Babe2sure:


Gift ke? That would be the beginning of blackmail. He should just play dumb as if nothing happened, while being friendly at the same time. If the man brings up the issue, he should deny outrightly since there is no evidence.

MrFerrari:
The SSG is by far my superior it's just that I work directly with the Gov and my portfolio/office gives me round the clock access to both the Gov and his Deputy. Not even the CSO nor Chief Detail has the authorization to stop me

oluwasegun007:
Tell me the state before i advise u....

ThundrCork:
He may hAve recorded it. You can't say for sure he didn't. You need to clean your mess up. Man up and approach him. Apologise for what he saw but do not sound like you are worried he would tell someone(that's what the other guy meant by you should do it like a boss). Come back and tell us his reaction. His reaction will determine your next move.

Phranex:
So all of you advising want to tell me you believe this story to be real. What aide of any governor has time to be posting on nairaland?

And by the way, if op is right.. What makes him so sure that the ssg is not on nairaland?

You people were talking of the ssg not having evidence.. This nairaland post is one.

You see that's y I know this story is fabricated..

People can do anything just to get comments

CeenoEvu:
Ol'boy go back to bed and sleep soundly, nothing dey happen. Did he take your picture? Were you not with your girlfriend? Hope you're not married sha...

Last last, if you're confronted, just say something like "Wait... I can explain. It's not what you think. My girl friend was angry with me over ".......(fill in the gap)......." and she wanted to leave out of anger. I locked the door so we can resolve it"

This is where it gets tricky - if they have evidence, be very careful. Just say "then one thing led to the other". If they don't have evidence, then the story ends where you lock the door so that you can resolve the issue.

In case all these fail, you should start begging bloggers in advance so they can help you kill the story once it breaks. Beg all dem viviangist, lailasblog, linda and laura ikeji. make sure you beg laura o because na people wey dey do attachment dey wicked pass.

Anyway, I hope you finished what you started in the office. Na dat one dey pain person pass.

Chicent:
Act dumb.... Approaching him will surely raise dust. If he blows the whistle..... DENY! He got no prove.


And stop missing pleasure with business. Quickie should be done at home..... Save ur job. #BewiseAct dumb.... Approaching him will surely raise dust. If he blows the whistle..... DENY! He got no prove.


And stop missing pleasure with business. Quickie should be done at home..... Save ur job. #Bewise

Fhowe:
The op is nothing but a scammer from the story he his just trying to prove one thing he has access to the ssg commissioner and governor so this probably a job scammer for desperate job seekers or contract seekers looking for connection he did not have to divulge so much information if you claim to be who you really say you are abeg nairaland is the last place you would come post your official issues nonsense Mr Ferrari you can't get a Ferrari with this cheap trick guy go upgrade

jomagibs:
# SEX DON'T CONTROL REAL MEN
REAL MEN CONTROL SEX

LEARN FROM THIS LESSON, I PRAY
NOTHING HAPPENS AT THE END

nairaman66:


Stop ranting and face the issues squarely!! Don't live in self denial, you are already in a defensive situation. You can't even respect your office and you call yourself a boss! Boss indeed

MrFerrari:
E no dey funny oo bros

firstking01:
You work directly with the gov and you dey tremble in fear like this, smh

Phranex:
So all of you advising want to tell me you believe this story to be real. What aide of any governor has time to be posting on nairaland?

And by the way, if op is right.. What makes him so sure that the ssg is not on nairaland?

You people were talking of the ssg not having evidence.. This nairaland post is one.

You see that's y I know this story is fabricated..

People can do anything just to get comments

MrFerrari:
I created this monicker to hide my identity.

I am a political appointee working as an aide to my state Governor. My girlfriend came over to my office with her friend who just got posted for her NYSC and seeking for a PPA

I gave them a note to take to the ministry she said she wants but they came back telling me they were told the Commissioner wasn't on seat. Knowing fully how the system works, I realized they were just diplomatically chased out cos they don't have an appointment with him.

So we drove out all three of us, went over, met the commissioner and explained what I want. He immediately directed she starts her documentation right away hence, my babe and I had to leave her over there and head back to my office.

Seeing that it's already minutes pass 5pm and the official quarters of the Govt House was empty, we decided to have a quick one with my babe in my office, believing that no any other government functionaries is on seat as the car park was kinda empty.

Just as we were in the middle of it, the SSG and Chief Protocol Officer drove in and on seeing my car, they came over to my office (we no even hear anyone knocking sef) . So they decided to peep thru the window as they were a bit worried seeing that my car was there but my office is locked from the inside.

To cut long story short, I was caught red handed making out right inside the office. Though none of them is my direct principal but the Governor himself, I'm afraid they might stylishly leak it out cos we had some problems with the SSG two weeks ago.

Now should I face him and plead he covers my arse or I should just wait and see if he might not even take the issue up to the powers that be?

Kindly help a brother pls.

Chicent:
Act dumb.... Approaching him will surely raise dust. If he blows the whistle..... DENY! He got no prove.


And stop missing pleasure with business. Quickie should be done at home..... Save ur job. #BewiseAct dumb.... Approaching him will surely raise dust. If he blows the whistle..... DENY! He got no prove.


And stop missing pleasure with business. Quickie should be done at home..... Save ur job. #Bewise

MrFerrari:
Calm down pls... If I'm not worried about the whole thing I wouldn't be here asking for you guys to help me out of it. All I'm trying to say is he is not in a position to hit me officially in that I do not need his authorization for him to contemplate messing me up if any of my file is to pass through his table. But he is far older and for him to be the SSG, we all know he is a close confidant of H.E.

Ask4bigneyo:
Chai