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Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by Nobody: 10:19am On May 14, 2017
neocortex:


Who are you accountable to and how you accountable to it?
How have that made you behave differently that you would have ?

It is unfortunate that a person who believe in a book that regards others as infidel and
are only good for killing is talking about evil. You took as a hero a warlord who fancy kid sexually,
snatched the wife of his own son and kept an harem of slaves.

I can even see from your posts that you specialise in defending rapist, wow how
moral you are ?

You should hide your head in shame when others are discussing morality and evil.


You obviously can never expect me to engage in arguments with you ..your post has revealed your level of understanding,inability to think outside the box,maturity ,intelligence and lack of existence of respect or fear for a superior authority

You insulted my prophet and you insulted my religion

I wish you what you deserve

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Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by Nobody: 10:21am On May 14, 2017
thesuave10:



This is why Nigerians are said not to have sense. This comment give it to someone else and tell me if that person won't call you crazy. How does a nationality justify a scientific experiment. In fact dude just go to school. The research you talk about are not even theories or laws yet. Cuz scientists are still divided in such issues so don't call them facts. Every scientist does research to prove his or her point. Every human being is an amateur scientist. All it takes is to look in the right place and study hard. Damn nairaland forum has the dummest members I've seen. Reddit and others are by far better and smarter
Mr atheist I am still waiting for my answer,seeing that your state of mind has drawn the conclusion that I am the ignorant one,why dont you tell me what atheism can be classified as ,culture or religion or what?,seeing from the speed at which you jumped on my mention from the reply i gave the other moniker, I was thinking you had all the answers to my questions, mteeeeeew,ignorant people always first to point fingers forgetting that the remaining four is pointing back at them

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Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by Ultimus: 10:22am On May 14, 2017
MiddleDimension:


thank you!

The point is: many of these theists do not even know that an atheist is more likely to let his woman/man keep his or her religion or beliefs while being together. Such is the level of security that atheists have in themselves, that they don't have to de-religion you to be with you. But theists knowing that their belief in a sky wizard and a holy goat is based on nothing but fear of the unknown, are so intimidated to date/marry these highly secured folks called atheists fearing that their beliefs will come crumbling in the face of a happy and fulfiled life outside god.

Wow!! So much understanding from you. Took the thoughts out of my mind.

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Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by somehow: 10:23am On May 14, 2017
firstking01:
Embrace your maker and the giver of life....she has made the best decision of her life....you wanna drag her to hell abi?...bro, let that innocent child be i beg youundecided

Which of the gods/God/religion should he give his life to?

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Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by Nobody: 10:23am On May 14, 2017
chemystery:


I knew folks like you wont understand that. I even had to bold the words to make emphasis but it didn't help sad . I wont blame you though, maybe you dont understand the God of sarcasm sad

Believe me ,I know sarcasm ,I actually am sarcastic most of the time ,I noticed the bolded and my first instinct was "he is been sarcastic" but then I reckoned if you meant to be sarcastic ,your statement should be in quote "....." you know , where i come from ,people usually use a boldened statement for emphasis.,you would notice I added "wether jokingly or seriously", this should let you know I took into consideration the fact that you may or may not have meant what you said .



This is public discourse and a very serious conversation ,a lot of minds would be swayed to either sides of the divide based on what they read here ,it is important to convey exact meaning if you really care about the opinion you espouse in here .

Unless of course you don't take this discussion that seriously in which case you are excused .

Have a nice day
Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by somehow: 10:24am On May 14, 2017
Edu3Again:


I agree with her, go find fellow atheist or moslem marry.
Leave christians alone.
And what makes you think the lady in picture is by default a christian? did the OP say so? some of you have comprehension problem. don't be surprise you know little about the religion you claim compared to those you insult.

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Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by justiniyke29: 10:24am On May 14, 2017
Fearcom:


Interesting! so what happened at the end with you and her??
We re still friends.
Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by Nobody: 10:27am On May 14, 2017
MiddleDimension:


You are one of the most sensible person here. Keep it up

Thank you God Bless happy Sunday we learn from each other thanks have a fabulous day and Happy Mother's Day to yours.

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Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by justiniyke29: 10:29am On May 14, 2017
dapsonlou:




Bro I was a Jew for 5yrs because My Gf Parents said she can Only marry Jewish. 5yrs later I left her for one cheating Naija babe, how i miss her and Wonder what could have been.
U see never let religion determine who u date.hope u guys work it out
Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by proudlyYoruba(m): 10:29am On May 14, 2017
Japhet04:
I met this girl recently everything has been going well until she found out I am an atheist, she started avoiding me and said she doesn't want anything to do with me because of that fact.

