Its very simple obey what Fiance says and marry him or quit the wedding and continue you lifestyle.
Change the paradigm, how will you feel if he's doing that to his ex if he has one? Paying house rent for his Ex, buying car and gifts for her? What will your mind think they have in common friends? I don't think so. I'm kind of sure you won't like this.
The truth is if you keep this side guy that your man is not comfortable with after your wedding you and your husband will have a tough time getting along. Your house will be filled with constant quarrel, lack of trust, poor communication the negative list goes on. The worst part is he will keep referring to your Ex anytime things go wrong in the house or you came home late from your friends place or work. Your Fiance might not believe anything real you say to him.
For me this is hell. And this can push both of you to divorce or cheat on each other.
Only you can fix this. Decide to let go of your Ex and his sumptuous gifts and stay with your Fiance in peace or don't marry your Fiance and live your life.
The problem you have is the mindset your ex is richer than your husband to be and you don't want to let go of those nice gifts. Please take note of this, Life is design to decrease. These gifts will expire. They will mean nothing to you tomorrow. But having a peaceful family, love and trust is eternal. It brings full joy in your heart. Don't let greediness or covetousness take over your heart. Its deadly.
How enjoying its with a car when you can't have peace in your house each time you drove the car?

Savvy2:


Except the husband has been bought which I think is the reason for the check gift... in that way he'll be her errand boy and driver whenever she's going to see "Uncle"

Lol... abeg I dey fyn dat kind one but make d uncle be Dangote

pepigeorge:


Lol... abeg I dey fyn dat kind one but make d uncle be Dangote

Issorai... Don't just come hear crying about how women are heartless o

frankopit:


Do u love him or the money?
Control freak is an excuse.
A man Is built to be in charge.
Women do not love it if there man is not in charge.
Now it's money and SUV and the only excuse that can pop out of u is 'control freak'.
My dear why? why? why?
Please be rational.

A married woman gave birth to 3kids each
From different sugar dady and the husband is abroad thinking he is the owner of d kids.
Why all this type of lifestyle ?

Then he should go and look for a girl within his range that he can tolerate.
He met the girl that way! She was already living that comfortable life and she also opened up to him about that. If he wasn't comfortable then he shouldn't have gone ahead to propose to her.
I don't support anyone going back to poverty state just because of love. Love cannot and will not put food on the table, neither will it provide ultimate comfort in ones life.

Another approach would be for her to sell the car and keep the money to buy another car of her choice but then I'm sure the man will ask her to give that money to charity too. I mean, don't you see that there is something wrong in this whole thing? He's trying to drag the girl down to his level, subdue her , then start controlling her entire life.
Seen many women who took such routes and ended up paying the price miserably. Not worth it in my opinion.

Savvy2:


Issorai... Don't just come hear crying about how women are heartless o

If u get abeg link me to gal wen get dangote as her aristo

Hi Everyone,

Decision Decides Destiny.

Whether she accepts to or not to stick to the demands of her to be husband, there will be an inevitable outcome...

Let her re-organize her life and she will see the answers to her worries.

If this post is real, I think she needs to re-discover herself first before getting into marriage.

Marriage, remember is a life long investment...

It is not a trial by error stuff..

pepigeorge:


If u get abeg link me to gal wen get dangote as her aristo

I don't sha...

midehi2:
hmmm! some guys will like such, invest with the money and cheat on the wife later

Lol baddo u read awon boys mind

Smallville10:
at all... Some guys just dey yan rubbish... Forgettin dat d reason she loves him is not becus of money, if it were money then she would stick with her ex

abi na