Ilekokonit:
Our women in London are very stingy and expect the man to always take them to Naija restaurants and pay. Ivory Coast ladies are not so stingy and we see these ones regularly take themselves out on ladies nights and pay their way.

The only time you see Naija women come to Naija restaurants is only to celebrate a friends birthday.

Hw far bro I send you email

I am a night crawler in London and Naija women are scarce at Naija joints and believe me or not, there are a lot of single Naija guys at Naija joints.

But at times religion dey blind our women who expect the man to stop drinking alcohol just because he accidentally met them.

Calitoscassius:
I have never experienced any of these, maybe co's i was born and bred in London E17.


Op, go to pubs, nighclubs, attend colleagues birthday paties, try wetherspoon pubs, yes it can be lonely in the UK sometimes for people who came to live here. Even the people who were born here experience so much loneliness that is why most drink alchohol daily or smokes something. Some work allday and night just to overcome loneliness, some have kids so as to overcome loneliness, Op if you want to have kids to overcome loneliness i will be happy to hook up with you. I am not looking for relationship but i am desparate to have a chilld or children.. i have met many nigerians doctors, psysiotherapists and nurses here in England they appear to be lonely too, even when i invite them to the pub for drinks they don't turn up., one IGBO man a doctor from Enugu i met in Tescos i gave him my number but everytime i call him he is talking about cooking soup or making garri or working i even wanted to introduce him to one of my white woman colleague from work but he couldn't even be bothered to turn up, he keep saying that he will bring his former girlfriend from nigeria, even his former nigerian girlfriend seems to have moved on, i was like guy women plenty here in our island here, why would you wanna bring a girlfriend from Enugu? He is always on watsaap with his Enugu friends, i said to him mate! Forget dem people and start blending in with people over here, start making new friends even in his work, start forking your doctor friends. Problem also is, he doesn't drink alcohol, more than half of Brits goes to the PUB, Pubs are part of British culture.



He didn't even understand the terms of his 2 years work visa, when he told me he might move to london, his visa is tied to his NHS work on our island he cannot just leave, he even said he might move to America from here, i was like yea! Right! How are you gonna do that with your 2 years UK work visa tied to your NHS job? He complains that the hospital where he works are making him work too hard it feels like slavery. I said to him, well... that is what your visa says, "work visa" so work!!

He tells me he went to church to look for other nigerians, (me i am not religious, i don't believe in God) i even organised white girls for him but he is afraid to fork them saying it is a sin . eventually i deleted his number.


One other nigerian woman i know was so lonely one day i visited her in her room, without notice she just took her cloths off and said Kings would you like to fork me? i was like come on! She has already told her landlord and flat mates that i am her cousin, i cannot fork her now.

There are so many women or men to choose from over here, if you want to be noticed you must put yourself out and be ready for lots of relationships disappointments. No body dey look anybody face, people will not come in your room or house to make friends with you, you have to invite them to come and be ready to be invited too, smile, don't carry your problems on ya head and minds always white people have their own problem which are even more than yours

Don't look forward to christmas day co's christmas day is spent indoors in freezing cold winter with families eating, drinking and watching TV shops are not open, no transportation, everything is shut on christmas day.

Op, i mean it, you and I can hook up and make babies even though i have few children already. Just email me, Good luck.

Dimaya:
So let me guess, she broke up with the guy, searched for better men, didn't find anyone better and she's now complaining that she's better than his wife.

This gender is confused

Pearlyfaze:


We are still discussing, they have clearly stated that she has no obligation financially with them if she chooses to leave them.

They conditions is that If she says she is not going on the transfer with them, they company will pay her 3 months salary in advance and terminate her visa immediately.

My new worries is getting a sponsorship job, COS and Visa in 60 days.
We are currently job searching and believing it will happen before the middle of December.

Thank you everyone here for encouraging us with information.

Pls can I talk you.. I’m experiencing same issues.pls inbox me ur nos so I can call u pls

nicefavour:
Am a guy who got a job here...

ekochris:
"They give the best years to the bad guys.....then the nice guys can settle for the left overs."

Mcslize:


That's why I am still being lenient with her. If it is to be ladies they won't care how the guy will feel. But here I am considering how she will feel.

A lady will break up with a guy without considering how the guy will feel. They are heartless, but when the coin is turned the other way round, the guy will think about it day and night how the girl will feel if he breaks up with her.

Guys are more sympathetic than ladies. When you love a girl that's when they will Bleep you up. But when you don't love them, that's when they will treat you like a king.

