dyadeleye:
So hard to answer cos i'venever been in love before.....so difficult for me to fall in love but I tend to like and respek the relationship no matter what...
Still waiting for that special one...not mourinho...

never been inlove??...at dis age ... dude u re gay

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I think I do nos 1, 2 and 5

The best method is to do the relationship factory reset and take the relationship back to friendship mode where it all started and you guys will pretend nothing ever happened.. No hard feelings attached.. Soldier go soldier come barrack remains constant for the future wife/husband come and stay permanently..

I'm supposed to be reading my bible. But see me here going through these empty pages of the net. I need to wake me up.

Hmmm... OP.. Maybe u dont understand love... There a Difference... Between Loving someone/something and Being/Falling in Love with someone or something... What will make u to Love someone before... U dont love the person again?...

How is it possible to stop loving someone. It simply means you never loved from on set.

For people who have been in love....


I'm Just trying to get a hang of it

no 2 is ok
everything wears off naturally and silently. no dramas.

donkross1:
How is it possible to stop loving someone. It simply means you never loved from on set.

I disagree with u, we change, we grow....

1,2,3,or 6

I like drama so 4,5 isn't my thing
life is too short to love outta pity
Do whatever makes u happy

AngelAhnie:
7) he can go to hell

na your type number 3 they good for..

What is love

With respond here is obvious that we have lots of folks who don't know what relationship and love is all about.

If you love and respect your partner, politely give reasons and break up.

calliope:

I disagree with u, we change, we grow....

Define Love...

donkross1:


Define Love...

Smiles... It's undescribable to me.... But the most beautiful and safest feeling ever.

Number 6 is me baby. woohoo!

Exactly what am passing through now. ....am using no. 1 but her tears and plead keeps bothering me and I can't help. Pls what should I do?
Is there a way I can handle amiaciably??

calliope:


Smiles... It's undescribable to me.... But the most beautiful and safest feeling ever.

so how can the most beautiful n safest feeling just stop all of a sudden ? You get my point?

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Currently in no 5 situation

donkross1:


so how can the most beautiful n safest feeling just stop all of a sudden ? You get my point?

Its doesn't just stop, it fades gradually.. And that once love of your life, you fell head over heels in love, becomes like every other person....

Time heals everything

Rickcutie:
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....(3)(Dis one is for guys, don't think women do dis one): U keep having sex with her but pretends to love her. U continue to keep dis facade for as long as u like.

if guys do this,then ladies do as well and its a very very callous thing to do.
And op,am pretty sure you are guilty of this.

I'm very good with NO 2, I haven't called my girlfriend since Dec 31st when I told her I want her to be the first to call me this year, she didn't call, I didn't either, haven't replied any of her chat since then, Let her go to hell.

I dump her ass and move on

Rickcutie:
........A lot of times we fall out of love with pple, not cos dey did something wrong or offend us, but it just happens for wotever reason. Happened to me several times. Friends use to say i never truly love d person and wot i felt was infatuation. Sighs... Dats so not true. So which of the following do u normally do wen ur no longer in love with someone who didn't cheat or offend u? which is d best??

......(1)Break up with him/her politely and amicably and not care less about his/her subsequent reaction/melodrama.

.....(2)Ghost him/her completely: No explanation, u don't call, or pick his call, he never hears frm u and never sees u again except u bumped into each other by mistake.

....(3)(Dis one is for guys, don't think women do dis one): U keep having sex with her but pretends to love her. U continue to keep dis facade for as long as u like.

....(4)U start ignoring him/her: u don't show her love anymore like u used to, u don't give her attention or care, but u dont break up with him/her cos ur not ready for any drama, or u simply dont know how to break it to him/her without making her feel bad.

....(5)U force urself to continue to love him/her cos u cant bear to see him/her suffer emotionally.

....(6)U dump him/her like a piece of trash! And move on with ur life.

.....So which category do u belong to? If ur category is not here, mention it. I do 1, 2 and 4

team 3

6

My No3. L L.

(6) you let him/her know the stand of things and come to mutual agreement of parting ways and not like a COWARD ways as described by you 1, 2, 3, 4, 5

..this is what happens when you've not past the "bloom of youth"...mistaking infatuation for love.....me I can't see how true love will just disappear for NO REASON.

calliope:

Its doesn't just stop, it fades gradually.. And that once love of your life, you fell head over heels in love, becomes like every other person....

Time heals everything

Why don't you try n rekindle the love instead... Repeat the very same things that made you fall head over heels.