I believe all what the OP said is in his own world and not in the totality of men's world.....
Its his writeup, its his reasoning, its his thought, and its his world........therefore this write upis attributed to him, for him and not for all men....or at least, not for me

daretodiffer:
We are still saying the same thing

What use is marrying a poor man that might leave you when he becomes rick and a rich man that might also leave you too?

Buh if all of you ladies planned to treat us like this, there will be few rich men ooh!
No be 'behind every successful man, there will always be a woman' dem dey talk?

This is why things go wrong for some men, then they will blame it on one innocent old woman in their village whom dey suspect is a witch. They will now come back begging................................shade, lemme advice you, go and use juju voodoo to get back what's yours or use juju to tie him down

delishpot:


If reverse was the case would you say the same thing? If they reject a guy because he is poor, you come here to cry foul and say they don't see potential. If they follow the one with money, you cry that they are gold diggers. If they hang with broke on who finally gets rich, you say it was a gamble and they should not expect any reward for staying with him when he was poor rather they should have worked on themselves. Na wetin dem go do wey boys no go cry foul?
If a woman does this same thing, una go rain abuses on her.

preach sister! Preach! I keep telling my babes, naija guys are the most confused set of people on the earth plus they will go at any length to see that you remain under their chains!

No guy plans to marry a broke girl this days, in fact I don't think I can marry a lady that is not financially independent... And I don't expect the lady to do so as well... Imagine what good it would do if both of you are financially secured....

tosyne2much:
And Oga Tok, the Commissioner for Women Affairs, has said it all

sharaap

delishpot:


If reverse was the case would you say the same thing? If they reject a guy because he is poor, you come here to cry foul and say they don't see potential. If they follow the one with money, you cry that they are gold diggers. If they hang with broke on who finally gets rich, you say it was a gamble and they should not expect any reward for staying with him when he was poor rather they should have worked on themselves. Na wetin dem go do wey boys no go cry foul?
If a woman does this same thing, una go rain abuses on her.

by now, you should be used to the set of boys we have on this forum.

I was told that most of the male/female argument that goes on here is for ego trips. that most of the things they say here are very contradictory to what is done offline.

so my dear, simply read take what you can and pass.

Tuham:



Buh if all of you ladies planned to treat us like this, there will be few rich men ooh!
No be 'behind every successful man, there will always be a woman' dem dey talk?

You have to ask yourself if indeed it is true . How many women go for rich men sef? My classmates are getting married everyday and I don't see most of them marrying a man with a house and a car.

I would want to assume that the OP is talking about relationship level and not marriage

delishpot:


If reverse was the case would you say the same thing? If they reject a guy because he is poor, you come here to cry foul and say they don't see potential. If they follow the one with money, you cry that they are gold diggers. If they hang with broke on who finally gets rich, you say it was a gamble and they should not expect any reward for staying with him when he was poor rather they should have worked on themselves. Na wetin dem go do wey boys no go cry foul?
If a woman does this same thing, una go rain abuses on her.

U're so on point. I dnt knw wat girls will eva do dat pple will not cry foul. Dis Op sef. Hian

daretodiffer:


You have to ask yourself if indeed it is true . How many women go for rich men sef? My classmates are getting married everyday and I don't see most of them marrying a man with a house and a car.

That might be true.
But being rich doesn't always means having such possession, a lady would just prefer leaving a guy with dream to another guy with *loaded pocket*

This babe really shattered op's heart into pieces,pls try n move on instead of opening silly threads to bash ladies

Smellymouth:
Love is a myth..

Why didn't you support it with a picture?

delishpot:


If reverse was the case would you say the same thing? If they reject a guy because he is poor, you come here to cry foul and say they don't see potential. If they follow the one with money, you cry that they are gold diggers. If they hang with broke on who finally gets rich, you say it was a gamble and they should not expect any reward for staying with him when he was poor rather they should have worked on themselves. Na wetin dem go do wey boys no go cry foul?
If a woman does this same thing, una go rain abuses on her.

It is terrible, i guess its a man's world so what ever the females do they are wrong. A man could actually go free for the same offence a woman would be killed

wtf ....you see him you love him you said yes.... you no longer love him you go,.....what exactly concerns richness,poorness and marriage with it....it only should come in when its a pre-arrangement from any of the sides......if you going in for a reason just let em know if em dnt agree,move on if you want,..if em agrees and dnt honour it later report on NL so we go trash em matter......................

so pees r/shp z not a business,but if you make it one be sure to clarify from the begining......

We won't be talking of dis trash if only dis ladies become financially dependent. Rich man poor man.

tips for the ladies.......95% of girls already know what they want till the end of their life,....while 70 to 80% of guys have change priority according to situation at hand....example: a student just wants to phhhk and play,..while job hunting sx and other play-play is always a way of relieving stress...when he z now stable he wants not just compactibility but one whom to be able to spend forever with (with his own forever traits demand) (he must have shown you this before now if you are carefull enough to observe).................................................................................................................................now lets look at it all: if these situations exists just enjoy the moment and move on(applies to guys some times)..........1) if he is brains and you are olodo(who will want you to raise his children...are you serious),.2)he loves anything education (proberbly its a challenge in his family)and u have no dream of getting one before he is ready..3)he is raised to believe in financial freedom and you are the lazy type that would prefare the title HOUSE WIFE,..4)he exibits d@ dangote trait and you cnt assure him you can take care of things when he is absent(a man wants to come home and rest not listen to complains,you can tell him issues you handled latter),..4)he is fire and you are another fire (u better move earlier),.5)he is water and you are fire(well,goodluck if you can intimidate him to end up with you).................................................. so if you expecting smtin,study him or her and walk inline,.men hate stress,so if you are there before or with him at the same time he will never go through that stress of going to know and start learning another........else..he will dump your ass and grab one mgbeke by the conner whom have arrived the desired spot when its time and marry em under 2months sef(men dnt like stress)....

im a man.all u can get from the man u suffer with is your due compensation in terms of money and comfort,u should know and expect rich men like kings will change women as woman change bra.so take style get ur due and stop complaining.the life of full options is the reason why men work hard and pray hard.sister

Now playing Falz Clap ft Reminisce

its just choice.

KingCheezyPuff:
Mmm,You misunderstand.I meant I wouldn't call me bein' with him when he was low a favor.
Though I will say this man left a rider.
Isn't this the type of woman men say they want
One that will be there whether he's high or he's low

A man's true nature isn't known until he's rich....just pray you jam a correct guy who'll appreciate you more when he hits it anf won't sellout on you....the heart of man is "desperately wicked".

Toks2008:


Illetrate pepper seller comment.

Aunty please try make sense like your fellow ladies or face the telemudo you are watching.

smiling, pepper sellers are humans naw, stop trying to be bad mouthed it doesn't suit you, guess u don't have a standard after all

Sexina148:


smiling, pepper sellers are humans naw, stop trying to be bad mouthed it doesn't suit you, guess u don't have a standard after all

lol..it will amaze you how gentlemanly i am...and you need to meet an "illitrate" pepper seller and you will know what i mean.

When i was in school i usually came accross so many who will waste no time in abusing you if you ever price their pepper without buying.

But away from that..please tell me why most ladies use their mouth more than their brains?

And btw..nice pics