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Re: She's Stingy, Should I Dump Her? by Kaycee625(m): 7:02pm On Feb 18, 2016
She is not a wife material atall

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Re: She's Stingy, Should I Dump Her? by forkadict(m): 7:02pm On Feb 18, 2016
Cholls:
my brother that's how some naija women are.........don't blame them blame those useless guys wey spoil dem.

I swear!

U spend 30k on top chic wey no be ur wife

Dem suppose flog dis op I swear.

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Re: She's Stingy, Should I Dump Her? by maryhaam(f): 7:03pm On Feb 18, 2016
stonecoldcafe:


Pls search yourself. Perhaps she has borrowed you money like that before but you never repay her back. She may have decided not to give you again cos u have proven to be unreliable and she does not want to quarrel with you no more.

If that is not the case then I'll be weary of such girl. She prove she does not have your back, cannot support you or cover your shame (where such times call for it) I would dump such a woman perhaps not now but on the long run. She simply cannot be relied on and I can't deal!
even if he has we are talking about 1k,for the completion of what he bought for me,not himself.

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Re: She's Stingy, Should I Dump Her? by Panzerfaust(m): 7:04pm On Feb 18, 2016
HonPatrick:
Like what the Bleep is wrong with some ladies? angry


Okay, she's my official girlfriend and her birthday was yesterday, so I took her to a Boutique to get her some things she requested.
I told her I have just 30k to spend, cos I know she can buy things worth 80k if you're not careful. undecided
At the end of the whole *Bae, am I beautiful?*parade the sales attendant calculated the total sum to be #29,500.

When I checked my pocket, I found out that I had only 29k on me. I forgot we bought fuel on our way.
So, I told my girlfriend to borrow me 1k...and I promised to return later in the day, but she said "Babe, I swear to god, I don't have any money on me at the moment"
So, to safe the embarrassment, I went to the ATM to get more money. We paid and left.

To cut the story short. When we got home, she went to ease herself in the rest room, while I was in the living room.
Then her phone began to ring so, I opened her bag to get the phone, but I was shocked by what I saw.
I saw 1thousand naira notes inside her bag. Na so I vex comot all the money put am for my pocket. Later, she come dey ask if I took any money from her bag and I replied "I thought you don't have any money on you"

I returned the money though, but I've been angry since yesterday.


If you were in my shoes, will you continue with this kind of relationship or not?


You are the MAN..it is your DUTY to pamper your babe. Even though high-maintenance babes can be a problem, dumping a babe because of that is just taking things too far.

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Re: She's Stingy, Should I Dump Her? by obiaguna(m): 7:06pm On Feb 18, 2016
I'm not one to talk about relationship ish on nairaland but I can totally relate to this. I took my ex out and she did something similar and boy did I feel so upset and annoyed. I felt betrayed sef. I couldn't trust her again cos Bae isn't Bae if Bae can't hold you in time of need. If I were you I would break up with her and move on. Life is too short to be dating a selfish woman.

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Re: She's Stingy, Should I Dump Her? by Rone16(f): 7:07pm On Feb 18, 2016
Chai she's stingy oh.Thats the height.Talk to her about it first
Re: She's Stingy, Should I Dump Her? by Sunkyphil(m): 7:08pm On Feb 18, 2016
wat are u waiting for give her quit notice she is not a wife material

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Re: She's Stingy, Should I Dump Her? by hesiod: 7:09pm On Feb 18, 2016
She must have killed the mood of sex after going to ease herself so youguys can begin animality before her phone rang...

30k spent,no sex or not so good sexand the discovery of the lies....... your anger is justified. what more lies are you currently holding on to till you discover? have some beer and temporarily forget your worries.

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Re: She's Stingy, Should I Dump Her? by mizlovette(f): 7:09pm On Feb 18, 2016
Bro am a girl to be sincere run for your dear life oh. Some1 who truly loves u. Can never do this

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Re: She's Stingy, Should I Dump Her? by eleko1: 7:10pm On Feb 18, 2016
u dnt have future with such Aradite girl.Leave her b4 God leave u.May u not be unfortunate
Re: She's Stingy, Should I Dump Her? by UncleJudax(m): 7:13pm On Feb 18, 2016
If I hear. So, you had no spare cash on you but was gonna spend 30k on a bittch abi girlfriend...duh!

