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budaatum:
I did not manufacture my breathing. I was born by my mother and breathed, so I guess if anyone has a claim to my life it's her, though she herself will tell you she may have been responsible for bring me into this world but my destiny in it is entirely up to me.

Ok, if Ur mum has a claim to Ur life, Ur mum's mother would have a claim to Ur mum's life and the cycle continues..., So tell me, assuming there was a mother who propagated Ur lineage, who owns her breath??

budaatum:
This is like claiming I am not the owner of the food that I bought with the money that I worked for and ate because after I have eaten it I can't regurgitate the food back into the plate as it was before I ate it.

Either ways, you keep believing your life is not yours. The implication however is that you are not responsible for nurturing your self, and your manna will fall from the heavens because, "it belongs to the supreme being (GOD)", despite said God telling you you are responsible for it.

forget bible quote, let me ask you, how did u manufacture Ur breathing??

Let start from there

Gadalo1990:
den u will like diz too, Bleep hiz zon Jezuz too.

Its Ur choice of word, who am I to change Ur mind


Me set never change my mind, na u mind a go con change??



But do well to say this to Mohammed in Kaduna

budaatum:
Now, that's where you err. Your life is not your's in the first place, and you think everyone is irresponsible for their life like you are.

Perhaps you are not aware that one can go and drink sniper and end one's life whenever one wishes to. Because once you understand that, you'd also understand that one can choose to live one's life however one wants o too.

Read Genesis 3 perhaps. It's a good story showing how to be responsible for your own life instead of being a slave to others.

Since u re the owner of Ur life, u should be able to kill ursef and wake ursef back at will na

U should be able to skip nature without any effect

U should be able to control even the unforseen circumstances

U should be able to tell what the future old for u

Tell me where ur soul would be by exact this tym tomorrow.




But I am sure u re not the owner of Ur body(it belongs to the earth) and Ur soul(it belongs to the supreme being (GOD))

Gadalo1990:
U dey allowed to imagine whateva God u like. u dont even know what the human mind can do oga. 4 me, itz Bleep God

ok

I like Ur last sentence sir...u said FOR YOU!!

budaatum:
Only a shallow minded person believes in destiny in the first place. For it's like your every step is predetermined and your life is not your own.

Get a pencil and write your own plan, is what I would suggest. And get an eraser in case you miswrite it and need to erase and rewrite a better plan.

Alaye, Ur life isn't urs in the first place

zrealjaheal:
Happy your daughter is doing fine...



Chief your destiny ain't written anywhere. . E dey your palm.. you write it yourself.. just like I have leant to own up that my mistakes and wrong turns are on me

Ok, and that is Ur belief na, do u know that Ur belief is also valid as much as destiny is concerned??


Every counter views are valid in the talk of destiny...that is why it's called a mystery...

See, either we align or not, destiny remain destiny and time wasted can never be regain, and that is one of the punishment life has to offer

ladiguy:
Olodo, sky scrapper for area wey close to airport? Shioor

Oloriburuku Leni yen

Laslas na one cell for Cambodia he go end up

Awon omo ale

Mystic216:
No single skyscraper from a state that was capital of giant of Africa for many years
It’s a shame

And the economic importance of skyscraper is??


Awon oloriburuku yapa

zrealjaheal:
Chief chief

Make I call on one of mentor on this platform and I would advice you follow the person.. learnt a lot from the person

Good morning budaatum I am sorry to bother you.. can kindly shed more light on this

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radi how is your daughter this morning

My daughter is doing fine with her momma


Lol, Budaatum?? Is he an atheist?? Let him come and explain how he changed his destiny

Domipraiz:
Is a normal thing cos he paid them a visit. I am a Yoruba man if Tinubu visit me today, I will wlcm him and endorse just to collect my own share. But mind you in the day of election is just me and the ballot box.
Then I vote for competence (Mr Obi)

Yoruba must be a very good tribe for some people to be claiming it, even Wen we know they are from other divide

Isobug:
I listened to them Yesterday. One of them said it's the turn of Yoruba people. What a greedy people. After OBJ 8years and a sitting V.P 8 years, it is still your turn. You don't consider those that share the region with you. Where is the fairness.
Southern Unity my foot

Sorry

It's for the betterment of our nation bro

zrealjaheal:
Wait don't you think this is wrong. . LIVING A LIFE AS IT IS DESIGNED...

can't one rewrite their destiny

It sounds like you have thrown caution to the wind

Lol

U want to rewrite a destiny u don't know how it was written, what was use to write it, on what table it was written, the type of pen used, the type of paper used, the language, the font, the letters(either capital or lower case), and finally for the purpose it was written... Lol, anybody that told me a destiny can be rewritten I see that kind of a person as a shallow minded fellow who wouldn't tink deep.



