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Re: What Can You Do If Your Wife Switches Religion Against Your Wish? by ojoagba: 11:31am On Jun 02, 2017
i just google on the alleged age before marriage and saw 6-7 years, finalised d wedding at 9/10 and she lived with him for 9 years. so many untold or hidden truth about these guys. they can easily access d bible because its in english and not forbidden to be read by all when there are so many things in the quaran that are inexplicably amazing. there is no question that can not be answered by google about the bible and the quaran with chapters and verses. i just did and thought he was lying about aisha's age.

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Re: What Can You Do If Your Wife Switches Religion Against Your Wish? by WhoBeThisMan: 11:32am On Jun 02, 2017
Owodiran1:
At least you are not blind compare the full verse i posted to just one sentence he posted from the verse
you don't have to be insualtive. This is the problem I always have with SOME Muslims. Instead of arguing intelligently you resolve to either violence or insults.

Show me the evidences that what he said isn't true point by point. Trust me alot of people are reading this tread hoping that that guy is wrong. Defend your religion and stop being childish

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Re: What Can You Do If Your Wife Switches Religion Against Your Wish? by Owodiran1(m): 11:33am On Jun 02, 2017
Ali burnt the unbelievers alive. Ali is a leader. Abass said if he were to be him he wouldn't have burnt them as almighty Allah kicks against people punishing unbelievers with fire. Abass is another leader with another view. So two leaders with different approac. Ali burnt them. Abass said he will not burn them as Allah kicks against it. That's the explanation of the verse. We don't kill. Only people who feels like killing kills.
Berbierklaus:

To me this look like y'all saying the same thing about killing people who change their religion from Islam...
I might be wrong tho
Re: What Can You Do If Your Wife Switches Religion Against Your Wish? by AuroraB(f): 11:35am On Jun 02, 2017
Kathmandu:
I will attend any religion my hubby joins as long as ot isn't Islam
grin
Traditionalist nko? He won't let you wear trousers oooooo shocked
He fit knack you jazz if you become heady tongue
These 2? Oti ooooo cheesy cheesy

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Re: What Can You Do If Your Wife Switches Religion Against Your Wish? by Nobody: 11:35am On Jun 02, 2017
Odingo1:

women owns the kids until they are 18 years of age,she will go with the kids,you are the one that will be going to see your kids.

lol, that is why I suggested putting them in a boarding school, besides the woman doesn't own the kids the court decide who to take custody of the kids. She can only be in custody without contest if she still a breastfeeding mother.
Re: What Can You Do If Your Wife Switches Religion Against Your Wish? by Owodiran1(m): 11:36am On Jun 02, 2017
I don't have to defend any religion. All i know is that he posted a sentence out of the verse.Ali burnt the unbelievers alive. Ali is a leader. Abass said if he were to be him he wouldn't have burnt them as almighty Allah kicks against people punishing unbelievers with fire. Abass is another leader with another view. So two leaders with different approac. Ali burnt them. Abass said he will not burn them as Allah kicks against it. That's the explanation of the verse. We don't kill. Only people who feels like killing kills. That's the explanation
WhoBeThisMan:
you don't have to be insualtive. This is the problem I always have with SOME Muslims. Instead of arguing intelligently you resolve to either violence or insults.

Show me the evidences that what he said isn't true point by point. Trust me alot of people are reading this tread hoping that that guy is wrong. Defend your religion and stop being childish
Re: What Can You Do If Your Wife Switches Religion Against Your Wish? by rezzy: 11:39am On Jun 02, 2017
@op, if that will solve your problem, then divorce her.

Only the poor carries religion on their head like gala.

I have seen a wealthy family, wife a Christian, husband a muslim. Children, some Christian and some muslim. They are living happily. I never knew the woman was even a muslim before until her mother died recently, and she told me she has been buried according to muslim rite. And narrated how she found Christ, and the husband never objected except family members. But she stood her grounds.

