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Hello good nairalanders,
my name is Ben ibekwe,am a supposed final year student @ kogi state university. I have a very big problem and i believe in the saying that a problem shared is half solved.

I got admission in 2015,studying history and international studies, that same year sometime happened to me seriously that i dont want to remember it even happened at all.

I tried as much as i can to stay focus and cope with my studies,because i i never believed that though i knew life was never a bed of roses.

I dont have anybody to support me with my tution fees,i tried as much as i could to hustle it out every semester and i know how difficult things get atimes.

Most times i skip classes not because it was my will to but because i know within myself how am in a dire need.

Need of schoolfees,need of place to lay my head,need of f=od and etc

the same 2015 i lost the only joy i had,my best friend,my girlfriend and my all,ever since then though,i hear when people say i lost a loved one but i n)ver knew it hurts so bad.

Each semester things get even more tougher,no matter how hard i tried.

Now am in 400 level now but my school has been =n strike since january i have engaged myself with every Job i could lay my hands on. I was able to raise some money but not enough to even complete my sschool fees alone.

With this heavy burden in my heart i cry almost everyday since 2015, even as am writing this now.

I had sort for help almost ev)ry where i could. The b=ttom line is that am so c=nfused right now i dont know how to raise more money to meet up with my school fees,my project.

Please i need a'l your help and advice,becaause i dont want to drop out of school. Thank you and God bless u all.

My name is 2chukwu,the story am about to share was how i lost my beautiful girlfriend to the cruel hands of death.
I met my Girlfriend Ngozi by name way back in secondary school.
We fell in love,we fight,we fuss we disagree to agree.
But we are always together till after our secondary days,we both always wanted to go to the higher institutions,we sort for admisiion but luck was not on our both sides till we both started with pre degree programs.
I was in pre degree one and she was in two,so i was first to finish n gained admission before her.
We went on till wen i got to 300 level only for me to be informed that my admission was incomplete i had to drop and she encoraged me n bought another jamb for me cos we both dont have any body to stand for us so we are always standing by each other..
She later gaind admision into 200 level cos she enrolled for diploma programs,while i was still waiting for the new admission list to come out of which i later got in 100 level again.
She suggested that we shud have a place of our own of which we did and she paid and brought out her life savings and bought almost everything we needed in the house and we started living happily until her mother stepped in.
Her mother from the onset had had this misunderstanding with my mum far back i thought because of my closeness with the family that she must have let go everything the same way i let m own mom did, and she was welcomed into my family by my brothers and sisters infact my elder sister became her private medical nurse.
So the whole thing stated when she got into 200 level 2nd semester that her mum insisted that if i want to continue with the daugther i shud present my parents,honestly i tried as much as i cud then to convince her to give us more time but she dint,rather she started giving her daugther so many reasons why she shudnt go on with the relationship and how bad my people are and forgetin how good be and ngozi was to each other.
What suprises me was late 2014 towards december that ngozi stated siding her mum,but B4 then ngozi had felt so sick and i understands the nature of her sickness that whenever she was sick she always wants me around her cos am her best friend,but because of the on going misunderstanding her mum asked me to stop coming around her daugther, at first it was difficult but i had to after seeking some elderly advices.
Barely two months after i stop coming to see her,i saw her in school once men she was so lin,i cudnt belive my eyes.
Though i kept callin her but she always shout on me to stay away from her ,the next month she travelled with her mom to the village for the burial of her grand mother.
The next thing i started feeling her absent like never b4,i became so worried n wanted to see her by all mean,i was preparing to go to her village wen my mum recieved a call that Ngozi is dead!
I cried like a baby,it was after her death we all learnt that during the time of her sickness her mum hid her and Ngozi was never given any proper medical attentions.
Now my life is shattered,all our plan gone with the wind,i lost my best friend my mum and my everything. Ever since then my tears never siezed. Its one year plus now but the pains and lost is still fresh...pls how shud i get over her in my mind and in my dreams? Can i ever love again?

