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Re: I Am Scared, My Fiancee And Her Mum Treats Her Father Like A Houseboy by MagnaB: 10:49pm On Jul 13, 2016 |
tomquest:I normally will not comment on NL but this one got me bro. Please listen to this angel's voice and avoid a life time mistake that can wreck you. See you at the top bro |
Re: I Am Scared, My Fiancee And Her Mum Treats Her Father Like A Houseboy by busomma: 10:52pm On Jul 13, 2016 |
Oh boy, troway everything wey dey ur hand, borrow leg join ur own & don't look back but keep on running till u can run no more. If u think such won't happen to u down the road, u are living in fools paradise. I was married into a family that are notoriously notorious for not staying with their husbands as against the advice of people who knows them well, guess what? 20 yrs down the road am no longer good enough for her. Monkey no dey born dog. I hope u can cut ur loses & move on. U hv been advised accordingly. 5 Likes |
Re: I Am Scared, My Fiancee And Her Mum Treats Her Father Like A Houseboy by Codyt(m): 10:53pm On Jul 13, 2016 |
sisisioge:Word!!!!!
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Re: I Am Scared, My Fiancee And Her Mum Treats Her Father Like A Houseboy by Cadamlk: 10:56pm On Jul 13, 2016 |
IMASTEX:........in addition change his identity if possible. 1 Like |
Re: I Am Scared, My Fiancee And Her Mum Treats Her Father Like A Houseboy by tyor: 10:56pm On Jul 13, 2016 |
[size=18pt]You still refer to her as "fiancee" "my girl" You will soon submit your car and salary. [/size] 3 Likes |
Re: I Am Scared, My Fiancee And Her Mum Treats Her Father Like A Houseboy by KevinDein: 10:59pm On Jul 13, 2016 |
Valprof:understatement of the century. According to Baby124, treating one's father like trash, is a small thing simply because he erred at some point in his life. Nothing surprises me on nairaland anymore. Any kind of evil, no matter how grave, will have one or two posters trying to justify or rationalize it. I now understand that some people's conscience is dead. Those are the kind of people one needs to stay as far away as possible from. 2 Likes |
Re: I Am Scared, My Fiancee And Her Mum Treats Her Father Like A Houseboy by kizitoik2004(m): 10:59pm On Jul 13, 2016 |
My guy, use ur tongue count you teeth oh, apple don't fall far from the tree, to be fore warned is to be for armed. It is never late to retract ur steps oh. Women are mean. Since mother-inlaw is like that what do u think she'll be teaching her daughter? a man is always a man no matter what is not when the woman don go see baba. My advice is if you think you can handle the woman and her mother, go ahead but if you're having any doubt about the whole thing, cancel shhhaaarrrpppplllyyyy |
Re: I Am Scared, My Fiancee And Her Mum Treats Her Father Like A Houseboy by leahcimzil: 11:00pm On Jul 13, 2016 |
tsamson:yur comment is like the ueue in Queue. IRRELEVANT. sometimes it is better to be quiet and be thought a fool than to speak and remove all doubt that you are one 2 Likes |
Re: I Am Scared, My Fiancee And Her Mum Treats Her Father Like A Houseboy by SHAIBULIAR: 11:00pm On Jul 13, 2016 |
Omo you better run else na you go be their gardener |
Re: I Am Scared, My Fiancee And Her Mum Treats Her Father Like A Houseboy by Mikeparlo12(m): 11:01pm On Jul 13, 2016 |