What gave u the assurance that u re not jeopardising a greater future if u want to rewrite a destiny just because of today's little challenges??(that is even if u re given the chance to rewrite it)


I see destiny as a software application, every software applications has its own source code, some are made open while some are not. In the case of destiny, its code are not made public, only the coder(knows what He programmed there, and only Him can do the manipulation (that is if he choose to))

A software will play out the way the programmer want it and not the way the user want it, so its difficult to manipulate..



Guy, if to say u understand yoruba ni, an adage in yoruba says 'eni ti ki gba kadara, maa gba kodoro'

Another one says, nisebo nisoogun, baati waye pe aari laari.

tonididdy:
Whatever you do don't go diving into spiritualism and darkism because you will hear nd see exactly what you feared!

I don't do spiritualism, I live the life the way it appears, no reproach, no unnecessary amendments.
Live the life as it's designed and enjoy the moment.

Martinez39s:
So? If humans can't explain or figure out something, does that prove your god is real?


@emboldened

Your experiences are telling you that there is no god and prayers are useless. You have seen that outcomes occur regardless of prayer, but you misconstrued life's teaching and saw it as god doing whatever he pleases and as "what will be will be".

Isn't this remarkably similarly to God's non-existence and the facts that we are on our own and life will run its course as if there is no God?

Alaye calm down...

U bliv what u want and I believe what I want also.

Don't palpitate to much cus either u like it or not, what has bn in existence before u were made has/is/and will always be in existence either u blive or not, either u re alive or not, either u re rich or not, either u re human or not.


God does not blend to manipulation from humans..even if the whole universe including me change the whole narrative today and change whatever that was written inside the Bible or quran, or we all renege from our believe that there is no God...the funny thing is He would always remain in His position sir


It's just like a small child distancing himself from his parents, na hin go suffer am



Me not believing in prayers doesn't mean I don't believe there is God, God exists for me, I don't know about others.



One more thing sir, even if the whole universe is wiped out, God will still be God and His position will remain intact.. so its better we wallow in our ignorance

zrealjaheal:
Now you see why I no dey like talk about my parents cos e go be like say na me dey dull myslef..

I spoke with them last I think 2019 (mumsea 2019 popman I can't even remember)

aahh


Una dey fight??

Well, but u gotta make peace with Ur parent oh

Phraences:
Or perhaps the universe tilted and your stars became aligned!!! Don’t mind me jare!!!

Well, u might be right but I still believe God programmed the universe to favour me

So directly or indirectly, its still God

Evolutionlove:
Alaye I be confirm "Omo Awori" from Lagos Island..

Ahhh

Oo ki n we Yoruba na..

See Yoruba no awon yen naa ni??

Evolutionlove:
Yeah confirm omo oodua..

Latibo??

Ilu wo??

zrealjaheal:
Yes o by birth I be citizen. . But pop and mom separated like the third year after having me

Pop man vex say him dey come naija back with him pikin (na there everything sour ) the rest is history

Truth is I don't like telling anyone about my background make too much questions no go dey follow lol

Questions like what are you still doing here.. mumsea and my sis no dey this side now.. man don turn prodigal son

Alaye go meet mama na

Phraences:
Go there with a selfish and business oriented mindset. To make friends and connection and later to ask for help. Even to keep busy. If you are jobless, join a society. Rich people do charity abroad just to get tax cuts. When you operate from a business mindset you will see other advantages of church and community. During COVID 19 lock down some churches were sharing provisions. Instead of going to church to look up to God, go there and look around for who will help you. If you notice the particular church can’t help, change churches. If Pastors can pretend to hear God, you too can pretend for the church members that your faith is unwavering.

Am sorry to say this and God should forgive me for this.


See, connection no dey here to make ooh, na inside a remote area we no dey inside map

The tin is that not that I am jobless, I am not hungry as well, I have a wife and a daughter I take care of, I do send money to my father and my mum, friends also use to have some cuts when they are down.

