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Re: Romantic Discussion by C2H5OH(f): 8:40am On Jul 25, 2009 |
I used to think that too, until I really met trust. Once you lose trust a healthy relationship is basically impossible. If you lose that trust, the love will have a hard time flowing fluidly. IMHO |
Re: Romantic Discussion by NegroNtns(m): 8:43am On Jul 25, 2009 |
True C2 |
Re: Romantic Discussion by Nobody: 8:44am On Jul 25, 2009 |
Negro_Ntns: C2H5OH:Love is definitely the most important thing in a relationship to me. As a matter of fact, when it all comes down to it, love is the only thing that matters ultimately. I believe that it's the only thing that truly exists in all of reality and beyond. |
Re: Romantic Discussion by C2H5OH(f): 8:46am On Jul 25, 2009 |
Abi o @ Negro, Tough to say which is more important that the other. I'm of the opinion that they are all linked together and must work in sync. Be it Love, trust, communication, compatibility, respect, etc. rokiatu, we can agree to disagree. |
Re: Romantic Discussion by NegroNtns(m): 8:49am On Jul 25, 2009 |
love is the only thing that matters ultimately. What is reality ? |
Re: Romantic Discussion by Nobody: 8:58am On Jul 25, 2009 |
Negro_Ntns:lol what sort of question is that? anyway let me answer it in my own humble way. Reality is a function of perception. Each person's perception creates their paradigm, which is their mental model of what the world is and isn't. |
Re: Romantic Discussion by NegroNtns(m): 9:14am On Jul 25, 2009 |
thank you, i like how you define concepts. The only reason you and I are talking here now is because I sense a value in you that I cherish. You are responding to me because you probably feel same way, otherwise you would not waste time. There is a negotiation between the minds. It is not sexual, it is not romantic, t is not loving, . .just mental. In real life it would have a different currency. For men that is currency is basd on sexuality. What is it for women? |
Re: Romantic Discussion by Nobody: 10:00am On Jul 25, 2009 |
Negro_Ntns:I can't talk for all women, I can only talk for myself |
Re: Romantic Discussion by NegroNtns(m): 10:18am On Jul 25, 2009 |
lol. , you are too smart Im taking the bait and I want to know. Im sure you are very loving and romantic. Once in a while I see your comments in sexuality. Very reserved. Behind the veil I suspect there is turbo power. But anyway. . tell me what love does. Teach me that aspect where you mentioned "reality" and "beyond" together. That means a lot because you are alluding to the spiritual dimension of loving. Am i right? |
Re: Romantic Discussion by Nobody: 10:51am On Jul 25, 2009 |
Negro_Ntns:lol you knows more than me that am sure of |
Re: Romantic Discussion by NegroNtns(m): 11:08am On Jul 25, 2009 |
For sex yeah but I am not that grounded in love. You are shy. hmm |
Re: Romantic Discussion by sweetpie23: 12:33pm On Jul 25, 2009 |
wow this is getting exciting |
Re: Romantic Discussion by Nobody: 12:57pm On Jul 25, 2009 |
Yeah, so sweet! |
Re: Romantic Discussion by sweetpie23: 1:22pm On Jul 25, 2009 |
you got any stories for us today? |
Re: Romantic Discussion by Ogaga4Luv(m): 1:27pm On Jul 25, 2009 |
True talk Platinumnk dear;i got your pleasure"eye bling" platinumnk: |
Re: Romantic Discussion by wolewumi: 11:31pm On Jul 25, 2009 |
pls, my friend dont be disive by d beauty of any woman, it is dangerous. go ahead and marry dat lady, she is beautiful u no. clean her up boy. |
Re: Romantic Discussion by Nobody: 8:12am On Jul 26, 2009 |
wolewumi:LMAO what is this one talking about? offtopic Negro_Ntns:a bit yes |
Re: Romantic Discussion by NegroNtns(m): 9:21am On Jul 26, 2009 |
Shy girl you don't think I could corrupt you. . .knowing that sex comes first for me and other things follow? |
Re: Romantic Discussion by Nobody: 9:25am On Jul 26, 2009 |
I do not get corrupted by people, I do what's best for me |
Re: Romantic Discussion by NegroNtns(m): 9:30am On Jul 26, 2009 |
lmao. Look at you! Oh by the way what kind of music do u enjoy listening to? |
Re: Romantic Discussion by Nobody: 9:32am On Jul 26, 2009 |
bollywood we have nothing in common |
Re: Romantic Discussion by NegroNtns(m): 9:41am On Jul 26, 2009 |
Bolly what? You are a troublemaker Of all the sweet and melodious rhythyms in the world you listen to disnumbari! I will get off the music note then. So going back to an earlier discussion. . .I believe love and sex, both in reality and beyond are links to the spiritual self,a tie of the conscious to the unconscious. I am interested to know why if as you say, love is the most improtant thing in the world, then a lot of women are not in their natural role. There is a progressive depart from traditional gender roles and the effect is damaging to relationships. |
Re: Romantic Discussion by Nobody: 9:53am On Jul 26, 2009 |
Negro_Ntns:we just have different taste Negro_Ntns:true Negro_Ntns:Love is the most important thing in life as it creates sensitivity, care and concern, the qualities which establishes one to be a human being in right terms. again this not a general statement Negro_Ntns:I didn't catch that well |
Re: Romantic Discussion by NegroNtns(m): 10:10am On Jul 26, 2009 |
I didn't catch that well There are many facets through which a man-woman connection occur. For a woman they congregate into love. So that regardless of the medium of her encounter with him. . .if she likes him, she instantly and intuitively begin to formulate how to nurture him. Am I right? Well, how much do women nurture us nowadays? Most nurture their career and the men feel ignored and envious of her advancement. So the effect is adverse on relationships. . . permanent relationships that is. I am not saying a woman must not have a career but I am wondering if that aspect of nurturing through love has not lost its spiritual connection and what you have left are robo-girls. . .expressing the reality of love as a need but not embracing the sacrifice aspect. This is not to say that the guys dont play an inducive role that pull these girls in that direction to begin with. |
Re: Romantic Discussion by NegroNtns(m): 10:14am On Jul 26, 2009 |
For clarity I must add that I am describing INDEPENDENT women and majority nowadays are in that category. There is still a few traditional and conservative oneslike yourself. I tip myhat in your reverence Hey Seun. . .I need an emoticon for a hat |
Re: Romantic Discussion by Nobody: 10:24am On Jul 26, 2009 |
Negro_Ntns:oye you want to make it a gender argument, am not going down that road Negro_Ntns:me traditional? well thank you |
Re: Romantic Discussion by NegroNtns(m): 10:37am On Jul 26, 2009 |
Do you like poems? |
Re: Romantic Discussion by Nobody: 10:41am On Jul 26, 2009 |
crazy about them |
Re: Romantic Discussion by NegroNtns(m): 10:47am On Jul 26, 2009 |
I love poems. I choose gift cards based on its poetic message. |
Re: Romantic Discussion by Nobody: 10:54am On Jul 26, 2009 |
great do your girlfriend like it too? |
Re: Romantic Discussion by NegroNtns(m): 10:57am On Jul 26, 2009 |
Poem is good for the soul. It unlocks certain powers. |
Re: Romantic Discussion by Nobody: 11:00am On Jul 26, 2009 |
you didn't answer my question though |
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