we are on topic, someone is cheating live and direct FYI: the only reason i did't yab u is bcuz of your lips, so succulent

Seriously you guys are talking about something else entirely

Agnesqueen:

Seriously you guys are talking about something else entirely

LOOLL. Looks like youre new here. Thats what people do once a thread goes past page 3. They flirt and then take over like a whole page on basically no-talk. Relax. We might be online, but these are still nigerians!

Rosabelle:

LOOLL. Looks like youre new here. Thats what people do once a thread goes past page 3. They flirt and then take over like a whole page on basically no-talk. Relax. We might be online, but these are still nigerians!

Oh ok, i guess im out of luck

na2dy, y me, et all, you guys are just hilarious!!!

The Sly Guy
Pls don't hate on me cos I've given a babe my blessings to pour hot water on you. I was just hoiong she could make you less ugly, _{perhaps you'll be able to meet a fine babe that you wont need to cheat on}

Agnesqueen:

PLEASE STAY ON TOPIC
THANK YOU

Babe, take it easy. U sound like a fussy little thing. After all the serious posts, we all need a little diversion from these guys _{although you could ask why they aren't in the comedy section}

Rosabelle:

LOL 

@Mr The Sly, something tells me youre a woman posing as a man, or you havnt outed yet.
So if a church had the misfortune of having you as their pastor, you'l say "Eve cheated on Adam with a snake"

I always say this thing to NLanders: DONT SMOKE WEED AND TYPE. AND DONT DRINK KAI KAI and use the computer. It makes you say stupid things!

I have met dumb peops on this forum but your imbecilic retarded attitude is unequalled. . .
Where the fhuck did i mention anything related to Eve or some B.S snakes here?
I guess your problem stems from your ability to think with your butt-hole.
If you have nothing to say. . . .

Why dont you shut your diseased ridden mouth and. . . . .
Stop typing gibberish with your wrinkled witch-like fingers. . . .Bloody idiot! 

Stealthy:


The Sly Guy
Pls don't hate on me cos I've given a babe my blessings to pour hot water on you. I was just hoiong she could make you less ugly, perhaps you'll be able to meet a fine babe that you wont need to cheat on

Another loads of tosh from a ball sucking saliva droppin slowpoke!
If your whole lineage are ugly, That doesnt mean everybody is. . .
So pls stop displayin how unbridled your empty cocoon of a brain is. . .
You stupid sonofa. . .***  . . .   

Agnesqueen:

Seriously you guys are talking about something else entirely

i say we are on topic, read my lips, i mean read my fingers

The Sly:


I have met dumb peops on this forum but your imbecilic retarded attitude is unequalled. . .
Where the fhuck did i mention anything related to Eve or some B.S snakes here?
I guess your problem stems from your ability to think with your butt-hole.
If you have nothing to say. . . .

Oh Im sorry that was na2day? He said that about eve and cheating. But you both talk the same kind of rubbish, so I figured I had the name typed in right.

All the same anyhow, you DO sound like a woman on crack, and you just prooved it. Or maybe a transversite? Or a crossdresser? You sha are more in-tune with your female side than masculine. You talk A LOT. And most of it is rubbish

Rosabelle:

Oh Im sorry that was na2day? He said that about eve and cheating. But you both talk the same kind of rubbish, so I figured I had the name typed in right.

All the same anyhow, you DO sound like a woman on crack, and you just prooved it. Or maybe a transversite? Or a crossdresser? You sha are more in-tune with your female side than masculine. You talk A LOT. And most of it is rubbish

ok, now i see why u said most naija men weren't raised well

na2day?:

i say we are on topic, read my lips, i mean read my fingers

Wtf? Keep your lips and five dirty fingers to your self. I left it alone yesterday.

netotse:

ok, now i see why u said most naija men weren't raised well

Yes. I own up to my mistakes!

because nigerian men believe it is thier duty as a husband to f@ck around

agathamari:

because nigerian men believe it is thier duty as a husband to f@ck around

They believe its one of their civic rights

Rosabelle:

Oh Im sorry that was na2day? He said that about eve and cheating. But you both talk the same kind of rubbish, so I figured I had the name typed in right.

All the same anyhow, you DO sound like a woman on crack, and you just prooved it. Or maybe a transversite? Or a crossdresser? You sha are more in-tune with your female side than masculine. You talk A LOT. And most of it is rubbish

ovularia, if dem send u, tell dem say u no see me otherwise na one trouser me and u go wear ooo! 

