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Re: My Fiance Just Left Me Due To Genotype Issues by DexteryJoe(m): 2:41am On May 28, 2017 |
I know u are heartbroken right now sweetheart, but sorry to still say, u r an embarrassment to medicine, truth is, looks lyk ur bf already knew ur relationship was heading nowhere, he was just for d "Cookie" all along, Pls next tym, learn to think wit ur brain and not ur emotions, c as una for don bring innocent pikin to cum suffer for una stupidity!!!! |
Re: My Fiance Just Left Me Due To Genotype Issues by Nobody: 2:55am On May 28, 2017 |
dominique:Pgd comes before ivf with pgd you can't waste any child, meanwhile eggs are not children, when not fertilized they die off remember? 1 Like |
Re: My Fiance Just Left Me Due To Genotype Issues by Oladiran0o7: 2:56am On May 28, 2017 |
dominique: They can find out the genotype through genetic test if they go through IVF. Genetic testing provides lot of information/ abnormalities. |
Re: My Fiance Just Left Me Due To Genotype Issues by ryom(m): 3:05am On May 28, 2017 |
My dear young lady and junior colleague (if indeed you are a medical student), this is a blessing. There is no rhyme or reason why 2 people both AS, with full knowledge of their genotype status, on this God's own earth should marry and attribute it to some divine arrangement. It is bad enough if there is ignorance. It will be double tragedy to bring children into this world who potentially may be sicklers when you know this may happen. The man has ruled his heart with his head- that is wisdom. You be wise too. Your real partner will come. God bless you! |
Re: My Fiance Just Left Me Due To Genotype Issues by adexontop(m): 3:29am On May 28, 2017 |
dominique: It better for you forget love and pray |
Re: My Fiance Just Left Me Due To Genotype Issues by Jaymaxxy(m): 4:28am On May 28, 2017 |
delugadou: Prayer will fix it? Fix what? Turn AS to AA or what? I believe in God but it's better we do not go beyond boundary. God has done them good by making them see they are both carrier. You won't want to test God by going ahead. Have you seen someone with SCD before? if you see one, you won't want to risk it. |
Re: My Fiance Just Left Me Due To Genotype Issues by alen4smith(m): 5:00am On May 28, 2017 |
meiyol:congratulations is all I will say!please go celebrate it!you just dodged a time bomb ! |
Re: My Fiance Just Left Me Due To Genotype Issues by bigsmoke2(m): 5:01am On May 28, 2017 |
meiyol:so you are going to take that risk because of love, how selfish of you. one hbss is bad enough what if you have 2,3 or even 4 and you are even a med student. Haven't you seen sickle cell crisis on the wards. Your kids will resent you if they know you both decided to marry inspite of being cognisant of your genotypes . Don't worry the pain of heart break will pass and you will find someone. |
Re: My Fiance Just Left Me Due To Genotype Issues by InvertedHammer: 5:05am On May 28, 2017 |
/ 2 years from now you will be doing Thanksgiving for dodging this train-wreck-waiting-to-happen. Every man/woman you cherish now is the best you can do at this time. It doesn't mean he/she is the best. As you grow, you will look back at this moment and shake your head at your naivety. Move on. / |
Re: My Fiance Just Left Me Due To Genotype Issues by holluphemydavid(m): 5:55am On May 28, 2017 |
Destined2win:Nice one, well advice |
Re: My Fiance Just Left Me Due To Genotype Issues by holluphemydavid(m): 5:56am On May 28, 2017 |
NwaObinkita:Bad guy |
Re: My Fiance Just Left Me Due To Genotype Issues by Nobody: 5:57am On May 28, 2017 |
lepasharon: Oyinbo bu agbara |
Re: My Fiance Just Left Me Due To Genotype Issues by deebrain(m): 5:58am On May 28, 2017 |
It has happened to me once. 6months relationship. I feel you. For now, even churches are now rejecting couples with these issues because of the public awareness of sickle cell Now gaining ground. Take heart with understanding and move on. |
Re: My Fiance Just Left Me Due To Genotype Issues by Adyss: 6:11am On May 28, 2017 |
Please don't be hard on him, he probably developed cold feet. This happened to me too. Marriage has its own whaala not to talk of AS. That love will disappear when the crisis begins. You will hate yourself and the child might hate you. Yes, technology can help but I tell you it is not worth it. |
Re: My Fiance Just Left Me Due To Genotype Issues by Mrlouis: 6:11am On May 28, 2017 |
tosyne2much:Stupid, Just console her instead of being judgemental.. You aren't in her shoes, so u have no damn idea. Sometimes in life, certain things happen for a reason..in this context, its very obvious that she got to move on..so don't cast aspersions. Thank you |
Re: My Fiance Just Left Me Due To Genotype Issues by Kobicove(m): 6:30am On May 28, 2017 |
So you want to hinge your future happiness on probability? The benefits of the relationship are not worth the risks involved. |
Re: My Fiance Just Left Me Due To Genotype Issues by holuwajobar(m): 6:38am On May 28, 2017 |