I really like her cry, is there anything I can do to ignite a change of mind on her part

hey bro. I am not telling you to become a Muslim or Christian but there is one thing that is clear. There is a manifestation called GOD. He is the answer to all our problems, the ones beyond reasoning. If HE has the shape of human we don't know or a shape we can't comprehend I tell you bro there is miracle, things scientists declare unfit to survive do, there is a world beyond logic and reasoning. Stay Cool and work out your ways. Go to her when you feel, you worth her.
Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by Nobody: 10:30am On May 14, 2017
Seun
Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by justiniyke29: 10:30am On May 14, 2017
IAmAmbrose:




smh
LOL i go warm d pepersoup

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Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by MiddleDimension: 10:31am On May 14, 2017
ikeepitreal:
if you all notice, these so called atheists take pride in their foolishness. They make themselves known as Atheists because they want to attract some kind of acceptance and recognition in their social groups.
The truth is that they chose atheism to follow the footsteps of a popular fool who was deranged enough to question divinity and denounce the ultimate supremacy i. e GOD.
we all accept the fact that we were created, yes, as humans in the image of God. But we aren't gods.. we just have a drop of a quart of his spirits and that is what makes us superior to beasts. These fools( yh, that's what they are) don't want to be held accountable for their sins so they seem free when they spout the idea of God being non existent.
BUT the wages of sin is death anyhow, so FOOLISH ATHEISTS, if your sins are not forgiven by a divine power while your on earth. you will receive your reward.
Your body,soul and spirit in a thousand reincarnations will die!

No body wants to attract the acceptance of anybody you fool! You are the one who accepted the existence of God due to your being born into the family that is unfortunate to have you as a child.

And no, live with the fact that not everyone accepts that he was created, at least not according to your biblical mythology! Intelligence is what differentiates us from beasts, not the believe in God.

Because we are intelligent is why we can question , because we can question and do not have answers yet, is why you believe there is a God. But now that we have answers to what things like the solar eclipse is and why we have that darkness in n the middle of the day, we have now discovered that that there is a gap in knowledge, does not mean that there is a God. It only means we don't know enough.

My dear, we are the best law abiding citizens you can ever find. Because we do not have a doctrine formed from a book written by desert dwelling tribes who knew nothing in their earliest days, we now have the freedom to use our minds, put ourselves in other people's shoes and we can now have the compassion for other people. A compassion that is non existent in your warped ideology called Christianity.

If truly being an atheist means that we just want to do as we like without being held accountable, why then are we not the majority of people in prisons? Why thendo you have chapels and mosques in the prison yard? It turns out that we have those places of worship in prisons because the people OK e there are foolish theists like your pathetic self!

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Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by MiddleDimension: 10:33am On May 14, 2017
proudlyYoruba:
hey bro. I am not telling you to become a Muslim or Christian but there is one thing that is clear. There is a manifestation called GOD. He is the answer to all our problems, the ones beyond reasoning. If HE has the shape of human we don't know or a shape we can't comprehend I tell you bro there is miracle, things scientists declare unfit to survive do, there is a world beyond logic and reasoning. Stay Cool and work out your ways. Go to her when you feel, you worth her.
or she should come to him when she's worth him. Stupid bigots!
Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by MiddleDimension: 10:34am On May 14, 2017
solasoulmusic:


Thank you God Bless happy Sunday we learn from each other thanks have a fabulous day and Happy Mother's Day to yours.
i feel like giving you a 'holy'kiss

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Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by SavageGarden(m): 10:35am On May 14, 2017
2dugged:
the fact is atheists draw their mortality on their state of mind they donot have a standard or reference, now what happens to a psychologically troubled atheist?, what you as an atheist tag as right, another atheist may not agree.one thing with logical thinking is you can be right in your own eyes.A sixteen years old American once killed two people, and when questioned why she did it,she said cos she hated Mondays, now to her that is a logical reason enough, that is my point, when you have nothing taming the conscience, there is bound to be chaos.Nigeria needs strong institutions and laws not atheism,a lot of people use China as example forgetting that it is not a atheist country, believe in good and evil and any form to conformity to a particular belief system is religion itself


You are blowing this Atheist thing out of proportion making it seem like it's some sort of big deal. It's not Atheist are not zombies or some scientific experiment that can snap at some point and do something overly irrational. You were not sure on where Atheist base their morality on and I explained to the best of my knowledge don't confuse yourself any further. Yeah China is an Atheist country 80% of em are irreligious yet they are on of the most prosperous nations on earth and the least less plagued by religious violence. You know that voice that flights you when you wanna do something wrong? That's your Morality, Your God. Listen to it and you'd be fine.