Zico5:
Those referring Buhari as dictator will surely eat their words. A good leader must always ready to listen to the yearning of his people and that is what Buhari is currently doing. But sentiment and tribalism will never allow some to see good deeds of this man. We should stop crying over a split milk cos Gej is already the past tense and will forever remain there. The future is with Buhari and that is why we voted him there.

SPILT MILK grammarian!!

Zico5:
Those referring Buhari as dictator will surely eat their words. A good leader must always ready to listen to the yearning of his people and that is what Buhari is currently doing. But sentiment and tribalism will never allow some to see good deeds of this man. We should stop crying over a split milk cos Gej is already the past tense and will forever remain there. The future is with Buhari and that is why we voted him there.

SPILT MILK grammarian!!

Am in interested with the sound card and the c1 mic heres my contact 07032817803 add me on whatsapp Godbless!

Am in interested with the sound card and the c1 mic heres my contact 07032817803

No wonder i saw the thunder that will fire u and ur family members seriusly doing press ups!!

Afrok:
If she's not ready to show the ni*ples, she can please swerve coz no time to waste money on any vaseline .

Afrok:
If she's not ready to show the ni*ples, she can please swerve coz no time to waste money on any vaseline .

my laugh just the 90 push ups in 90 seconds am about to xplode.......:/

Okijajuju1:
He is a Nigerian Albino..


www.nairaland.com/attachments/3616631_marcoramirez_jpeg914dabbe93cfa6fe3102cd29cdd12dcf

I just stand for more than two days now the stare at this guy pics on my phone,sometin the ring for my head!!!! But i no get light now were i wan grab wetin my head the tell me,day don the dark again!!!

Kai!! This guy no get mercy at all,keepin this helpless sim for this long?? This guy must be very stingy aka gum!!!

opeyemiieblog:
Highlife music star Flavour has been in Mali for a Unification concert set that held last night as part of his West African tour. This female fan broke down on seeing flavour performing.

"EPIC love from my fans last night in Mali! More highlights to come in a bit.... #TheMaliUNIFICATIONConcert"



https://www.instagram.com/p/BEA_L4Wwh8o/

opeyemiieblog:
Highlife music star Flavour has been in Mali for a Unification concert set that held last night as part of his West African tour. This female fan broke down on seeing flavour performing.

"EPIC love from my fans last night in Mali! More highlights to come in a bit.... #TheMaliUNIFICATIONConcert"



https://www.instagram.com/p/BEA_L4Wwh8o/

No be only cry what about Fuel i don cry finsh? I dey cry say ineva finish school,i dey cry say this semester i never see school fees pay my tears wan finish! Show wer i pay to watch i go come d cry am i technically insane?

Trendin:
the happy idiot with the jersey, though.. he's everywhere in the pictures..

Trendin:
the happy idiot with the jersey, though.. he's everywhere in the pictures..

The mumu just the happy as if manner fall from heave!!!!

I need help pls since last week i tried transfering
files from my frend laptop to my Apple  ipod and it gave me this mssg

(one of the usb attached to this computer has malfunctioned and window does not recognise it )

pls somebody should pls tell me what to do ill be very grateful

men men you guys are just arguining

wot thinking to my opinon faze got the lyrics and the song

but
2face got the money and the fame
and
in addition to that he got better mixing and engineers than faze
cos
if u are a good listener of music who dont jus listen to the bass drums
you
will definately know that "faze"got the lyrics and his INDEPENDENT
ALBUM makes more sense
thats my own opinion.

malcolmx (malcom lx) yeah wat a name now let me get this straight here i dropped a topic right? and i stated that i m open to opinion right? but wait a minute shei i didnt start a beef? u did right ? now listen u stupid son of a gun,lowlife RoosterDrinker!
you would have jus drop your stupid opinon and shut stupid bitchy tongue up!cos you sound slappy pussy@#$%&
REST IN FUCKIN HELL IN PIECES

UR FADA!

SAMSICK OR WATEVER hey listen up i cant hear u, i dont talk to sick people so go to slip!

why is that our radion and tv station play more of foreign music than our own music,

do you also know that they set time for our music like 2 hours in our own country?its dam funny but is the fact!

