tcreations:

well it is a mans world or nature to cheat on their patner and the best thing to done is silence cos i believe it works they will rather start feeling bad try and see

sweetmadam:

@The blessed   Are you trying to blind us with your neon-sign written post? You for erect sign board.lol.

Davidkpobo:

Why women do, d reasons are many. But wit my lil knwledge, l'll say d ones i knw. 1) they feel d only place they can exist is around that guy or men. Money., they think if they lose d guy they lose money. As am concern luv doesn't make women who have cheating men still stay wit d men or whatever. Na so i see my own point. If u want more, Just look goldpounds@gmail.com

Theblessed:

[b]What do you expect from an under dog, if not to lie low?  And how many women in Nigeria have jobs  Since most women in the world have no economic back bone thus, are financially insecured, coupled with  the fear of stepping out on their own then, they would remain meat for the vultures - men would always marginalised them. 

If all women are independent, the man that would dictate, intimidate, bully and control them is yet to be born.  An independent woman would quickly change a bad situ and ASSERT herself because, she has the POWER to do so. That's why some men are so scare of people like us but, there's no need to be afraid if only they understand and know how to treat an independent woman by abiding by the 'rules of dignity and respect'.  Therefore, women should stand on their dignity and insist on being treated with due respect that's the only way they could win this battle of the sexes. DEMAND YOUR RESPECT AND DIGNITY!! 

Please women, understand this, a man that cheats on you have no respect for you. Don't you think you deserve better?  Some even go out there and bring Home HiV/aids to the mother of their children. How selfish and wicked a naughty person could be?  It's not only that you cheated her, you also killed her thus,  your children become victims, when both of you are gone, I wonder their future??

Obviously, a wicked man wouldn't give a hoot to his actions/consequences, but I'll say this to you, the doors of 'HELL' are wide open to consume your wicked a-se, when you get there.  That's how I feel about such men!.  Well, that's my answer to your question. [/b]

Biabeke:

Most women in Nigeria endure cheating husbands and boyfriends because of the poor economic situation.  As for the married women, they linger in the marriage, because of the stigma that comes with becoming a divorcee.  Nigeria is a very judgemental society.  Let us not forget that.

Absolutely true my sister! Don't worry, things are changing and with the way Technology is penetrating cultures all over the world, Nigerian men would know what 'Hit' them and thus, learn to respect their women.

You see, before, Nigerians never used to travel much but these days, imagine the population of Nigerians abroad, all coming home with new ideas and borrowed cultures.  Sorry, for the TRADITIONALISTS soon they would join the bandwagon and won't be able to salvage what's left of our culture! It's a matter of time!

Theblessed:

Absolutely true my sister! Don't worry, things are changing and with the way Technology is penetrating cultures all over the world, Nigerian men would know what 'Hit' them and thus, learn to respect their women.

You see, before, Nigerians never used to travel much but these days, imagine the population of Nigerians abroad, all coming home with new ideas and borrowed cultures.  Sorry, for the TRADITIONALISTS soon they would join the bandwagon and won't be able to salvage what's left of our culture! It's a matter of time!

Biabeke:

Most women in Nigeria endure cheating husbands and boyfriends because of the poor economic situation. As for the married women, they linger in the marriage, because of the stigma that comes with becoming a divorcee. Nigeria is a very judgemental society. Let us not forget that.

tpia@:

i'm still trying to understand how these men who were born and raised by nigerian mothers, are getting their irresponsible and disrespectful attitudes.

is it the combined effect of being uprooted and also could it be what they learnt from their fathers even though not all mothers are angels admittedly.

but we all know in nigeria, women are the underdogs.

so why do the men [even the ones whose mothers tried to raise them right], still prefer to turn out shiftless?

poverty effect?

Ms Diva: Some of you know your man is cheating on you but you won't dare say a word to him because you "love him." Instead, all you do is hate the girl he's cheating with. You'll hurt another woman over a damn guy who doesn't give a sh!t about you and just wants the goodies.

We have got to do better.