if u are my brother or church member, you can't marry her....The girl will have the mentality that that's how a nan should be treated. Guy run for your love |
Re: I Am Scared, My Fiancee And Her Mum Treats Her Father Like A Houseboy by habeemurfty: 11:02pm On Jul 13, 2016 |
Try nd find out wht is really goin on from their neighbours, I dont tink d excuses ur fiancee give are genuine. But I will not advise u to marry d lady, cos she nd d moda will av control over ur life. |
Re: I Am Scared, My Fiancee And Her Mum Treats Her Father Like A Houseboy by Lightening: 11:03pm On Jul 13, 2016 |
Irishrena1: I hope it wasn't your mum's excess love for your dad that made his mother persuade him to leave her for another woman. |
Re: I Am Scared, My Fiancee And Her Mum Treats Her Father Like A Houseboy by hedocharles(m): 11:03pm On Jul 13, 2016 |
sammily:give the rltnshp more time, dnt rush into married wif her. U wud find out the truth. |
Re: I Am Scared, My Fiancee And Her Mum Treats Her Father Like A Houseboy by freecocoa(f): 11:04pm On Jul 13, 2016 |
Lightening:You are talking to the wrong person bro. I don't buy into that horseshit. 1 Like |
Re: I Am Scared, My Fiancee And Her Mum Treats Her Father Like A Houseboy by Nobody: 11:05pm On Jul 13, 2016 |
sammily: You should be scared! I'll share a similar experience: My girlfriend's brother walked past us on the street and she didn't think he's worth an introduction, her reason: He's lazy nonentity who wouldn't make himself useful by embracing a trade/career, he hangs out with street urchins and brings disrepute to the family name. I was like "no matter what, he's still your brother, blood is thicker than water!" At that moment I had the reality check, that my girl isn't really a good person, a good person who claimed to be a born-again wouldn't ignore/snub anyone, not a family in the least. To cut long story short, a year after, a good business opportunity fell into her brother's laps, he got an SUV, rented a flat and all that. So we broke up, because other negative aspect of her character became apparent and I tacitly pulled away, but we still remain friends. We were walking on her street after I paid her a visit, and she pointed to her brother's car, and yelled "that's xxxxx's new car!". I silently made a prayer, "Thank you Father for making me dodge this bullet" Don't propose to your girl until you know her family and friends, being born-again doesn't cut it these days. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Am Scared, My Fiancee And Her Mum Treats Her Father Like A Houseboy by Irishrena1(f): 11:07pm On Jul 13, 2016 |
Lightening:Why don't we ask the gods? Just pray it doesn't happen to you first hand so you can answer your own questions. Bless you |
Re: I Am Scared, My Fiancee And Her Mum Treats Her Father Like A Houseboy by WhoBeThisMan: 11:11pm On Jul 13, 2016 |
chiefolododo:follow this advice. Forget the ring 1 Like |
Re: I Am Scared, My Fiancee And Her Mum Treats Her Father Like A Houseboy by shoboy9: 11:12pm On Jul 13, 2016 |
@op, run! |
Re: I Am Scared, My Fiancee And Her Mum Treats Her Father Like A Houseboy by dissybling(f): 11:12pm On Jul 13, 2016 |
before u run try having a conversation with the Father...
