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The 3 Main Things Men Want In A Relationship by goldentrench(m): 12:34pm On Feb 28, 2016
When it comes to MEN
these are the MAIN things they look for when it
comes to starting a relationship.

1. SEX
I’m sure this doesn’t come as a big shock but it may
be shocking to realize that it’s the MOST important
thing a guy wants from a woman. No, this is not my
PERSONAL opinion either; it really is the driving
factor for all men. Quite frankly we can call this the
reason why MOST men get up in the morning, in
hopes that they’ll wake up the next day with
someone in their bed.
You might argue that food is more important to some
men but if that were the case, and men had to
choose between food and sex, starvation would
probably be the number 1 reason why the male
population is quickly dropping.
The basic gist of it is that, without constant sex most
men are unable to function. If constant sex is missing
from their lives, then they will do anything to make it
happen. Don’t think of sex as kinky desire many men
have, it all boils down to a WOMAN that is willing to
get naked with a man on a regular basis. If you’re
that woman and you’re sleeping with us regularly,
then the man you’re sleeping with will CONSIDER
(not immediately want) you for a relationship....

2. Comfort
Comfort is another incredibly important thing to us
men, and I can confidently say that comfort is the
main reason why most men STAY in relationships.
Many men want and stay with women that provide
them with a safe haven, a comfortable place, a warm
atmosphere in which we can escape the noise and
stress from the outside world. This is not a physical
environment, but more an emotional one. The fact
that a guy can come home from work, sit down on his
couch with his lovely woman next to him is
something that all men dream about. We want you to
be part of the relaxed atmosphere that takes our
minds away from everything else in his life.
We love and appreciate your supportive attitude and
soothing words. We relish in your warmth and
understanding. To put this more simply, your very
presence makes us feel better.
On the flip side, if you nag, criticize, treat us with
antipathy (like the “outside” world) we’re LESS likely
to stay in a relationship and would rather do
anything to get out.

3. Companionship
Finally, companionship, this is probably the reason
why men eventually decide to marry a woman. As
the word companionship very eloquently describes
this need, we are looking for a person that is fun to
be around, a person that shares our own interests, a
person that we can talk to about our dreams, goals, a
person that gets our sense of humor, a person that
will stick by us no matter what.
Once we find such a person, it’s only natural that we
will try to do absolutely everything in our power to
spend the most amount of time together..

* Although sometimes we may have other “requests”, the bottom line is that they all boil down to these.

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Re: The 3 Main Things Men Want In A Relationship by RoyalBlak007: 12:52pm On Feb 28, 2016
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Re: The 3 Main Things Men Want In A Relationship by goldentrench(m): 1:07pm On Feb 28, 2016
RoyalBlak007:

...sex...blows....more sexx

lender of last resort....handjobs....more blows

Hmmm

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