I'm suprised you are confused what to do here mate.

Get outta her life.. Don't wait till she tells you with a stern look on her face.
Use your head man, don't keep the ho* waiting

eezeribe:
Just end the relationship

Correct, I concur

Chibydinho:


And if she chooses the guy??

No human is irreplaceable or indispensable, life will go on...and one day you will look back and wonder what you saw in her. Trust me, am typing this from experience.

Cut her off man she's loose

True true...Alphas are few. Even if a certain girl is my first love, I won't let anyone ride on my dignity and ego. I can do anything to protect them, even kill. Actually I'm narcissistic to a reasonable point.

The frequency at which niggers roll in here to complain shit about their misbehaving lovers is alarming. I feel like whipping every plantiffs' ass, seriously. God did not make me a man with a d!ck, two balls and a solid heart for nothing. Mess with my type for even a second and get assassinated out of my memory for life. It doesn't matter how long we've been together. Everything starts and ends in one day.

The summary of my talk be say...Op you no get talk. Period.

nwaonyeze001:
Guy......Y?
First and foremost.......she is a gf, not a wife,
Secondly...........there are some people you will relate this issue to and the next thing will b a resounding slap on your face.......probably to reset your brain
What are you even saying?....... you dont need any advise here, sit down and think with your brain not your third leg


Think about this.......that kind of girl, can she be your wife

the guy @chybidinho is lucky not to be my friend because to God if you finish this story without five slaps then I am a bastard.

Funny when I see post where girls dey humble men to boys... wey una never marry gan.
1) man the bleep up
2) Mary go round
3) replace
4) lavish money on her
...... love s overrated btw.. go for compatibility nd perseverance

greatnaija01:
get another girl

tag her in your romantic posts on facebook.

take the other girl out and snap it as you dp

then find a third girl to be friends with you.. BE THE PLAYER...

NICE GUYS GET THE WORST GIRLS.... NICE LADIES GET THE WORST GUYS


So switch the game... dont ask her about her guy o... dont sleep with her or buy her anything....JUST MOVE ON without break up...This makes the girl feel guilty after some time... but now i can assure you that the other guy is giving her better sex, money or fun more than you and the other guy too aint a nice guy.... she is only his side chick.

PEOPLE NEED TO UNDERSTAND THAT PLAYERS CREATE BETTER PLAYERS.... its nt usually the first to cheat that wins... but the revenge cheat thats d one that SLAYS...


Let this your lady visit you and meet the third or second girl in your crib

let her call you and one of the two girls tell her you are busy... change her contact name to KID-SIS or DAYO MOTHER or somthin no one will hesitate to reply.

GIVE IT 3-6 MONTHS BRO.... she will be running back to you... BUT ONCE SHE COME BACK.. DUMP HER.

This is the assassins way to deal with such ladies... YOU LOVE HER TOO MUCH IS SIMPLY INSECURITY THAT YOU MAY NOT FIND ANOTHER BETTER GIRL... thats not true... FOLLOW THIS AND YOU WILL DO THANKSGIVING IN CHURCH SOON.

Best advice, but the OP is too love blind to see. Spit on thread

use another girl to play game with her use another girl to play game with her

dude I understand how u feel, trust me.
u know the truth but you are just scared to face it because you are making decision with your emotions which is not suppose to be so..
the earlier you face reality the better 4 u...

my advice 4 u is to go and make real money and make her realize she lost a prize.


Nb; don't e ever love a woman cos they gat multi feelings instead make a woman loves u

chumasmog:
use another girl to play game with her use another girl to play game with her

Una seriously dey shame me. Seriously. So if person wey you bin dey reason im matter begin dey f$#k up, na to use another person make her jealous sure pass?

I don't know if I'm weird or mad for not subscribing to this point of view. But then, I be first son where I come from, and I get responsibilities to handle. That time wey I dey use cuddle, snug, romance and f##k...I go carry that time jejely devote to other important facets of my life. I no just get time to impress or make anybody jealous. Who ex-gf help?

I don reach that point in my life wey I know very well wetin I want. If I dump you, I dump you. That is the end of the love story.

Chibydinho:
This is my first time to share a problem here and I will appreciate everyone's opinion please.
.
I have a gf that I've been with for some years now and everything has been going real fine. It was all merry going, though we've had few fights, but we always made up and the relationship continued.
.
The real problem started some time last year when we had misunderstanding and was not on talking terms for few days. I dogged deep and discovered that my gf is hooking up with another guy and from findings, I noticed it was just a fresh talk which now evolved because of our little quarrel.. I kept calm and waited for weekend to visit her and make up things with her and also to know why she acted that way..
.
When I went, I noticed she went out with this guy and even she came back..she didn't felt remorseful rather blamed everything on me and the issue we had during the week. I didn't loose my anger because of the love I have for her and tried working things up to make up with her...which was successful coupled with the fact that the guy later went back to school.
.
From then till now, she kept contact with the guy, but I wasn't bothered because our love was flourishing and rationally, I never expected them to be sudden enemies... but the issue began recently when I failed on a promise to visit her at her place and considering stuffs I was doing.
.
That was some days ago and since then she has been acting funny on phone and chats and I recently noticed that the guy is back from a romantic Fb post she made and tagged him.
.
Honestly, I am tired of my gf using the guy as a bait or threat to me and needs advice on what to
do to end that...

