Wifey things....i gues ur bro get im own too for body

Sad

I'm a woman but I'm sorry to say, some women are full of evil. What will she gain by shutting his siblings out? Na she born am? How can you want to take a man away from the people he's known all his life? I'm just pissed. If you don't want someone in your house, just show your real face, stop pretending. Hian! I bow o

WHOcarex:
Taar!!! Don't mind that liar. Go through her other topics you will see what I mean. She is just a jealous and lazy being. Bitter wicked thing. "worked in a saloon, I have been paying me and my bro fee" my ass. Her brother is simply tired of her attitude. Mtcheew

oh really? dint go tru any of her past post though. her brother go don try wella no be small.

A priest tells the prayers:
- We have one good news and one – bad ones. The good thing is that we have money for the repair of the church. The bad one – the money are still in your pockets.

My dear,its not only you that is facing is stuff am as well facing same too,since my bro got married I neva smell kobo frm his place,its all abt my wife n me,the worst tin dat happen he even sold my car without letting me know,I no stilll smell the money were him sell hem,we did collabo to buy land together with my bro n he sold it without telling again,his salary should be nt less than 350k monthly,yet the money is not enough for his family in a month,talking of family of three,him,wife n one child only,
His wife is the one that make decision for him bt nothing is bigger than prayers dear,kip praying dear.

But truthfully, unless your bro is just wicked. He should have a mind of his own. Must a woman control him in marriage? I'm a lady o. But I don't interfere in a guy's family issues. I've learnt my lesson big time from that.

People should be very care with the way they deal with all these fake stories online.

what doesn't kill u makes u stronger... let the pain teach u,,inspire u,,even if it puts u down,look up cus That's the only way left to go..work wit the negative to make a better picture.. do it for ur younger bro, for u n for them who never believed in u..

Some women forget that there comes a time when they will watch their own sons be treated by a so-called daughter inlaw in an un-speakable manner.
If only some ladies would seek Wisdom and knowledge instead of trying to be boss of no future benefit

Don't really know what to say but let me leave you with this.......

Hmmm

STENON:
I hope this is not another avenue to scam some merciful Nairalanders...



*My thought though*

You have misdirected thoughts....
Strive to be positive in all you do...

lol @ "invoke my dead parents against him".


Na so e pain you reach.




the title got me thinking he did a horrible thing, calm down o because you will do the same if you are in your sister in law's shoes.
that's why reasonable men carter for thier siblings to the point where the siblings can stand alone before getting married.


shebi u sabi make hair, making hair is profitable. you don't need a shop, you can do home service.

take the necessary steps now so you can take care of your younger bro.

The heart of woman is surely evil.

Favored4gud:
Thats the problem with folks back home. Dependency life style is killing some folks!! you depend on you brother for something like say na your birth right. My guy, like u said you are not lazy, there are lots of things you can do to bring u some small change while you wait to go serve, teaching, sell food stuffs and all. I did it, hustled and learned depending on people won't get u nowhere unless God shows mercy. U need to wise up.

Favour this is Africa it's our custom here to wait for our brother or sister to lend a helping hand. So don't blame the young girl for doing that and it's her right to get something from her people.

humbledbyfaith:
hi..
please don't aggravate my already wounded soul..
I haven't really described more horrible details to you to ascertain my stance that I am trying

I'm confused, is it the HumbledbyGrace I know or another HumbledbyFaith registered 2016

He is still your brother despite all even if he won't see your face in his place he should try to play a fatherly/brotherly role especially now that you are in dire need. He isn't the first to get married or is he?? Its always a fellow woman who won't want her hubby to assist when necessary its rare to see a man telling his wife not to. God will help us.

I think 21st century ladies are getting it wrong. Growing up I was adviced that once a lady marries, she marries not just the hubby but the family as well.

My dear, just don't do anything you will regret. keep pestering he will change his mind am sure.

Sorry ooo, I sense that there is more to the story, starting up a business and finishing up in school are 2 different things. pls finish school first, be humble enough to speak truthfully with your brother, and don't mind the wife..... some women can be antagonizing though.

Above all, I pray that the Lord who picked some of us up will pave way for you. Amen

Favored4gud:
Thats the problem with folks back home. Dependency life style is killing some folks!! you depend on you brother for something like say na your birth right. My guy, like u said you are not lazy, there are lots of things you can do to bring u some small change while you wait to go serve, teaching, sell food stuffs and all. I did it, hustled and learned depending on people won't get u nowhere unless God shows mercy. U need to wise up.

/
You are funny.
Perhaps you live in Mars.
Graduates cannot find jobs. Yet you expect an undergraduate to go out and snap a job with ease. Everyone needs help at some point in life. Stop acting or sounding as if you got life figured out because it hasn't thrown a curve ball your way.
\

humbledbyfaith:
hi family landers,

I am so depressed as of right now..

