Trust me if he's really into you he'll go as far as getting a loan to buy you a ticket if he's that broke!

What you're saying is just like a guy asking you out on a date and telling you that you'll go 50/50 on the dinner with him! most guys will not talk about it if they can't afford it so stop painting people black here!

_{you fit don give the guy one yeye attitude and asking you to share ticket $$ with him might be a very ez way to tell you make you waka!}

Una never start dating yet una don begin bring 'brain' for sharing money.
Relationship is about sacrifices.
If neither of you is gonna be a fool from the same day then perhaps the both of you are too wise to live 2gether.

Uhm. . . I think in general, it should be 50/50 but also I think the guy should pay since he is working the girl is a student and she havent earned her own money. If the girl is working and the guy is studying than the girl should pay also so it all depends on them.

But I was wondering, why is the guy so bothered about this money issue? He wants her to go there and if he loves her, he should not bother about the money at all no? Its like he is choosing the money over love.

Just my personal opinion

@poster!! they are both not serious at all Why didn't the guy explain to the girl for her to see reasons for them to split the fares 50/50 and the girl herslve she just been too selfish on her part so if the guy cannot send her her fare, that means the guy is not serious abi two pikin wey want taste love and dem dey decide weather make dem enter or not

Hell no

No 50/50 here

No sacrifice

I disgree to all that

He has found a wife, He who finds a wife, has found a good thing

Let the guy foot the bill, he is the one who intiated the plan of visit,pls lets not be biased here

No responsible man will wnat a 50/50 in dis case, except where it is out of d girl willing

And beside she is not working but a student

So what happens if she sacrifice her time going, her money and probably herself on the course and eventually d guy no come dig am again, wetin she go come do??

Me, i no dey for dis kind backyard and unserious business.

Man is the head, take charge abi naa for mouth??

bluenubian: naaaah things might sound good over the phone, but not always are after u meet, u ll be crying about that 500 dollars later. if the guy is serious, he shud be paying the whole amount at least for the first trip.

So that it'll be him crying about the 1000 dollars later abi? shebi na him dey find wife abi? e no concern you abi ? very romantic . carry on !