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Re: Ladies, Ask That Abroad Bobo These Before You Marry Him. by SmartMugu: 7:35am On Apr 12, 2017 |
nkemdi89:I'm actually past that stage, but I was sure to avoid women that think like that before settling down. I have a friend currently going through marital problems because his wife is notorious for digging into his life at every opportunity. I don't know of anyone that can cope with someone like that. I stopped going to his house when he told me his wife started running background checks on all his friends. It's apparent she has a problem she doesn't know, no one wants their lives scrutinized. I had to let go of a girl I once dated in Nigeria when she started asking me certain questions because her mom needed the answers to do some traditional investigation about our compatibility. I simply can't stand people with fetish and investigative mindsets - it gets worse when they get closer to you. I ended up with one that doesn't think that way at all, and enjoy my peace of mind. 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies, Ask That Abroad Bobo These Before You Marry Him. by odehaj: 7:37am On Apr 12, 2017 |
SmartMugu:the op must have hit you below the belt abi..?The guy is educating our Nigerian girls on how not to fall prey to wicked men using the language he knows and you went gaga on him. What brings out erectile matter here now?? Anyway, as you reading this, somewhere somehow 'marriage to an abroad guy is being arranged for another mugu',may God help them. |
Re: Ladies, Ask That Abroad Bobo These Before You Marry Him. by SmartMugu: 7:47am On Apr 12, 2017 |
odehaj:I just disagree with his points, and thought it might be a post from someone hurt when he lost his girl to someone abroad and chose to write something to show his hatred for folks living abroad. I don't even know of people importing women from Nigeria anymore, most that did it ended up regretting the idea later in life. So, who has the time to explain credit profile, job history etc to a girl in Nigeria when everyone knows most of them would jump at the opportunity to relocate with you? How many girls in Nigeria even knows what credit worthiness means? So Nigerian girls are supposed to choose someone that drives a 1992 Honda Accord to someone that drives a 2016 Lamborghini he can afford because the first person bought his '92 cash and the other person pays monthly? It doesn't even make any business sense, as long as neither her or her parents are paying the notes for me, what's her business and why should she ask that type of question? Even companies in sane countries don't pay cash for their vehicles in sane countries, they lease them and make monthly payments. I makes absolute business sense, when u can turn in a vehicle and replace it with a newer one every year or two and never worry about a mechanic ever, versus being a mechanic'so regular customer with some '92 junk you paid cash for. Why tie up cash you could have used for something else? As rich as Trump is, I bet he still leases some of his vehicles. Only extremely poor or stingy people think like that. And I'm supposed to relax and let some girl read me that script he just wrote for them? Heck no. Unless she's driving something better herself. You can't be getting around on a bike or marua and go around asking dudes if they're making payments on their car or they paid in cash. Is it your business? Did I ask you for the money? What does your dad drive? Those will be the questions on my mind. I guess I was touched when I read that piece, for at least the past 8 years I've had cars financed. I turn them in and get a new one when I feel like it. Isn't that why we work? Ive walked into dealerships and left with any car i wanted without paying a dime, because my banks already pre-approved me for a certain loan limit. As long as the payment is within my budget, why tie up your savings you can start another business with because you don't want the banks to make a dime from you? Who wants to work and be stingy to himself and people around him? I'd avoid people with that type of mentality in a heartbeat. Those are the type of people that turn of all their appliances at home and stay in complete darkness because they want to save money on bills. What kind of life is that? I disagree with the criteria he's suggesting for women. His writeup will probably breakup some relationships if the girl is that gullible to believe everything he said, who knows. 5 Likes |