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Re: What Can You Do If Your Wife Switches Religion Against Your Wish? by Nobody: 11:39am On Jun 02, 2017
BiggyB242:


lol, that is why I said I'm putting them in a boarding school, besides the woman doesn't own the kids the court decide who to take custody of the kids. She can only be in custody without contest if she still a breastfeeding mother.
oga what if you yourself convert?the Bible says treat others like you want to be treated

Owodiran1:
Volume 9, Book 84, Number 57:
Narrated 'Ikrima:
Some Zanadiqa (atheists) were brought to 'Ali and he burnt them. The news of this event, reached Ibn 'Abbas who said, "If I had been in his place, I would not have burnt them, as Allah's Apostle forbade it, saying, 'Do not punish anybody with Allah's punishment (fire).' I would have killed them according to the statement of Allah's Apostle, 'Whoever changed his Islamic religion, then kill him.'"(may almighty Allah Forgive you for the false thing you just posted. You only posted a sentence in the verse ) in the passage the are two leaders in the verse one believes in God's judgment other one believed in taking laws to his hands. Ask for forgiveness. The problem is not religion the problem is individual's personality. No one should hide under the word religion. Am a Muslim. My wife can practice any religion she wants. What matters most is her behavior.

ehnn mr right why do converts run away from islamic countries?whats the punishment for apostacy? the answer given by who you quoted is 'I would have killed them according to the statement of Allah's Apostle..."

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Re: What Can You Do If Your Wife Switches Religion Against Your Wish? by nellyelitz(m): 11:39am On Jun 02, 2017
Kathmandu:
I will attend any religion my hubby joins as long as ot isn't Islam
lolz this one dey fear to die

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Re: What Can You Do If Your Wife Switches Religion Against Your Wish? by Berbierklaus(f): 11:39am On Jun 02, 2017
Owodiran1:
Ali burnt the unbelievers alive. Ali is a leader. Abass said if he were to be him he wouldn't have burnt them as almighty Allah kicks against people punishing unbelievers with fire. Abass is another leader with another view. So two leaders with different approac. Ali burnt them. Abass said he will not burn them as Allah kicks against it. That's the explanation of the verse. We don't kill. Only people who feels like killing kills.
Okay,Allah kicks against punishing unbelievers with fire.

So how was Abass going to do it according to what you wrote here->
Owodiran1:
Volume 9, Book 84, Number 57:
Narrated 'Ikrima:
Some Zanadiqa (atheists) were brought to 'Ali and he burnt them. The news of this event, reached Ibn 'Abbas who said, "If I had been in his place, I would not have burnt them, as Allah's Apostle forbade it, saying, 'Do not punish anybody with Allah's punishment (fire).' I would have KILLED them according to the statement of Allah's Apostle, 'Whoever changed his Islamic religion, then kill him.'" (may Almighty Allah Forgive you for the false thing you just posted. You only posted a sentence in the verse ) in the passage the are two leaders in the verse one believes in God's judgment other one believed in taking laws to his hands. Ask for forgiveness. The problem is not religion the problem is individual's personality. No one should hide under the word religion. Am a Muslim. My wife can practice any religion she wants. What matters most is her behavior.

I'm just trying to know these things,I'm not a religious person,I'm just trying to understand that part,please don't be offended,just explain it to me,I'm sincere.

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Re: What Can You Do If Your Wife Switches Religion Against Your Wish? by nellyelitz(m): 11:40am On Jun 02, 2017
LMohd:
...
liar Muhammed

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Re: What Can You Do If Your Wife Switches Religion Against Your Wish? by FromZeroToHero(m): 11:41am On Jun 02, 2017
She has seen the light and I'll advise you to join her. Only Jesus can save. Shalom

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Re: What Can You Do If Your Wife Switches Religion Against Your Wish? by fpeter(f): 11:42am On Jun 02, 2017
khalifahsparkles:
op the last thing you should have done is bring this issue up in a session like this. what happened to Islam for Muslims? I'm already seeing comments made out of hatred and crass stupidity.

if she doesn't want to listen to you involve her family members and Islamic clerics you know. if she's still adamant please divorce her before she influence you and your children. remember she has a big role to play in your children's lives.


no mumu should quote me abeg


Even in Ramadan you still curse?