Heck you had to dip into the cash to buy fuel...and she made sure to spend even more than what was left #29500... walahi two of una match joor...

Put a ring on it asap grin

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Re: She's Stingy, Should I Dump Her? by badonkadonk: 7:13pm On Feb 18, 2016
HonPatrick:
Like what the Bleep is wrong with some ladies? angry


Okay, she's my official girlfriend and her birthday was yesterday, so I took her to a Boutique to get her some things she requested.
I told her I have just 30k to spend, cos I know she can buy things worth 80k if you're not careful. undecided
At the end of the whole *Bae, am I beautiful?*parade the sales attendant calculated the total sum to be #29,500.

When I checked my pocket, I found out that I had only 29k on me. I forgot we bought fuel on our way.
So, I told my girlfriend to borrow me 1k...and I promised to return later in the day, but she said "Babe, I swear to god, I don't have any money on me at the moment"
So, to safe the embarrassment, I went to the ATM to get more money. We paid and left.

To cut the story short. When we got home, she went to ease herself in the rest room, while I was in the living room.
Then her phone began to ring so, I opened her bag to get the phone, but I was shocked by what I saw.
I saw 1thousand naira notes inside her bag. Na so I vex comot all the money put am for my pocket. Later, she come dey ask if I took any money from her bag and I replied "I thought you don't have any money on you"

I returned the money though, but I've been angry since yesterday.


If you were in my shoes, will you continue with this kind of relationship or not?



Guy! Why u return the money!? angry.... U should have kept it as compensation for the insult she gave ur manhood in the form of a lie...

Man to man I go advise u free that babe quick quick... Buh do it after u have satisfactorily shined her kongo to the high heavens and bak...

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Re: She's Stingy, Should I Dump Her? by stonecoldcafe: 7:14pm On Feb 18, 2016
maryhaam:
even if he has we are talking about 1k,for the completion of what he bought for me,not himself.

I understand; that remains my opinion though. A man/woman can drive someone to a point of frustration where they continue to date you but decide not to lend you a dime again.

On the other hand I agree with your point, a good and reasonable woman would even remove an item where her boo no longer has enough as opposed to making him find ATM in a frenzy.

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Re: She's Stingy, Should I Dump Her? by Montaque(m): 7:15pm On Feb 18, 2016
I don't know the kind of friends people keep.
also after hanging ur shoulder in pride, what do u expect.
no love n reason.
Re: She's Stingy, Should I Dump Her? by olamisowon1(f): 7:15pm On Feb 18, 2016
Don't be with a woman that's all about receiving and not giving. She's greedy

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Re: She's Stingy, Should I Dump Her? by trappatoni(m): 7:18pm On Feb 18, 2016
[quote author=Melahou post=43029186]guy I give u hand...

it is now obvious that when you will be in need
she wont come to your rescue.

the warning lights are showing for you to act.[/quote no mind am he'still asking NECO question. Soon he'll come to nairaland to ask if he has married the wrong lady. ]
Re: She's Stingy, Should I Dump Her? by maryhaam(f): 7:19pm On Feb 18, 2016
stonecoldcafe:


I understand; that remains my opinion though. A man/woman can drive someone to a point of frustration where they continue to date you but decide not to lend you a dime again.

On the other hand I agree with your point, a good and reasonable woman would even remove an item where her boo no longer has enough as opposed to making him find ATM in a frenzy.
irrespective of our differences or past issues pertaining to that,will save his face first
Re: She's Stingy, Should I Dump Her? by ndcide(m): 7:20pm On Feb 18, 2016
@op, I know you have the money. But it's your like that are spoiling girls of this days. 30k in a boutique. Sorry, if you've not paid her bride price don't do that again. If you are to spend that much. Do it on something like her business idea, or support for a certification. Not boutique.

If you must spend that much on a lady, let it be on her intellectual capacity to create wealth.
Re: She's Stingy, Should I Dump Her? by shulamitewoman(f): 7:21pm On Feb 18, 2016
Nawaoo sum babes can be stingy ooo
Re: She's Stingy, Should I Dump Her? by deebrain(m): 7:23pm On Feb 18, 2016
You are a big man.
Re: She's Stingy, Should I Dump Her? by Godiloveu(f): 7:25pm On Feb 18, 2016
Why are ppl so dramatic! It was the guy's treat, so wat, if he goes to da ATM for more cash. It is part of his gift to her.
So now he pain am to go ATM for more cash, wat of d moni he dey spend, he steal am neh?!. No b hard earn cash, one more stress go kill am.

