One thing I have promised myself is I will never allow such crap sentiments in my life. I don't care where you are from what I care is your personality and your values. And probably religion even that I wouldn't let it be much of a problem. Until we really grow up and stop placing unnecessary barriers to our lives Nigeria will not move forward.

obikirinoni:



Is too early to derail this thread

Im not derailing anything. I just stated my opinion

yanmiri

@Topic

People should be free to marry whoever they want.

Any relation opposed that will not see reason (or cannot provide concise and compelling reasons why the marriage should not happen) should be struck off the wedding invitation list and ignored.

Do you know how many people have been cheated out of their dream partners because of the words of either their parents, Pastor or 'prayer warrior'?

Afam4eva:

What exactly are you scared of?

Yeah, she has to be scared if she has not gotten consent from both families.

The country we live in.

Smh

1Rebel:


Im not derailing anything. I just stated my opinion

With name calling

1Rebel:
In all honesty, I do not see myself marrying from another tribe. I would want my kids to have pure Igbo genes. Mixing their genes with some other dirty oily cowardly genes just doesn't seem right.

Besides, Igbo girls got it all; beauty, brains and everything else.


**Yes I'm a proud tribalist, deal with it.

Are you guys like this in 'real life', or you just doing all these on nairaland?

Your comment is actually nauseating.

I met a girl on nairaland, she works in Ibadan with a telecommunications company, I work in Lagos with an international organization.

I liked her despite her tribe, when she heard my tribe, she said hell noooooooooooooo.

That was the end of the fairytale.

i m about to find myself in such dilemma.... i will narrate my ordeal later on nairaland...it's been some sort of hell for i and my girl, tho she is taking more of the heat

Interesting15:


Are you guys like this in 'real life', or you just doing all these on nairaland?

Your comment is actually nauseating.

They just want to be popular and get quotes and mentions.

Nairaland also harbor them because of traffic, if not I wonder why people are not banned for these evil comments

obikirinoni:


I met a girl on nairaland, she works in Ibadan with a telecommunications company, I work in Lagos with an international organization.

I liked her despite her tribe, when she heard my tribe, she said hell noooooooooooooo.

That was the end of the fairytale.

such is life bro........

1Rebel:
In all honesty, I do not see myself marrying from another tribe. I would want my kids to have pure Igbo genes. Mixing their genes with some other dirty oily cowardly genes just doesn't seem right.

Besides, Igbo girls got it all; beauty, brains and everything else.


**Yes I'm a proud tribalist, deal with it.

clap 4 ya self

I can marry any girl irrespective of tribe. Just make sure say you get sense

I see nothing wrong in interethnic marriage if I find the qualities I'm looking for why won't I marry her. I dey look for an Igbo woman to marry and a Yoruba plus Hausa to complete my One Nigeria agenda. Ngozi123 react to this

1Rebel:
In all honesty, I do not see myself marrying from another tribe. I would want my kids to have pure Igbo genes. Mixing their genes with some other dirty oily cowardly genes just doesn't seem right.

Besides, Igbo girls got it all; beauty, brains and everything else.


**Yes I'm a proud tribalist, deal with it.

And what would you do if your kids end up having kids with the 'other dirty oily cowardly genes'? Set off WW3? People with this your mindset have daughters that end up with herdsmen. Learn to change your tribalistic views

Afam4eva:

What exactly are you scared of?

Scared we might not move to the marriage phase... Prolly cuz of his family..

obikirinoni:


I met a girl on nairaland, she works in Ibadan with a telecommunications company, I work in Lagos with an international organization.

I liked her despite her tribe, when she heard my tribe, she said hell noooooooooooooo.

That was the end of the fairytale.

U be igbo and she is yoruba i guess

Fresia01:
I'm Igbo dating a Yoruba guy.. .i love him BUh I'm still scared.. ...

Better use ur head before its too late.. they are serial cheaters.its not a myth its a fact.

obikirinoni:


I met a girl on nairaland, she works in Ibadan with a telecommunications company, I work in Lagos with an international organization.

I liked her despite her tribe, when she heard my tribe, she said hell noooooooooooooo.

That was the end of the fairytale.

Life goes on. Get over it

stick to your kind.

Kellibae:

Better use ur head befire its too late.. they are serial cheaters. Its not a myth its a fact I

Tell us something we don't know

Odunharry:

Tell us something we don't know

I better tell the truth u know than tell a lie u dnt know

Me i cant marry from any other tribe apart from my tribe biko

Kellibae:

I better tell the truth u know than tell a lie u dnt know

Care to tell us abt them(People you call cheat)?

Odunharry:

Care to tell us abt them(People you call cheat)?

Nothin to tell again dear.. rverybody knows d story.. as u rightly said earlier

Kellibae:


Better use ur head befire its too late.. they are serial cheaters.
Its not a myth its a fact I

Yeah right, all Yoruba demons cheat and none in your tribe cheat right? What myopic view.

On second thought, if your husband cheats, just assume he does what will you do? Divorce him? Its very funny how everyone wants to use cheating to escape from the hell they call marriage. Just tell us the marriage wasn't working and cheating is the scape goat to run from the marriage.

slydog:

Yeah right, all Yoruba demons cheat and none in your tribe cheat right? What myopic view.

On second thought, if your husband cheats, just assume he does what will you do? Divorce him? Its very funny how everyone wants to use cheating to escape from the hell they call marriage. Just tell us the marriage wasn't working and cheating is the scape goat to run from the marriage.

Its more rampant in yoruba land both men and women

I will never prevent anyone I know from marry outside Yoruba tribe.....Everyone should choose his spouse from any tribe....I am more concerned with a happy marriage....people have married from their tribe and it ended in divorce.....marry anyone you love even if nah Chinese.....just have a happy Marriage is all I care about

Hmm

doyinbaby:
I will never prevent anyone I know from marry outside Yoruba tribe.....Everyone should choose his spouse from any tribe....I am more concerned with a happy marriage....people have married from their tribe and it ended in divorce.....marry anyone you love even if nah Chinese.....just have a happy Marriage is all I care about

Doyin oya na i wan marry u.
Prove it!

PenisCaP:


Doyin oya na i wan marry u.
Prove it!

your moniker (peniscap) disqualified you.......