeek(m): 1:14pm On Jul 03, 2009 |
Ujujoan: and the oneswho allow themselves get pregnant are what holes? |
| Re: Is It Ideal To Get Pregnant Before Marriage? by luxoire(f): 1:16pm On Jul 03, 2009 |
gen2genius: because they may want to TEST she is fertile, esp is they intend on marrying d pikin na still him own, along with all the other brothers and sisters. is it ideal? NO. doesnt mean it is not done - as long as the couple agree on it, and the reasons then whatever works forthem i guess |
| Re: Is It Ideal To Get Pregnant Before Marriage? by izeek(m): 1:20pm On Jul 03, 2009 |
@lux, my point exactly, i dont know if its ideal, but am sure its no big deal if both consent to it. |
| Re: Is It Ideal To Get Pregnant Before Marriage? by IFELEKE(m): 1:42pm On Jul 03, 2009 |
izeek:Exactly. @Topic, I see nothing wrong in it. |
| Re: Is It Ideal To Get Pregnant Before Marriage? by kolaoloye(m): 1:55pm On Jul 03, 2009 |
@topic [size=15pt]It is not IDEAL[/size] It is either lack of faith or trust that make some people insisting. To me either reason is inconsequential. |
| Re: Is It Ideal To Get Pregnant Before Marriage? by smooooooth: 4:12pm On Jul 03, 2009 |
it is not ideal, but its the koko. as a proper african man, i belive a wedding shld involve three pipu at the altar two visible & one invisible witness.  |
| Re: Is It Ideal To Get Pregnant Before Marriage? by Lita(f): 4:21pm On Jul 03, 2009 |
of course not. how can you want to be responsible for another human being when you are not ready to share yourselves with even a spouse yet. |
| Re: Is It Ideal To Get Pregnant Before Marriage? by gen2genius(m): 4:31pm On Jul 03, 2009 |
because they may want to TEST she is fertile Which means he's marrying her because he needed a baby-making "machine"? And if she can't get pregnant immediately, then she becomes worthless and all the promises of love and commitment vanish just like that? |
| Re: Is It Ideal To Get Pregnant Before Marriage? by tomiade1(m): 4:57pm On Jul 03, 2009 |
no big deal! . . .as long as both parties agree to it, |
| Re: Is It Ideal To Get Pregnant Before Marriage? by nethacker(m): 5:02pm On Jul 03, 2009 |
gen2genius:  see me see trouble ooooo. won't u test for soil fertility b4 planting seed . wat will u do if u discover that she can't actually give u babies? . No big deal at all. What if d guy happens to be an HIV patient n u discover this after honeymoon  Me ooo . I go sample well well cos she be my own ifeleke n izeek : hv i spoken well ? |
| Re: Is It Ideal To Get Pregnant Before Marriage? by Enquirer: 7:00pm On Jul 03, 2009 |
don't think it's ideal but if both parties are responsible, it's ok. i actually saw that happen to my cuz and his girl. now they are married with lovely baby girl. |
| Re: Is It Ideal To Get Pregnant Before Marriage? by Nobody: 10:57pm On Jul 03, 2009 |
I was told that this country's moral gradually fading i doubted it but now i believe.Pregnancy before marriage is a sin.Anyway what the heck societal hype.nigeria or Sodom |
| Re: Is It Ideal To Get Pregnant Before Marriage? by roblance: 11:09pm On Jul 03, 2009 |
According to section 24 of the nigerian constitutional rule its is accepted to be pregnant b4 marriage |
| Re: Is It Ideal To Get Pregnant Before Marriage? by Nobody: 11:15pm On Jul 03, 2009 |
Is It Ideal To Get Pregnant Before Marriage? --- No gen2genius: 1. Who knows  2. Nope. |
| Re: Is It Ideal To Get Pregnant Before Marriage? by roblance: 11:20pm On Jul 03, 2009 |
ezinne1212: holy holy holy , |
| Re: Is It Ideal To Get Pregnant Before Marriage? by Nobody: 11:23pm On Jul 03, 2009 |
