yemmit90:


What will it profit him to explain everything to her and still lose her?

He'll be free of guilt. Even if they cross paths in the nearest future

engrjoseph208:
I have been a guest on nairaland for 4 years. This is my first topic here. PLEASE DO NOT READ WITHOUT GIVING YOUR COMMENT, THANKS.

In December 2014, I met this beautiful woman while I was enjoying the xmas and new year festivals with my parents in Ibadan. She is schooling here but lives in Ogun state. I never thought we could go far, so I wanted to chop and clean mouth. I was serving at the time and I told her I was serving at Abuja instead of Kwara state. After my NYSC I told her I have settled down in Abuja instead of Oyo state. I have a well-paid job and live comfortably but everything is in Oyo state and not FCT. I didn’t want her to know I am living nearby because I didn’t see a future with her at the time. She didn’t appear to me as a good girl when we met, I thought she was a runs girl but now I know I was wrong, she is even more innocent than me and she gets all I crave for in a lady. Well, I picked her up by the roadside but I didn’t get to sleep with her but we became friends and she still thinks I served, live and work in FCT. We usually see when there is a festivity or holiday like easter, xmas etc. under the pretext that I came to celebrate with my parents. Anyways, I want to propose to her now. I don’t know how to tell her the truth because we are now in love and I do not want to lose her. PLEASE NAIRALANDERS HOW DO I GO ABOUT THIS WITHOUT LOSING HER.

Your lie is amendable nah, thought its a big sin u commited. Just tell her the truth on one of her happiest mood or stylishly tell her dat u are making plans to relocate to Oyo#lolz...anotherlieshaa#

banmee:


Lol...what amazes me is how did chick did not figure it out? Dumb, anyone?

Lol. I wonder o. Dumb bimbos everywhere

Tell her the truth, if she truly love you as u said , she will forgive you.

Bro d fact remain dat if u try 2 lie u will still continue lying a lie told nids like 10000 lies 2 back it up so jst open n speak d truth wetin b ur own no go pass u

stubbornman:
then you're good at it....its cool...I like you

Thank you

ebbybest:

Kedu ka i'siri mara nam bu nwannegi nwanyi?

Afagi akowa go ni ibu nwannem Nwanyi....
Okwa ututu oma, oroo otutu oma....

ummeey:
Hehehe Mr lion. Am sure that is not the only lie you have told her. Keep on lying...... MR LUSCIOUS LYON

he's the reason that show is so successful right now. Dude doesn't give a flying F#ck about any body's Feeling!

ebbybest:
This is how it should Go....
Take her out with the ring in ur pockets, have fun eat, drink and laugh together.
Then you start this way-----
Baby there is sumtine i have been meaning to tell you. I have been keeping it away from you but i think its the right time to tell you. But what ever it is that am gonna tell you, please find a place in your heart to forgive me. I love you and i mean it each and every time i tell you i love you.
I have always lied to you about my self. The truth is i never served in abuja, was never living in abuja and am nt working in abuja. I work in Uyo no abuja. I lied to you because i never knew we are gonna be this close to each other. I lied to you because i thought our relationship was gonna lead to no where. But i was wrong. Now i have realized that am wrong, i have realized that i you are my source of joy.
Then you kneel and say Please my Love am sorry. You are my perfect half.
Then you bring out the ring and propose to her.....



Thank me letter.

perfect it make sense

Just tell her d truth!

The lies must continue, so tell her you've been transferred...

ebbybest:

Bro am a she and not a He

But d headline on ur post says I LIED TO HER...****** so how will a she lie to her? abia una be lessy?

sexxydiva:
A liar will always be a liar!

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Sexy diva let's see your pic na

Why did you think all that mattered in the first place? Ask yourself if she did that to you, how would you fell and would you readily forgive? A relationship needs to have trust at the core...you started badly sir very badly indeed. You need to redeem yourself and hope for the best.

engrjoseph208:
I have been a guest on nairaland for 4 years. This is my first topic here. PLEASE DO NOT READ WITHOUT GIVING YOUR COMMENT, THANKS.

In December 2014, I met this beautiful woman while I was enjoying the xmas and new year festivals with my parents in Ibadan. She is schooling here but lives in Ogun state. I never thought we could go far, so I wanted to chop and clean mouth. I was serving at the time and I told her I was serving at Abuja instead of Kwara state. After my NYSC I told her I have settled down in Abuja instead of Oyo state. I have a well-paid job and live comfortably but everything is in Oyo state and not FCT. I didn’t want her to know I am living nearby because I didn’t see a future with her at the time. She didn’t appear to me as a good girl when we met, I thought she was a runs girl but now I know I was wrong, she is even more innocent than me and she gets all I crave for in a lady. Well, I picked her up by the roadside but I didn’t get to sleep with her but we became friends and she still thinks I served, live and work in FCT. We usually see when there is a festivity or holiday like easter, xmas etc. under the pretext that I came to celebrate with my parents. Anyways, I want to propose to her now. I don’t know how to tell her the truth because we are now in love and I do not want to lose her. PLEASE NAIRALANDERS HOW DO I GO ABOUT THIS WITHOUT LOSING HER.

If you're really considering spending the rest of your life with this girl, you should open up and tell her the truth. Its not like you killed somebody, it was one lie that spiralled over time. Apologize and gain her trust.

Don't sweat the small stuff.

Good luck ✌