Well truth of the matter is that people are now considering divorce and there's no way you can get them to stay unless you go the Scott Peterson route.

To protect yourself , get a prenup!

Na so!

ThiefOfHearts:

that part of his comment is not what I rolled my eyes at, BTW

although I think it's funny that Africans are all about adapting the whole "pre nup" from the West yet blame the west at the same time for divorce. hahhaa

well u have been an advocate of divorce so lets play the game according to u

I'm confuzzled. btw again what I have against your comment has nothing to do with prenup.

dont tell me ur scared of prenup?

or r u among the few that would set up a guy and go for divorce and split him in half?

hmm u really might be scared of prenup

dude what the hell are you babbling about?

I rolled my eyes at your bullshit which was

if she cheats, she goes
if I cheat, she goes

meaning what sense does that mean? If anything if you cheat you should be the one leaving in shame.

the whole talk of prenup has nothing to do with what Im addressing.

well it is a simple concept

u claim when icheat i should walk out in shame then what happens when she cheats

women would leave most times when their men cheats
infact they would cry and leave and start screaming i don't want to see u again

when she cheats she still wont come back with shame
so in both cases it is a loose loose situation for the women

but an active player man knows what to do
gone r the days when he cheats and the women threatens to leave and makes u start feeling bad for u to start apologising

wel too bad if she wants to leave good ridance to bad ruxxxsh

well but my advice to all guys to do not cheat when your married but before then i can't tell what might happen 

KC, no offense but are you really retarded or just a shame to men? I'm worried about you, sincerely!WTF?

Kaecy, you should apply to the College of Learning to Make Sense.

eeyaaa

u have come again

wisdom enbodiment

TOF u wont warn ur girl b4 we start fighting

kaecy5:

well it is a simple concept

u claim when icheat i should walk out in shame then what happens when she cheats

um here's a thought, she should be the one to leave in shame, duh

then again i dont have time to argue this with you, upon reading the rest of the garbage you wrote. it's obvious you are not the type to take seriously concerning topics like this, you obviously wont have any respect for the poor soul that will fall for your marriage proposal trap. for everything else on nairaland i think you're cool, but for this particular discussion, you're an asshole.

no offence.

alright, off to watch Inside Man. later people

KC, go and sleep or take your drugs. WTF? Fight ke? Don't even dare!


Besides, a friend of mine read all your crap and is seriously considering turning a Lesbian Seun must ban you for this! _Seun!!!!!!

Lesbian

Why not? after the poor girl read all the depressing garbage by KC what d'u expect?


The rest of y'all better say reasonable things so she can stick to her 'straightness'

If she goes gay cos of this , then she has been just waiting for a reason.

Please, don't go lesbo., we need as many as we can get on our team.

Uche2nna:

If she goes gay because of this , then she has been just waiting for a reason.

Not really. She won't go gay tho' but was highly disappointed that a man born by a proper woman would utter such crap

Lmao . . . this thread sha!!

Whose temper? Don't even get me started plz.

Radiant:

Whose temper? Don't even get me started plz.

hmm , this thread is so far gone now Radiant

Eurpho, I was numb when I saw all that write-up.

lmao

girl you girls have been bad i saw the we are one thing, lmao i missed that damn

how cud you?

Cheating isn't an easy thing to take. And because, the guy's family comes to beg the wife and she succumbs, doesn't make it acceptable. People say its a men's world but i wonder how the men will take it if their wives do the same thing they are doing. (Remember Joe's What if a woman song).

On the day of judgement, everyone will be tried whether as a female, male or hemaphrodite cuz there's nothing like small sin. Sin is sin. Adultery being the only reason Jesus said we should divorce.

I don't advocate divorce but its important in the first place to marry someone you truly love. Avoid temptations like working late in the office with your sexy female colleague, being too close to girls, discussing sex with a fellow female, e.t.c. If you tempt Fate, it will make you have an affair. (See Richard Gere in Unfaithful). Its not worth it.

Unfaithful or Infidelity?

The film Unfaithful