Op if u wan marry him better learn taekwondo or karate before your wedding day

habeny:
Good afternoon, am a 26 years old lady and am getting married next month, but anytime I have an argument with my fiance he insults me,telling me am a fool, an idiot, etc, have tried to correct him several times but he doesn't see anything wrong with it, just this morning we had an argument and he started again calling me all sort of names. Am starting to get really scared, because if he's doing this when we are engaged what will he do to me when when we are married

One month is not too late to call off the wedding if your heart is heavy to proceed into a perceived abusive marriage that may surge to beating, molesting and more severe insults from your fiance.

Forget the fact that people will encourage you to go through it since he takes care of your needs, his financial status is strong, his cute/handsome physique, etc except if you wish to become his punch bag.

Money without love or peace of mind in marriage is nightmare which has made some people aged quickly or die before their time due to ugly experience been encountered.

To be forearmed is to be forewarned. Don't ignore these red signals you are seeing now before it becomes too late for you.

Cheers.

No one should be in an abusive relationship

tosyne2much:
You're very right Tobi

No matter how aggravated you are, there are some words you shouldn't utter to your partner. I mean how would you call someone you claim to love a "fool" or an "idiot"

It doesn't just make sense

This is crap. Who said people won't fight or argue in a relationship?
Fighting Isn’t the Real Issue. It’s how you make Up that counts.

Op, why don't we hear your fiancee's side of the story.

habeny:
Good afternoon, am a 26 years old lady and am getting married next month, but anytime I have an argument with my fiance he insults me,telling me am a fool, an idiot, etc, have tried to correct him several times but he doesn't see anything wrong with it, just this morning we had an argument and he started again calling me all sort of names. Am starting to get really scared, because if he's doing this when we are engaged what will he do to me when when we are married

habeny:
Good afternoon, am a 26 years old lady and am getting married next month, but anytime I have an argument with my fiance he insults me,telling me am a fool, an idiot, etc, have tried to correct him several times but he doesn't see anything wrong with it, just this morning we had an argument and he started again calling me all sort of names. Am starting to get really scared, because if he's doing this when we are engaged what will he do to me when when we are married

...I like u so I be nice to u....my prediction...marry him and u will live in hell..the bad news is that love it or hate it..u will end up with scars.
By then it will be too late. U women leave in a fantasy world thinking u can change a guy.. the stuuuupid thing ABOUT women is that u no wot u getting into...but becuzz u want yorrrr fantasy wedding,u still go ahead..u sound soft and u have weak people around u telling u it be ok and he will change...big mistake..am trying to be nice to u but guess wot,he will not change and yorrrr life will be miserable when u marrrrrreid!! (Real talk)

MrCork:




...I like u so I be nice to u....my prediction...marry him and u will live in hell..the bad news is that love it or hate it..u will end up with scars.
By then it will be too late. U women leave in a fantasy world thinking u can change a guy.. the stuuuupid thing ABOUT women is that u no wot u getting into...but becuzz u want yorrrr fantasy wedding,u still go ahead..u sound soft and u have weak people around u telling u it be ok and he will change...big mistake..am trying to be nice to u but guess wot,he will not change and yorrrr life will be miserable when u marrrrrreid!! (Real talk)

^^^ Reaaal talk!!!
Chai! When are we gonno mate so we can have inteeeeeligent childrens

habeny:
Good afternoon, am a 26 years old lady and am getting married next month, but anytime I have an argument with my fiance he insults me,telling me am a fool, an idiot, etc, have tried to correct him several times but he doesn't see anything wrong with it, just this morning we had an argument and he started again calling me all sort of names. Am starting to get really scared, because if he's doing this when we are engaged what will he do to me when when we are married

You're seeing the signs already.

Why go into marriage with fear in your heart?
Why did you even allow your relationship get this far when you know his kind of person? What you cannot endure in a relationship, will you endure in marriage? Remember marriage is a lifelong commitment. Do you want to spend the rest of your life receiving hot abuse?