Life no balance at all.

nobodytestme:

A thief spotted.. you think you made sense abi. Come thief for my area make we catch you first, We go light you fuel and matches before police come sef..
good riddance to bad rubbish .. nonsense
Inhumane treatment koor.. nonsense

Ire2:


No wahala come extradite us. Alaye double your hustle. They talk say do legit thing. I'm a graduate come and employ me let me stop yahoo. 2.1 accounting. Pay me 300k per month.

highcollide:
I don't understand these hoes. A brother wants to advice his fellow brothers on why we should avoid parasites.


Instead of refuting claims with facts or statistics why the OP is wrong or why we should date parasites, they resorted to name calling.

Look at both genders, women have something that fetch them money... Their pussie! Yet they're not doing better than the men who have nothing but their


strength and will to make money.


It's not even enough, they term men broke. Always brokeshaming men because you have a pussie where men come and urinate and give you money.....



Any man who doesn't see the demented mentality of the average Nigerian lady and still indulge in romantic relationship with them is in danger of being destroyed by these parasites.

soberdrunk:
Kai!! I always tell people to try avoiding unnecessary confrontations, if only he just gave the kid a few knocks on the head and moved on. I know someone that died in this type of unfortunate scenario, he was driving and another car hit him from behind, he gave the car a hot chase and double crossed the vehicle not knowing it was armed robbers that just finished an operation and they opened fire on him............

kepstone:
Bro... I beg u with God run for ur life... ur explanation is the same stuff that happened with me and my ex. I am 1985 and I senior her with 10 years did everything for her and yet she rolled insult at me and even scammed me. I mean this girl is so heartless that she even injured me I still have the scar till date. period she does not love you, she loves what she is benefiting from u. I discovered my ex was having sex with another guy or some guyz while I was busy praying and making the relationship works, she told me if I am tired of the relationship I should quit, I still went on with it.. I later discovered that she does not love me but infatuated, mine was 2yrs plus. see bro if a girl does not give to you she does not love you, no matter how small she can give, u have been given to her if its a responsible girl who loves you, she will say in her mind that this my boyfriend who has been given to me let me save Dis same money and buy him something worth it for me to show him love and appreciation, that's what a sensible girl will do but my own case and ur own case is different... the girl does not love u, a girl DT can not give to u does not love u I repeat it again and again. look at ur sisters of u have one, u discover that cos of family love dey have for u dey do give to you, becos its in d nature of women to give as they also recieve. many men are been decieved into parasitic relationship in Nigeria that is solely based on sponsorship draining d guy or d man and at d end Dis same ladies will dump dem. so many ladies are carrying curses on their head dey don't know about. money is worked for and if who you are does not value it and appreciate u pls move on, u are too young to be tortured by lazy girl who has an entitlement mentality. I have said it over and over again, most of the things Nigerian ladies some of dem have dey did not buy it by themselves, men gave it to dem. guys let's redefine relationship if a girl can not be responsible for her financial life, relationship should not be her bail out. most Marriages are crashing cos of wrong motives y dey d ladies entered this marriages. any marital or relational foundation built on money will not stand d test of time.
After I broke up with my leech girlfriend, I wanted to ensure DT we get back again to fight for my relationship. I asked her d love you have for me is it strong to stand d test of time she said NO. I went to church and gave testimony if deliverance not minding what I spent on her. I believe there are genuine girls out there ... guyz let's stop been in relationship with students, most of dem are liabilities seriously and playing games alaround, with few exceptional ones. I won't advice a guy should go for student and if u must pls ensure her family are responsible for her upkeep in school and u just do small for her.... not much.. guyz have suffered. I sympathize with u bro but 90% of advice here says move on I say d same.

tee59:
Lies, some guys do these and still have girls trolling over them. So far money is involved, girls of today will never mind d trash you wrote up here. �

positivethought:
I suspect that this girl failed the course but approach the lecturer for help the lecturer demanded for sex,the girl refused first time then went back n planned how to arm twist the lecturer into passing her,she approach him again armed with her recorder, the man unknowingly repeated his demand for sex which she recorded,but let the girl tread carefully n not feel like a hero yet,now to the lecturers next time any girl comes to you after failing let your communication with her be in writing form only n don't use your normal writing!,ladies if you are not willing to "co-operate " then read your books,kpomkwem!.

franchasng:
As far as you are still a student or a Corper or job hunting guy, ladies will dump u a lot of times unless u are from a rich family background, so get used to that as a guy.