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Re: What Can You Do If Your Wife Switches Religion Against Your Wish? by harbjar(m): 11:43am On Jun 02, 2017
Odingo1:

If he is a Yoruba muslim he can seek the advice from yoruba sheik,but if he is a northern muslim,he should not seek for advice because they will tell him to kill the woman as written in koran.The woman have committed Apostasy and according to the Koran or haddit,such person should be killed.
ya all should be careful what you say bou islam... there is no such verse in the QUR'an that says kills an apostate... instead what we have are
ut those who reject Faith after they accepted it, and then go on adding to their defiance of Faith, – never will their repentance be accepted; for they are those who have (of set purpose) gone astray.
— Quran 3:90

Make ye no excuses: ye have rejected Faith after ye had accepted it. If We pardon some of you, We will punish others amongst you, for that they are in sin.
— Quran 9:66

He who disbelieves in Allah after his having believed, not he who is compelled while his heart is at rest on account of faith, but he who opens (his) breast to disbelief-- on these is the wrath of Allah, and they shall have a grievous chastisement.
— Quran 16:106
Re: What Can You Do If Your Wife Switches Religion Against Your Wish? by Nobody: 11:44am On Jun 02, 2017
ivolt:


Poisoning ?
What are you afraid of ?
By your statement you agree that your religion
has no rational basis and your children must be indoctrinated and
prevented from accessing an opposing path.

They religion you instil in them is the path they will follow, most of us are in a religious path because that is the same path our parents took. There is only a few percentage of the population of the country that parents and kids have a different religion.

As for me any religion that is different from mine is a false religion. Therefore, I do not want my kids' mind being poisoned.
Re: What Can You Do If Your Wife Switches Religion Against Your Wish? by ivolt: 11:44am On Jun 02, 2017
Tiny23:


Why not pick up the Holy Qur'an yourself,go through it and show me where you can see all what your friend posted,I recommend you read the English version. I don't engage in religious squabble ,I no get time for that. Peace!

You are probably one of the ignorant muslims, no reputable islamic scholar
will dispute any of the events related by the OP because they were based on
Quran and Sahih Hadiths.
But again, the world is a better place because most muslims know less than 1%
of what their religion teaches, if they were any smarter, the world will be boiling.

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Re: What Can You Do If Your Wife Switches Religion Against Your Wish? by Nobody: 11:45am On Jun 02, 2017
fpeter:



Even in Ramadan you still curse?


is it directed at you? you are free to claim it sha
Re: What Can You Do If Your Wife Switches Religion Against Your Wish? by alBHAGDADI: 11:45am On Jun 02, 2017
kudzic:

This is pure blasphemy against our noble prophet,You are a bloody liar ,98% of ur claims are false,Islam is the only religion that conforms with most scientific fact,(Google search scientific facts in holy books).And what u can never understand is the wisdom behind Allah's judgement. meanwhile the holy book with the highest number of contradictions is the bible.
Do you read the Quran and hadiths? If no, then you have no obligation to call me a liar, cos all I've stated are written in the Quran and authentic hadiths.

As for the Quran being at par with science, that's a big lie. Is it not the same Quran where Allah said the sun sets in a pool of mud which was also corroborated by Mohammad in the hadiths?

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Re: What Can You Do If Your Wife Switches Religion Against Your Wish? by ivolt: 11:45am On Jun 02, 2017
BiggyB242:


They religion you instil in them is the path they will follow, most of us are in a religious path because that is the same path our parents took. There is only a few percentage of the population of the country that parents and kids have a different religion.

As for me any religion that is different from mine is a false religion. Therefore, I do not want my kids' mind being poisoned.

Was your great grandfather a christian ?

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Re: What Can You Do If Your Wife Switches Religion Against Your Wish? by Nobody: 11:45am On Jun 02, 2017
harbjar:

on the day of judgement, you will stand in front of God and one by one you will prove all these lies you have made against islam and prophet muhammad...
Islamic god or Christian God because i don't serve the same God with Muslims

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Re: What Can You Do If Your Wife Switches Religion Against Your Wish? by Nobody: 11:45am On Jun 02, 2017
ztapi:

oga what if you yourself convert?the Bible says treat others like you want to be treated





ehnn mr right why do converts run away from islamic countries?whats the punishment for apostacy? the answer given by who you quoted is 'I would have killed them according to the statement of Allah's Apostle..."