More thanks and love to joyfm otukpo they represent the motherland,cosmo fm is even the worst that station makes me sick!

Post your own opinion.

why is that our radion and tv station play more of foreign music than our own music,

do you also know that they set time for our music like 2 hours in our own country?its dam funny but is the fact!

More thanks and love to joyfm otukpo they represent the motherland,cosmo fm is even the worst that station makes me sick!

Post your own opinion.

I got involved with a girl through a friend let me explain in detail,there was a friend of mine who toasted a girl the first time he came to my skool and the second day he saw a girl that he like again and he never knew that the girl is a very close friend to the first girl while he was talkin to her her friend came over and he was so nervous that he signaled me from my standpoint to come and help him so i came and took the first girl and started a conversation with her 2 cut the whole story short i we took them out and from there he urge's me to go on with the girl since he's afraid of loosing the girl so i continue from there one thing leads to another we kicked off and.
but i nver loved the girl i already placed my love on someone so the relationship was not worth talkin about , 3days ago i told her i need a brake up i xplained everything to her but she wont still understand,and the girl i was feeling for was her friend (funny huh)so i finally make it up to her and she told me is not goin to be possible since i already gotten myself involved with her friend and beside's she cant double date.

Now my ex-has already gotten herself a guy,the girl i was feelin for now her best friend and companion how can i make her understand that i did what i did jus for her and what i feel for her.

pls advice me on what to do cos am all confused!

if u like go the kill ur self to please somebody
who has less time to think bout ur existence.

Belive it or not

This is absolutely nonsense she dont deserve wat she's tryin to have,
to protect her ugly image self she even stated in the tread that her mom is in uk.
God bless my wicked soul if u really love this dude, as u claim you are now
or u are bout to ,hmm y u no give am space wen him dey naija?

@funky babe,u deserve to be told the truth if u dont like telling urself one,
u are jus tryin to reap were u did not sow,i pray that guy should Bleep u up into pieces.

Onye'ori ri.

I heard wot u utter while takin my leave,code or no code Gold diggers?

NEMESIS ! NEMESIS !! NEMESIS!!!

DONT SAY 2CHUKWU NO WARN U OOO

the give her advice,u hear,

snifin, wait, snif again, God bless my wicked soul!

I smell alot of GOLD DIGGERS

in this room

so am out!

Peace!

Nemesis am sure will catch up wit u one day

I know ur type does alot of peepin at women (maybe takin their bath or , )

Our people say person the pass don bi silly

Buy her fowl yes fowl
what am sayin self
4geting bird flu

or if she doesn't buy the idea of fowl birthday,
this is wat u will do smooch her 4 6hours witout kissing?
ehenn then do tha dam thing ******for 8 hours

try this and tell me if she ever tell's you when her birthday's coming up again

Ive been battered emotionally, all the people i knew who used to show me love
never stayed with me long enough to prove their sincerity.
most times i think i am the unfortunate one!
Does anyone know a love island ??

You guyz are jus confused here i guess

Am dieing to watch fulani's and hausa's play they traditional

Guiter or Violin just confuse which i even wanna watch'


i can spend all my dime on that,

wait wait what did u jus say watching eldriss

I better watch cow,rams and all such of craps perform

That version of P-square is strictkly meant for only youlaw[i][/i]

He only and only him will understand it far beta than anyone and even like it more than
you whitelexi

The Holy Book of 2chukwu Chapter 5 Ver:2-1 says

Thou that play shall pay!

B4 i 4get whitelexi which of that songs version  do u like u said 

This na     TEMPTATION
wit a little CONFUSION             
                   INFATUATION

all my friendz the call me no 10 coz
i dey play like okocha and score like[b] RONALDHINO[/b]
MY MAN BIKO MAKE TRY FINISH WETIN U START,
HAHHA

[b][/b]Both of them are jus the BOMB!! but still give it up 2 omarion on O
and to chris on Run it that dude gat a new dance steps and style infact i give it up 2 C-H-R-I-S B