I kuku trust myself. Na to finish his destiny with my mouth last last

MrCork:


...I like u so I be nice to u....my prediction...marry him and u will live in hell..the bad news is that love it or hate it..u will end up with scars.
By then it will be too late. U women leave in a fantasy world thinking u can change a guy.. the stuuuupid thing ABOUT women is that u no wot u getting into...but becuzz u want yorrrr fantasy wedding,u still go ahead..u sound soft and u have weak people around u telling u it be ok and he will change...big mistake..am trying to be nice to u but guess wot,he will not change and yorrrr life will be miserable when u marrrrrreid!! (Real talk)

I'm gonna archive this post. MrCork actually made sense!

PrickGetSize:
Does he have enough money to take care of you and your future family?

Does he show you love?

Does he care for your well-being?

Does he fvck you real good?

If the answer to these questions is yes then I see no reason why ordinary insult should spoil your marriage, unless he beats you. Insult him back - call him a bigger fool, a he-goat, a maluu, a stupendous ignoramus calamity - and get used to it. When kids start coming he won't have time to insult you again.

Marriage is for better or worse!

Hmmm insult is an early sign of how much beating to come

MrCork:


I like u so I be nice to u....my prediction...marry him and u will live in hell..the bad news is that love it or hate it..u will end up with scars.

Your mask cracked here, Corky J, and you have given us a glimpse of your real face

MrCork:




...I like u so I be nice to u....my prediction...marry him and u will live in hell..the bad news is that love it or hate it..u will end up with scars.
By then it will be too late. U women leave in a fantasy world thinking u can change a guy.. the stuuuupid thing ABOUT women is that u no wot u getting into...but becuzz u want yorrrr fantasy wedding,u still go ahead..u sound soft and u have weak people around u telling u it be ok and he will change...big mistake..am trying to be nice to u but guess wot,he will not change and yorrrr life will be miserable when u marrrrrreid!! (Real talk)

Hahahaha

Dear Sir/Ma'am, kindly give the phone back to Mrcork.( no offeinse )

Ishilove:

I'm gonna archive this post. MrCork actually made sense!

Mr Cork often makes a lot of sense. Haven't you seen his great research work? https://www.nairaland.com/508134/recipe-sweet-relationship-corks-report


https://www.nairaland.com/508134/recipe-sweet-relationship-corks-report/3

tosyne2much:
This is just a preamble of how he will unleash his wrestling skills to administer punches on your face and give you some smack down when you enter his house. These are the qualities of potential wife beaters

You can see the signs of dangers with your korokoro eyes yet you're bent on getting married to the same person next month.. Issokay!

Anyway, I wish you an abusive marriage life in advance

haha

MrCork:




...I like u so I be nice to u....my prediction...marry him and u will live in hell..the bad news is that love it or hate it..u will end up with scars.
By then it will be too late. U women leave in a fantasy world thinking u can change a guy.. the stuuuupid thing ABOUT women is that u no wot u getting into...but becuzz u want yorrrr fantasy wedding,u still go ahead..u sound soft and u have weak people around u telling u it be ok and he will change...big mistake..am trying to be nice to u but guess wot,he will not change and yorrrr life will be miserable when u marrrrrreid!! (Real talk)

woow

MrCork:




...I like u so I be nice to u....my prediction...marry him and u will live in hell..the bad news is that love it or hate it..u will end up with scars.
By then it will be too late. U women leave in a fantasy world thinking u can change a guy.. the stuuuupid thing ABOUT women is that u no wot u getting into...but becuzz u want yorrrr fantasy wedding,u still go ahead..u sound soft and u have weak people around u telling u it be ok and he will change...big mistake..am trying to be nice to u but guess wot,he will not change and yorrrr life will be miserable when u marrrrrreid!! (Real talk)

Someone hijacked your account?

naptu2:


Mr Cork often makes a lot of sense. Haven't you seen his great research work? https://www.nairaland.com/508134/recipe-sweet-relationship-corks-report


https://www.nairaland.com/508134/recipe-sweet-relationship-corks-report/3

Ebube Dike!!

