MrDojo:




I don't even listen to they again....

MrDojo:




I don't even listen to they again....

MrDojo:




I don't even listen to they again....

Bro ur english sef is enough to make dem giv u a big "NO"

who is ticlikng you or whatever you call it, abeg shift and goodnight yeye guy

Puresolutions:


@blessingograo stop it,plz dnt do that ur ticking me.If u say it again u just may get pr*gn*nt o...Dnt use kind words @ me...

MrDojo:
Good day everyone, who else among the guys here on NL has experienced this..?!

For the past 6yrs that I've been on the dating scene, I've experienced a lot of misses rather than hits in my dating game, this is not due to the fact I lacked the looks, charm, smarts etc. I noticed a scenario that always repeated itself, which was when ever I approached a girl, we would click instantly, she would flash all the green lights flashable, we would have a lot in common & get along really well, then whenever I finally ask her for us to be "exculsive".... The horror film begins...

They never tell me No or a yes.. I'm not friendzoned neither am I in the dating zone, I more than a friend to her but less than a BF, when I ask them why they can't give me an answer, they give all manner of reasons such as; you are too good for me, I like you a lot but I don't love, let's be more than friends but I can't date you ( WTF ), I don't know what I feel towards you...let's keep what we have....and blah blah blah...


Most times I give them time to sort out their feelings coming back again to ask hoping to get a good answer but their emotions are still in a state of flux.. I'll give up and move on ( when I move on I move on totally no looking back ), only for this ladies who seemly had nothing for me to come back (vengeful) when they see me hooking up with another chick, then they start all manner of theatrics....then I begin to wonder is it not the same girl who had "Nothing" for me...

This scenario as played out more than 5 times with me... I'll like to know if other guys here have experienced this or are also experiencing this....

Sorry for the long essay..

being too cool is not good, guy change ur ways and be decisive, be more brutal and at the same time flexible. float like a butterfly, sting like a bee...Once u sight a girl u like, at that moment decide what you want and how u'll play ur game. Also remember the rule of scarcity, make ursef scarce, sometimes appear unemotional and later bounce back with all the cheerfulness. just be unpredictable and at the same time appearing so caring. It's all about illusions, if u want to play, learn how to play.
Thank me later

Blessograo:
who is ticlikng you or whatever you call it, abeg shift and goodnight yeye guy

@blessingograo ur response is exactly wat this thread is all about.. tra la la la la.. complete the song sequence !

true talk.... i think i was just unlucky with those babes....but the way the thing happened repeatedly made me wonder what was happening...

DeeTus:
The best way to get a woman is to think like a woman. Be playful, cocky and unpredictable.

Women appreciate guys who are hard to get.
Above all, think about money more because women are distractors.

Puresolutions:
@MrDojo as a Sage i have the perfect answer to this mystery that has so entangled your free-flow-thought-process let me share my conclusion after going thru similar experiences... Ladies are indecisive and constantly seeking after even they've reached what they want they dont recognise it and remain in a perpetual state of confusion,it takes old age or wrinkles to pull them out of it.I'm not broke.I don't ress my worth but like you i just dey waka them pass thesedays,thank goodness i'm a virgo i stay for long stretch without strong desires over taking me and even when they try to without minutes i've re-calibrated don't feel bad

My final word of advice dress good,look confident,dress more than ur worth and u would be chased the game would reverse in your favor where u wont need to pursue,but rather be pursued and then u can begin to do the cherry picking.


All the best Amigo

Good luck in your quest

Sage !

thank you......i was just unlucky i think....

bobo65:



Are u sure u don't lack the looks charm and style!?

Mine is, we will immediately start dating, like one months time, I go just tire dey find new catch, in fact, we dey tire for ourselves

Lol

lol le le le le le le d:r:m:f:s;t:l:t:l:s abeg i wan sleep it's already past 2

Puresolutions:


@blessingograo ur response is exactly wat this thread is all about.. tra la la la la.. complete the song sequence !

Puresolutions:


@Detus pls for this comment paste your account number.. " You deserve to be alerted "

" yikes " where's my check book,let me wire you 1m for sure a fantastic comment.

Hahaha thanks man. We solve problems for these guys, yet they do not appreciate.

amuokuko:


Nwanne leave long story...
u ve strong spiritual wife warding them off..

Karashika bu aha ya..

God4bid ooo i dash you my brother...

goonsmi:
@ Mrdojo. you are simply too nice and not been decisive enough .


No two ways around it bro.

i thought about that too.... but it wasnt me with the problem...it was actually them....

MrDojo:
true talk.... i think i was just unlucky with those babes....but the way the thing happened repeatedly made me wonder what was happening...