Re: Ladies, Ask That Abroad Bobo These Before You Marry Him. by abbeyboy2o15(m): 7:53am On Apr 12, 2017 |
SmartMugu:let them understand, i taught am the only one that disagree wuth the op, because some of the point her do not relate to every individuals living abroad, and in credit it is needed, but how to use it wisely should be the issue not castigating it, the writer should not misinform others. |
Re: Ladies, Ask That Abroad Bobo These Before You Marry Him. by nkemdi89(f): 7:54am On Apr 12, 2017 |
SmartMugu:You really won't know when it is done, even our parents started it, they will enquire about the persons background, kindred, village to know if some certain traditions they do is acceptable in their own place, to know if some certain ailments like epilepsy, madness and the likes runs in the family, in the east they look out for OSU and freeborn. Even witch craft and death too. When your record is clean you have nothing to fear, just like most guys will leave the shore of Nigeria going to Malaysia and Dubai without convincing you of any legitimate activities so because you want sleeping dog to lay you won't conduct enquiry. Marriage isn't a day affair na. So many women have exchanged their true love for all these foreign based just because they display affluence, at the run many are single, dead frustrated and even regretting it. |
Re: Ladies, Ask That Abroad Bobo These Before You Marry Him. by donestk(m): 8:01am On Apr 12, 2017 |
Kontinu investigating and getting old at home. Ibo people have wahala. nkemdi89: |
Re: Ladies, Ask That Abroad Bobo These Before You Marry Him. by Nobody: 8:01am On Apr 12, 2017 |
godsluvee: There is something special living in the western world if it works out well for you. You must have missed an opportunity. Nigeria is not a place to build your future. Things are so unstable. Living abroad affect your health, finances, spiritual level, etc positively. No basis for comparism 4 Likes |
Re: Ladies, Ask That Abroad Bobo These Before You Marry Him. by Eaugusta(f): 8:08am On Apr 12, 2017 |
NaWetinDey: You will not see the responsible and hard working ones, people like you will not even ask the responsible ones out because to you they are "Low Class". Tell me why u won't spill this when u r look for "Classy girls". I think guys should learn to look beyond outer beauty |
Re: Ladies, Ask That Abroad Bobo These Before You Marry Him. by drnoel: 8:15am On Apr 12, 2017 |
SirJeffry: Now that's a master piece |
Re: Ladies, Ask That Abroad Bobo These Before You Marry Him. by jaybee3(m): 8:15am On Apr 12, 2017 |
SnowJay92: Using the credit card and never missing payments proves you are responsible borrower Using credit cards with high available funds and keeping the balance low suggests you have little or no financial red flag Mortgage approval is based on a combination of things: 1) Credit rating 2) Affordability So to answer your question, your ability to access more credit via multiple credit cards will reduce your ability to access a large mortgage once they factor your salary into the equation. It's all about risk appetite for the banks 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Ladies, Ask That Abroad Bobo These Before You Marry Him. by jaybee3(m): 8:22am On Apr 12, 2017 |
Lexusgs430: Fiction of your imagination as it rarely works like that PEP's (Politically exposed persons) usually go through a whole lot of web to hide stuff like that Besides, you usually have to provide evidence of where the funds are coming when buying a house 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, Ask That Abroad Bobo These Before You Marry Him. by jaybee3(m): 8:23am On Apr 12, 2017 |
Titilayooni: I await my own PM |
Re: Ladies, Ask That Abroad Bobo These Before You Marry Him. by jaybee3(m): 8:23am On Apr 12, 2017 |
tolutweety: Hell No!!!! |
Re: Ladies, Ask That Abroad Bobo These Before You Marry Him. by Lexusgs430: 8:24am On Apr 12, 2017 |
jaybee3: It was said tongue n Cheek ........ |
Re: Ladies, Ask That Abroad Bobo These Before You Marry Him. by omoharry(f): 8:25am On Apr 12, 2017 |
Tazdroid:Its not about materialism but being honest about who you are without dragging a woman into a messed up life that the man has already created for himself 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, Ask That Abroad Bobo These Before You Marry Him. by SmartMugu: 8:28am On Apr 12, 2017 |
