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Re: Radiant & I Discuss: cheating in the marriage by Nobody: 11:56pm On Jan 07, 2007 |
Do I have enemies?. . . She must be seeing something I don't. All thanks anyway! |
Re: Radiant & I Discuss: cheating in the marriage by Radiant(f): 11:56pm On Jan 07, 2007 |
lmao |
Re: Radiant & I Discuss: cheating in the marriage by Nobody: 12:05am On Jan 08, 2007 |
Sitting in my corner and having a good laugh over this thread. Thanks for taking away some of my stress guys. @ goodguy thou knowest! |
Re: Radiant & I Discuss: cheating in the marriage by ThiefOfHearts(f): 12:10am On Jan 08, 2007 |
I actually see marriage as slavery! Sorry to say it but that's how I feel. then why do you wanna get married? for the wedding part? |
Re: Radiant & I Discuss: cheating in the marriage by Radiant(f): 12:14am On Jan 08, 2007 |
It all depends on how the guy will adapt to my desires and also bend for me. I'll bend too but he must be a really good person. Otherwise, no marraige but will defintely have kids. |
Re: Radiant & I Discuss: cheating in the marriage by Nobody: 12:17am On Jan 08, 2007 |
Radiant just wants to see herself in a white dress, that's all! |
Re: Radiant & I Discuss: cheating in the marriage by Radiant(f): 12:20am On Jan 08, 2007 |
Donz, that don't trip me at all. After white dress, what's next? Black and blue face? |
Re: Radiant & I Discuss: cheating in the marriage by Honeypot1(m): 12:25am On Jan 08, 2007 |
Wow, i missed the most of this hot debate. I'm sincerely scared now reading the unshifting stance of the new generation would-be wives. Et tu Radiante, even u Radiant Getting married was top on my new year resolution list, now i've changed my mind. I might simply opt for a village girl who is not overtly westernised, a call to my mum will get me the 'uncontaminated package' @David and Donzman good points, guys |
Re: Radiant & I Discuss: cheating in the marriage by Radiant(f): 12:27am On Jan 08, 2007 |
Off to bed. Goodnight y'all .Honey, y did u come late? |
Re: Radiant & I Discuss: cheating in the marriage by ThiefOfHearts(f): 12:37am On Jan 08, 2007 |
Honey_pot: why are scared? |
Re: Radiant & I Discuss: cheating in the marriage by Nobody: 12:41am On Jan 08, 2007 |
You honestly do not know why he's scared?. . . and I'm the insane one. |
Re: Radiant & I Discuss: cheating in the marriage by Honeypot1(m): 12:42am On Jan 08, 2007 |
ThiefOfHearts: It appears ladies go into marriage with rigid battle-ready minds, anticipating the worst. Even if they are married to nice guys, their fears/negative attitudes create a seeming battle ground, a hasty altar where their families are sacrificed with the blood thirsty dagger of divorce |
Re: Radiant & I Discuss: cheating in the marriage by Nobody: 12:51am On Jan 08, 2007 |
Honey_pot: my brother, no be only you o! Is there a thread for women who bruise and batter men? |
Re: Radiant & I Discuss: cheating in the marriage by Nobody: 12:56am On Jan 08, 2007 |
Not at all, men are supposed to withstand any bruising and battering and should never think of retaliating! Men are also supposed to surrender their kids in case of a divorce! |
Re: Radiant & I Discuss: cheating in the marriage by Honeypot1(m): 12:59am On Jan 08, 2007 |
Yes u are right, David, i think there is a reversal of harassment now, we need to start agitating for our rights too The first thing that came to mind when i saw this thread was , 'wowwww, another beijing conference' I don't believe in divorce, and i really don't want to have one or marry a lady with a predisposition to divorce. But if any guy finds himself in such a mess, the kids are better off staying with their mum |
Re: Radiant & I Discuss: cheating in the marriage by Honeypot1(m): 1:00am On Jan 08, 2007 |
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Re: Radiant & I Discuss: cheating in the marriage by WesleyanA(f): 1:05am On Jan 08, 2007 |
get a divorce if your spouse is violent/ has cheating problems |
Re: Radiant & I Discuss: cheating in the marriage by Nobody: 1:10am On Jan 08, 2007 |
when will men ever get to assert their own rights sef? Men this men that! Women too cheat, on another thread all the women there were advocating forgive and forget! Here they say when men cheat they will take a divorce! What are men supposed to do? In this day and age women are not even making it easy for the good boys, it is now a disadvantage not to cheat. many women will still divorce good guys. make all of us carry go withh cheating! |