@MrDojo this guys want to see you act dangerous act wild and not loving that shld be their roles not yours too much Mexican and Phillipines spam operas has affected ur mind.

Like Mourinho would say find your killer instinct...why do people love Mourinho than the average coach out there.it's the same anwer to your dating dilemma find your killer instinct.u may be born again make that one dey inside your mind.but act unpredictable and wild.i swear it,before u knw it they've opened up wild to you.

@MrDojo if it's not still working for you check yourself and change your taste in ladies

bobo65:



Are u sure u don't lack the looks charm and style!?

Mine is, we will immediately start dating, like one months time, I go just tire dey find new catch, in fact, we dey tire for ourselves

that one too still sey .... but i dont lack the looks et al.... i was just unlucky with those babes...

Blessograo:
lol le le le le le le d:r:m:f:s;t:l:t:l:s abeg i wan sleep it's already past 2

lol back at you.. it's a lie le le ko le le ni.I force ur eyes open ? If una don lyk us finish una go dey run back into una shells..anyways go sleep dream of me.sheybi u remember my smiles..

DeeTus:
Hahaha thanks man. We solve problems for these guys, yet they do not appreciate.

Lol

MrDojo:


God4bid ooo i dash you my brother...

i don run leave you..
do my own nd ur own, she is all urs...

lol, i can only see your green face with 3 white teeth demarcated with black vertical lines like this

Puresolutions:


lol back at you.. it's a lie le le ko le le ni.I force ur eyes open ? If una don lyk us finish una go dey run back into una shells..anyways go sleep dream of me.sheybi u remember my smiles..

C'mon that's a simple error wanted to them instead of they

vanhayor:
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Bro ur english sef is enough to make dem giv u a big "NO"

amuokuko:


Nwanne leave long story...
u ve strong spiritual wife warding them off..

Karashika bu aha ya..

guy u wicked o.. Na ur area mind dey worry u which kind id be amuokuko shey na amuokoko ojo shibiri afromedia abi na agbara...na wa guy pack commot for those area see as e dey affect ur mind,u no fit even encourage the guy wey dey down,u come add more fire to him fire..i gentle for you o

Blessograo:
lol, i can only see your green face with 3 white teeth demarcated with black vertical lines like this

u will feel me in ur sheets tonite u will see.i'm coming thru d white walls of ur apt no worry u go see my very white teeh tru my dark face when i come.use some perf take a shower,make up.i'm coming..

Mindfulness:


Ok, if the girls are the problem than you suck at choosing.
Now you know where the problem is, make better choices in future. good luck.

thanks.... yeah i sucked at choosing ( maybe i still do i'm nt sure )

MrDojo:
Good day everyone, who else among the guys here on NL has experienced this..?!

For the past 6yrs that I've been on the dating scene, I've experienced a lot of misses rather than hits in my dating game, this is not due to the fact I lacked the looks, charm, smarts etc. I noticed a scenario that always repeated itself, which was when ever I approached a girl, we would click instantly, she would flash all the green lights flashable, we would have a lot in common & get along really well, then whenever I finally ask her for us to be "exculsive".... The horror film begins...

They never tell me No or a yes.. I'm not friendzoned neither am I in the dating zone, I more than a friend to her but less than a BF, when I ask them why they can't give me an answer, they give all manner of reasons such as; you are too good for me, I like you a lot but I don't love, let's be more than friends but I can't date you ( WTF ), I don't know what I feel towards you...let's keep what we have....and blah blah blah...


Most times I give them time to sort out their feelings coming back again to ask hoping to get a good answer but their emotions are still in a state of flux.. I'll give up and move on ( when I move on I move on totally no looking back ), only for this ladies who seemly had nothing for me to come back (vengeful) when they see me hooking up with another chick, then they start all manner of theatrics....then I begin to wonder is it not the same girl who had "Nothing" for me...

This scenario as played out more than 5 times with me... I'll like to know if other guys here have experienced this or are also experiencing this....

Sorry for the long essay..

too much "Mr nice guy" dey worry you. you friendzone yourself already

Puresolutions:


guy u wicked o.. Na ur area mind dey worry u which kind id be amuokuko shey na amuokoko ojo shibiri afromedia abi na agbara...na wa guy pack commot for those area see as e dey affect ur mind,u no fit even encourage the guy wey dey down,u come add more fire to him fire..i gentle for you o

Baba all these area wey u call no even dey Lagos map...
guy how u dey take cope for that area....

but guy look the matter nah, watin again wan dey pursue woman 4 ur life if no be that gal wey u dey cain for dream...

ntooorr i, think i'm gone now

Puresolutions:


u will feel me in ur sheets tonite u will see.i'm coming thru d white walls of ur apt no worry u go see my very white teeh tru my dark face when i come.use some perf take a shower,make up.i'm coming..