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Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by proudlyYoruba(m): 10:38am On May 14, 2017
MiddleDimension:
or she should come to him when she's worth him. Stupid bigots!
hey monkey. I be talking to person wetin concern you. I was civil when I stated my opinion. And do you even know the meaning of bigotry. If u an atheist all your fellow brothers should bury their head in shame. Cause I think atheist believe in logic and reasoning which makes them believe they are independent of GOD. But u don't have any at all brain nor reasoning. Hey goat, the girl made her decision he is the one holding to her.
Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by MiddleDimension: 10:40am On May 14, 2017
Ultimus:


Wow!! So much understanding from you. Took the thoughts out of my mind.
dont mind all these idiots they call theists, especially the Christian arm of theism.

It is so funny how these Christians christianly mock Islam as the 'religion of peace' and dismiss all Muslims as terrorists but turn to the atheist and insult, attack and threaten us like we fuuccked their wives, stole their pubic fund and bombed their churches.

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Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by Nobody: 10:42am On May 14, 2017
sukkot:
yo ass is atheist but your name is one of the sons of noah in the bible ? confused negro

nigga name is japeth. say hello to shem and ham for me nigga

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Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by Nobody: 10:42am On May 14, 2017
MiddleDimension:
i feel like giving you a 'holy'kiss

Thank you...we should have some communion wine someday on a safari

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Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by Nobody: 10:44am On May 14, 2017
SavageGarden:



You are blowing this Atheist thing out of proportion making it seem like it's some sort of big deal. It's not Atheist are not zombies or some scientific experiment that can snap at some point and do something overly irrational. You were not sure on where Atheist base their morality on and I explained to the best of my knowledge don't confuse yourself any further. Yeah China is an Atheist country 80% of em are irreligious yet they are on of the most prosperous nations on earth and the least less plagued by religious violence. You know that voice that flights you when you wanna do something wrong? That's your Morality, Your God. Listen to it and you'd be fine.
China is not an atheist country, I think you need to find out what atheism means, they might not be christans or Muslims,it doesnt mean they don't have some form of being they light up incence to,i suggest you do your research well,even before Islam or Christianity we Africans too had our religion.Actually the human mind can snap,ask psychologist, if you look back to the thread I have created before ,I have no problem with atheists, so long as they are emotionally and psychologically stable
Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by Nobody: 10:44am On May 14, 2017
Guys let's not condemn one another his username is not in the argument neither is his choice in religion. What he as asked is for opinions on what to do not what you think about him and his personal choice of faith

Once we can understand that our differences bring the best out of us and not the worst All will be well

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Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by proudlyYoruba(m): 10:45am On May 14, 2017
SavageGarden:



You are blowing this Atheist thing out of proportion making it seem like it's some sort of big deal. It's not Atheist are not zombies or some scientific experiment that can snap at some point and do something overly irrational. You were not sure on where Atheist base their morality on and I explained to the best of my knowledge don't confuse yourself any further. Yeah China is an Atheist country 80% of em are irreligious yet they are on of the most prosperous nations on earth and the least less plagued by religious violence. You know that voice that flights you when you wanna do something wrong? That's your Morality, Your God. Listen to it and you'd be fine.
I won't say China is an atheist nation, it is secular. I am an avid viewer of cctv, and they have Buddha which I believe constitute a large part of the population. Times without number I see them celebrate all this festivals
Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by MiddleDimension: 10:46am On May 14, 2017
proudlyYoruba:
hey monkey. I be talking to person wetin concern you. I was civil when I stated my opinion. And do you even know the meaning of bigotry. If u an atheist all your fellow brothers should bury their head in shame. Cause I think atheist believe in logic and reasoning which makes them believe they are independent of GOD. But u don't have any at all brain nor reasoning. Hey goat, the girl made her decision he is the one holding to her.