but still run oo |
Re: I Am Scared, My Fiancee And Her Mum Treats Her Father Like A Houseboy by Harjiboy68: 11:15pm On Jul 13, 2016 |
If don't lv her, yours will b worse, u go wash pant, no matter what d man did he didn't warrant such humilation,. They did it in your present, my bro, yoruba will say " tete ya ba ese e soro" |
Re: I Am Scared, My Fiancee And Her Mum Treats Her Father Like A Houseboy by localblood(m): 11:20pm On Jul 13, 2016 |
You want investigate shey Continue..... Na dat time hand go meet you!!! |
Re: I Am Scared, My Fiancee And Her Mum Treats Her Father Like A Houseboy by stardomberry: 11:23pm On Jul 13, 2016 |
Guy I don't pray to ever be in your shoes!!! please run for your life...I know men can be stupid at times, no matter d sin d man as committed no rite thinking human being should treat her father like dat...u don't need to investigate anything just Run Run..Go to God nd pray.i pray God will guide u.plllllleeassse Run as fast as your leg can carry u. |
Re: I Am Scared, My Fiancee And Her Mum Treats Her Father Like A Houseboy by acevic: 11:25pm On Jul 13, 2016 |
Run Niccur Run. Run and never look back. Never ever pick her callvagain if possible. The truth of the matter is she had the chance to give a good defense of what you saw but couldn't because her mind is already poisoned by her mother and if you marry her, you are indirectly getting married to her mum. The man has been charmed and its a sad event. God revealed that secret to you for a purpose. For them to have treated that man like that in your presence is a clear indication that they are mean, ruthless and heartless and they would do anything, I repeat anything to destroy anyone. No need to pray about this one. . your prayers have yielded results already. Congrats and once again Run Run 3 Likes |
Re: I Am Scared, My Fiancee And Her Mum Treats Her Father Like A Houseboy by openmine(m): 11:26pm On Jul 13, 2016 |
Askseek:
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Re: I Am Scared, My Fiancee And Her Mum Treats Her Father Like A Houseboy by Nobody: 11:29pm On Jul 13, 2016 |
Well, fear a woman who lacks empathy. My conscience can never allow me do such... Op if you marry her, just pray to b on top of your game always cos she will definitely maltreat you once u turn helpless... 1 Like |
Re: I Am Scared, My Fiancee And Her Mum Treats Her Father Like A Houseboy by Seamareggae(m): 11:33pm On Jul 13, 2016 |
Bros... Try and spend some time with that man and find his own part of the story, His experience might be helpful to you, You can also be God sent to that man.... Cos I see diabolical spirit in that family.... Bros... Also be very prayerful if you intend finding out more information from the man. It's well.... Some Women get mind oooo... .... Op... Pls talk to that man.... |
Re: I Am Scared, My Fiancee And Her Mum Treats Her Father Like A Houseboy by kingsamosy(m): 11:35pm On Jul 13, 2016 |
Run for your dear life, is all i will tell you |
Re: I Am Scared, My Fiancee And Her Mum Treats Her Father Like A Houseboy by uyisteven(m): 11:35pm On Jul 13, 2016 |
Godmother: ***** In reference to the bolded words...no more tym spending... Signs re staring u in d face but u say no..You want a direct miracle like Gideon... OP, 2 many comments telling u to run...so, am not going tell u dat. . . My advice is that you disappear...be a magician..pull an Abracadabra on her A$s... 1 Like |
Re: I Am Scared, My Fiancee And Her Mum Treats Her Father Like A Houseboy by andyanders: 11:40pm On Jul 13, 2016 |
Op, having seen this, do you need to even come here to ask? That is just an example of how your life MUST turn to if you get married to that girl. God just blessed you to be there when the man was around in order to show you how you will look like after the marriage. Even if the man was wicked then, the treatment you witnessed was just to open your eyes how your tomorrow will/MUST be. Get out now and never consider any kind of sympathy for her. |
Re: I Am Scared, My Fiancee And Her Mum Treats Her Father Like A Houseboy by Lightening: 11:40pm On Jul 13, 2016 |
freecocoa: I am only teaching you life lessons. You desperately need it going by your posts which make you strike me as one of such carefree entities that pay little attention to the principles of life but will start screaming the devil when the evil consequences of their actions come calling. |
Re: I Am Scared, My Fiancee And Her Mum Treats Her Father Like A Houseboy by dayowunmi(m): 11:41pm On Jul 13, 2016 |
My guy run when you still can. If what you really said is true, bro congratulations, God has helped you divert evil. The justification your fiance gave is so weak and watery, he married another wife, he used to beat them, first of all it may all be lies to justify the evil they are doing, if true, the mum should have divorced the man and run and even if she stayed she must have stayed cos she loved the man and then what is the need for humiliating the man. |
Re: I Am Scared, My Fiancee And Her Mum Treats Her Father Like A Houseboy by tosinjay(m): 11:43pm On Jul 13, 2016 |
sammily:The writing is on the wall for you already, if i may ask, how you take know say na she be your future wife? The bible is against what they're doing to that man so no matter what. |
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