I am not financially ok but I use to have a savings of an average of 100k every month(makes more than 200k in a month)

I wish I can go to a gathering where I can connect with people who are financially bouyant than I am but oops...if only I will even find those I am more financially stable than.



Before I got to this stage bro I have had several setback, bad dreams, eating in the dream(imagine eating in the dream and u belleful Wen u woke up), I went to school but the certificate didn't amount to anything, I had to learn a trade like an illiterate from someone who didn't go to school.

I dont want to say that before I was riddled with hardluck in all my endeavours, until God changed everything (the funny tin is that He changed it for me when and after I lost faith in religion)

See bros, talk plenty jare.

CeeJeckydivah:
You don't know the feeling of getting that kind of money without hard work.


Trust me that "i was feeling invisible" only people that have experienced the high of spending on that level will tell you.

You spend without checking your debit alerts... it's a kind of high different from cocaine....you spend on anything or "anywhat" you want.


No time to dey think of those things. Only maybe when down to last couple of millions you will start thinking of what to do but at that moment your high cost & standard of living lavishly will keep draining you heavily.


Abeg the story long.

And mind you the person at that time is not financially educated on what to put money in that's why he put half back into gambling.

Everyone get story mk i no talk my own. I was rich enough to afford a patek watch in cash, i had a range rover sport 2017 model.... abeg mk i stop mk man no go shed tears.

Better days ahead to everyone.


This time i hope we learn from our mistakes & be better for ourselves & Family. Fvck Fake friends.

Bro abeg share...abeg. me we still get hope comot from inside this depression..

zrealjaheal:
Bro no vex if i sounded harsh or rude


Nah the frustration dey worry man.. It will all be fine

I see you got a daughter.. I got one myslef. ..

Everything will be alright

Again no vex if yarn dust

see u, vex for wetin na..no be talk we dey talk just to pour out our mind??

Lol..

But wait ooh, since u were birthed in France u re supposed to be holding a French citizenship na..abi ?

Phraences:
I hope the first statement is true though from the total silence all around me i no dey sure. But you are right that anything wey wan happen go happen. Life is random. It’s just like a gamble. Some are born whole, some with all manner of genetic diseases. So many examples of the randomness of life.

Yes bro, that is why I don't worry myself about life again

Life no be anybody mate..

No be this life pastor's wife and daughter dey do runs ? Can we now say the pastor no Sabi pray??


A no dey wahala myself again, and I don't let any pastor put me under pressure again. Now I am a freethinker and my watchword is this...qué sera sera.

zrealjaheal:
Baba na because things dey alright for you na why you fit thank am

Imagine me wey never chow since morning.. I fit thank you.. oh you would say atleast thank him for life.. no one knows what tommorow holds


Alaye make I first hold today first

See u


Why didn't u ask me the reason I lost faith in prayer and church?

See guy, everybody has his own share of the breakfast ooh, couple of weeks ago I told my mum to pls take good care of my daughter, you have to see how my mum was practically crying and paranoid..


As I am like this, I am into a mini depression, church a no dey go again, cant remember the last time I fasted, prayer is not my tin, a con become wicked..


Imagine me telling my parents that if I find out they are the ones behind my predicament they won't find it easy..lol...


Bro make I just shutup before I offend God, God should forgive me .



But bro... Hmmmmmm, my own dey my body ooh, but I thank God cus He's alive and always be alive.

Phraences:
Good question. Personal Assistants to God will say “God knows best” or “ “He should wake up at 12pm to do midnight prayer and see God work wonders”. or “Every disappointment is a blessing” or “join NSPPD daily prayer”. Meanwhile some atheists are billionaires. Issorait!!!!

Alaye calm down

You can't hate or fight what u don't see...

Leave God alone to His wonders..


I am sure if I ask you to explain how Oxygen, vegetations, earth(soil), light and darkness (day and night), even you..came into existence you would be blabbing to to prove a point


GOD IS ALIVE, JUST THAT HE WONT DO WHAT HE WONT DO, THAT IS WHY I DONT PRAY AGAIN,

me self no dey pray ooh, but a dey thank my GOD for all His wonders.