.
Thanks as you help a bro out of this emotional stress... I just love this Lady.

Stop sounding like a kid, just move on with your life. First step to having a successful relationship with all these lesbians littered everywhere parading themselves as women is to harden your heart. Be rude to women and they will enjoy you better!

TrueHeart365:
guys these days are ultimate fcukboys and it's really annoying how you submit to these hoes whose love for you is only for the goodies you give them.

lemme tell you from my experience. i used to be this foolish for love until i learnt that humans will always take for granted what they can easily get.

my girlfriend of 8 months wanted to play that game with me and even though i fell for it at first, thank God for my mum and sisters who sat me down and thought me what i used to tame her.

bro, that you care about someone doesn't mean you have to give her your dignity and pride. she sees how submisive you are and will continue to take you for a ride until you become a side nigga.

invite her over(don't make the mistake of goung to her place), be a man and prepare for the worst while you ask her to chose between you and the new nigga(cos it's obvious she has developed feelings for him).

be the alpha male and set some rules in your relationship. which mumu love you dey talk about.

no woman, i repeat.. no woman will ever respect or stay loyal to a weak man. they want you to take control and the moment you can't they take you for a ride.

please enough of this silly "i love her so much" talk, it's no excuse to be the doormat in the relationship.

I like these words . no woman will ever respect or stay loyal to a weak man. u are right on dis one

I laugh ! She's not really confused And u still talk of loosing at both ends
Meaning u approve of that and u may likely do the same?





Op, leme tell u how to deal with such girls. Obviously she knows u're crazy about her. Now this is the best time to give her the shock of her life with no pity. Why do I say that?

From what you wrote up there, permit me to tell u the home truth. First off, ask urself if you can put up with another guy doking ur babe. If she could tell u to ur face that she doesn't know whom to choose and you're still here asking us, then she's just turned you into a toy. She knows your mumu button already and I see you're too soft for her.

Do this :
Delete her number from your phone and every single detail that reminds you of her, don't call her or text anymore, now avoid her and put her in a mystery of thoughts. If she calls you, pick up and act normal but don't ever return the call or text. Initially She would think you're only kidding, but after a while she would be thrown off balance like why the whimsical attitude from someone who loves her so much. After a while she will call you and demand to see you, when she comes looking for you, act normal at first and read her mood. She wants to know wassup, why the sudden change, why her games are no longer having an effect on you

Now play on her emotions, of course you know her Achilles' heel . Get her to bed, mount her and pound her mercilessly,

That's your last f**k given . After you're done, act indifferent , then ditch her sorry ass

She got served!

Divay22:
Trueheart has said it all....

Invite her over and talk to her,she is not really confused, she just doesn't wanna lose at both end....she already knows who her heart belongs to but in case she chooses the other guy Let her Be......

Grow some balls my nigga. Luck up 4dat bitch...she will come begn but neva accept her back, just Bleep her 4d last fucking time.

If u ain't appreciated enough,walk...relationships ain't do or die..

Chibydinho:
This is my first time to share a problem here and I will appreciate everyone's opinion please.
.
I have a gf that I've been with for some years now and everything has been going real fine. It was all merry going, though we've had few fights, but we always made up and the relationship continued.
.
The real problem started some time last year when we had misunderstanding and was not on talking terms for few days. I dogged deep and discovered that my gf is hooking up with another guy and from findings, I noticed it was just a fresh talk which now evolved because of our little quarrel.. I kept calm and waited for weekend to visit her and make up things with her and also to know why she acted that way..
.
When I went, I noticed she went out with this guy and even she came back..she didn't felt remorseful rather blamed everything on me and the issue we had during the week. I didn't loose my anger because of the love I have for her and tried working things up to make up with her...which was successful coupled with the fact that the guy later went back to school.
.
From then till now, she kept contact with the guy, but I wasn't bothered because our love was flourishing and rationally, I never expected them to be sudden enemies... but the issue began recently when I failed on a promise to visit her at her place and considering stuffs I was doing.
.
That was some days ago and since then she has been acting funny on phone and chats and I recently noticed that the guy is back from a romantic Fb post she made and tagged him.
.
Honestly, I am tired of my gf using the guy as a bait or threat to me and needs advice on what to
do to end that...

