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Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by tiwiex(m): 6:54am On Mar 21, 2016 |
Dklef:That's my issue with gender equality. On this topic, the forget equality. |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by Ondoboi12345678: 7:03am On Mar 21, 2016 |
Did your father own a car or a house? If No, then you need to visit a doctor |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by olac21(m): 7:09am On Mar 21, 2016 |
Vinshu: What a mentality!am just tired of quoting you girl!(A mans duty is to provide for the wife not the two of them)I can see you have run mad totally with this useless mindset of urs!when next you come to this world-pls choose not to be dumb&stupid ok? 2 Likes |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by feaworaoja007: 7:52am On Mar 21, 2016 |
Uchesis:word! 1 Like |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by NaWetinDey(m): 8:11am On Mar 21, 2016 |
DaGeneral: Don't mind her, I think her bf refused to dole out money anymore until she has proven to him that her 'ovary sack' or whatever is still intack. Another thing is that her dp misguides: is she a Nigerian living in Europe, or is she a European? If she is a native (even a citizen) of where she stays, there's no way she should be creating this post because, in the many developed and developing countries, as long as you are working-civil work or entrepreneurial- you are entitled to go for a car and a house. this you can keep paying even up to 20yrs or so. Now, if you are from such a society, why would having a car or a house be your criterium? If you are a single Nigeria girl living in Europe and calling yourself an entrepreneur, lolz...we know: you be entrepreneur no be small. No wonder you have such a terrible and money-infested heart. You need to respect and consoder foundations; do not look down on the days of little beginning. I wonder what your entrepreneurial foundation was. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by Saronna: 8:17am On Mar 21, 2016 |
Vinshu: No , I do not agree with you. My mom and dad had nothing to their name when they got married , she stayed with his parents house and my dad travelled to find a job out of his country and even tho he finished college he could still not get hired. Since he was good at cooking, he was hired at restaurant became a chef and started sending money back home right away , he struggled like that for years! until one day he got call and was told that his father , mother and wife have fled from the country due to a war. He had to leave everythingrush back home and started looking for them in the mid of war, but finally they were able to get in contact with him and he found out that they sought refuge in a neighboring country. They reunited , but had to start from scratch, new country new language and culture, they didn't even had a shelter on their heads. My mom and grandma sold their gold and with that my dad was able to open a small store. They all lived in the store which had a very small room and a toilet, my dad started import and export and while he was away my mom used to man the shop and take care of my grandma and grandpa, She supported him and stood by him and by God's mercy my parent's were able to rent a place and we're doing fine. Fast forward , my dad reunited with his old friend, he was one of the lucky ones that were taken to the u.s for refuge after the war. he was a really wealthy and believing man who has been blessed with Allah , after he heard of my dad's condition he helped him as if he was his own blood and flesh. My dad now has 4 buildings , 2 restaurants and 3 shops and my mom still enjoys doing import and export with my grandmother, they travel alot and get to enjoy going to new places. And thanks to them I have learned ALOT from the struggles they went through together and how they supported eachother! So trust me when I tell you this , everyone will be tested with hardship! and its ur iman (faith ) which u should hold on to for the rest of ur life never let go if it! And this is what our parents always tell us and I absolutely live it - "Be content with what God has given you and you will be the richest of people "!! 4 Likes |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by ayobase(m): 8:25am On Mar 21, 2016 |
adeaks: Has she, Vinshu replied you? |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by jojothaiv(m): 8:30am On Mar 21, 2016 |
Monalisa185:Ehnnnn..... Noted! |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by streetzdreamz(m): 8:33am On Mar 21, 2016 |
keyman0007:your opinion is solely yours,will you go hang if i tell you i hate kids and dont want any??or that marriage to me is the last form of legal slavery a man can ever get into? The problem with you people is taking pills for others pains,how does my opinion affect you?i wont have kids i cant cater for every of their needs,you can go ahead and make babies while living in a face me i slap you rented apartment,hellsbells!!!! |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by adedayor08(m): 8:34am On Mar 21, 2016 |
Vinshu: and what are u gonna bring to the marriage madam? pretty facr, waist trainer, blush,selfie and ... nonsense 2 Likes |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by Psoul(m): 8:40am On Mar 21, 2016 |
Vinshu: Am not surprised that this is coming from a woman. The way they reason is very shallow. They are too materialistic. They fail to realize that a man with a good future, great dream with good drive and action can break even a fallow ground. This kind of idea is what has kept so many girls from getting married until they become so old that they start going to prayer houses and start disturbing God for any kind of man. OP, let me give u instance with myself, I saw my wife when i had virtually nothing. I was in a job that was not paying me well. When i planed going to see my inlaw for collection of list, i lost my job but i kept telling my wife that we can still make it. Most times, she got discouraged and wanted to walk out of the relationship. What i always tell her was, never write of an educated person, his opportunity can come at any time. I also used to tell her that i am not lazy. When I was able to make her see where i was going, she gave me all her support. She is a great woman and I love her so much for that. I was able to start a one-computer biz centre where i type, print and make photocopies for pple until my opportunity came. Now i have a good job. I have built my own house, have a sleek car, two beautiful kids and other dependents. Nice household items, feed well and everyone is happy. If you have a guy that has a dream and pursuing it, girls, u can marry such a man and give her your support. 2 Likes |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by sanmikool: 8:56am On Mar 21, 2016 |