nkemdi89:Yeah, that's too much for someone like me to handle. That's why I settled down with someone whose family doesn't think that way at all. Some men probably like all that investigative stuff done on them, just not me. If I'm involved with a lady, my main concern is the lady in question and her personality. It's not my problem if her brother is Osu, her sister is mad, her mom has epilepsy, her dad is in prison, her uncle is a pickpocket, her aunt is a prostitute etc. All that is not my problem as long as she don't have none of that going on with her and she has bright ambitions. So, I expect her to treat me same. I definitely won't start anything with her if she has that 'dig deep' mentality, because she will end up digging deeper later and that's when life becomes hell for the man. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Ladies, Ask That Abroad Bobo These Before You Marry Him. by jaybee3(m): 8:32am On Apr 12, 2017 |
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Re: Ladies, Ask That Abroad Bobo These Before You Marry Him. by Lexusgs430: 8:33am On Apr 12, 2017 |
jaybee3: Are you sure you have not overdosed ? |
Re: Ladies, Ask That Abroad Bobo These Before You Marry Him. by erico2k2(m): 8:35am On Apr 12, 2017 |
kimbra:So if you love someone and they are in debt lives stops right ? Jst so U know.America as a country are in debt. |
Re: Ladies, Ask That Abroad Bobo These Before You Marry Him. by jaybee3(m): 8:35am On Apr 12, 2017 |
Why should a potential partner focus on what they are likely to gain materially from the union though? That's not marrying for love but for selfish interest I'm still finding it hard to understand the point the OP is trying to make when it isn't like they are bringing equity to the table Shior!!!!! 5 Likes |
Re: Ladies, Ask That Abroad Bobo These Before You Marry Him. by jaybee3(m): 8:37am On Apr 12, 2017 |
Lexusgs430: Limitless threshold things na...Yesoooooo 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, Ask That Abroad Bobo These Before You Marry Him. by abbeyty(m): 8:41am On Apr 12, 2017 |
ikp120: lol oh boy hope you are not planning to rob your credit card provider and pick race...cuz this your questions get as e be |
Re: Ladies, Ask That Abroad Bobo These Before You Marry Him. by Nobody: 8:45am On Apr 12, 2017 |
Aystarz: Tell 'em brah 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, Ask That Abroad Bobo These Before You Marry Him. by Lexusgs430: 8:49am On Apr 12, 2017 |
jaybee3: I dey envy you o |
Re: Ladies, Ask That Abroad Bobo These Before You Marry Him. by vicardino(m): 9:01am On Apr 12, 2017 |
Ibadan ni mo wa o, ibadan ni mo re o,,,, omo ibadan, abeg send me that Toyota jeep behind u make I use dey do kabukabu here jare. No worry about d cost of clearing u hear? Ama clear it maself. MsNas: |
Re: Ladies, Ask That Abroad Bobo These Before You Marry Him. by Nobody: 9:13am On Apr 12, 2017 |
I don't have a boo 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, Ask That Abroad Bobo These Before You Marry Him. by abbeyboy2o15(m): 9:14am On Apr 12, 2017 |
Joavid:Get one . |
Re: Ladies, Ask That Abroad Bobo These Before You Marry Him. by jaybee3(m): 9:19am On Apr 12, 2017 |
Joavid: We are available biko |
Re: Ladies, Ask That Abroad Bobo These Before You Marry Him. by Nobody: 9:34am On Apr 12, 2017 |
toyetade:You are right. But that's just who I am. I wanna make impact in this country. I still believe that there is hope for this country 3 Likes |
Re: Ladies, Ask That Abroad Bobo These Before You Marry Him. by Cutie09(m): 9:37am On Apr 12, 2017 |
Total bullshit seriously smh. Asking such question is good but must tbat determine relationship? I think it's no no. Going uni in UK is expensive but you can get student loan when u finished you pay it back on the condition that you must be earning £30k or more a year you'll be paying back just 2% I think of your loan and after 30yrs it is write off. Secondly you need God credit rating to get anything like mortgage car etc so you buy stuff and pay instalmentaly imagine living in a house for 10 yrs paying rent to land Lord but you can get mortgage from bank live in the same house and the rent is seen as your loan payment. Best deal is finance car cause you can return it back and get another latest one. |
Re: Ladies, Ask That Abroad Bobo These Before You Marry Him. by Basfaq(m): 9:37am On Apr 12, 2017 |
Tazdroid:You are the best of all comments, I gbadun die.lol 1 Like |
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