Re: Radiant & I Discuss: cheating in the marriage by Uche2nna(m): 1:12am On Jan 08, 2007 |
lmao |
Re: Radiant & I Discuss: cheating in the marriage by WesleyanA(f): 1:14am On Jan 08, 2007 |
lmfao |
Re: Radiant & I Discuss: cheating in the marriage by marcustan(m): 1:34am On Jan 08, 2007 |
Women do as if they dont cheat tag cheating as a guy thing.But then u ask urself 'is the guy not cheating with another lady who is also cheating on her guy'.Or is the man nw cheating with himself |
Re: Radiant & I Discuss: cheating in the marriage by kitaun(m): 2:11am On Jan 08, 2007 |
Na wa o!!! Dis una talk show get as e be o!! Divorce?? Why get married in the 1st place if u feel a pre-disposition to divorce ur other part of 4 beta 4 worse if and when he cheats? Why not remain a Spinster instead? ignoring the stigma associated with such or even that of being a single parent? |
Re: Radiant & I Discuss: cheating in the marriage by WesleyanA(f): 2:21am On Jan 08, 2007 |
women cheat too so when i say divorce your 'spouse,' i mean husband or wife. if your a guy, get a divorce if you have a cheating wife and vice versa men tend to cheat more and often though that's why there seem to be the cheating tag on the guys @kitaun, people don't usually get married knowing that their partner has probs but when one finds out later, there's nothing wrong w/ getting out of the relationship before they start rushing each other to the hospital or cross-examining each other over whose baby is who. not to mention all the psychological problems. why stay in a marriage w/o love |
Re: Radiant & I Discuss: cheating in the marriage by Eurphoria(f): 2:23am On Jan 08, 2007 |
wrong many and i dont hold back being a woman, Many women marry the wrong men with their two eyes wide open, becos they feel they can change them and start crying later. Yes some marry knowing they probably wont last , its called living in fools paradise |
Re: Radiant & I Discuss: cheating in the marriage by WesleyanA(f): 2:27am On Jan 08, 2007 |
Eurphoria: ditto fools' paradise indeed |
Re: Radiant & I Discuss: cheating in the marriage by Nobody: 2:28am On Jan 08, 2007 |
Eurphoria, you and Donzman both have an affinity towards absolute honesty, too bad you hate Donzman. |
Re: Radiant & I Discuss: cheating in the marriage by Eurphoria(f): 2:34am On Jan 08, 2007 |
Donzman , you see? i never hated you, i don't hate you, you used the word and i wished you wouldn't. I just have issues with the way you approach people sometimes, its not personal its a personality clash thats all. |
Re: Radiant & I Discuss: cheating in the marriage by marcustan(m): 2:34am On Jan 08, 2007 |
You are right WesleyanA.I think couples shud have med checkup b4 taking the bold step.Actually its not easy to get the right person.One has to be careful in choosing a patner.Cos one thing is marriage and the other is the constant love and relationship 'till death do us part' |
Re: Radiant & I Discuss: cheating in the marriage by ThiefOfHearts(f): 2:37am On Jan 08, 2007 |
Honey_pot: Oh please. you are so dramatic. Do you intend on cheating on your wife when you get married? If not then you are fine. You people are just "scared" and "annoyed" because there are actually some women that wont accept that shit. as for anticipating the worst, no be your fellow man Donzman that's going around screaming that no man can be faithful? Even if some women are expecting the worst how can you blame them when we have psychos running around tellinmg us hat no man will be faithful to us so we might as well deal. What scares you is that some of us DONT want to deal. If you're not ready to give your all, leave us alone. |
Re: Radiant & I Discuss: cheating in the marriage by Eurphoria(f): 2:38am On Jan 08, 2007 |
sorry i am lost what should they have medical checkups for? |
Re: Radiant & I Discuss: cheating in the marriage by Eurphoria(f): 2:39am On Jan 08, 2007 |
i agree TOH especially when the woman is a good woman and has given her all, not too much to ask the man to be faithful |
Re: Radiant & I Discuss: cheating in the marriage by Nobody: 2:40am On Jan 08, 2007 |
Eurphoria: as a prelude to cheating |
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