Deep Soul:

There's absolutely nothing like "wife material" nor "gf material"! Wtf?!

Every woman at some point or the other exhibits certain xteristics that can only be temporary.

Using myself as an example, there was a time when the kitchen was a no-go-area for me.

I could cook alright but I just was not interested in doing so.

If I'd met a guy at that point who needed a wife material, Im sure Id have bn ruled out?

There were a lot of girls I knew who were more "kitchenly" than me but that didnt in any way mean they had better chances of being a better wife?

We base our thots on husband/wife materal on a lot of trivial things really.

Eg a woman who loves to cook etc.

I know some1 whose wife is a fantastic cook! She can blow you away!

But guess what? There's no peace in their home. Always fighting. Even in the midst of all the plenty food, lol.

Summarily, "material" is relative! The major material shd be love. Every other thing will follow

Kenny_G:

But of course love is fundamental in any relationship; what you cannot discount is the fact that love alone does not sustain a relationship. So if you have a woman who cannot cook or won't cook, how on earth uis she going to keep endearing herself to her hubby? Takeaways? whether the man can cook or not is immaterial, men feel one of the ways to be appreciated is the wife cooking him a nice meal.

tytylayor:

lol,u go wait till Jesus come be dat o, remember nobody is perfect

tytylayor:

lol,u go wait till Jesus come be dat o, remember nobody is perfect

aaidel:

Why would u date an untidy girl or any girl for that matter that has traits u consider undesirable? As far as i'm concerned any girl a guy dates has the potential to be his wife

denony:

Not all gfirends are wife material
Some of them are not even thinking of
convincing you that they could be a good wife

How can u think that a girl who only think on how to
spend your money not even asking you how u earn it
be a wife material, once u refused to spend as she wish
she will start giving you short hand.

@ poster
a wife material is that lady/girl who cares to know everything about you,
Who gives u advice when it's needed, who knows when its right to spend money and time to save,
who cares to know when u are happy and when u are not,
who cares to contribute positively in every aspect, who is humble and dedicated.

while a girlfriend material is that lady/girl who want to party with you all time
who are only how much u spend, who only cares about how good she looks,
who doesn't bother  if  that money is going to finish tomorrow,
who only want to know how much u earn to fix how much high her deman will be.
who only cares to shag and shag u even when u have not strenght to shag.
who is ready to run away when u said please babe bear with me am broke for now.

TO BE CONTINUED

Ujujoan:

As far as I'm concernded, a girl can be a wife material anytime she wants. It doesent take much to fool you guys!!

If you think a girl's not a 'wife material', its prolly because she doesent think you are worth it.

r231:


there u go again with dis your philosophy o

Ujujoan:

More like reality  

I'm just saying things most girls only think and execute!!

Category A: a wife material is that lady/girl who cares to know everything about you,
Who gives u advice when it's needed, who knows when its right to spend money and time to save,
who cares to know when u are happy and when u are not,
who cares to contribute positively in every aspect, who is humble and dedicated.

you want dis and more,
Category B
who are only how much u spend, who only cares about how good she looks,
who doesn't bother if that money is going to finish tomorrow,
who only want to know how much u earn to fix how much high her deman will be.
who only cares to shag and shag u even when u have not strenght to shag.
who is ready to run away when u said please babe bear with me am broke for now.

Ujujoan:

I can be category 'A' if I want to. When I think the 'incentive' is right!

I might be category 'B' as well, when I dont think you are worth the stress

must the be INCENTIVE for you.what happened to good old LOVE.it dosen't exist in your dictionary abi
as per B why bother going out with him in d first place, oh ye there is money

Ujujoan:

Dont you know 'there is not romance without finance'

The love has to thrive on something na

Ujujoan:

Dont you know 'there is not romance without finance'

The love has to thrive on something na

debest1:

Pls tell me you are joking?

xqwysyte:

Am afraid thats now always so. Some guys are so mean, they date a girl just to get into her pants and after they are like >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>ZOOM>>>>> off like the wind>>>>>>>too fast>>>>>u cant catch them>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>.

r231:

from where i am standing hhhmmmmm dats called PROSTITUTION or if you want to put a label on it den call it GOLD DIGGER, dats jus ma own opinion

Ujujoan:

Dont you know 'there is not romance without finance'

The love has to thrive on something na

r231:

from where i am standing hhhmmmmm dats called PROSTITUTION or if you want to put a label on it den call it GOLD DIGGER, dats jus ma own opinion

amosexy:

Tell them oo
All dey want is a pretty n spotless girl

Dat's nt prostitution !!!

This life is give and take my dear