I have a bro who recently got married to his fiancée..

we were happy as a family until my bro's wife started interfering in between my bro and I..
it all started when I had an urgent need in school, I approached my bro with the most humble scenery one can ever imagine, his wife just cut me short, and said they was no money, I was shocked as my bro sided with her and said they was no money.
I took it in good faith and went away.
later that day ,when they were back from work,I overhead my bro talking to someone in his bedroom..
I went closer and behold my bro was talking to his wife sis asking her if she had seen the alert of the money he sent to her..immediately I heard that,I just sat on the floor and sobbed loudly..

I wonder why my bro will be treating me and my junior bro like this ,we are orphans (lost dad and mum the same day in a car accident)my bro is in jss3 in a public school(my bro's wife changed him with the pretext that they couldn't afford the private school fee).me,I'm in my final year in the university, just remaining my project and my final year school fees..
I am really depressed as my mates have already gone to nysc..

I can't go to anywhere because of clearance and my bro has turned a deaf ear to my appeal to set me up with something I can do to at least clear my self in school..
I am not a lazy person, God forbid that I be lazy but I don't have the necessary incentive to startup something..

I am just fed up with the whole scenario, I have thought of suicide, but ithat will be foolishness as my junior bro will be left in this world to suffer alone..

If my parents are seeing all that is happening, they should please intervene on our behalf because I'm almost giving up... ;'(

sorry for bothering you all with my trouble

Guy dont give up, this is your final year, just look for any good job that you can do to get money, pay your fees and graduate, i would advise you to leave that house incase you have a relative to stay with because that woman might do what will make you angry and you might do something bad.

humbledbyfaith:
lalasticlala can you please help me get more helpful advice on how to survive this

...

How do I reach you?.

If you stay around portharcourt, come to the teaching hospital,ask of DR. ThankGod.

humbledbyfaith:
lalasticlala can you please help me get more helpful advice on how to survive this

...

How do I reach you?

If you stay around portharcourt, come to the teaching hospital,ask of DR. ThankGod.

humbledbyfaith:

thanks dear for your homely advice..
as for leaving the house, I have thought of that but sadly have no where to go..
both my maternal and paternal relations have turned their back o. is..our bro is our only hope..sadly enough..

are u telling us now dat ur maternal and paternal relationship decided to quench overnight or did u omitted some pages from script? just curious

humbledbyfaith:

thanks dear for your homely advice..
as for leaving the house, I have thought of that but sadly have no where to go..
both my maternal and paternal relations have turned their back o. is..our bro is our only hope..sadly enough..

are u telling us now dat ur maternal and paternal relationship decided to quench overnight or did u omitted some pages from script?

Dnt worry all is well,hope in God

humbledbyfaith:


by dear..

it seems everyone doesn't get the real picture..

@taryour..
I virtually paid my school fees since my year 2 up till my finals..

I hustled through hair dressing and all but I have stopped all that now.. as I want to fully concentrate on my final year of study..
mind you,upon inception, I literally take care of my self and my little bro..
my bro treats us with apparent disdain...
whatever the wive have spoken to him I don't know...
I have tried to bring her to my heart as a sister Inlaw but it seems she sees me as a competition for her husband..
well,I leave everything to God Almighty...

thanks dear

Let me start by saying that your senior bro. Owes you nothing, as you grow older you will understand what am saying, however some women are not even supposed to be close to any man in the first place, because the devil needs a vessel and they are exactly the Devils vessel. in other words they are the devils.

It started with an urgent need in school. Why is this need a secret?... shouldn't this be the first thing out your mouth? You earned an income by making hair.... dropped that to be a bigger parasite to your brother? The whole tone of this your lamentations is that your brother must finance you thru school..... you don't have to move a muscle to help your self...that you are your brother's responsibility. Larned to be independent and prepare for life on your own while you have the chance now.

Askmewhy:


Favour this is Africa it's our custom here to wait for our brother or sister to lend a helping hand. So don't blame the young girl for doing that and it's her right to get something from her people.

Lol. You mean in this 20th century? with this current situation of the economy? you gotta be kidding me man.

U want to sound as pathetic as possible , but I don't want to fall for your story, as a final year student , if u are responsible , u should have a serious relationship by now , pls leave ur brother and his wife alone , most sister in law find it difficult to accept the fact that their brother is now closely tied to another woman who isn't their blood , they want to forever remain knitted witn their brother ,my dear mind or business and accept the fact that ur brother is now raising his own family ,

Stop cooking up pathetic stories and let ur brother be , u are no longer a kid, and u will have ur home someday , that your parents died is not enough reason to be sneaking and eaves dropping on ur brother's privacy !

As for your younger one going to a public school , there is nothing wrong with that , stop being emotional about it, your brother is only adjusting to the new realities on ground , you don't even know how much he earns, he has started a new family and he must be plan for his family !

As for invoking ur dead parents on ur brother , i will advise that u use that energy to pray for a good husband and a good job for yourself !