Negro_Ntns:

lol, yes it is. . .from a woman's perspective. The woman seeks to keep and conserve. . .the man seeks to roam and be generous. Your nurturing nature makes it imperative that you find fulfillment through love.

That should bring us to the topic. . ."romantic discussion".

Men say one thing and women hear it a different way. What do we both yearn for?

C2H5OH:

I used to think that too, until I really met trust.  Once you lose trust a healthy relationship is basically impossible.  If you lose that trust, the love will have a hard time flowing fluidly. IMHO

love is the only thing that matters ultimately.
I believe that it's the only thing that truly exists in all of reality and beyond.

Negro_Ntns:

What is reality ?

Negro_Ntns:

thank you, i like how you define concepts.

The only reason you and I are talking here now is because I sense a value in you that I cherish. You are responding to me because you probably feel same way, otherwise you would not waste time. There is a negotiation between the minds. It is not sexual, it is not romantic, t is not loving, . .just mental.

In real life it would have a different currency. For men that is currency is basd on sexuality. What is it for women?

Negro_Ntns:

lol. , you are too smart Im taking the bait and I want to know.

Im sure you are very loving and romantic. Once in a while I see your comments in sexuality. Very reserved. Behind the veil I suspect there is turbo power. But anyway. . tell me what love does. Teach me that aspect where you mentioned "reality" and "beyond" together. That means a lot because you are alluding to the spiritual dimension of loving. Am i right?

True talk Platinumnk dear;i got your pleasure"eye bling" 

platinumnk:

ogaga that was beautiful

wolewumi:

pls, my friend dont be disive by d beauty of any woman, it is dangerous. go ahead and marry dat lady, she is beautiful u no. clean her up boy.

Negro_Ntns:

For sex yeah but I am not that grounded in love. You are shy. hmm

Negro_Ntns:

Bolly what? You are a troublemaker Of all the sweet and melodious rhythyms in the world you listen to disnumbari! I will get off the music note then.

Negro_Ntns:

Bolly what? You are a troublemaker Of all the sweet and melodious rhythyms in the world you listen to disnumbari! I will get off the music note then.

So going back to an earlier discussion. . .I believe love and sex, both in reality and beyond are links to the spiritual self,a tie of the conscious to the unconscious.

Negro_Ntns:

I am interested to know why if as you say, love is the most improtant thing in the world,

Negro_Ntns:

then a lot of women are not in their natural role. There is a progressive depart from traditional gender roles and the effect is damaging to relationships.

I didn't catch that well

Negro_Ntns:

There are many facets through which a man-woman connection occur. For a woman they congregate into love. So that regardless of the medium of her encounter with him. . .if she likes him, she instantly and intuitively begin to formulate how to nurture him. Am I right?

Well, how much do women nurture us nowadays? Most nurture their career and the men feel ignored and envious of her advancement. So the effect is adverse on relationships. . . permanent relationships that is. I am not saying a woman must not have a career but I am wondering if that aspect of nurturing through love has not lost its spiritual connection and what you have left are robo-girls. . .expressing the reality of love as a need but not embracing the sacrifice aspect. This is not to say that the guys dont play an inducive role that pull these girls in that direction to begin with.

Negro_Ntns:

For clarity I must add that I am describing INDEPENDENT women and majority nowadays are in that category. There is still a few traditional and conservative oneslike yourself. I tip myhat in your reverence


Hey Seun. . .I need an emoticon for a hat