First and foremost, we should understand d situation of our country, d culture, norms beliefs (religion and societal) and mentality we all share as Africans, from there we can surmise our opinions on d issue! D writer made very important points that we can't completely throw into waste bin, bt we av to be cautious in decoding d points, otherwise many of yet to be married men here perhaps wud wait endlessly to own a house and car of one's own as conditions to settle down as family. Sometimes, when a man marries, d wife becomes a blessing to his life and both of them become better as a solid unit that rocks d society. Remember 2 heads are better Dan one if both are 'good' and focus; I personally don't support a woman of 'liability' in a family cos it usually affects d woman on d long run. Let me stop here, thank you. |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by Blackops(m): 9:00am On Mar 21, 2016 |
Don't give birth to many children, one is better, two is the best. And what makes you think she is enjoying in her father's house? Well boys gats work very hard. |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by dikamzy(m): 9:30am On Mar 21, 2016 |
MARKone:D@ op needs to go back 2 school, GBOWAM!!! |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by Omoluabi16(m): 9:44am On Mar 21, 2016 |
...and this is that type of post that makes me want to kill somebody!The baboon himself. |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by Desdemona(f): 11:09am On Mar 21, 2016 |
My dear OP, please, take note: NOTHING LASTS FOREVER. |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by oloriolajumoke: 11:32am On Mar 21, 2016 |
Wil Odedola's daughter Ever want to Marry a broke dude......the Nigeria of 2day the rich marry the rich, and the poor marry the poor. quote author=Lytech post=43937629]Nice quote thou.. But for how long will a man remain single because of money.. A man at the age 30 with master degree without a car or a house(talkless of a well paid job) should remain single till he gt one? Our government and economy makes this quote invalid.. You never can tell,your wife might be the source of God picking up ur call....(getting married to otedola daughter lol)[/quote] |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by 100Cents: 11:43am On Mar 21, 2016 |
adeaks: Killer squad. |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by therealMcCain: 11:50am On Mar 21, 2016 |
Vinshu: with all due respect, i think you are poor, i might be wrong but i stand to be corrected. Living in a rented apartment isnt a crime and it musnt be a 3bed room apartment. In saner climes where there is an effective rail, water and taxi system, why should I buy a car? Do you know what it takes to buy a plot of land in Abuja or even rent a 3 bedroom apartment in Abuja? so someone who works in abuja shouldnt get married till he has a 3 bedroom apartment or a car abi? some self contain apartment in abuja is above 400k what you should advocate for ought to be that the man must have proven to have been taking care of himself successfully and the ability to take care of someone else. by successfully, we mean meeting his basic needs which isnt limited to food, clothing, accomodation, immediate siblings etc |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by udy101(m): 11:58am On Mar 21, 2016 |
do u have a house and a car? if at all u are married, ur wife should be very careful with you......scammer!!!!! |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by agentakins: 12:16pm On Mar 21, 2016 |
I can read a lot of senseless comments in this thread. Even the OP is senseless |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by blaQie(m): 12:53pm On Mar 21, 2016 |
LMAO!!! This is what you hear from dumbass chics that can't even recharge their phones without calling on guys for help. If you are a lady and you don't earn at least half of what a prospective husband earns then you should go back and hustle harder. All of una go school no be so Abi ladies dey go school for nothing ni Mtcheew ''What a man can do'' no reach this side?? |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by owoshuyi(m): 12:54pm On Mar 21, 2016 |
No Naija babe wan be 'Orente' again. smh |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by Vinshu(f): 1:16pm On Mar 21, 2016 |
therealMcCain: Alright. |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by dam007(m): 1:43pm On Mar 21, 2016 |
Vinshu:Explains a lot.. great one.. |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by dam007(m): 1:44pm On Mar 21, 2016 |
adeaks:The world isn't what it used to be... A lot has changed.. |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by dam007(m): 1:48pm On Mar 21, 2016 |
adeaks:mean!!! |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by lastnogood(f): 3:18pm On Mar 21, 2016 |
Krismart: Lol my friend, as I said, that isn't being made. That is what any capable grown person should be able to accomplish with their own hands before marriage. Talk less of a man, who normally gets paid at least 25% more in salary than his female counterpart. Only lazy, non ambitious and unserious men would find this expectation a real challenge or setback. We are talking about marriage here, so by extension you are talking about your future children. If your wife takes in on your honeymoon, you'll expect her to put to bed in your one room flat? Ok, have you ever gone to work after being in the same room as a crying baby? You don't even take your own health seriously lol. I pity you And yes, my father had a 3 bedroom flat and a car when he married my mom, she gave birth to me 10 months later in a nice comfortable home. Haven both of them worked and toiled, they now own several homes and travel to the Caribbean every month with their grandchildren. That is being made. That is success, being able to do the things you want with the people you love. Being able to provide a safe and comfortable place for your family to live in is called being responsible. Learner... |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by Mac4u2nv(m): 3:21pm On Mar 21, 2016 |
[color=#990000][/color] I can't believe I wasted 1 hour out of my life span reading what this lazy girl in person of the op is saying....this is baseless seriously. So car and house has replaced Love now? Okay continue..... when I have the car and the house, please let the lady have a car and a house and also be a virgin. |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by Mac4u2nv(m): 3:30pm On Mar 21, 2016 |
@OP....with the way you are going, I don't think you are married. no, I doubt it, you can't be, even if you are, it's just a marriage of convenience. Anyway, lucky you....what do you think a lady should have to be eligible to date a man with all this? |
Re: Any Guy Who Doesn't Have A House And A Car Should Not Get Married Or Even Date! by iyke2k4(m): 3:47pm On Mar 21, 2016 |
Specialbaby:are you married or in any serious relationship?. May God grant you your heart desires. Your kind will run away if your rich husband faces any financial challenge in the marriage..... Don't get it twisted. |
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