Sir, I know my faith I can NEVER be converted.
Re: What Can You Do If Your Wife Switches Religion Against Your Wish? by Owodiran1(m): 11:46am On Jun 02, 2017
Well am not abass and k actually don't have his contact. But what am sure is abass will take a different approach from ali. Abass won't kill them as Abass clearly knows Allah frowns at killing people be it unbelievers or believers
Berbierklaus:

Okay,Allah kicks against punishing unbelievers with fire.

So how was Abass going to do it according to what you wrote here->


I'm just trying to know these things,I'm not a religious person,I'm just trying to understand that part,please don't be offended,just explain it to me,I'm sincere.
Re: What Can You Do If Your Wife Switches Religion Against Your Wish? by Dexema(m): 11:46am On Jun 02, 2017
AuroraB:
Kataway you angry

Agbaya, buy advert from Seun grin
See your dirty fingernails sef cheesy

Hahahah! U must be a wicked person in real life. Lol

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Re: What Can You Do If Your Wife Switches Religion Against Your Wish? by WhoBeThisMan: 11:46am On Jun 02, 2017
Owodiran1:
I don't have to defend any religion. All i know is that he posted a sentence out of the verse.Ali burnt the unbelievers alive. Ali is a leader. Abass said if he were to be him he wouldn't have burnt them as almighty Allah kicks against people punishing unbelievers with fire. Abass is another leader with another view. So two leaders with different approac. Ali burnt them. Abass said he will not burn them as Allah kicks against it. That's the explanation of the verse. We don't kill. Only people who feels like killing kills. That's the explanation
OK that's one point. What about the others

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Re: What Can You Do If Your Wife Switches Religion Against Your Wish? by Nobody: 11:47am On Jun 02, 2017
AuroraB:
grin
Traditionalist nko? He won't let you wear trousers oooooo shocked
He fit knack you jazz if you become heady tongue
These 2? Oti ooooo cheesy cheesy
Traditionalist is better than Islam. grin

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Re: What Can You Do If Your Wife Switches Religion Against Your Wish? by Nobody: 11:47am On Jun 02, 2017
ivolt:


You are probably one of the ignorant muslims, no reputable islamic scholar
will dispute any of the events related by the OP because they were based on
Quran and Sahih Hadiths.
But again, the world is a better place because most muslims know less than 1%
of what their religion teaches, if they were any smarter, the world will be boiling.

all those things he said please point it out in the Qur'an or Hadith. if you can't please keep silent

if this world is a better place to you; eku better place
Re: What Can You Do If Your Wife Switches Religion Against Your Wish? by Nobody: 11:48am On Jun 02, 2017
ivolt:


Was your great grandfather a christian ?

I said parents, not great grandparents. I spent more time with my parents, not my grandparents let alone my great grandparents.
Re: What Can You Do If Your Wife Switches Religion Against Your Wish? by Melonny(m): 11:48am On Jun 02, 2017
Mr Op, it's the responsibility of your wife to choose which religion she sees fit.. she will be accountable for her choices. I don't see anything wrong with your wife changing her religion. Why must she practice your religion? Have you asked her why to chose Christianity over Islam?
Oga, let her be o.. if her religion will affect her role as a wife then, you can file for a divorce. If u choose the kill her, you will be accountable for your choices. Ignorance(religion) is no excuse!

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Re: What Can You Do If Your Wife Switches Religion Against Your Wish? by Omonigeriarere: 11:49am On Jun 02, 2017
chynie:

Are you really this dumb

I think you are super dumb by abusing him without stating your opinion to counter his.

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Re: What Can You Do If Your Wife Switches Religion Against Your Wish? by Nobody: 11:49am On Jun 02, 2017
lolaluv1:


Except she doesnt know her rights can you keep her away from the kids. What balderdash. Keep a woman away from her own kids!!


I'm not keeping her away, but reduce the time she spends with them.

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