newakata:




My point wasn't well expressed but I was trying to say:
[center]Nigerian men cheat because their women are more likely to forgive it, or tolerate it.[/center]

When my husband cheated - I came to these boards to vent - 90% of the people said I should forgive and move on. When I vented on an african- American forum only about 50% of the people gave that same advise.

mama-gee:

Adultery is a problem everywhere not only in Nigeria.

posakosa:

if he continues to cheat----- i guess u will continue to forgive him---- what precedence are you setting for your kids ?!

Don't assume that they don't know that their father is a cheater----

Wow!  Posa, na you dey talk?  Huh, you can talk this truth again! .  God bless!

Baba H:

i don't agree with you, nigerian men are good and very patient infact most of the things they tolerate most men from other parts of the world can't take half of it before they file for a divorce , the problem with most homes is that women pretend alot in order to get the ring on, the very moment the ring is on there finger you start seeing a different person other than the angel you thought you married , what do you expect the nigerian man to do, divorce her like men from other countries ? certainly divorce is not in our culture cos of extended family influence and our strong religious believes. so the man continues to accomodate a complete stranger in his house all his life and when he goes out for fresh air everyone cries foul " oga is cheating" before marriage a lady would dress neatly and very sexy, performance in bed very spendid, cook delicious meals etc but after marriage everything come to point zero