Its hard to believe, is it true that until a guy sleeps wit u to his satisfation before deciding whether to marry you or not?Pls urgent adv. is needed.

To me yes,cos a guy can't marry one who can't satisfy his sexual needs,likewise me i can't get married to a guy who can't prove his manliness accept you want him to sleep around.

complete nonsense!!!!!
a man can decide to marry you even if he has never touched you.
it all depends on what kind of man you are dealing with and whats important to him.

SOME will want to test ride your toto while others would prefer to discover a different side of you before taking you to the altar.

dont be pressured into doing something you are not comfortable with or 150% sure about. if the person cares for you then he will accept your choice.

@poster,
Thats really shocking!who is feeding you with such nonsense,do you know a man might sleep with you and change his mind about marrying you?

Sincerely you need to change your friends if they are the ones telling you this shit.
A man will marry a woman he loves and thinks he can live with not a woman he can sleep with only,if not there will be no need to get married if its only cuz of sleeping with a woman cuz we can get in most places.

not true girl.thats a wrong idea.

Different strokes 4 different folks.

@henryhemon,i av good friends around and i am a kind of person that wants to get married before having sex cos i always belive that a true love shouldnt be based on sex alone


Thanks for ur responses. the guy told me that guys dont just gett married to someone without sleeping with the girl, he said it is just a sign of commitment between them.do u all think the guy has something better in mind for me or he is just looking for someone to play around with?

My dear thats the oldest trick in the book. He will Marry you if he wants to, se--x doesnt have to be involved.

He wants to use you and dump you probably cuz you have shown so much luv to him.

@ poster

This is a new scope to lure you to bed.
Ask the man if he is ready for yet b4 telling you such lies.
Haven't you seen Sex maniacs lying on street seeking for husband.

Not true at all

Its true that Love and Marriage is never based on good sex alone, but at the same time i can't also marry a woman whom my sexual satisfaction with her isn't guarantee. cos the lack of the sexual satisfaction from both parties is likely to to ruin the marriage sooner or later.

Tonye-t:

And to make it worse dat [b]Blueice[/b]seller did not even help matters either . ^{Sex before marriage is old school} get it!. Real spouses zip up.

do u?
practice what u preach boy

@poster
there is nothing wrong with sex before marriage as long as YOU decide that you want to go ahead with it and not that some loser is trying to force you into it.

i can already see his next step. . . . . . .  telling you that if you really love him then you should do it OR the fact that you dont do it means you dont love him etc. just foolish trick to force into bed.

ask this loser this simple question(and let us know what was his reply):
- is sex so important to you that it will be the factor on which you make your decision whether to marry me or not?
- do you really love me? and if yes then cant this LOVE FOR ME make you wait till the day of marriage?
- if you care for/love me then shouldnt you understand AND RESPECT my belief that i DO NO want to have any sexual relationship with you until marriage?

Freiburger:

Its true that Love and Marriage is never based on good sex alone, but at the same time i can't also marry a woman whom my sexual satisfaction with her isn't guarantee. cos the lack of the sexual satisfaction from both parties is likely to to ruin the marriage sooner or later.

after marriage, just teach your woman how to satisfy you(and hopefully you will be able to satisfy HER), simple as that!
if you are saying that you have to test ride the toto before marriage to see if she is going to satisfying your whatever needs and that if she cant then that will be the end of it then you have lost the plot and dont really love that person (therefore marrying her is a mistake anyway).

look again within your mind at what is important in marriage.
you can teach someone how to fukc you but i doubt you can teach someone to be honest/respectful/trustworthy etc

_{Ignorance!sorry and how old r u plse?}