firstking01:
Why didn't you include this in the thread...the original thread looks too skeletal and free bodied to ganer the comments it supposed to??

OBTSubtle:
Yeah... Once, but I dug my way out.. We had sex, I pissed her off, we quarreled.. We just made up this evening after a whole year quarreling..

Enybliss:
you know nairaland you don't keep things moderate it'll quickly get out of control

Laveda:


Not like the ones you create are better.

firstking01:
Still doesn't change the fact that the original thread lacks legibility to pull comments.

zicoraads:
I am currently in that zone But, must you _fuck every girl or guy you come across?

Some relationships are meant to remain platonic. All these kids sef

Enybliss:
marriage scary scary scary

Enybliss:
how did you dig your way out

Enybliss:
scary I've friendzoned many guys especially the ones I met in school now this is the first guy who friendzoned me, and I'm very surprised, what he did makes me like him the more, to see a guy who's not interested in asking me out is like seeing a unicorn

Enybliss:
the reason why i haven't been in many relationships is the bolded, but heres someone i really like and I'll never think less of myself for any reason but i dont really want to move on

ayobase:



Nothing scary if you marry the right person - someone you can call or make a friend.

Enybliss:
adult and you still think like this, your case is a special one

zicoraads:

You have probably been hanging out with kids who think with their 'Morgan' before anything. I do this a lot. And I don't see any big deal when a lady does same. I can be friends with you and be very enthusiastic and chatty with you. But then after a while, it becomes very difficult chatting with you. Your existence would just shift to 'that friend'.
So, no big deal.

Enybliss:
this is the original thread

ayobase:
I was the one who friendzoned myself until I received divine slap to claim what is mine.

I thought I was not good enough for her.

Thank God.

zicoraads:

Shut up! Are you not the one who wants a guy who probably has a relationship to notice you? Who is the kid here?

and how did you know he's in a relationship smh you're the adult but you don't reason like one, maybe you only aged physically, just thinking out loud

firstking01:
Seems you not gerring me hun...but in anycase, goodluck.

Alondra:
The fact that you like someone does not mean he/ she has to like you back. Get over your pride and accept the rejection.
@The emboldened... Obsession is the root of destruction

Enybliss:
and how did you know he's in a relationship smh you're the adult but you don't reason like one, maybe you only aged physically, just thinking out loud

Enybliss:
o i get you now, I'm open to suggestions i really need comments on this

firstking01:
But you gave it up already?

Enybliss:
hahahhahaaahhaha rejection? Who rejected who

zicoraads:

So why not ask him out?

Alondra:
Denial..

so annoying you know you're the only lady who get on my nerves as far as nairaland is concerned its not denial, i think he's scared of asking me out

Enybliss:
common just say it

firstking01:
But i 've told you what to do na...just modify the original thread and post your friendzone experience cos that's what will trigger others to post theirs.

CentaurXXV:
Bliss you just gotta show and express it to the niccur.
Girls know how to get what or who they want.
Now go and get that niccur.

I'm not that brave, is there another option

Enybliss:
are you in Nigeria? Have you met Nigerian guys? Really?

Enybliss:
I'm not that brave, is there another option

It rests solely on you. If you know you want him and he is worth it. Go after him or cower in fear of rejection.