Evolutionlove:
At the bolded Is better left Imagined because I understand well well. I trust Naija People, Sharp sharp your news and matter don spread for street. But most of you "naija he-goats" no dey gree calm down when small change enter una hand. Na to dey chase Toto up and down and dey try oppress people who dosen't give a fvck about you. That's why I no too dey pity naija men. That's what prompted the old saying "Ibi ti ati wa moto de, ki eleda wa maje ki a fi ese rin debe" You will also hear people telling you, "Ibi ti oti wa moto de, wa fi ese rin koja Ibe / Wari paper nile, Wape ni owo. Bros this life hard Abeg..

lol

Are u Yoruba??

zrealjaheal:
No I am not from ekiti but spent couple of years there when everything was rosy

I was referring to what the previous poster said about helping build a church same thing happened to me. There is this school too at adebayo stadium(not sure of the name) around oke sha . I and my friends help with the renovation of the school cos most times we had issues playing bbal at stadium so we had to renovate the school's own.

Back to that church thing. Why I replied him was why would one help God and then later it feels like when you need him he is nowhere to be found

I have always say this but people will call me an unbeliever...

There is God and He's competent...its just that God would never do what He wont do no matter what u try to do to cajole Him..

Life is like a script that God Himself has written and signed on it, and we will play out what is written in the script.

When things are rosy, we should know its in accordance with what is written on the script, and when it's the other way around, we should know that its according to the script.

When things are rosy don't let us think it's by our prayers, forget prayer bro, I don't believe in prayer.
Likewise when things are sour, don't let us blame ourselves for a bad decisions or lack of prayer..its still in accordance with the script.

If u re stingy more than the mother monkey, if Ur phase of wealth is reached in the script believe me u will get rich even when u don't care about people around u.

Likewise, if u like carry all Ur inheritance to a motherless homes, when it's Ur time to pass tru a rough patch, bro u will pass tru it and it will look like God does not love u despite u bn a good man.


GOD WILL ALWAYS DO WHAT HE SAYS HE WIL DO AND HE WILL NEVER DO WHAT HE WONT DO.


at the end of everytin I leave u with my watchword which goes thus..

qué sera sera...what will be will be.

zrealjaheal:
Now there is no lies in this
I cant say God knows best. Cos why would one work for him and end up suffering. There is this redeem church back then in ekiti around bashiri.

Mehn story long. Hopefully we all get back on our feets

Are u from Ekiti??


Tell me about the bashiri stuff please

Omoapena:
What do you consider as grace?

Me, I've never tasted grace before but my grass has been fluctuating, like grass to grasses and back to grass

Alaye why na

jeslom:
If I start to talk I won 40 million with 40,000 Naira on sportybet , I felt invincible . I started carrying all the prostitutes I could think of, send money to all those begging me , bought a car and living the lavish life put 20 million Naira back to betting and I can categorically tell you that I lost it all . Now all the friends I gathered in the win days has left me and my rickety camry alone..

bros please permit me to laf..can I??

Bombeverybody:
Bro...you asking this question shows you are currently facing a lot like 95% Nigerians. It has gotten to a point where living souls jealous the dead. People are not afraid to commit suicide, but the pressure afterlife that awaits anyone that kill himself is what makes it difficult. On grace to grass issue, life isn't like a bed of roses. What makes you fall to grass makes another one to fall into grace. Some people with good background started the life with an advantage due to them having someone that will guide,guard them, someone that always have their backs. This writer didn't know his mother , no siblings of maternal blood that I know of, which cost the writer so many things You cannot compare my achievement with someone that have a good mother at his back. There was a time I made some money, wanted to build a house, due to high rate of land grabbers in where I reside , I met my uncle, highly revered in my state, gave him money to get me a plot of land. I had it in mind that with him, everything will be smooth less I forget, he works in URP..urban and regional planning, this year make it 7th year I gave him 600k ..I no see land ooo.
Now tell me, would my mother have done such?
I can boldly that I'm one of the most current person in the Russian/Ukraine war...WHY?
I just want to hear that a nuke has been detonated and there is counter attack , with that, the end of the world will be near and faster than thought..

And what is wrong in robbing that brother of urs and collect ur money back??

Rob the weyrey and collect ur money joo, na do me I do u situation..no just kill a soul.


Satan will punish anybody that says two wrong does not make a right, don't tell me that nonsense.