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Re: She's Stingy, Should I Dump Her? by justiz5(m): 10:13pm On Feb 18, 2016 |
sakabe:
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Re: She's Stingy, Should I Dump Her? by Tenderspot(f): 10:14pm On Feb 18, 2016 |
Atleast u know dat she is not really in love with u |
Re: She's Stingy, Should I Dump Her? by andyanders: 10:16pm On Feb 18, 2016 |
Teensway: A complete mugu op is. Asking if to continue with such a waste is an unexpected question from someone who call himself a man. If at a point op asked for just N500 naira to make up for payment for something meant for her and she denied having anything with her which prompted my going to get money from my ATM in order to make the payment, the relationship would be over. By checking her bag and discovering that she had such amount and refused to assist, I will collect the items that I bought for her and have them burnt.The next action would be to walk her out. 2 Likes |
Re: She's Stingy, Should I Dump Her? by Raskasal(m): 10:16pm On Feb 18, 2016 |
Melahou: I concur with you bro |
Re: She's Stingy, Should I Dump Her? by laprince(m): 10:17pm On Feb 18, 2016 |
midehi2: Wack defense line. why are ladies very comfortable defending other ladies, even when they are wrong? |
Re: She's Stingy, Should I Dump Her? by dapsonlou(m): 10:17pm On Feb 18, 2016 |
I won't say break up with her, but if you marry that girl, you set yourself up failure. |
Re: She's Stingy, Should I Dump Her? by edoziebobbyyahoocom(m): 10:23pm On Feb 18, 2016 |
sakabe:let me add a little spice to your "dumping technique". Take her out for dinner to her favorite restaurant, on getting home make sure the bedroom is prepared with roses and candles.....in her mind '' OMGosh he's going to propose''. After u guyz are done u kiss her on the forehead as u rightly said den break the news. WARNING: Na fiction oh, no try am. B4 person go paste OBITUARY for nairaland..... |
Re: She's Stingy, Should I Dump Her? by Ghost447(m): 10:26pm On Feb 18, 2016 |
HonPatrick:Yes, if I were in your position I will dump her. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: She's Stingy, Should I Dump Her? by Trendytessy(f): 10:27pm On Feb 18, 2016 |
Dump her jor..., she's stingy and wicked |
Re: She's Stingy, Should I Dump Her? by Googleus(m): 10:29pm On Feb 18, 2016 |
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Re: She's Stingy, Should I Dump Her? by kvngveektour(m): 10:31pm On Feb 18, 2016 |
30k are salaries of some people who work their asses off for a whole month and you spent it on her Jes cos of pnunami... #WomenAreTooPowerful |
Re: She's Stingy, Should I Dump Her? by sakabe(m): 10:37pm On Feb 18, 2016 |
edoziebobbyyahoocom: you are not nice at all ... |
Re: She's Stingy, Should I Dump Her? by akyus(m): 10:39pm On Feb 18, 2016 |
Decisions of this magnitude should not be taken based one sad incident. Her action that day was wrong, but that doesn't mean the relationship is wrong. Find time to specially express your disappointment and ask her why she lied to you. |
Re: She's Stingy, Should I Dump Her? by goshen26: 10:41pm On Feb 18, 2016 |
Hmmmmm |
Re: She's Stingy, Should I Dump Her? by fhranchez(m): 10:43pm On Feb 18, 2016 |
But guy seriously! Why last u spend 30k on yaself |
Re: She's Stingy, Should I Dump Her? by sweetilicious(f): 10:48pm On Feb 18, 2016 |
Do not dump her op. What you should try to find out first is if she is like that always. It could be that the money isn't hers. She knows its absurd for her to ask for the 1k after you spent those amount on her. Even though she tells you it belongs to someone, you wouldn't believe her. But my sincere advice to you op is to check her out well. Does she spend on you. I had a boyfriend, he does everything for me, gives me money but not always,but anytime he is to spend his time with me, i make sure the kind of food he will eat, he will spend 20k for a plate outside. He will keep asking me where i get money to cook assorted yummy delicious food. I use to buy everything that will make him comfortable with his money. Not only food o, i do buy anything i felt he might like. If the relationship is lopsided, then discontinue my dear. I think she is becoming selfish. Just check her out and find out. It won't be long cos some ladies have this notion that cos they are girls, they should always be spent on. Balderdash! 1 Like |
Re: She's Stingy, Should I Dump Her? by domopps(m): 10:49pm On Feb 18, 2016 |
