Judith, (26) works at the Treasury Department of A Finance House. A few months ago, she could not visit her boyfriend Henry, a Banker, for a whole week because another girl was visiting. Her story:

I did not feel comfortable somehow, I felt quiet uneasy, so instead of waiting for him like I would have done,  I locked up, put the key back under the door mat and went home. Funny enough, I didn’t leave any of the things (food) I had packed from my Aunty’s party. I mean, it was just unlike me.

Early the next morning, Henry came over to my pace looking quiet uneasy. He was on his annual leave, so, I wasn’t surprised to see him. But when he sat me down and said he had something important to tell me, I knew something was wrong.

He began telling me how wonderful our relationship had been since we started seven months ago. He said he had been happy because its been having positive effects on him.

My heart started to beat faster than normal. I thought he was going to propose to me. I wouldn’t have been surprised since we virtually live in each other homes. Then he told me “she has come”.

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From your story I understand your partner wants you, but he is going through a cold war and needs some time to get things fixed. He is mature enough to handle it and that is just what he is trying do by not getting you involved. What you need to is to stick by him and love him like you have always done, and not trying to find faults because, else you will end up confusing him and he will have no choice than to start considering majority opinions.

So, I advise you keep your love intact to give him all the necessary support he needs.

I wish you all the best.