But the moment u grab a job that pays at least 150k monthly or startup a successful business earning u at least 150k profit monthly and u are able to buy a neat car and have a nice apartment, the table will get turned and u will be the one dumping ladies and ignoring ladies at Church, street, work, etc plus every relative and friend will be trying to hook u up with one lady or two, so op calm down, it is their turn, your own turn is coming if u would work smarter to start earning steady income, then u will be glad u were born man

izzy4shizzy:
95% of girls has nothing to offer in a relationship other than sex, the painful part is, they think the deserve the whole world, and they are always the first yo cry foul when tins dont go their way,

How person wan even find wife for this nigeria sef

Yinxies:
Gracious God!

Pele dear...

I was robbed at Maryland one time like that. Two guys on a bike, one came down and pointed a gun at me while the other was telling him to shoot me if I didn't cooperate. I gave him my phone jejely and he fled off immediately

Thank God I did not get the punches

donsheddy1:
strongest jaws and not bite.

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Even lions are sensible enough not to eat hyenas. They kill them but don't eat. Their meat is bitter.

I was wondering how an hyena found its way to Abia...

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Even lions are sensible enough not to eat hyenas. They kill them but don't eat. Their meat is bitter.

I was wondering how an hyena found its way to Abia...

Alcatraz005:
So who would help the likes of us to get out of Nigeria? I need help ooo but I have no money.

Raiyell:


You are particularly skilled at speaking from both sides of your putrid mouth. As this discourse drags on, your penchant for ignoring given facts and backstory surprise me less and less.

Pray, tell, how did you begin working in construction? Without an education right?

When I gave you a glimpse of my backstory, my objectives were to make you see that we have different backgrounds and you could not in all honesty project your moral leanings unto me or any other individual. That purpose seems largely lost on you.
But I will try -- god knows I will try to talk sense into your slime filled dura.

I have sufficiently acquainted you with “work” so henceforth I will drop the quotes.

You see, the mistake you make is thinking work is the easy way out. It is fraught with its own dangers and challenges.
I daresay society is better on account of the type of work I do. I sell happiness, I sell hope, I sell big dreams. Just remember it is not up to me to deliver the fruition because everything I sell is just dreams.

The young girls who sell their bodies I do not blame. In fact, I see sex work as a viable career choice. This stance is not “Hobbesian” nor backward. The most progressive and advanced countries of the world have even legalised sex work, so what is your point exactly? That the girls are less human for choosing the work they do?

Sample size, you bonobo, sample size!

For every one sex worker who contracts HIV, there are thousands of normal people with whom do as well, and since you’re feeling so in your elements I presume you will be going around to tell those people that their diseases are as a result of their choices.
It is my experience that those who wear the thickest rose-coloured glasses are those who are mostly oblivious to it. You say you have seen everything on the street, albeit from a distance. Lol, I live and breathe the street.

Have you lived on the street bonobo? Have you seen the effects of Nigeria on the street youths. Selling us hope will not work because our existences have been sans hope for as long as we can remember.

Not everyone has the strength of character to come out of the myriad of problems Nigeria bring to those whose parents do not have money. For every one success story, there are millions of not so great stories.

If the system isn’t designed to cater for the youths -- sure, there will be some success stories -- alternative ideas will take hold.

Karma has nothing on me, bonobo. Let the Karma come. Let it come in all its fury. I do not subscribe to the notions of retribution or sky-daddy so you have to use something else to try and scare me.

I will be so happy to wipe a 2x2 log on your skull I swear. Since you have chosen not to think, it behooves me to reset your slime filled brain.

oyb:


Answer the question, can you subject your children to the same?

All you are doing is defending exploitation of the poor by the rich. Slave owners also believed they were doing slaves favours. Have you not read how some said that the slaves in the white house had it good?

You are not helping a child if you give him room board and a pittance in exchange for his /her servitude. You are callously exploiting the child's circumstances for your own convenience.

Brillantman:
I know that most of guys will critisize me after reading this but your constructive criticism is welcome. I'm a confirm G-guy, and I haven't for once apply any form of voodoo to what I've been doing. I have to open up so as to educate most of the foolish guys that thunk every successful person is borne out of July. In modern world, I've come to realize that truth lies in the Chinese proverb that says " crime pays but don't just get caught" everyone of us is a scam and I don't need anyone to preach to me above what I stand to gain if I tread the honest way because suffering isn't part of me. I've been able to decode that everyone around me in Nigeria is a scam, from vulcanized, to food vendor, to mechanic, government, fish seller etc. What we do is simple, request for client account info and have it load by your hacker friend base here or Cyprus or Egypt or Malay, the era of requesting $500 from Oyibo is gone because guys have wise up to know what they want. Also, I'm not disputing the fact that go extra miles to do just to apply it to the clients but I think the foolish of guys do that because they aren't brilliant upstairs to know what they want. What you believe is different from what I believe to. Your criticism is welcome.