Ahusubillahi!!!

scooby12:


This is crap. Who said people won't fight or argue in a relationship?
Fighting Isn’t the Real Issue. It’s how you make Up that counts.

Op, why don't we hear your fiancee's side of the story.

His side of the story isn't the issue here... The guy belittles her with insults. If na me, I won't bother arguing self. Na to face front, u talk u tire and keep mute... Simple

Ishilove:

Ebube Dike!!

Ahusubillahi!!!

Dr Cork often makes a lot of sense with his indepth research.

naptu2:


Dr Cork often makes a lot of sense with his indepth research.

MrCork is almost an enigma

Take a walk now as it will turn to real abuse and could trigger an attack on your person. Do not say I love him and would wanna stay because after the abuse, he comes to apologize.

Same way he will kill you and still will ask for forgiveness from the public. You have seen the danger now and should take a walk unless you want us to read your obituary.

This is just the beginning of your unhappiness marriage life immediately after marriage na public embarrassment and beating you go they receive and am sure that this your man na from the east cos it's common among those wey no go school....You better look before you leap

MrCork:




...I like u so I be nice to u....my prediction...marry him and u will live in hell..the bad news is that love it or hate it..u will end up with scars.
By then it will be too late. U women leave in a fantasy world thinking u can change a guy.. the stuuuupid thing ABOUT women is that u no wot u getting into...but becuzz u want yorrrr fantasy wedding,u still go ahead..u sound soft and u have weak people around u telling u it be ok and he will change...big mistake..am trying to be nice to u but guess wot,he will not change and yorrrr life will be miserable when u marrrrrreid!! (Real talk)

Who hijacked your phone

Nma27:
His side of the story isn't the issue here... The guy belittles her with insults. If na me, I won't bother arguing self. Na to face front, u talk u tire and keep mute... Simple

What led to the insults? Did she insult him too?

Was he always like this? Maybe the stress of the wedding is getting to him. Talk by this I mean don't accuse him as he will get defensive and nothing will be accomplished.
Talk about what your needs are , what you would want him to be too you. How his words affect not how they anger you. You have to be prepared to listen to what he would like you to be without feeling upset. If you have doubts postpone until you have no doubt in your heart.

Corky. Nice one from you.

Everyone just keep siding this girl,do you even know how nag she's ,the way each of us control our anger is different...for the fact that he can still control himself whenever he's angry then you've to take that as your own bad side of marriage,there's no perfect man out there ,the chance of having another man better than him is 50/50,sort things out with each other and you too always avoid to get into argument with him

henhen, so na here you carry matter come abi

no worry

we go sort am out when I come back from work today ;Dhenhen, so na here you carry matter come abi

no worry

we go sort am out when I come back from work today

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PrickGetSize:
Does he have enough money to take care of you and your future family?

Does he show you love?

Does he care for your well-being?

Does he fvck you real good?

If the answer to these questions is yes then I see no reason why ordinary insult should spoil your marriage, unless he beats you. Insult him back - call him a bigger fool, a he-goat, a maluu, a stupendous ignoramus calamity - and get used to it. When kids start coming he won't have time to insult you again.

Marriage is for better or worse!

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luckybaddest:
Everyone just keep siding this girl,do you even know how nag she's ,the way each of us control our anger is different...for the fact that he can still control himself whenever he's angry then you've to take that as your own bad side of marriage,there's no perfect man out there ,the chance of having another man better than him is 50/50,sort things out with each other and you too always avoid to get into argument with him

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MissRaine69:
Was he always like this? Maybe the stress of the wedding is getting to him. Talk by this I mean don't accuse him as he will get defensive and nothing will be accomplished.
Talk about what your needs are , what you would want him to be too you. How his words affect not how they anger you. You have to be prepared to listen to what he would like you to be without feeling upset. If you have doubts postpone until you have no doubt in your heart.

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I know you trying to be Raine.. .but you're not.

Carry ur cross.