Agnesqueen:

Wtf? Keep your lips and five dirty fingers to your self. I left it alone yesterday.

seriously u need to get a life, your frustration in life need not to be displayed on NL for all to see, fair warning 

agathamari:

because nigerian men believe it is thier duty as a husband to f@ck around

thank u for that objective view, i guess that include your father, brothers, uncles and cousins, fair enough 

Ebonyeyes:

They believe its one of their civic rights

and who are u to challenge our noble cause?

Nigerian men and adultery? Any one who does not want to marry a Nigerian is free not to do so. If you feel all Nigerian men are potential adulterers, well it's your persona opinion,

Remember, it's not always greener on the other side. You think oyibo men no dey commit? Stay there. Nigerian men are not very skillful in hiding theirs, thats y u think they are the worst. Just come to Naija and see how these expatriates are busy shagging Naija babes, Go to barbeach, Lekki or any other beach, you'll see the number of babes these white guyz carry in their boat.

So if u think Nigerian men are the worst or adultery is exclusive to us, then think again

The Sly:

Shud up!. . . . .
Your 15mins fame is over.
Bloody moronic cum bucket!!
Useless product of a deformed, leprous hag!

Did you just read a dictionary titled : "How best to embarrass and expose myself online"? Or why are you howling like a woman on crack?
Ive said it before, you can "out" here. You sound like a transversite or a crossdresser.

vislabraye:

Nigerian men and adultery? Any one who does not want to marry a Nigerian is free not to do so. If you feel all Nigerian men are potential adulterers, well it's your persona opinion,

Remember, it's not always greener on the other side. You think oyibo men no dey commit? Stay there. Nigerian men are not very skillful in hiding theirs, thats y u think they are the worst. Just come to Naija and see how these expatriates are busy shagging Naija babes, Go to barbeach, Lekki or any other beach, you'll see the number of babes these white guyz carry in their boat.

So if u think Nigerian men are the worst or adultery is exclusive to us, then think again

Oh well on the average out of the three groups sp to speak
African Ameerican, West Indian (black Caribbean) & Nigerian
The Nigerians are more likely to marry and not cheat on their wives.
Marry and stay married
Marry and raise their kids
Get a degree , then a job or business and marry
Marry have kids and even be a parent to their brothers kids

So i guess the flirters are in the Minority among Nigerians!!!

[color=#000099][/color]I don't think naija men do cheat on their wives its d ladies dey need 2 satisfy. Anyway dats just what I'll do if ma wife is ugly.

martinosi:

Oh well on the average out of the three groups sp to speak
African Ameerican, West Indian (black Caribbean) & Nigerian
The Nigerians are more likely to marry and not cheat on their wives.
Marry and stay married
Marry and raise their kids
Get a degree , then a job or business and marry
Marry have kids and even be a parent to their brothers kids
So i guess the flirters are in the Minority among Nigerians!!!

Ver nicely said. And very true when looked at from that angle.
But sha, I have to say oh, the flirters are not the minority among nigerian men oh. More like 60%

Funny topic. Men cheat all over the world irrespective of their colour, race, ethnicity or nationality. An average man is polygamous in nature, although not all eventually have the opportunity to exhibit(s) that polygamic tendency.

I happen to travel a lot and I can confidently tell you that Nigerian men are not anywhere near guys from the western world when it comes to adultery, Nigerian men are far off better. Perhaps they are more careful with their own escapades, you know for them if your wife chooses to divorce you, you lose a good percentage of your estate but it's not the case for a Nigerian man who can divorce without paying a dime.

Men cheating on their wives is been existing since time immemorial and I doubt if that'll go away anytime soon, so sweetheart join the sail or jump ship.

sexykelly:

Funny topic. Men cheat all over the world irrespective of their colour, race, ethnicity or nationality. An average man is polygamous in nature, although not all eventually have the opportunity to exhibit(s) that polygamic tendency.

I happen to travel a lot and I can confidently tell you that Nigerian men are not anywhere near guys from the western world when it comes to adultery, Nigerian men are far off better. Perhaps they are more careful with their own escapades, you know for them if your wife chooses to divorce you, you lose a good percentage of your estate but it's not the case for a Nigerian man who can divorce without paying a dime.

Men cheating on their wives is been existing since time immemorial and I doubt if that'll go away anytime soon, so sweetheart join the sail or jump ship.

Sob story. And women don't?