Cee! If u no wan give gift no give, shekina! Abi she force u b4?
Re: She's Stingy, Should I Dump Her? by cyril700(m): 7:27pm On Feb 18, 2016
If I do that to u will u be happy?
ammyluv2002:
Her hand na superglue grin cheesy


Don't dump her but make sure that will be her last shopping all through the relationship grin grin cheesy
Re: She's Stingy, Should I Dump Her? by mikedimeji(m): 7:28pm On Feb 18, 2016
sickstars:
A relationship filled with lies can never last !

Just stay away from her cos d lies continues till eternity

And a lie will always b used to cover anoda lie dat has been told before the real lies!

It never ends to avoid heartbreaks of she is cheating on me with my bestfriend nd she lied
RUN FOR YA LIFE


She will never see you worthy of the truth!
NO B ONLY HER WAKA COME THIS LIFE AS WOMAN!

Well said, I'm using this image to back up ur comment

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Re: She's Stingy, Should I Dump Her? by trappatoni(m): 7:28pm On Feb 18, 2016
[quote author=trappatoni post=43043430][/quote]soon you'll come to naira land to ask if you have married the wrong lady.
Re: She's Stingy, Should I Dump Her? by Samakus(m): 7:29pm On Feb 18, 2016
You spent 29k on a lady just for shopping?


Guys like you make things so difficult for others.

Broke guy? Yes, I am but there's hope.. and soon when this hope materializes, I won't tow your line. It's a relationship, not a job opportunity!
Re: She's Stingy, Should I Dump Her? by davide470(m): 7:30pm On Feb 18, 2016
Godiloveu:
Why are ppl so dramatic! It was the guy's treat, so wat, if he goes to da ATM for more cash. It is part of his gift to her.

Cee! If u no wan give gift no give, shekina! Abi she force u b4?
Abeg which God do you love? Jeez lipsrsealed

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Re: She's Stingy, Should I Dump Her? by mikedimeji(m): 7:30pm On Feb 18, 2016
Godiloveu:
Why are ppl so dramatic! It was the guy's treat, so wat, if he goes to da ATM for more cash. It is part of his gift to her.
So now he pain am to go ATM for more cash, wat of d moni he dey spend, he steal am neh?!. No b hard earn cash, one more stress go kill am.

Cee! If u no wan give gift no give, shekina! Abi she force u b4?
Shey orĂ² niyen
Pls receive sense to comprehend and think outside the box

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Re: She's Stingy, Should I Dump Her? by NemzySeries(m): 7:31pm On Feb 18, 2016
my fwend pls dump her d way u dump a used Condom since bringing out 1k 4 her personal benefit is so big a challenge.......y do sum ladies make lil tink difficult dan dey suppose?........#QueenOfSelfGreed
Re: She's Stingy, Should I Dump Her? by bigiyaro(m): 7:32pm On Feb 18, 2016
midehi2:
she is a stingy girl, if it was me i will happily bring the balance out cos i know he will give me back double....but despite that, you were wrong going into her bag, na ur handbag? undecided



dont dump yet, watch out for more lies, then you have concrete stand to dump her to where she belongs
wats with d hand bag? U fvck n suck each other's private parts to smithereens n wen it comes to some bull shiite like phones n hand bags, dem arsse will be claiming privacy. Lubbish.

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Re: She's Stingy, Should I Dump Her? by lordpriso(m): 7:33pm On Feb 18, 2016
Dat type of girl cn help u out during times of need.she z d one to enjoy d stuff but she even selfish wit herself
Re: She's Stingy, Should I Dump Her? by dacovajnr: 7:33pm On Feb 18, 2016
Official Girlfriend...I'd rather have official Dog than have official girlfriend undecided..To you she's official but to her you're just another Mugu..baami save your Raba for Cements n Blocks for future purposes that's If you wan built house oooo! Coz these hoes ain't Loyal undecided
Re: She's Stingy, Should I Dump Her? by dacovajnr: 7:34pm On Feb 18, 2016
Official Girlfriend...I'd rather have official Dog than have official girlfriend undecided..To you she's official but to her you're just another Mugu..baami save your Raba for Cements n Blocks for future purposes that's If you wan built house oooo! Coz this hoes ain't Loyal undecided

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