You missed the nomenclature. It is not monkey, but man, the 5th ape. C'mon, don't retreat when you medicine is being served you. You are pretending that you are being civil yet you told a person you don't know, to come back when he deserves her. Just because one is an atheist, is the reason he does not deserve love from a woman he was going to respect anyway and let her keep her faith? You guys are some of the most immoral people the earth has ever seen. Shior! !!!
Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by proudlyYoruba(m): 10:51am On May 14, 2017
MiddleDimension:


You missed the nomenclature. It is not monkey, but man, the 5th ape. C'mon, don't retreat when you medicine is being served you. You are pretended no that you are being civil yet you told a person you don't know, to come back when ur deserves her. Just because one is an atheist, is the reason he does not deserve love from a woman he was going to respect anyway and let her keep her faith? You guys are some of 4th e immoral people 4th e earth has ever seen. Shior! !!!

respect her opinion, different things define us and that's our value. She is loved him within logic and reasoning, she believed she can't live the rest of her life with him. Simple. And I am not a scientist bro, I am a communicator say the language I understand.
Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by latsy: 10:52am On May 14, 2017
nurshah:



Sincerely repent and stop deceiving your self that there is no god.. As far as am concerned your belief stems from the desire to do evil with out being held accountable in which you are lying to your self

How can you expect her to like you ?

Chief psychologist, you could read his mind that he wants to do evil.
I present to you all the most morally outstanding man ever!
Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by chemystery: 10:54am On May 14, 2017
ba7man:
If I find out you're an atheist and I'm your boss, I'll fire you immediately. angry

atheophobia

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Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by MiddleDimension: 10:54am On May 14, 2017
unclecycs:


Herein lies the contradictory nature of some of you atheist ,this man clearly does not belief in the concept of a "God" but thanks same "God" he is an atheist ,in essence he is thanking a being he does not believe in for not believing in same being .

you don't believe in God so what God are you then thanking for been an atheist .shouldn't you be giving your thanks or appreciation to whatever else atheist thank for whatever good in their lives ?.

You simply cannot not believe in a God and make statements like "I thank God I am an atheist" ,it simply betrays a state of confusion .

Makes me think most of you atheist do not even understand the concept of been an atheist .Maybe it's fashionable to not believe in God or maybe there is an inner insecurity been an atheist helps some of you escape from but that's your fish to fry .

I am not here to foist any belief on anyone ,I could not ignore your posts after several post from you debunking the existence of a God .

Finally I have very liberal views when it comes to the subject of religion .I happen to be born into a very strong catholic family and naturally I became a Catholic but my decision to believe in a supreme being came out of very hard questions life has asked of me .

There comes a time when a thinking man asks hard questions like why do I even believe in God ,personal experiences help shape beliefs and my personal life experiences has led me to come to peace with the fact that there just had to be a God To make the things that have happened to me happen and there lies the reason for my belief .

Hopefully you also have an informed reason why you choose to not believe in a God ,your statement I quoted says contrary.

If you do not believe in a God you should not thank same or allude to same or even recognize same in any way or form wether seriously or even jokingly.

Let everyone seek greater understanding, life is filled with mysteries .

My dear, sacarsm is not part of your world, I understand it.

And let me tell you that statements like thank God, does not mean we are thanking God, it will s something that had become a cultural phrase and exclamation. Get it and stop being ignorant
Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by felixomor: 10:55am On May 14, 2017
neocortex:


You seem to be good in peddling half-truths, human are born to believe what exactly ?
Its full truth
Not necessarily any
It can be traditional, Christian, budha or any other
But humans will always gravitate towards one supernatural belief or the other.
Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by chemystery: 10:58am On May 14, 2017
LaClicKLaBenDin:


I would like to the know the moral compass of an atheist...
Seun, you can help enlighten me.
one who cant determine right from wrong lacks empathy and not religion
for With or without religion, you would have good people doing good things and evil people doing evil things. But for good people to do evil things, that takes religion.

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Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by chemystery: 11:00am On May 14, 2017
uju22:
Lols, Poster why not look for a fellow Atheist seems you said you won't accept Christ,
have you looked for another forum because atheist created this?
or have you tried using linux operating system on your laptop because an atheist own windows?

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Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by chemystery: 11:02am On May 14, 2017
frenzyduchess:
i am an atheist Lady,its not easy discussing religious views outside ,infact the christans will see your as a demon possessed fellow fashioned against the church, while the Muslims will see you as a blasphemer ready to chop off your head
looking for meaningful lady since. Nice meeting you

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