@Agnesqueen

UPDATE
I dont like dating Black guys(African American and West Indies) because they are for the most part cheating or players or psychos and the few that are good are already taken. I've dated 4 guys in life 2 were African Americans, 1 was Latino, and recently i dated this nigerian guy that was at my school. Now the reason i chose Nigerian men is because in the States Nigerians put themselves on a pedestole compared to Whites and African Americans. We think that we are well behaved and can do no wrong. They say oh we dont have as much divorce but then at all these places they are hitting on young girls to mess with on their wives. I dont mind being approached by Nigerian guys around my age or at least single but married one? come on? A lot of these guys got young kids and a beautiful wife at home. Im sure that those guys would leave their wives if they find out that they were messing with younger guys or any other guy for that matter. Why cant we do better?.

I'm glad to hear a Nigerian woman telling the truth, that Nigerian men are pretty much no different from any other black man. I hear this mess about how Nigerian marriages last longer than AA marriages etc. Truth be told, the truth is, Nigerian women seem to tolerate their men being cheaters as long as he comes home to them. Just recently my Nigerian male friend was telling me about how his friend who is also Nigerian has been cheating on his wife for so long that he even fathered two other children with white women. This is the kicker, somehow he had lost all of the money he had and was dependant of his wife and her money. Each time he cheated on his wife, he was also taking her money to spend on these women and he was even paying for the apartment of one of the white women he fathered a child with while married to his wife.


The man drove his wife damn near nuts, she nearly lost her self along with her mind. Here is the thing, he decided that he no longer wanted to be with his wife and tried to leave her but she won't let him go. I asked my friend why won't she just let him go? He told me that because if she lets him go, in Nigeria, no other man will want her.

I thought that that was really a cold blooded situation that needs to change in Nigeria. No woman should be treated that way, that kind of treatment should be unacceptable and Nigerian woman should stand up for themselves.



Sista

Wow. . . . . . .you said it Sista, you're darn right!!! It's time those women realize their self worth.

blah blah blah blah! u girls never address the real problem here, which is U!

nigerian men also have sex with these animals

I guess cos dis is a 'Nigerian' forum bashing Nigerian Men is a favourite pastime. So because it was a Nigerian that approached u all Nigerian men have become unmarriageable abi? Pulease get ur head out of the clouds n stop dreaming, face the reality that in every land and country under the sky there are adulterous men AND WOMEN.

Rather than bashing men pray to God to give u a deserving mate where ever he may be from.

The man is stupid.

Classic examples of cheating men happens every day in our higher institutions where lecturers flirt with younger fleshes while their wives and kids remain at home.

Nigerian men cheat because when they enter marriage they are more likely to already have the wife pregnant or get her pregnant with 2-4 kids early in the marriage. UNLIKE WESTERN CULTURE where SINGLE-MOtherhood is a NORM, RARely FROWNED ON, anD MEN will readily entertain her for sex a future relationship/dating even when an american mom might have 4 different daddies for her 5 kids. With less pressure to actually marry, WHICH MEANS NIGERIAN WOMEN are more likely to HAVE TO DEAL WITH INFEDELITY because the society and government is NOT set-up to GIVE FREE STUFF to naughty person children, or fatherless homes.

In the U.S. a teenage girl will actually KNOW by highschool (age 15) which benefits (welfare) are available to her if she "accidentally" gets knocked up- so there is little regard or need to find honor or priviledge in marriage. She's also less likely to TRY AND MAKE IT WORK - because there is a higher dISCONNECT between religion and how Society plays out,  So there is little fear of SCORN or PUNISHMENT for tossing away a marriage.

I think its a DISGRACE how Western Culture will end a marriage so quickly,

Yet-tthe FORGIVENESS and BLIND-EYE factor in Nigeria kind of enables Infedelity.

[center]I'd rather stay with my cheating husband to ensure my kids know their dad - than divorce and add 3 MORE BLACK kids into the "raised without a father" crap. Cause in America- they turn out far worse than father-less kids in other societies.[/center]
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^^^^^ what MADNESS!



If a man claims to be a polygamist Let him do so--- cheating is blasphemy I mean what precedence are you setting up for your children.

See how girls are complaining as if they are not part of the problem. In my school days, I have met girls that will not look at guys of their age bracket twice, A girl once told me she prefer married men cos she can get away with wateva she wants, no love drama unlike guys of her age bracket that always av one love drama or the other. A guy that has this kind of girls around him will result to that way of life when he is rich and married, he will think it is rite to acquire wealth and women (young ones).

My point wasn't well expressed but I was trying to say:
[center]Nigerian men cheat because their women are more likely to forgive it, or tolerate it.[/center]

When my husband cheated - I came to these boards to vent - 90% of the people said I should forgive and move on. When I vented on an african- American forum only about 50% of the people gave that same advise.