Guys, I really need your sincere advice. My girl is on facebook and she has her pix, contact details I mean everything and over 150 friends who can access her contact details as you know. I was thinking, I wanted to tell her to close her account because I 'm not really save due to the numerous calls she gets from guys on facebook. How do I put it across to her in other not to sound as if am scared. But really am scared. . What should I do. Help

you are just jealous get over it, stop trying to be controlling, and if you are treating her the way she should be treated, then she'll have no reason to search elsewhere. or you could just talk to her about taking down her phone number down from facebook, which shld solve ur issue, instead of insisting she close her fb account, cuz she cld create another and you would not even know.

Its very unnecessary for her number to be displayed on such a public social platform, except she enjoys calls frm strangers. However, am of the opinion, that a man shouldnt be scared if he is doing the right thing to her.

guy just sit her down and ask her
if she needs u or not.and if she
reacts funy men free her let her
go.

U hv every right to be jelous anything can happen, but it is selfish to tell her to close her facebook account. What i think u should do is calmly ask her to delete her number from her facebook contact info.

Omo talk to her about it. When I say talk to her, I do not mean talk down at her. Raise your concerns and offer to adjust her privacy settings. If she really cares about you, she should at least listen and share your concern, hopefully the attention of guys calling her won't have take her to the point of no return - where she won't reason with you.

On a similar note, I removed all my personal info [wasnt much] and photos from facebook ever since the terms and conditions were changed.

Goodluck.

ayinisong:

Guys, I really need your sincere advice. My girl is on facebook and she has her pix, contact details I mean everything and over 150 friends who can access her contact details as you know. I was thinking, I wanted to tell her to close her account because I 'm not really save due to the numerous calls she gets from guys on facebook. How do I put it across to her in other not to sound as if am scared. But really am scared. . What should I do. Help

This is why I hate face book. I keep my details to a minimum, I would never have a number or even  a fuzzy pic on it.

madlady:


This why I hate face book. I keep my details to a minimum, I would never have a number or even a fuzzy pic on it.

I am of a different views. I have my photos up there, including one I am almost semi-naked [nothing saucy mind you] and it is set so that only people who I want them to see it can see it. My telephone numbers, DOB, are not even included and before the changes, no one can find me on facebook, unless I want to be found. But now, like I said before, it is a different story. I have taken everything off. The new terms and conditions give way too much power to facebook and also allows for intrusion of privacy.

@op,

Tell her to take down ALL her contact details, anything is criminally posible online. She is silly to put up such details online.

There is no point telling her to close her account, if she is spending too much time on fb then get busy too, and see her reaction.

have you married her? control freak

sweetpie23:

have you married her? control freak

Its for her own safety and i don't think its controling,

D ryt ting 2 do lyk every1 said is dialogue.tel her 2 take out ha no,she dsnt hav 2 close ha acc,if u re sure she loves u den u dnt hav 2 wory dat much.gluck.

you can make friendship with your girlfriend's friends on FB.
be updated

anyway you're jealous.

I don't know if girls like fellows like you

she is obviously not bothered by having strangers calling her phone. Besides isn't it a bit late to take the number down since over 150 people have it? All you need to do is let her know straight up that you feel insecured with the relationship because she is spending more time with her FB friends.
If she cares about you or if she is really into the relationship she would do what she needs to do to show you that your concerns and insecurities matter to her. If not you may have already lost her

Hmmn, na wa oh. I've never understood why someone would put his/her phone number online(esp facebook) @Poster, I agree with you jare. Aha,I repeat, "na wa oh" . As for me,I made sure I didn't put it. Infact, I don't even give it out when guys (mostly the ones I dont know but are "friends" on fb) asks me to. I would advise you to talk calmly to her and make her understand that she's letting just too much information out. I really understand you and I only hope she would not only listen but obey. Goodluck.talk to her calmly oh.

ginky:

Hmmn, na wa oh. I've never understood why someone would put his/her phone number online(esp facebook) @Poster, I agree with you jare. Aha,I repeat, "na wa oh" . As for me,I made sure I didn't put it. Infact, I don't even give it out when guys (mostly the ones I dont know but are "friends" on fb) asks me to. I would advise you to talk calmly to her and make her understand that she's letting just too much information out. I really understand you and I only hope she would not only listen but obey. Goodluck.talk to her calmly oh.

Naija people can put their phone numbers in a public phone booth;just check like 3-4 threads on NL you will see mobile phone numbers,especially the dumb guys.

@poster just let her adjust her private settings and delete phone # no need to close FB account.

I hope you pay her bride price in the process.

Ebonyeyes:

I hope you pay her bride price in the process.

Yes i will pay

Abeg leave her and her facebook account alone.

and why u scared?
If you're a correct guy,u need not be.

if she put her contact details on the world wide web for everyone to see, sorry son but it's for a reason. tell her to remove her number cos it's not safe, if she doesn't well then, act quick and back off

Tsk tsk. And you guys aren't even married yet.

Shola2009:

Abeg leave her and her facebook account alone.
and why u scared?
If you're a correct guy,u need not be.

Gbam!!! i am trying to understand what his problem his

Thanks guys. I'll do just that; It's really an issue cos I have a friend who lost his chick to someone esle thru facebook.