So now once law allows a certain act that's against God's law it's supercedes God's command.Good night |
| Re: Is It Ideal To Get Pregnant Before Marriage? by roblance: 11:28pm On Jul 03, 2009 |
go sleep jare waitng gurumaraji dey find for here |
| Re: Is It Ideal To Get Pregnant Before Marriage? by Nobody: 11:36pm On Jul 03, 2009 |
| Funny |
| Re: Is It Ideal To Get Pregnant Before Marriage? by roblance: 11:40pm On Jul 03, 2009 |
yu also go dae funny with question mark untop yur head i no like am oo |
| Re: Is It Ideal To Get Pregnant Before Marriage? by Nobody: 11:44pm On Jul 03, 2009 |
Using phone wuz aiming for the laughing icon.Still doesnt show on my phone. |
| Re: Is It Ideal To Get Pregnant Before Marriage? by Akinagirl(f): 11:49pm On Jul 03, 2009 |
Pc Guru, so you say pregnancy before marriage is a sin? Well what about sex before marriage, is that also a sin? Come on now. |
| Re: Is It Ideal To Get Pregnant Before Marriage? by Nobody: 11:57pm On Jul 03, 2009 |
I'm sorry pregnancy b4 marriage is not a sin and fornication is also not a sin.God probably understands that things ave changed now.Sorry for my stupid comments earlier on |
| Re: Is It Ideal To Get Pregnant Before Marriage? by Akinagirl(f): 7:01am On Jul 04, 2009 |
Well I can see that was meant to be sarcastic. But I just hear people say that all the time, that pregnancy before marriage is a sin, yet they don't think there is anything wrong with sex before marriage. In my opinion, its to each his own. Whatever works for you. |
| Re: Is It Ideal To Get Pregnant Before Marriage? by Nobody: 8:04am On Jul 04, 2009 |
Any way na way! All the way Get pregnant before marriage gan gan ni Odu!! By the time una dey finish una wedding, maybe 5 - 6 months later, Pikin don gboriwa! Aimoye ppl wey don get pregnant b4 marriage gan! Everybody with him own! You get pregnant before or after. Same ni! No Time! |
| Re: Is It Ideal To Get Pregnant Before Marriage? by ThoniaSlim(f): 10:47am On Jul 04, 2009 |
I don't think its ideal. . .and I won't agree to such arrangement. . .anything can happen before the marriage! |
| Re: Is It Ideal To Get Pregnant Before Marriage? by Kelvinj(m): 11:31am On Jul 04, 2009 |
Pregnancy b4 marriage(good/bad)? 4 me it depends, ok letz see it lyk dis ur bf dat has proposed 2 u getz u pregnant? Tel me ur goin 2 terminate d preg. bcoz u sworn nt 2 carry preg. 2 d altar. So itz as simple as dis 'belle na marriage'. There4 in most cases no belle no marriage. |
| Re: Is It Ideal To Get Pregnant Before Marriage? by gen2genius(m): 11:42am On Jul 04, 2009 |
Actually, the issue goes beyond the morality/immorality of the practice. The question is, is it normal for a man to insist that his fiance gets pregnant before they can be married? |
| Re: Is It Ideal To Get Pregnant Before Marriage? by chukz4real(m): 11:53am On Jul 04, 2009 |
I suppose the question should be rephrased and go this way: Ladies; is it ideal to be having sex with your husband to be before marriage? |
| Re: Is It Ideal To Get Pregnant Before Marriage? by Ben13: 11:55am On Jul 04, 2009 |
I use to think these pregnancy before marriage is as a result of lust or a mistake as they would call it. But this present time, It's obvious dat a sane couple-to-be will agree to parent one or two shilren before going into marriage. reasons, I don't understand. |
| Re: Is It Ideal To Get Pregnant Before Marriage? by puskin: 11:58am On Jul 04, 2009 |
Itz definitely nt ideal but dats definitely wat happens. But hey, who gives a Bleep, anywayz, stìll okay. |
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