Nah I know how I play my cards..... And I've never been the "Nice" guy....

macof:



too much "Mr nice guy" dey worry you. you friendzone yourself already

Blessograo:
ntooorr i, think i'm gone now

me abi.. you'll say it in my presence.my goons are comin to pick ya up to me.I've contacted my guys in Guangzhou them dey cum.

MrDojo:
Good day everyone, who else among the guys here on NL has experienced this..?!

For the past 6yrs that I've been on the dating scene, I've experienced a lot of misses rather than hits in my dating game, this is not due to the fact I lacked the looks, charm, smarts etc. I noticed a scenario that always repeated itself, which was when ever I approached a girl, we would click instantly, she would flash all the green lights flashable, we would have a lot in common & get along really well, then whenever I finally ask her for us to be "exculsive".... The horror film begins...

They never tell me No or a yes.. I'm not friendzoned neither am I in the dating zone, I more than a friend to her but less than a BF, when I ask them why they can't give me an answer, they give all manner of reasons such as; you are too good for me, I like you a lot but I don't love, let's be more than friends but I can't date you ( WTF ), I don't know what I feel towards you...let's keep what we have....and blah blah blah...


Most times I give them time to sort out their feelings coming back again to ask hoping to get a good answer but their emotions are still in a state of flux.. I'll give up and move on ( when I move on I move on totally no looking back ), only for this ladies who seemly had nothing for me to come back (vengeful) when they see me hooking up with another chick, then they start all manner of theatrics....then I begin to wonder is it not the same girl who had "Nothing" for me...

This scenario as played out more than 5 times with me... I'll like to know if other guys here have experienced this or are also experiencing this....

Sorry for the long essay..

Their loss

Oga no run lemme oooo na u get the babe..... Unto spiritual matters...

amuokuko:




i don run leave you..
do my own nd ur own, she is all urs...

MrDojo:
Good day everyone, who else among the guys here on NL has experienced this..?!

For the past 6yrs that I've been on the dating scene, I've experienced a lot of misses rather than hits in my dating game, this is not due to the fact I lacked the looks, charm, smarts etc. I noticed a scenario that always repeated itself, which was when ever I approached a girl, we would click instantly, she would flash all the green lights flashable, we would have a lot in common & get along really well, then whenever I finally ask her for us to be "exculsive".... The horror film begins...

They never tell me No or a yes.. I'm not friendzoned neither am I in the dating zone, I more than a friend to her but less than a BF, when I ask them why they can't give me an answer, they give all manner of reasons such as; you are too good for me, I like you a lot but I don't love, let's be more than friends but I can't date you ( WTF ), I don't know what I feel towards you...let's keep what we have....and blah blah blah...


Most times I give them time to sort out their feelings coming back again to ask hoping to get a good answer but their emotions are still in a state of flux.. I'll give up and move on ( when I move on I move on totally no looking back ), only for this ladies who seemly had nothing for me to come back (vengeful) when they see me hooking up with another chick, then they start all manner of theatrics....then I begin to wonder is it not the same girl who had "Nothing" for me...

This scenario as played out more than 5 times with me... I'll like to know if other guys here have experienced this or are also experiencing this....

Sorry for the long essay..

Beg your spiritual wife to let you date some physical girl.lol .let me analyze you challenge cos I have been in such situation b4. Your maybe be fine , cute and ladies guy but not yet matured for then to call,present or be proud to show you as their Bf. They want to keep you around which is call friendzoning. Try to upgrade you self and i see you flying high.

MrDojo:
Nah I know how I play my cards..... And I've never been the "Nice" guy....

@Dojo if u'v bin nice before start actin different

if you've bin bad before start acting nice simple reverse the trend.and also u may have been dating diff girls but if u meet them in the same territory like a church it means uv been re-dating the same girl over and over change your place of picking them also girls from different areas act differently study the environment u pick them from,their character and then flow with the trend...if na club girl act the way they like,if na forum girl just buy her 1gb every month and ur good to go..Lol..damn i'm hot..

MrDojo:
Nah I know how I play my cards..... And I've never been the "Nice" guy....

@Dojo if u'v bin nice before start actin different

if you've bin bad before start acting nice simple reverse the trend.and also u may have been dating diff girls but if u meet them in the same territory like a church it means uv been re-dating the same girl over and over change your place of picking them also girls from different areas act differently study the environment u pick them from,their character and then flow with the trend...if na club girl act the way they like,if na forum girl just buy her 1gb every month and ur good to go..Lol..damn i'm hot..

hope this helps