Hmmmmm most of Nders can't make a good judge we just heard one sided story and we are all here judging and passing comments ...... What if the Bae has another contrary opinion and never can tell because we have not heard from her yet! Tho am ain't saying OP is lying but we just need 2 no that there are many approach to issues. Some are saying dump her sorry ass while some are still saying all ladies are d same so if he shld follow majority of these advice which is definitely dumping the babe who will he now date ..... another unfaithful or a super ingrate? A little dialogue with her could go a long way if she did this to u and u opened a thread on nairaland weda to drop her or not what if she does something more painful than this! I bet you would not even think abt it twice b4 making your decision and meanwhile most of the decisions made in angers are always having negative impact! Bro I tell you for her to deserve gift worth of N30k on her birthday she's definitely means so much to you and there's more to this if u check it from another angle ...... I still blv there's sense in nonsense Not supporting her act of wickedness according to your story line but am saying she deserves another chance to right her wrongs....... I have seen worst than this yet I have a nicer story than my mate that ran away from their responsibilities. She has special potential kindly explore it! Plus everyone deserves a 2nd chance! Wish you well now and always bro. Cheeeeeeeeeers 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: She's Stingy, Should I Dump Her? by famzynet: 10:56pm On Feb 18, 2016 |
You spent 29k on her,she treated you like that and you are asking whether to dump her. Do so sharp sharp or you are her mugu one. But tidy her wella before you do so. Just frustrate her,stop spending on her,collect s*x as you want,na she go run. |
Re: She's Stingy, Should I Dump Her? by multicolored(f): 10:58pm On Feb 18, 2016 |
You still dey wait for advice |
Re: She's Stingy, Should I Dump Her? by Nobody: 11:00pm On Feb 18, 2016 |
I am a lady but I say a capital NO. Drop her and find someone else. This one will not add to your life. Sorry o,but pls audit ur life since met her. No need for long sermon. |
Re: She's Stingy, Should I Dump Her? by schweinsteiger: 11:01pm On Feb 18, 2016 |
pattybf:Then, you're a gold digger |
Re: She's Stingy, Should I Dump Her? by Nobody: 11:14pm On Feb 18, 2016 |
On second thoughts, OP don't dump her yet. Wait for Buhari to come back from his latest travel,am very certain we can arrange a meeting with him to proffer solutions to this matter! Meanwhile did you know the naira has dropped to #325 against the dollar? Onye apari! |
Re: She's Stingy, Should I Dump Her? by tony4u035(m): 11:16pm On Feb 18, 2016 |
Op, abeg leave dat bae for LAWMA because as far as am concern she's TRASH... Hw can sum1 spend 29k on u & yet u cldn't help him to finally help u? Or it cld be as a result of u wooing her on social media even after receiving multiple snubs! #MyOpinionTho HonPatrick: |
Re: She's Stingy, Should I Dump Her? by Nobody: 11:53pm On Feb 18, 2016 |
KINGinVAHALA:hi |
Re: She's Stingy, Should I Dump Her? by KINGinVAHALA: 11:56pm On Feb 18, 2016 |
cekhoe:Hmmm. how re you sweet? |
Re: She's Stingy, Should I Dump Her? by taryur(m): 2:31am On Feb 19, 2016 |
Re: She's Stingy, Should I Dump Her? by taryur(m): 2:34am On Feb 19, 2016 |
Sempumping: so true! |
Re: She's Stingy, Should I Dump Her? by theMEGAman(m): 2:52am On Feb 19, 2016 |
HonPatrick:One thing u will understand is that no girl can easily give out her own money any hw cos women are greedy if u come to currency unless if the girl is above 30 she can do anything u want to pet u for u to marry her. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: She's Stingy, Should I Dump Her? by nidera(f): 3:40am On Feb 19, 2016 |
the good guys keeps getting the wrong girls..Pele ur girlfriend is a greedy selfish and ungrateful fellow,,,,a guy spent such an amount for u and she couldn't help with just a thousand naira for something dat was bought for her o,,,SMH she don block her way be that na,after na them go full churches de find who hold them spiritually. follow ur mind bros,cus if u listen to our advice here,u may not use it..."Love is blind" might be the order of d day. u were pained by her attitude for me,I will make it open to her and ask for a bteak |
Re: She's Stingy, Should I Dump Her? by saxoholic1(m): 3:56am On Feb 19, 2016 |
my friend ur girlfriend has trust issues......pls QUIT that relationship before u get married to a living hell.....no say I no warn u oh... |
Re: She's Stingy, Should I Dump Her? by nathpope(m): 4:01am On Feb 19, 2016 |
midehi2: A lady can easily go thru d guy's pockets but not d otha way round...shey? And still u claim (gender equality) rights al d tym.. Diarisgod....u hia? |
Re: She's Stingy, Should I Dump Her? by Mavor: 4:07am On Feb 19, 2016 |
HonPatrick:that this mumu OP had to open a thread to get the obvious answer is the bigger tradegy. |
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