duduade:thank God u used d word 'lucky'.....d question here is dat, what if she is nt lucky.... I will call d lady a selfish person..... U want to move on wit d relationship wen u clearly knw dat ur children wil suffer it...... Sometimes prevention is far better than excercisin faith on sumtin...... Pray that God shuld change ur genotype....dnt pray dat God shuld nt gv u sickler wen u clearly knw d implication..... Move on with d relationship, den ur children will cause u forever..... |
Re: My Fiance Just Left Me Due To Genotype Issues by Ashmark(m): 6:39am On May 28, 2017 |
He did the right thing.... |
Re: My Fiance Just Left Me Due To Genotype Issues by Numerouuuno: 6:45am On May 28, 2017 |
Stupid lady letting a stupid love that can evaporate in seconds cloud her judgment. Thankfully, the guy is brighter than her to end the stupid relationship. You don't know what SS patients go through, infact, if the guy changes his mind and you two decides to get married, may you be barren forever than making an innocent kid suffer for your stupidity. When will African's start having sense, the world is fighting against issues like SS and co, and stupid people like OP keeps populating the SS group. Useless people |
Re: My Fiance Just Left Me Due To Genotype Issues by dbanjj1629(m): 7:04am On May 28, 2017 |
Op thank your star. don't be heart broken. believe God has a better plan for you. Its only fool that learn from their own experience when they can learn from the experience of others. Having a stickler has a child is nt something you wish your enemy. pls be strong and move on. its a blessing in disguise. |
Re: My Fiance Just Left Me Due To Genotype Issues by Nobody: 7:06am On May 28, 2017 |
Adyss: you have said the truth as I am going through same will share my experience some day. As the lady in question is hard on me she is the love of my life. But I understand 9 years is no joke that is why I have chosen to remain single |
Re: My Fiance Just Left Me Due To Genotype Issues by jjjjj2017: 7:10am On May 28, 2017 |
tosyne2much: |
Re: My Fiance Just Left Me Due To Genotype Issues by Maximus85(m): 7:11am On May 28, 2017 |
meiyol: He might have broken the relationship is a wicked way but that is best for you. Pray to meet an AA. I be AA but Lizzy has collected me and she won't even think of letting me go. When you find one or one finds you...don't let him go. Oko is scarce outside especially AA husband. |
Re: My Fiance Just Left Me Due To Genotype Issues by Hawlahscho(m): 7:21am On May 28, 2017 |
meiyol: I dont comment on old posts but I feel they way you feel. All I'll say is; it is very likely, like 99% that he found another person with similar character as yours and not AS, that's human for you, it's not d matter of man or woman, any gender can do that. I know it's not easy but try to stop thinking about it as much as you can, discuss it with you closest male friend if your have one, tell your close and SINGLE female friends, engage yourself in interesting things and quit seeing love movies, etc You'll get your desired joy again very very soon... Remember: You are you and a unique being, beautiful and gorgeously made, crafted by the most high, to stop feeling inferior, know it that you guys are not meant to be. Que Sera Sera (What will be, will be) #TeasingWink #Smiles Blessed Sunday sis. |
Re: My Fiance Just Left Me Due To Genotype Issues by Marlvin(m): 7:25am On May 28, 2017 |
Fate can be so unfair a times. |
Re: My Fiance Just Left Me Due To Genotype Issues by Setaje(f): 7:27am On May 28, 2017 |
lepasharon: rrrmmm what do you mean ignorance. I am not talking of the west. I am talking about the ones I know here. More than 5 people I know have died right from my youthful days. So don't tell me about ignorance. If it was easy why can't their families fly them abroad and stay there. You think am typing for typing sake. In Nigeria sickle cell is almost a death sentence if you don't have money and sometimes money is not enough. Maybe you should spend a day in luth and come back and talk of ignorance. |
Re: My Fiance Just Left Me Due To Genotype Issues by wizod(m): 7:32am On May 28, 2017 |
Destined2win:read well before u comment. Read it d second time nadab very slowly |
Re: My Fiance Just Left Me Due To Genotype Issues by kingsilly(m): 7:45am On May 28, 2017 |
lepasharon: They will tell you it's time consuming and another will say committing abortion, the rest go talk its expensive... AS and AS to me is really not as bad as this thread commenter are taking it.. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiance Just Left Me Due To Genotype Issues by tosyne2much(m): 7:51am On May 28, 2017 |
Mrlouis:And you have to use the word "stupid", for who? Me? May God forgive you bro.. Happy Sunday |
Re: My Fiance Just Left Me Due To Genotype Issues by kingsilly(m): 7:55am On May 28, 2017 |
Fhowe:You sha get their Time |
Re: My Fiance Just Left Me Due To Genotype Issues by ambyzown(m): 7:57am On May 28, 2017 |
If only we think more positively, things would work out better for us. Why focus on the 25% chance of having a child with SS genotype and ignore the 75% chance of having a healthy child? I believe in looking at glass as being 75% full than 25% empty. Even with that, advances in healthcare technology make it possible to totally eliminate the chance of having a sickler. |
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