.
Thanks as you help a bro out of this emotional stress... I just love this Lady.

helloo guy I have read comments on here people say u should break up with her pls don't do it I know how u feel because I have been there my ex want me back she start with these he don't pick my call any more she talk to me d way she likes but am a songer guy I always tell my girls if u hear me Dan I must beat u I always make my gf to fear me not every time I play with them sometimes I act different I don't laff with them I don't want them to see me as a weak guy so my advice for u is don't break up wit her just leave don't talk to her just leave and fine ur self another girl I know it hard but u got to be a man OK or better still just turn her to sex mate OK don't break up wit hear just leave her romve her from ur mind u see she will back to u as am talking to u my ex want me back but I don't have her time I play d game as if I luv her but inside of me I don't just play d game don't break up wit her just let's her go stop calling her don't talk to her again she will cum back to u and dis time don't take her serious OK

Chibydinho:

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See my point here... I need the truth behind these... besides it was incredible when she told me she never had sex with the guy.. the guy was clouding her with money.

Jeez!...my guy don't tell me ur also gullible too...oh cmon!!!...u ain't no ALPHA MALE bro

Donjazzy12:

Stop sounding like a kid, just move on with your life. First step to having a successful relationship with all these lesbians littered everywhere parading themselves as women is to harden your heart. Be rude to women and they will enjoy you better!

I concur!!!.. Works for me.

Divay22:
They break your heart

He is saying the truth. Its not about being bitter, but everyone should learn to possess some degree of emotional independence. Now does the attraction to the girl put food on his table? Does it assist him in his divine assignment? If she became old and flabby will the so-called 'love" still be there? I've been there...but I wasn't that gentle...I am the explosive type when dealt with unjustly... Was heartbroken...but the heartbreak opened my eyes to see what is important....its painful, sometimes lonely...but then I don't live by emotions anymore..I will feel more disappointed for a day that I didn't achieve my goals rather than a breakup. OP should just get over the pain and move on...before it destroys him

Ballmer:


Am glad you have sampled her, now move on to the next girl. Sample that too when your girl is ready after the other guy have gotten his share of the pie, She will wash and bring it back to you. It is left for you to continue or not but virtually all girls must spread their pie far n wide no matter how much love you have got to give till common sense is forked into their lives. Verily, I tell you only few girls have the have the intelligence to understand its the same pipe world over. Same with the guys too.

The guy had his share already! Just so u know

Follow this way

u never tell us the cus of ur misunderstanding,may b u told her u are done with her initially nd later u find out she has another guy.just let her go nd move on with ur life

choose the guy or him? what an insult. Well, except if he has no ego or personality to preserve. I can never subject myself to such ridicule of telling a lady to choose between someone and me...whaaaaaaaat. My brother, stop being childish and simply move on with your life jare. A more beautiful and homely lady is out there waiting for you. Good luck.

A chilled bottle of Heineken for you bro...

TrueHeart365:
guys these qdays are ultimate fcukboys and it's really annoying how you submit to these hoes whose love for you is only for the goodies you give them.

lemme tell you from my experience. i used to be this foolish for love until i learnt that humans will always take for granted what they can easily get.

my girlfriend of 8 months wanted to play that game with me and even though i fell for it at first, thank God for my mum and sisters who sat me down and thought me what i used to tame her.

bro, that you care about someone doesn't mean you have to give her your dignity and pride. she sees how submisive you are and will continue to take you for a ride until you become a side nigga.

invite her over(don't make the mistake of goung to her place), be a man and prepare for the worst while you ask her to chose between you and the new nigga(cos it's obvious she has developed feelings for him).

be the alpha male and set some rules in your relationship. which mumu love you dey talk about.

no woman, i repeat.. no woman will ever respect or stay loyal to a weak man. they want you to take control and the moment you can't they take you for a ride.

please enough of this silly "i love her so much" talk, it's no excuse to be the doormat in the relationship.

She's playing you cos she knows that you love her nomatter what, that's what they do..



Dump the bitch and focus more on your business bro, make a lotta money and find a beautiful good girl that deserve your love.. No time for nonsense.. That bitch don't deserve a gentle man like you bro..

Friend, one thing I have learnt in life is that love should never be an excuse for stupidity, if you continue like this she will use u and still be with the guy at the long run. So u need to hold your ground and define where u belong, if she will continue with the emotional blackmail then let her go.

Frolic:
Dont be such a pussee ! Stop looking that side! ... Be the man . You know what men do?, they keep their women on their toes! I know youre smart enough to catch the drift . Good luck!

a man keeps his under hís toes. You are a big idiot and a big fo*l. So you're among those abusing their woman. Fool.